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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	What is the purple pill lens on this date experience?	Question For Women	mystoryhere12	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 06:49 PM

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0	Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young women True very applicable too most. From a personal experience, I’m 35 and most girls that are into me are 23-28. Full set of hair and 6 foot 3 though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/26 02:09 AM
20	More men struggle with women because more men are boring lol honestly people are generally the same. It’s always expected the man be some funny clown performer with tons of hobbies	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/26 03:09 AM
1	If she wants you, the sex doesn't matter Yeah. This seems to follow the “pornofied male centric” version of sex. Minimal foreplay or sensual play, lots of jacker hammering, minimal emotional attention, etc. I’m surprised how many men still follow this line of thinking with sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/26 10:37 AM
1	If she wants you, the sex doesn't matter Strong attraction and desire can lead to liking someone much quicker. Again, most women are forgiving considering first time nerves but you seem to be a bit more cut throat which is fine. If a man had strong attraction towards the girl and she sucked the first 1-2 times, they wouldn’t necessarily cut them off. People are humans and have anxieties with strangers	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/26 09:27 PM
1	If she wants you, the sex doesn't matter What would be considering “not very long”	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/26 09:07 PM
1	If she wants you, the sex doesn't matter If that’s your preference, that’s fine. But most women will be forgiving if they genuinely like the guy since the first few times can often involve nerves, alcohol or other things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/26 09:03 PM
1	If she wants you, the sex doesn't matter What do you consider bad sex? Like zero foreplay and Jack hammering like a rabit? Or lasting under 2 minutes but still making you finish with foreplay? These things can vary a lot between women	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/26 08:39 PM
0	If she wants you, the sex doesn't matter If the girl is attracted enough to the guy, she will give him several chances. Nerves, alcohol and other stuff can influence first and second time performances.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/26 08:35 PM
2	If she wants you, the sex doesn't matter What were they so bad at? Like zero foreplay and just went straight into intercourse?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/26 08:30 PM
13	Q4M: How is it that mid guys with no game still pull 10s overseas? Totally agree. They’re not dimes and the guys aren’t totally chopped.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 03:56 AM
–	Attraction is the first thing women have to sacrifice Isn't everyone sacrificing attraction? In an ideal world, we all date the most attractrive person with a great personality but over time, people will realize who is on their level based on who they get rejected by and accepted by	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 06:31 PM
–	Highly attractive humans being bad doesn't corelate with reality Jack Doherty aint attractive tho lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 02:46 PM
2	did all of your partners grow on you? It’s only instant if you are very physically attractive to them and they are your type	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 02:50 AM
1	Is a good physique overrated when it comes to attraction? lol if you’ve ever been muscular and lean you know girls go crazy when you take your shirt off	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/25 04:24 PM
1	Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed. Definitely some stock in this for hooking up and short term relationships. I think this is also still important in long term relationships but I find it hard to believe every women is married to a sex God so other things get weighed more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 04:41 PM
4	Why does it seem like women's hookup standards are higher than relationship standards? Lmaooooooooo	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 04:46 PM
3	If a man is not the best sexual partner of his partner, then the relationship is not worth it. Yeah and most Men are averege, overweight and can barely run a mile. I doubt they’re sex gods like what Op claims you need to be and most are still married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/24 11:31 PM
9	If a man is not the best sexual partner of his partner, then the relationship is not worth it. Whats your point? They're married and have kids together and a normal life. Most girls do not end up in relationships with the tall dark ripped chad	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/24 04:16 PM
10	If a man is not the best sexual partner of his partner, then the relationship is not worth it. Wait so you’re telling me all those averege old folks are having bomb sex all the time and that all married men are the best lays their partner has ever had? Lmao come on man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/24 03:45 PM
