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Not at all because it doesn’t help me in any way. When I was doing OLD, you would get unattractive guys that you know sent copy/paste messages to every girl and it was an irritant. On a more serious level, they could get aggressive when you reject them in person. I was coming home from dance class one evening and an unattractive younger guy with BO sat next to me on the train when there were loads of spare seats. He proceeded to ask me questions about myself and ask me for my number. I told him …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:26 PM
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I think it’s good for both parties. It makes it easier for us to go out separate ways
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:45 PM
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The undesirables are ugly and boring. Men who are at least average and haven’t got the personality of a giraffes ass are snapped up pretty quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:32 PM
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Every woman I know is with someone at the same level or “lower” than them in attractiveness. Also, most women I know have low standards and seem content with the bare minimum 🤷‍♀️ Also, a lot of stuff I see online demonstrates to me that most women accept the bare minimum. The questions that women ask on Reddit also shows that many of them are with thoughtless partners and they accept poor behaviour. I do not see many women who have actual high standards and who are dating men who are more attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:10 PM
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It’s really annoying and weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:53 PM
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They seem to think men and women want the same thing. They harp on about women getting more attention and more matches. Most women don’t want low quality attention. There are a huge number of women who want LTRs with quality partners. We value quality over quantity so there is no comparison- low quality men are an irritant. Every woman gets pumped and dumped by Chad and then have to settle with beta bux. Ummm most women I know do not have billionaires built like Greek gods chasing after them, ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:48 PM
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Hahahaha you got me!😐 I was in a 12 year relationship since I was 18 and became single in my 30s. When you grow up you’ll realise shit happens
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:45 AM
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Most men do not care about body count - some do. Women might lie to account for the few that do. In my most recent relationships we didn’t even discuss body count. I’m in my 30s and grown ups don’t sweat over the small stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:21 AM
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I understand what you’re saying. I felt a lot like you did when I was your age and I ended up having a long term relationship with someone who was a virgin when we met. I’m in my mid 30s so most of the men I meet have been scarred by previous relationships or divorced. I’ve never been married or had anything awful happen to me in relationships so I can’t relate to that bitterness. They tend not to take relationships seriously anymore and are casual with you, even when you’re supposedly building …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:52 AM
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I love gaming but will never date a gamer again: lazy, intolerant, immature and tended to rage at small things. I have no problem with my bf gaming but I don’t want the personality types associated with a gamer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:56 PM
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💯 I’ve seen some horrendous relationships where the wife is doing everything in the house AND working. What is the point of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:28 PM
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In my experience, when things are going wrong, men become passive and ignore it instead of facing the situation. I’m a direct person and it frustrates me when my partner would stick his head in the sand. I’ve known multiple woman who’ve experienced this. Women get tired of nagging and trying to fix the problem by themselves and when they finally leave, the guy has the shocked pikachu face. Edit - I can’t speak on lesbian relationships but maybe gay men are likely to be to stick their head in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:24 PM
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Yes…and???? Daddy likes to give me tall, hot and rich men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:35 AM
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Yup - my humour is sarcastic, cutting and I sometimes troll and I’ve dated guys who struggle and it goes nowhere. I’m instantly attracted to guys who banter with me and reply with amusement. But most guys don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:29 AM
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“Nice Guys” are manipulative, cowardly and inauthentic. If someone is genuinely a nice guy then that’s fine but most are not. I’ve mostly dated nerds and “nice guys” who would call themselves feminists. They are even worse than Chad. Very low empathy, borderline autistic, insecure, boring and defensive. Now I’m only going to date Chads, if I choose to get back into the dating scene. However, reading this sub is making me want to purchase six cats and pepper spray.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:39 PM
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Autism
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:31 PM
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The men who post on this sub have severe mental deficiencies. I think most of them should be on some kind of list.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:42 PM
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I don’t want to be cold approached and I have no interest in striking up random conversation with men. Women are not stupid and we know that majority of time when men strike up ‘friendly’ conversation, it’s because he’s sexually interested in you. Men who don’t see you in a sexual way, generally look through you as if you’re invisible. My existence doesn’t revolve around being nice to men - I’m sorry. I don’t care if it offends them if I want to look out for my safety or I just don’t want to tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:38 PM
