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Yes it's your answer - please note that other people exist in this world too. Thanks for your input but keep it moving, sister.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/18 10:03 PM
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This response wasn't answering the question. It's fine if you disagree, but this is not answering.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/18 09:54 PM
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Edit: Not so much interested in a LTR, but just generally putting myself out there and getting multiple dating opportunities - playing the field if you will.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 09:24 PM
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Not too sure why i'm being linked to someone else I don't even know you
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 03:36 PM
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Subtracting these means eating only greens and meat - is that such a good idea?
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 10:13 PM
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Is it alright if I DM you that?
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 08:07 PM
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Of course I want to change.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 07:29 PM
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I haven't accomplished anything other than getting out of bed but even that was nearly 12pm.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 07:25 PM
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There's not a single thing I feel Good about. I don't have any friends. Not even one. I have no interpersonal skills. I was bullied so badly for years and I put a wall up between me and people now. My body is hideous. Boys don't show interest I can't study properly anymore. It's like I totally forgot how to write. I can sit trying to write an essay every night for 3 months straight and I still haven't been able to do it. I have a horrible self esteem. Every boyfriend I've ever had I've broken it…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 06:53 PM
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I have. I got pills that I don't take anymore (see above) and I can't really afford seeing a psychologist as a student
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 06:41 PM
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It's not helpful to hear it's not something I can control
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 06:40 PM
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I do eat healthy and rarely have takeout
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 06:39 PM
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I have taken antidepressants in the past but they do give me headaches and affect my breathing. I sadly can't afford a counsellor either.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 06:39 PM
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Connor Murphy the Youtuber :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 07:52 PM
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...yeah I think i'm starting to realise that RPW might not be the right thing for me. There's something really toxic about obsessing with men and babies and making a lot of empty assumptions on imaginary scenarios.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 02:23 AM
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I stopped taking this seriously after 'There was an episode of Sex And The City'
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 02:21 AM
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I'm not necessarily saying there's a right and wrong way But I do think that there can be a flaw in focusing things on finding a man, pleasing your man, determining your self worth before a 'wall', withholding what you want to do/making your own mistakes in the case of men thinking less of you, I can definitely see why women might feel anxious about RPW and being new to it
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/17 11:27 PM
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If you read TRP you would notice that one of the first lessons is that all women are whores when they want to be - a "good girl" is just a girl that guys prey on and want to devour, use and abuse just as much as a slutty girl.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 09:48 PM
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It's really strange for me that guys on the TRP advise women to try sex with one guy when I read field reports where guys are over the moon about meeting random girls and fucking them So men want women to throw pussy at them and complain and "next" a girl who's being difficult, but in the same breathe advise girls to not fuck around?
/r/askTRP18/02/17 04:51 PM
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Not harsh at all. I appreciate it. Out of curiosity though, in TRP is the 'fuckable radar' universal?
/r/askTRP17/02/17 04:09 AM
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A guy who had lots of sex in the past in comparison to me not having any just means that he was worthy and desirable to people. And by that, it only means that I'm not desirable compared to him because women are dropping panties all over the place for him while I don't get any action. It's just really hard not to feel bad about yourself. It makes you wonder what was wrong with you in high school that guys weren't lining up to fuck me like other girls
/r/askTRP17/02/17 02:56 AM
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What is your solution to that? Men like to plate, and I get that but it doesn't make me feel that great. It makes me feel like my body is under scrutiny and if guys are going to think my body isn't as great as Jenny's or Tiffany's.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 02:26 AM
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value, I understand were you are coming from but you should try to gain experience with one partner. For example, If i know a chick rode the CC that instantly removes her from LTR/marriage material I think this is something I don't express - I literally have ruined several relationships breaking down crying feeling totally not good enough for boyfriends for not being sexually experienced. I don't even see how I can be married to someone if I find it hard to trust a boyfriend enough to be sexuall…
/r/askTRP17/02/17 01:46 AM
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Women in RPW (and I have nothing against RPW) don't seem to understand that the reason I find it hard to vet a guy and have sex with a partner is because of the fear of comparison to other sexual partners and ex girlfriends and it drives my insecurity through the roof - so isn't it only logical to level to playing field so that's no longer an issue?
/r/askTRP17/02/17 01:33 AM
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But another thing is that women in this thread assume that their crappy less than stellar experience is going to be another woman's crappy experience. Is a woman then shamed if she actually enjoys one night stands?
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 11:37 PM
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But just a general question: What if I don't regret it?
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 11:31 PM
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Because who knows when that will be? Who can say that will ever be? I'm not somebody that feels like I will get info a committed situation until I'm in my 30s - so does that mean sitting around until then? There's this one size fits all ideology that all women are extremely emotional and our job is to snag a husband but what if that's not what makes every woman happy?