1	Why do men say women who are objectively attractive are ugly/mid? Lol. Unless you’re some 6 foot 4 Hercules Chad then I highly doubt you do not find prime Scarlett Johansen attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 11:57 PM
1	Why do men say women who are objectively attractive are ugly/mid? Beauty has very little subjective components I’m not even sure how this is even an argument. Yes there may be subjectivity between people who seem close in attractiveness (eg a 6 versus 7 or a 8.5 versus a 9) but it’s very easy to distinguish those who are objectively attractive. Who is more attractive, prime Johnny Deep or George Constanta? 99.9% of women will answer Johnny Depp and those that do not are just insecure because they know a man of that calibre will never give them any attention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 11:43 PM
3	Why do men say women who are objectively attractive are ugly/mid? No you don’t lol. Ive been to Mykonos, tulum, Ibiza…all those hot spots and those are the only places they consistently have beautiful women. Most women are average and you will not see hoards of beautiful women walking around everything you go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 11:34 PM
1	Why do men say women who are objectively attractive are ugly/mid? Beauty is definitely NOT common at all. Most people are average. People that turn heads are outliers so it cannot be common.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 08:09 PM
6	Why do men say women who are objectively attractive are ugly/mid? Come on stop the bs. She’s objectively attractive and will be found hot by 99.9% of men. You’ll pass by 10000s of women without seeing someone that looks like her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 07:42 PM
11	What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era? “Dumb prettt boys” is clearly a generalization just as ugly smart people is. At the end of the day people go for what they can get. In theory, everyone wants someone very physically attractive with a great personality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/24 01:04 PM
2	Have you ever lived someplace where most people were attractive? How did it affect the dynamics? Mykonos and Tulum were the only place I’ve ever went to where many people there were objectively 7+. Lots of super hot IG models everywhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/24 06:57 PM
1	Can refusing sex be a valid reason for breakup or divorce? You can say that about any part of relationship - money, finances, communication, responsibilities, etc. If one of these is lacking it will overwhelm the relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/24 03:32 PM
–	Aren’t the “it’s because he’s attractive” posts getting boring? Everyone is superficial when they first meet someone. All you have to go off is looks. He’s likely going for girls on his looks level or slightly below.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/24 09:06 PM
–	Aren’t the “it’s because he’s attractive” posts getting boring? I wouldn’t say give up but to taper expectations. I think this forum idolizes men that are extremely rare and you will not see often in day to day life. The only time I saw an abundance of chads is in Mykonos and tulum which is basically where all the best looking people in the world party. It’s Instagram dimes everywhere so it makes sense otherwise you rarely see chads just walking down the street. If you’re average you can just get jacked and go for girls that are in your league.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/24 08:56 PM
–	Aren’t the “it’s because he’s attractive” posts getting boring? Not to be a dick but his look isn’t considered chadly at all. I am significantly better looking at 6 foot 3 and 12% at 220 lb and still get flaked on a ton. I get a lot of looks and attention but being a chad is next level - you’ll rarely see these type of guys that this sub drolls over.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/24 08:42 PM
–	Women dress provocatively for male attention What about dressing up to be perceived as attractive by other people or by society in general? The halo effect is real and you get better treatment in life when you’re attractive. That’s a reason why men and women dress better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/24 03:27 PM
–	Dick size matters to most people, and men with small penises are better off abstaining from sex to protect themselves from being personally and socially humiliated Lmao cope. I got friends with small dicks who have gfs all the time. One guy is constantly dumping and dating new girls. Small is like a micro penis which less than 1% of men have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/24 11:01 AM
1	So, is talking to women at bars just… over? I’ve been through all of that + much more and I’ve seen these girls that ghosted me with much less attractive bfs after that (I’m 6 foot 3, 220 lb at 12 % body fat and have a good face) so it has much more to do with sexual attraction. Familiarity is a very important concept to dating which is why cold approaching is horrendous for any male and you get a high flake rate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/24 10:25 PM
1	So, is talking to women at bars just… over? Lol. You can’t believe the autistic things you’re espousing right? Let me rephrase that again - these girls left notes telling me I was cute and leaving me their number. Things are not as black and white as this forum claims - women may feel attracted to you in the initial moment but feel slutty after, feel weird talking to a stranger, etc. Most blackpillers on here can’t seem to understand this concept.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/24 04:31 AM
