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I had this happen recently and went out in two “dates” with her. It’s fun being around an attractive girl that will be out with you 1:1. People assume you’re a couple and it gives you social clout with other women. I use it as practice to be around an attractive woman and dry runs as “practice dates” for women that are actually interested. My more recent one will get dinner and drinks with me 1:1. It’s sometimes confusing because she does seem to show slight interest in me but I assume she has n…
/r/seduction11/12/21 05:26 PM
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It’s possible, esp. if she reaches out before you do. But in all likelihood she’s already over you. The only way to really get her back is go no contact, but you have to do it to get over her because it’s very likely she won’t be back. In my experience when they do this, it’s actually over. Usually the guy is too weak to go NC and then will contact her here and there and it doesn’t give them a chance for her to miss them and it drives them away even further
/r/seduction09/12/21 03:49 PM
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Sounds like it’s over OP and you’re acting needy. The more needy you act the more you’ll drive her away. People can be like that, lose interest in an instant and it doesn’t matter how long you dated either. Your best bet (which you won’t certainly do) is never text her again and find someone else. Instead you’ll think this over and over and reach out and been more needy and push her further and further away. Good luck
/r/seduction09/12/21 12:27 PM
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doesn’t matter anymore. you lost her
/r/seduction04/12/21 07:25 PM
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Doesn’t matter anymore. You scared her off and nothing you can do to get her back
/r/seduction04/12/21 06:50 PM
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There isn’t anything you can say and at this point you’re harassing her
/r/seduction04/12/21 06:38 PM
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I wouldn’t text her so much that’s one major reason she is being driven away by you. texting her these long paragraphs and the frequency you are shows needy behavior and is one of the fastest ways to make them lose interest. i usually text for logistics
/r/seduction04/12/21 06:26 PM
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i wouldn’t analyze this one anymore. she lost interest and no amount of thinking about it will change the outcome. a girl truly into you will make it easier to date
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:39 PM
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OP, I am happy you provided a very detailed field report of what happened. It allow us to give a better assessment of your situation. I will make a few general comments instead of all the specifics (like her music/hum comment, siblings comment etc). Others said these points very well. But IMO you came across as boring to her and there wasn’t any escalation, so you come across as a friend but worst since you’re being needy. You have to go outside your comfort zone a little bit and flirt with her.…
/r/seduction04/12/21 01:30 PM
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Yes! Alexander Pushkin is their Shakespeare. I had her compare various English translations of his that I got my hands on to the original Russian source and she told me they were inaccurate and had to explain the difference between source / original
/r/seduction01/12/21 09:12 PM
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I dated an international fashion model. One with a famous agency in NYC. She was recruited from Eastern Europe and modeled for big name brands. Her friends dated A-list celebrities and she herself dated Hollywood Directors and grandkids of billionaires and/or wealthy businessmen. I’m completely normal. I never dated anyone like that before and there isn’t anything remarkable about me except I am really into my niched academic interest. I didn’t know who she was and met her out in public with a R…
/r/seduction01/12/21 06:04 PM
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Yes. But among mutual friend groups
/r/seduction23/11/21 11:26 PM
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You sound little needy. I am OK with women taking hours or a day to reply back to me. One I was dating recently took about a day to reply but our hangouts are amazing. Her taking a long time to reply doesn’t necessarily mean disinterest. Some people have busy lives
/r/seduction23/11/21 04:33 PM
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Good plan. Last girl I went in a date with I got her number off the dating app pretty quickly and actually texted her a lot in between the date and ended up seeing her the night before our planned date due to the rapport from our text messages and again the day of original planned date. I got her IG and other socials when we met up, but I might secure that’s even earlier now. I prefer to text a lot and will keep what you said in mind. It’s very helpful, thank you!
/r/seduction22/11/21 05:06 PM
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Oh yeah, I agree. It’s much easier when connected to their IG. I am talking about girls I meet off dating apps first
/r/seduction22/11/21 04:46 PM
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I am the person that personally prefers to text more so I am unsure what to do. Maybe you can provide some advice? I only act this way due to the behavior I’ve seen. Usually I get along great with these women in person on dates but texting them seems distant
/r/seduction22/11/21 03:51 PM
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Personally even for younger women I dates 22-25 they don’t seem that big on texting. They’ll respond to my messages but leave me little to follow up with, so I don’t see a point in trying to pursue much engagement
/r/seduction22/11/21 03:44 PM
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Not in my experience. I usually set a date up a week in advance and text the day before or day of to confirm. Haven’t really experienced many flakes that way either. Most women I date don’t seem like big on texting whenever I send our feelers to see what their style is
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:00 PM
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That isn’t enough. You need a new phone, new number, all new photos, new email, new IP address. Hinge can detect the reuse of pics and even manipulated pics via algorithms like https://tech.okcupid.com/evaluating-perceptual-image-hashes-at-okcupid-e98a3e74aa3a what happen is your banned account got re-associated with your new account. you’re shadow banned
/r/seduction20/11/21 09:33 PM
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