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 09:40 PM
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The only thing I've learned from this is: Don't have sex: boys can only have sex and not look bad. Sex makes women worth less.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 09:07 PM
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This.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 09:05 PM
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I think Its a little naive to think not wanting a husband and a baby = whore
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 10:25 PM
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It's something that's sabotaged a lot of my previous relationships and I don't think it's something I can get over
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 07:12 PM
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There's just such a huge double standard and I don't fully think I understand.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 07:04 PM
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"Knowing that the person you care most about in the whole world has slept with a bunch of strange people is very icky and uncomfortable. You're compromising future long-term happiness for short-term satisfaction." You say that here, but a quality man is supposed to have a high n count as it represents him having a high SMV - and women aren't supposed to feel icky if men have been with many. That's actually why I broke up with my ex; I felt sexually inadequate and anxious and I didn't want him to…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 07:03 PM
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Why are women so reluctant on explaining why.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 06:39 PM
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We broke up.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 06:36 PM
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I guess what I want is to experiment in order to figure out what I want. Saving yourself is all good and dandy, but when it comes down to it, because of a lack of experience, you may compromise what you feel you really want in the future. Here's an analogy: if my favourite fruit was a kiwi, and I've never tried anything else - how would I know that I wouldn't like apples or oranges more? I just think it's important to weigh up what's out there in the world instead of being prudish and waiting fo…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 06:35 PM
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What makes you say that it isn't all that? I'd love to hear why you feel that way.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 06:27 PM
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I guess what I don't understand is why RPW is so set on settling down and landing a man as if that's the only way to define success. It just doesn't make sense that a guy would shame a girl for being promiscuous when reading RPM totally thrives on that
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 06:04 PM
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I really don't think social anxiety should ever get in the way of pursuing one's interest. What's being said here is kind of like I can't go get fucked because i'm too anxious to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 01:10 AM
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Even if I hadn't been approached before what would you say are the best ways of increasing my chances?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 11:27 PM
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No not at all. I'm not religious. I just suck with guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 11:26 PM
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my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 11:25 PM
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That last sentiment is very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 11:15 PM
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I have, but I don't think personality tests define a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 10:38 PM
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Both hookups and long term. I know I was competing with my own fears. Hence why I decided to leave. And no I haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 10:21 PM
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Alternatives?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 10:16 PM
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I just don't find it hard getting from A to B.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 10:09 PM
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I did. We were dating. In love actually. He had no probably with it. But him having many partners made me insecure and it bothered me a lot. It made me feel like crap because I felt like I couldn't measure up. I broke up with him and told him he could do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 09:47 PM
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Guys are always under the impression that women want to be liked and want to bag a husband. What if you just want to date around?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 09:44 PM
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It's a matter of both. But I do appreciate that metaphor.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 09:39 PM
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I have been honest in the past. That's been kind of the issue. I don't really like having boyfriends feeling like that they need to "guide me" in sex. I don't like feeling like we aren't on equal playing grounds. It makes me feel less than and it starts to make me feel bad about all the lost time in high school I wasn't having sex like everyone else. I just want to know if having meaningless one night stands with guys and just fucking to get it over with will make me understand the complexity of…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 09:35 PM
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Not too sure how me saying that proves that all women are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 09:18 PM
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I'm not saying that if you're saving yourself for personal reasons that you should start sleeping around due to fear of missing out as casual sex isn't for everyone (it's certainly not for me,) and it's definitely no cure all for insecurity about your partner's past if that's what you're hoping for, but if you're holding onto it solely or mostly for the supposed SMV boost and would actually rather get some experience I don't think waiting is necessarily worth it. It's not really because I'm wait…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 09:17 PM
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No not at all. I just think I've gone out of my way to make sure I haven't been in situations where guys can approach me. I suck at talking to guys. I just don't get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 09:14 PM
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I think I am desirable, I just push people away. Men especially. I don't think I can do this anymore because it's ruining my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 09:13 PM
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Welp I guess we're married.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 09:12 PM
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Well I suppose I was referring to answering my actual question posed above. I don't think I want a virgin. The guys that i'm interested in (one specifically) is one that has had many girls. I don't like feeling inexperienced with someone I really like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 09:10 PM
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Getting sex means you're physically desirable. Being a virgin makes me feel like i'm not desirable. It's uncomfortable knowing that my years right now in college where i'm at the peak of my physical attractiveness is when i'm not getting any sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 09:07 PM
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That's kind of besides the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 09:05 PM
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some advice might be a little more appreciated rather than a proposal. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 09:03 PM
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That's just it with me I think. I've revamped my wardrobe several times over the years and I've started to realise that it isn't the clothes and it's me. You can wear the fanciest clothes but if you don't have that 'it' factor, it just hangs on you - the clothes wear you instead other way around.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 12:44 AM
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As a girl that's lived a somewhat sheltered life (religious family) and never taking priority into my looks, I can use all the help I can get. P.S. You sound like the "cool aunt" so you're great haha!