1	So, is talking to women at bars just… over? Even if they’re attracted to you and meet you in a setting like a night club, they may still flake. The familiarity factor is very low - you are just a stranger to them. And in my comment above, I didn’t get their numbers. They left their numbers for me at a restaurant, lounge, etc and still flaked. I didn’t even interact with some of them so they left their numbers solely based on my appearance. The point is familiarly is very important for dating - this is why cold approach is terrible even if…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/24 03:24 PM
2	So, is talking to women at bars just… over? Or maybe: 1) he didn’t like her after the sex 2) they didn’t connect 3) he wasn’t as interested as he thought he was Women do the exact same thing and nothing is wrong with that. They go on free dinner dates - you can easily say they lie to get free things as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/24 05:03 PM
10	So, is talking to women at bars just… over? Except “using someone for sex” isn’t really a thing. If it’s consensual, the women is equally responsible for partaking in the act and makes it enjoyable for both parties. You can’t manipulate a girl for sex despite what mainstream media tells you - not including outlier situations such as domestic abuse relationships, etc. There must be attraction followed by some level of rapport, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/24 11:22 PM
11	So, is talking to women at bars just… over? Sure but it is discouraging and turns men off from approaching if the vast majority of men are doing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/24 11:08 PM
16	So, is talking to women at bars just… over? I’ve had girls leave their number for me at a restaurant and still ghost me after messaging them. Many girls that go out to bars and night clubs just like the validation and many of them like it from attractive men with no intention of hooking up with them	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/24 10:35 PM
20	So, is talking to women at bars just… over? Even now you can spend 2-3 hours with a girl at the bar, hook up with her and share some cool stories and she’ll ghost you. It happens to all my friends and myself as well	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/24 10:31 PM
1	Why do players keep a harem of girls when he could easily get a girl he wants? An objective 8/10 is a near model or Hottest guy in school type. I doubt anyone on this forum has dated someone at that level of attractiveness. Because most people on here are dating in the average zone they will weigh different things such as height, penis size, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/23 04:55 PM
–	Muscles are more important than height for attracting women Nope. Face is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 06:20 PM
–	Muscles are more important than height for attracting women They won’t mention it but they’ll notice it. If you’re jacked and can bench 225 for 10+ reps you have a better physique than 99% of men. Most women will never sleep with someone with that physique.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 06:19 PM
1	Is it true that women's standards for casual are higher than her standards for a relationship? If by high SES you mean he’s so rich he’s from old generational money then sure but chad usually refers to physical traits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/23 03:46 AM
3	Online dating is a falsehood doing your mental health harm 30-40% of pplz meet online nowadays via ig or apps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/23 04:28 PM
4	CMV: Women don’t have high standards. Below average guys keep thinking they are average. I’ve also seen men better looking than the women. Also factor in that women wear make up and it’s pretty even.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 07:32 PM
1	Women indulge in hyper-gamy even in today's age. They say so explicitly You’re acting as if a women will run out of men to swipe on…there’s literally millions of women and men using online dating. This is not the case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 07:38 PM
2	Women indulge in hyper-gamy even in today's age. They say so explicitly There’s still millions of women on dating apps. That is not a small pool for a man in a metropolitan city. The percentages are irrelevant	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 04:31 PM
1	Women indulge in hyper-gamy even in today's age. They say so explicitly That proves it even more lol. If there was way less men then women would swipe left even more. Even with so many men available women still swipe right way less. That is because they have much higher standards for looks than men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 04:02 PM
2	Women do want to be apprached. Most women are attracted to the same type of man (tall, good face, good muscle mass). We are speaking in generalities of course.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 06:57 PM
2	Men with low sexdrive. A dealbreaker? What does low sex drive even mean in terms of times per week? Is twice per week low sex drive? Seems like it would be considered low for some and not an issue for many	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 04:49 PM