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Higher population- more diversity - higher selection - higher standards. Weirdly enough, I’m more successful when I’ve tried dating in the US on vacation. I’m in California currently and I have way more matches than in the U.K. so location matters. Asia may be good for short men, as people are generally shorter?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:59 PM
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Well rationalise it how you want and call it stupid but it is what it is. It’s not going to change. Though some women have no problem with short guys but not many.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:32 PM
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Men and women value different things. You’re refusing to see this from a woman’s perspective. Women desire height because it subconsciously signals that he can protect us (even if he can’t). It’s instinctive and makes us feel feminine. It doesn’t matter if we’re the same height, we like men who are TALLER. You’re at a biological disadvantage. Just like a fat woman which grosses most men out. I’ve dated short guys but most women seem not to like them. I’m also from the U.K. - the dating standards…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:14 PM
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Thank God for that!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 02:57 PM
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We all desire Chad and Stacey at some point in our lives. It doesn’t mean that we aren’t happy with our partners. What guy doesn’t fantasise about a hotter woman? Especially after he’s been married for years and his wife is fatter. Why is it so awful for women to fantasise about Chad? We would all choose to be with a hotter person. But the reality of being with a hot person is different from the fantasy and we don’t all have that option.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 02:45 PM
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Fat is undesirable on a woman. Short is undesirable on a man. You’re at the same level even though you may not like the fatties. That’s why they’re probably the only option for you. You can complain that you can’t change being short but they can change being fat - that’s not how it works. People see fat people as they are NOW. No one is rationalising that they may lose weight. So unfortunately, your dating pool will be filled with your undesirable counter part. Taller women can just date even ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 02:32 PM
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I’m really sad that you’re only 17 and on this sub that exposes you to these ideologies. It’s like a cult that dehumanises the opposite gender just like ideologies that dehumanises people of other races and uses statistics to back up their biases. You’re at a vulnerable age, so just keep an open mind about everything and go by what you see, not what people are telling you about the “true nature of women”. I am a woman so you may not want to listen to me. To be successful with women you need to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 02:13 PM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 12:14 AM
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I don’t really see that on this sub. It’s mostly men complaining about hypergamy, Chad and rattling off statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 10:58 PM
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Exactly. It’s insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 09:44 PM
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This post is too sensible for this sub. Delete immediately. Waiting for the “well accchhtualllly according to my statistics, 90% of women are whores who want Chad” 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 09:21 PM
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I agree with this post….rare for this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:15 PM
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I’m confused. I’m mocking people who say that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:11 PM
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Most of this is disingenuous garbage: Not ALL MEN ARE DANGEROUS Guy is overprotective over his daughter - wouldn’t let another man babysit her, would be worried if she was walking home late at night, threatens her first boyfriend, horrified at the thought of her possibly being intimate with her boyfriend and warns her that all men want one thing. Yeah, the overreactions of their fathers teaches girls everything they need to know. Suddenly, we are expected not to be wary of men after being told t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:01 PM
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I have no idea why any woman would give a shit if THESE guys are offended. My safety comes first. I don’t care if some rando thinks I’m being paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 07:27 PM
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I’m not a political person but I would say I’m slightly more left leaning. I’m happy to date a conservative if they are socially compassionate, do not go on and on about politics all day and are open minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:23 PM
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I don’t mean to be mean but there are definitely some severe psychological issues present in this sub. The way they think is very strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 10:41 AM
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I’m an introvert and I always attracted extroverts in friendships and relationships. I thought I wanted to try an introvert. I finally dated a couple of introverts and I didn’t like it. They weren’t direct enough and I had to become the extrovert of the relationship. I definitely prefer extrovert men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:10 PM
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I agree. I was one of those women who took pride in being independent and paid for everything. Then I started dating men who had a more disposable income who wanted to pay for me. It definitely changed the dynamics of the relationship and I could never go back to being the higher earner in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:05 PM
