mysteryprincesse Archive

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-1	Looks or money when it comes to dating Values are important but only if you are considered a human being to him, if you’re just an object he uses to get sexual pleasure there’s no values involved no matter how much he acts like he cares, the truth is men respect each other and women for them have always been a tool to rely on emotional, to continue his legacy, and to satisfy his needs. If you truly understand how men think you would not except them to respect a woman, they are all the same shielding themselves with masks, once he fin…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/09/24 02:59 PM
1	Looks or money when it comes to dating I would say the foundation is respect and having boundaries so values really matter, but in terms of what’s more important, it’s subjective depending on the woman’s needs and wants, some women values financial stability over looks, others need attraction and looks to be involved, smart women know it’s not money but financial stability, so a reliable man is more important, because even having money doesn’t mean he’s a provider he might want a woman that doesn’t depend on him, so it’s really shoul…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/09/24 02:52 PM
2	Fiancé made me quit my favourite hobby and resentment is building Like you mentioned he handled it well tbh, the problem is the resentment building up which will definitely catch up later and cause some issues within the relationship it’s only a matter of time before it explodes, like you said before she dropped her hobby to protect the relationship and also resolve the issue of unwanted jealousy from her partner but with time she most definitely regrets it and maybe thinks dropping her hobby wasn’t worth it at the end. There definitely something that either i…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/09/24 05:20 AM
1	Fiancé made me quit my favourite hobby and resentment is building Exactly she gave it up thinking it was for the best and she didn’t want to lose him for a mere hobby once time passed she realised it wasn’t worth giving up her hobby possibly future opportunities that come with it or maybe fame, Yes couples can sacrifice things for each other but when it’s only the man or woman doing so it only creates unwanted tension and resentment like OP is experiencing. -staying fit for each other is different than straight up bringing up insecurities for your partner, you…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/09/24 10:03 PM
1	Fiancé made me quit my favourite hobby and resentment is building Oh tbh I don’t understand if she continued belly dancing during the time frame he said he was jealous about it and uncomfortable, that also says a lot Yeah I do think he did well saying that before but if it was a turn off for him why did he want a relationship in the first place with a women he liked but did belly dancing that didn’t align with his long term vision of a partner? It’s like falling in love with an actress that has to fake sex scenes or kiss a fellow actor during her job and then …	/r/RedPillWomen	04/09/24 05:02 PM
1	[Discussion] Red Stop Signs I think standards being put out there for men are definitely angering them especially the ones that know they have no future and won’t be able to provide and the one that are still not there ( stable in a job with steady income) Or just the straight up cheap men, Acts of service say a lot about how reliable a man it’s a good measure to know if they are willing to help in a time of need or be selfish, if you mean something to him he will want to make your life easier with the resources and money …	/r/RedPillWomen	04/09/24 03:22 PM
1	[Discussion] Red Stop Signs I’d like to add people that hurt your feelings or disrespect you in a moment of anger and never apologise afterwards instead brush it under a rug and act like nothing happened -Oh and then when you express how hurtful it was, they gaslight you into thinking it never happened and it wasn’t as bad as you remember it happening, like for example they would curse you but downplay it as ( no I never said that you are exaggerating/ or you provoked me ) and turn it into your fault -these people are majo…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/09/24 03:13 PM
2	[Discussion] Red Stop Signs It’s a classic I’m a victim card	/r/RedPillWomen	04/09/24 03:09 PM
1	[Discussion] Red Stop Signs it isn’t too common but it is out there, especially men addicted to porn they have unrealistic expectations in bed, therefore the chemistry will be off especially if they believe that’s how sex has to be, and men that are addicted will definitely prefer masturbation over actual exchange so it does impact the relationship, if they are above 40 they might have major issues with sex drive Men above 24 years old with obsessive addictions like drugs/weed/smoking will have low sex drive even worse if …	/r/RedPillWomen	04/09/24 03:06 PM
1	how to help my bf quit smoking without nagging him ? If he doesn’t want to change and you aren’t comfortable with his addiction to vaping it’s better to not try to change him it never ends well, instead leave hints that it doesn’t sit well with you, women cannot change their man’s attitude behaviour and routine but if the man really is in love he will be scared to lose you so he’ll battle himself to change for you, my cousin was getting married and his fiancé didn’t like that he smoked, therefore he slowly stopped smoking and visited doctors to he…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/09/24 02:58 PM
1	how to help my bf quit smoking without nagging him ? Show him people that got cancer from smoking, maybe try getting him to visit some facility that motivate people to with addiction such as smoking vape or anything, maybe him hearing terrible stories about future health problems that await him will move him to take action, there’s plenty of people that got lung cancer and got hospitalised for vaping even at a young age, being young that not cancel out the side effects of vaping/smoking etc There’s people trying to quit that use some paper inside …	/r/RedPillWomen	04/09/24 02:53 PM
1	Is this guy a red flag? Honestly not many men voice out their fantasies and crazy sexual experiences that much, I don’t know what to say about that openness of sexual desires. It’s giving I WANT YOU TO BELIEVE I HAVE GAME AND I KNOW HOW TO F.CK just like teenage boys trying to boast about imaginary girlfriend they had and crazy sexual fantasies they had imagined and lie to girls and their friends to look cool. Anyway if the stories are true : RUN 🏃🏻‍♀️ I have a feeling this guy has zero sexual experience and wants to l…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/09/24 12:04 AM
1	Fiancé made me quit my favourite hobby and resentment is building 1 Why, in your opinion, is a woman shaking her ass seductively NOT disrespectful to her primary relationship? my answer : Each couple have their own preferences and relationship dynamics, they have certain standards and boundaries that they like their partner to not cross and respect, therefore in this situation I never stated I find this behaviour acceptable to her relationship, but this context he knew all throughout the relationship and during the engagement, he didn’t voice his opinion about…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/09/24 11:12 PM
1	Fiancé made me quit my favourite hobby and resentment is building Bfr he’s gaslighting you	/r/RedPillWomen	03/09/24 05:58 PM
0	Fiancé made me quit my favourite hobby and resentment is building So a man watching another woman who isn’t his wife dance shake her ass and body seductively isn’t disrespectful but a man telling his fiance that did belly dancing for years to stop dancing bc he’s jealous of her getting attention is totally normal. Bfr in fact it’s about intentions, tge woman isn’t there to cheat or find a new partner she’s there to simply dance and enjoy her professional hobby,the man paying a dancer to dance for him is simply an act of flirting and there’s more intention behi…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/09/24 05:57 PM
2	Fiancé made me quit my favourite hobby and resentment is building Exactly he should have communicated his discomfort with her professional hobby before getting engaged which is serious, you don’t date a women that works as a stripper for a living and once you get engaged you tell her to stop her job or side gig bc it’s uncomfortable for you or you are jealous.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/09/24 05:52 PM
2	Fiancé made me quit my favourite hobby and resentment is building My opinion is that this man is insecure, if he doesn’t want you doing something that makes you happy and you earn a compensation for and on top of that is jealous of other men looking at you, he’s worried that another man will pursue and probably lose you in the process, jealousy is normal, not trusting your partner is different, some men are naturally more possessive and it comes with some drawbacks like controlling you and what you love doing, belly dancing is a sport and entertainment and wit…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/09/24 05:50 PM