1	I think the majority of men are unattractive in large part because of their high bodyfat % It helps for sure but a handsome face is significantly more important	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 09:36 PM
2	Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking about A true 8-9 is like a prime Johnny drop. No way these guys are common.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 12:22 PM
9	All else equal, young people are universally more attractive Most women (and men) aren’t hot so that doesn’t make sense. Hot women go for hot or rich/high status guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 11:34 AM
1	As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career? Not really. Escorts in expensive countries are like 500-1000 which is 100k is enough for a single guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/23 11:25 AM
1	As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career? This lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/23 11:24 AM
1	As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career? Most objectively handsome guys do extremely well with women. I have many friends who make 200k or more with average dating experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/23 11:20 AM
1	If you struggle with dating, you are BELOW average Social skills are good. I have a massive social circle. I can be fun when I need to and yes I definitely know how to flirt and be interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/23 12:04 AM
2	If you struggle with dating, you are BELOW average Except I’m 6 foot 3, 215 lb at 11% body fat, full set of hair, early 30s, white, make six figures and still struggle quite a bit online and in real life even though face is above average. Standards are through the roof for us men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 09:36 PM
1	Do very attractive men have a hard time respecting women because they know first hand how easy it is to get most woman to cheat with him? well then thats not an 8-8.5. True 8+ are legit Chads. a 9 or 10 is like Prime Brad Pitt. An 8 is like the hottest guy in your high school.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 02:17 AM
1	Do very attractive men have a hard time respecting women because they know first hand how easy it is to get most woman to cheat with him? An 8-8.5 is basically a male model.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 01:57 AM
7	Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floor Lol she prob ain’t a 9 then…a 9 is prime Adriana Lima or Megan Fox. People overrate themselves all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/23 12:44 PM
2	Do men get jealous of other men who get prettier girls than them? A 10 is a Victoria secret model that makes millions of dollars off of her money. Most men are dating average or slightly above average women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/23 04:21 PM
2	Why aren't men's bodies lusted and desired as much as women's bodies are lusted and desired? If a girl finds you really hot, she’ll be very aroused…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 09:14 PM
3	I don’t think the amount of money a man makes actually matters Money only matters if it portrays a certain lifestyle that fits with what the women wants. If you can’t portray it then your income does not matter. Now if you make enough money that it garners you status and clout (think celebrities and athletes) then money will make your dating life better but 99% of men will never achieve that kind of money	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/23 03:34 AM
–	Do men find this lady to be attractive ?? 4-5/10	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/23 01:41 AM
2	If a woman has to recondition and force herself to find you attractive the relationship is doomed from the start lol. MOST wear make up, especially in work or social outings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/23 02:54 AM
7	If a woman has to recondition and force herself to find you attractive the relationship is doomed from the start hows that possible when most women wear make up?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/23 01:37 AM
2	Women ghost after sex just as often as men One night is almost never enough to determine if someone is good in bed, especially if booze and drugs are involved. There are many other factors at play here	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 12:12 AM
7	Sexual Economics Theory FACE***, height salary and size	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 03:24 AM
2	The bar for men is friggin' subterranean Lmao. No not any guy can be a true 7/10. A 7 out of 10 is conventionally attractive (aka the hottest guy in high school). I am 6 foot 3, 225 lbs at 12% and have a conventionally attractive face and still get rejected a ton (no I am not an aspie, I have good social skills). Your genetic baseline for looks is a massive influencer on how well you will do in dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 11:14 PM
1	What is the purple pill lens on this date experience? We didn't escalate to full foreplay. We made out, I kissed her body and we just made out for like 20 minutes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 07:23 PM