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 11:48 PM
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Caudalie Polyphenols C15 Anti-Wrinkle Defense Serum I use this under my moisturiser light and protects your skin from drying out. I look dewy and it helps stop fine lines under eyes from showing.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 10:22 PM
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I'm beginning to feel like it's torture either way; it's not psychologically beneficial being sexually inexperienced because you're under the impression that you've been undesirable up until this point and you have no way tally up your worth in comparison to your partnet. But on the other hand neither is it beneficial to be too experienced because that means you're easy and you don't have standards. Where is the line here?
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 11:06 PM
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Is it selfish of me if I think it might be better if I left him and just dated men casually for a while? Because I know myself and if i'm feeling this way about him, i'm going to be feeling this same way if we break up and I start dating a new guy exclusive. Perhaps experience under my belt will allow me to be more understanding of guys like this and thus be a little more accommodating if someone better comes in the future.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 09:18 PM
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If you have ever read TRP and seen how men talk about women who are virgins, or are past 3 or 4 sex partners, or past 15 or 30, you might think differently. Those guys are serious as a heart attack. They'd all screw you without a second thought, and all your friends, over and over until they have no interest in you. It's a cold world, and those guys are just hypocrites. They talk like the Cock Carousel is something that only affects women, because of those CDC statistics. What they are in denial…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 07:10 PM
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So are you telling me a woman shouldn't have sex as she pleases in fear of what others may perceive her as? I don't understand why a girl should stay a virgin just because it's going to turn a guy on.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 05:55 PM
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I can't say this strongly enough. All the people here who say you are sitting on 4 aces are exactly right. You are looking at a perfect situation for yourself if you can keep this guy and you think he's good for you. The only reason you see a problem is your hamster is telling you there is a problem. Almost every other woman out there has fucked this up. Except you and a few other unicorns. Sheesh. Any woman who would disagree with what the men here are telling you ('you did it exactly right') i…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 04:59 PM
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Not too often, but when he does i'm probably angry for the rest of the evening. Not at him necessarily but how awful it makes me feel about myself.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 04:51 PM
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I know it's probably not the best thing to compare yourself to your boyfriends exes, especially in the bedroom but it sets me off immediately when we're having dinner and he brings up past experiences. I sit there wondering how slimmer her thighs probably were or how hot her was in bed and it's hard not to feel bad about yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 08:02 AM
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I don't know how else to explain it other than just feeling inadequate.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 07:05 AM
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Not that I can "bag better" but more of wondering if I'm even good enough in the first place.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 07:05 AM
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I won't measure up. But it's really one in the same isn't it - You can't feel inadequate without feeling bad about yourself can you?
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 12:43 AM
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So you think i'm being unreasonable?
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 12:27 AM
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yess! Cassie is everything, I've been following her for years
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 11:16 AM
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I have yet to find out why people are so stern on avoiding bars...
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 10:30 PM
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I'm sorry, I'm looking at the side bar and I can't seem to find anything
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 03:17 PM
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What would you do differently? I'd love to know things to avoid.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 03:15 PM
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I also want to talk about approaching men and picking up alpha guys in college. Have you ladies been bold in chatting up guys in bars and stuff?
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 03:57 AM
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I don't ever want to leave!
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 11:52 PM
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Would you still be against tinder for a girl that's perhaps shy?
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 11:51 PM
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Thank you sharing! I'm trying to put better effort into my appearance, but I'm constantly wondering if I'm overdressed. I'd love to be the girl wearing ankle boots and red lipstick to college but I don't know. As a city girl, I'm on public transport a lot more often and come into contact with strangers a lot more and the judgement can be a little scary to think about. And any oblique/ass workout videos/programmes you recommend?
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 11:50 PM
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How have you guys manifested RPW into your life? :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 06:37 PM
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Oh dear. I'm awful at flirting. Advice?
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 03:41 PM
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Make sure you make him work his ass off for it. How does one become more attractive to the alpha in your eyes? Does she have to be associated with other alpha women in order for her to be more attractive?
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 03:26 PM
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yeah, i'm definitely down for an AMA :) welcome! I wondering how you managed to get confidence as a sigma male - and is there an equivalent? A sigma female? I'm a girl who was painfully gawky and awkward in high school and could honestly use one of those 'teen movie makeovers' - Right now more than anything I want to be a girl who's a complete siren with the guys. A woman who can easily get bed 20 of the hottest guys around. TL;DR - How does a young college girl become the female version of you?
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 02:38 PM
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