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Not a quality but a hobby: Gamers. I enjoy gaming from time to time and wanted a partner with similar interests. The problem is a gamer becomes a whole identity for some people. I’ve dated/spoken to a few gamers and they’ve been lazy, condescending, misogynistic, passive aggressive and childish. Go figure. Now I avoid them like the plague. I think it’s the same with “nerds”. They are the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:01 PM
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I don’t care if you find me credible. I stated my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:38 PM
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Because it always seems so mean spirited and passive aggressive. I have lurked on this sub for a few months now and it just seems to be an echo chamber of complaints and blame. Those mean women and their high standards and hypergamy - like nerds bitching about the popular kids. It’s not productive and I struggle to have empathy anymore. I’ve become mean spirited in turn because of the vitriol that’s constantly spewed. I feel like this is an incel sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:17 PM
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The complaining is becoming really boring. I’m bored of hearing how women only go for the top 10% of men and hypergamy. I think men would be happier if they moved on with their lives and stopped ruminating on women’s dating choices. It’s the same posts day after day. I thought MGTOW would be the end of it but it keeps on going
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 10:36 PM
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I said what I said. Do you want graphs and statistics? Unbelievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:11 PM
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If you say so. I’m not arguing about that. I said what I said. I never said most men have bad hygiene. I said women are more on point with their hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:03 PM
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That’s not absurd. It’s perfectly normal to correlate a disheveled appearance with poor hygiene and I’m sure most of the time it DOES correlate. If someone has greasy hair, rumpled and stained clothing then the likelihood is that their hygiene is probably bad too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:39 PM
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Oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:17 PM
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Well I’m not a gym expert so I don’t know how to describe it. I don’t like HUGE guys but when you can see they’ve done a bit of work in the gym and their shoulders are broader then it’s more attractive to me. If they’re just skinny then it’s a turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 07:22 PM
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Nah an average looking man gets extra points if he’s muscular. Lanky men are unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 07:16 PM
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I’m bisexual but more physically attracted to men (on a biological level). Unfortunately, I don’t find many men attractive. Maybe 5% of men are attractive and they’re usually taken. I would say 60% of women are bangable . I find that more women are on point with their hygiene and the effort they put into their looks. This is more prevalent on OLD as men generally take horrible pictures, close up to their faces and showing their double chins, whilst women play to their best angles and consider li…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 07:01 PM
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I actually agree with you. I’m a woman and I think most men despise women and only tolerate them if they’re related, for sex or to benefit from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 09:02 PM
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I’ve dated ugly but ambitious men. It’s fine if I’m attracted to them. It’s possible to be attracted to a conventionally unattractive person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:27 PM
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Nah, I would rather live with a million screaming cats than with an uggo with a terrible personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:51 PM
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I agree. They have too much time on their hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:49 PM
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I’m probably going to get banned again but here goes: I think deep inside men know that they are born to be builders and warriors and are expendable - that’s why they’re expected to go to war. Women are valuable because they create, incubate and nurture new life. Without women, the next generation would not survive. I’m not saying men are useless - they have uses but they’re kind of like worker bees. That’s how it is biologically but in the modern age we have less wars and technology does the ‘b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:51 AM
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I get about 30 but I’m very careful about who I match with. If I swiped on everyone then I would have a higher quantity but lower quality
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:44 PM
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Yup - I find that the poorer, uglier men treat women worse than “Chad” does because he hates himself and has less self respect. I dated a poor, nerdy guy recently and it was the worse experience ever. I’m strictly going for “Chads” and “Connors” now. At least they’re good looking and/or wealthy. I’m also happy to be single forever so the cat lady threat doesn’t work on me. I’m 35 and look 25 so nope… I haven’t hit the metaphorical wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:07 AM
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Finally, a logical person. The men on this sub don’t understand that they’re making the situation worse for themselves and women on here are taking notes. The cat lady threat is becoming less and less scary for women. The victim pilled men are a much scarier option.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:41 AM