1	What is the purple pill lens on this date experience? We matched online last week. Planned the date and went out this past Thursday. On Friday she responded to my instagram story and then yesterday afternoon I asked her how her day was and she responded and then I asked her out a second time and no reply since (almost 24 hours ago)	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 07:07 PM
2	Is confidence really tied to dick size? Many things matter more than dick size; looks, height, status, income, social circle, etc. As long as you are not on the very small size then it isn’t an issue. I know a few friends who are on the small side (confirmed by girls) and they get tons of girls because everything else is in check.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 04:52 AM
2	It doesn’t matter the level of attractiveness of a woman, they ALL still only find attractive men attractive Nothing wrong with preferences but you should be able to live up to your preferences: e.g. if you want a fit person, you should probably be fit yourself considering they'd likely want the same thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 02:43 AM
3	Male body type preference. Do you think all male body types are considered to be attractive, or one/several body types are considered to be the most attractive while others are not? Most of those guys are also on some baseline level of TRT and definetly add more to the mix for a big movie role. I have personally been lifting heavy for 4-5 years and got up to a 315 lbs bench press for 1 but I don’t look like Jason mamoa due to being natural. I am still very lean as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 09:38 PM
1	How would you react if you found out that your boyfriend/husband is using pills for ED? Word! I stand corrected!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 03:00 AM
2	How would you react if you found out that your boyfriend/husband is using pills for ED? This is a massive myth; viagra or cialis does not cause heart issues or heart disease. It in fact is used for some people who have heart issues. It is only an issue if you have heart problems already.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 02:49 AM
4	Most women aren't good at telling what parts of a man make him sexually attractive Sorry but all the stuff you name comes secondary to looks. Traditionally good looking women usually go for traditionally good looking men. People that aren’t traditionally good looking know they can’t get a traditionally attractive person so they’ll say things like “most hot people have shitty personalities, etc”. This obviously isn’t true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 12:03 AM
6	Why should men still be the ones to pursue? You misconstrued my statement. I said a high amount of attraction is stimulated if he is attractive enough to the women, not if he is super highly attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/22 02:28 AM
6	Why should men still be the ones to pursue? Lol what? Looks trigger a high amount of spontaneous attraction for women if the man is attractive enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/22 02:12 AM
2	Attractive men can't be "creepy" Both obviously. Also women can be rated differently from men considering they wear make up. Although a 10/10 women is still probably a 10/10 without make up. A 5/10 women can go to a 6-6.5/10 with make up though so that can skew things	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 05:21 AM
2	Attractive men can't be "creepy" I doubt that man. A 10/10 is someone like prime Brad Pitt. If you are rating people objectively (not loosely like on reddit forums) combined with factoring in distribution curves, you will rarely ever see a 10/10 male. The reality is that most people are in the 4-6 range and seeing a 7 or 7.5 constitutes as very attractive and is someone that would stand out in a group of a 100 or more people. Think hottest guy in high school. A 8/10 would be super attractive and is not common to see on a daily …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 05:11 AM
2	Attractive men can't be "creepy" You’ll never see a true 10/10 guy in real life. Maybe you’re referring to average hot guys which there is some truth to	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/22 10:20 PM
1	How do you feel about guys wearing shoe lifts? Yes sure. But women aren’t seen as insecure for doing this. If you were a guy and dated women, would you be turned off because women wear make up and tight bras?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 08:34 PM
1	Most men that aren't having sex are otherwise fairly normal dudes, not women hating misogynists like reddit and society would lead you to believe If it makes you feel better I am 6 foot 3, 225 lbs of muscle and have a very attractive face; I get ghosted a shit ton and although I get laid here and there and go on dates it requires a ton of volume and ton of shit. I sometimes feel like giving up because of how much shit I have to deal with. I am also very socially calibrated and hardly act like a creep but again it’s constant bs you have to deal with	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 08:22 PM
11	Why men and women are hypergamous at a certain threshold. Agree with this. Most couples are looks and or socioeconomic matched. Just go outside and look at your neighbours	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 08:08 PM
17	How do you feel about guys wearing shoe lifts? Geniune question: how is this different than make up, push up bras or ass accentuating bottom wear?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 08:04 PM