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Self pitying, victim pilled, loser - must be male. We can both play that game.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:08 PM
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I don’t respect you. It wasn’t logical - it was a dumb, disingenuous way to discredit what I’m saying. The guys on this sub are passive aggressive nerds. Definitely shouldn’t reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:04 PM
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Sure, Jamal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:47 AM
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Perhaps people who live in the ghetto who are surrounded by thugs? Middle class Black people generally date within their own class. I only know one woman out of a hundred who has dated a thug but I’m not in the ghetto 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 08:08 AM
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I think if you surveyed most women, they wouldn’t date Jeremy Meeks. He was blown up in the media for having a “hot” mugshot but I don’t think the average woman would be impressed if they knew his background. Think about all the women you know in your life, are they dating/married to criminals?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:53 AM
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What is a bad boy? The goal post shifts every time! Is it a drug dealer? Someone who abuses you? A general criminal? Because most bad boyfriends I’ve encountered have been masquerading as a good guy. You know the gamer nerd type? That was the most manipulative and psychotic person I’ve ever met. None of my friends are with criminals or abusers. They chose average guys who are less attractive than they are - who have average jobs. I only know one friend who dated an abusive guy and he was a fake …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:44 AM
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I don’t like when I’m approached by men in a non social setting. It’s annoying and disruptive. Of course if a wealthy, 6ft2 “Chad” swept me off my feet in Starbucks, I would be up for it but that isn’t going to happen. It’s usually an annoying guy with BO who can’t read body language
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:25 AM
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I’ve always dated shorter men, even though I’m 5ft7. I recently went on dates with guys who were 5ft11 - 6ft7 and now I honestly don’t think I can go back to short men. If he was absolutely amazing and ticked my boxes then I could do 5ft7 but the average man has to be at least 5ft11 for me now 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:19 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:33 AM
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I’m sorry to burst men’s bubble but the the men on the dating apps over 30 look horrific, whilst I nlook like I’m in my early 20s. It’s definitely a myth
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:16 PM
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Leo looks terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:15 PM
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I said that I would only choose a wealthy man but I accepted my place in society so I am happy being a cat lady - how Is that entitlement? I listed the ways in which I don’t think I’m entitled to a wealthy man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:11 AM
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I’m pretty but not the most beautiful. I’m not white and blonde. I’m from working class roots even though I’m highly educated. So I don’t think I would be first choice for a truly high value, wealthy man. And that’s all I’m willing to accept. So I’m happy to be a cat lady. I don’t want to be in a terrible marriage with a guy who resents me and is scared I’m going to take his money. That’s an awful existence. I didn’t mean that wealthy men get divorced more often - I meant that when they do, I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:47 AM
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I wish the poor would stop having so many children they can’t adequately provide for but I might be cancelled for saying that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:32 AM
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They seem unhappy and resentful in marriage. I feel like wealthy men get married, have children, maybe get divorced and move on. Poor to average men seem like they’re pushed into marriage and it destroys them if it doesn’t go the way they expect. I don’t think poor men really care about legitimacy and legacy, which was the main function of marriage. They do it for ‘love’ or because it’s expected of them which is not beneficial for either gender. If I wanted to get married, I would only choose a …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:31 AM
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Manosphere/incel/red pill/black pill men don’t understand marriage at all. They’re too low on the totem pole and stewing with rage. Real powerful men understand the benefits of marriage otherwise they would never do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 04:39 AM
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It’s weird that the most powerful men still choose to get married. They’re not stupid. They know that they need to build a legacy. I agree the marriage isn’t for poor to average men. I think it would be better if they didn’t get married but I also think they shouldn’t get sex or relationships either. I think that should be reserved for wealthy and powerful men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 04:36 AM
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Women. They’re more considerate, helpful and kind. I do shallow stuff with male friends, such a play games and go out to eat
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:06 PM
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Being sharp and emotionally intelligent. I’ve come across a lot of men who could not “read the room” and it’s a turn off. I like men who are direct. If they notice a problem, they will try to solve it, instead of ignoring it. Direct doesn’t have to equate to being rude though. Passive aggressive and whiny men are not attractive. Men who spend their time comparing themselves to women or complaining (“women only choose the top 10% men blah blah” ) come across badly as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:16 AM
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