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ADVICEmytenthmuse/r/RedPillWomen14/10/17 01:04 AM
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Hello again! I smiled when I saw this thread. My question for this Tarot Card reading is that lately, I've been in a funk. My life seems to be spiraling out of my hands, and though it hasn't escalated that much yet, I feel a creeping sense of disorientation that I know will get worse if I don't do anything about it. What should I do?
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/17 04:09 PM
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I am motivated to visit and comment here because I am still in the process of converting my beliefs from the liberal, SJW point of view to adhere to RPW values. Being in a community of women who share the same thoughts as I do is very comforting, especially since I'm at a very liberal college, and I often feel too afraid to say anything that could remotely be construed as non-PC. I have found this community to be helpful, though I will admit that sometimes I feel discouraged by all of your amazi…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 09:53 PM
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That's good advice. I'll keep it in mind whenever I'm feeling down. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/17 02:45 PM
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Mhmm, got it. I've tried doing that, but I find at times I descend into a funk, and it's hard to be optimistic all the time. What should I do in those cases?
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/17 02:29 PM
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:) Thanks for the reading! I feel more encouraged to keep on focusing on my self-improvement after seeing this post. Is there any specific advice I should keep in mind for ways I could work on myself and my enjoyment in life?
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/17 02:20 PM
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Hi! I'm back because the last reading you did was so helpful (and thanks for also being so gracious with my follow-up questions!) So I've focused on self-improvement and strengthening connections with my girlfriends. I've realized in the process that I don't know whether I want to be in a relationship with anyone I know right now, because we are all growing and we all have a lot of work to do to better ourselves. And after all, I shouldn't be improving myself with the end goal of a relationship …
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 05:02 PM
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Thanks so much for your advice! I'll continue enjoying life and I'll also have to check the sidebar sometime for tips on online dating and vetting.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/17 08:38 PM
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Thanks! I'll keep that in mind. I actually really like how swallowing the pill is making me more optimistic and dare I say adorable. It makes me happy to be a small ray of endearing cuteness! As for your recommendation to look outside university: How would I go about doing that? I'm not that comfortable with the idea of online dating, because I've never had exposure to it...is that something you'd suggest me to do?
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/17 02:18 PM
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Huh... I guess my main fear in relationships is that I won't ever be able to find someone who I like who will also like me back. I think this makes me seem desperate at times. I'm just looking around at all my classmates and realizing that I wish I could have met them all five years later instead. At the same time, I have no way to really meet grad students, and the PhD students I've met are all not my cup of tea. I'm not sure how I can curb this fear, but I'll try my best to!
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/17 12:06 PM
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:) I have a follow-up question, after really focusing on this advice and following it for a day: I've realized that there are a couple of guys who are interested in dating me; however, I've vetted them out of consideration. However, how should I really be approaching meeting people and moving on from my friend?
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/17 11:22 PM
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That's such valuable advice! Thanks again for doing this; it really helps me figure out what I should be focusing on and gives me perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 02:14 PM
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Thanks so much! Even though this is merely a guide and not a predictor, it is still scarily accurate. I have a quick follow-up question, if you don't mind drawing cards again, please: Knowing he's not ready for a relationship, in this case, how should I proceed?
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 12:49 PM
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Hi! Thanks for doing this! My question is: There’s a guy who I’m friends with but we’ve been hitting bumps in the road and I would like to ask if we could become a thing in the future, as I secretly wish we could be. What do the cards say?
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 03:36 AM
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I'm also around 20 years old, and I also recently swallowed the pill and am working on my RMV, so I'm not sure how valuable any of my suggestions would be for you. I look forward to hearing what other people say, though! If you ever want to rant about the RPW journey with someone in a similar situation, feel free to talk to me.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 04:38 PM
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Your original answer and your replies are really appreciated! Thank you so much for taking the time to share your thoughts. I found them very helpful, and not to mention, very encouraging and something I needed to hear. :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 01:39 PM
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Thank you so much for the thoughtful answer! I think everything you said was very true and helpful. I'm saving this post and I'll refer to it again as I proceed with resolving this lingering awkwardness. :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 01:33 PM
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Yeah, I was hoping for a list of reasons why men get married, because I really want to find a guy in college for a LTR and eventually marriage, which is going to be hard if any of these statistics are accurate.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/17 06:34 PM
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Yeah...I can't help but wonder if I can ever find a good college-aged guy. I see a couple of guys that I wish I could meet five years later, because I know they would be good LTR material then, and I don't want to wait and become friends and then get friendzoned by then.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/17 06:30 PM
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Sad, but too true.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/17 06:28 PM
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Thanks for the replies, ladies! I'll start looking more into the guys in my STEM classes.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/17 06:28 PM
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Thanks so much for the detailed answer! I like how you broke it down in order of importance what traits I should be looking for. It's just hard because I feel like so many of my male classmates are still growing into being adults. Do you have any suggestions for what I should do?
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/17 12:33 AM
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Thanks for the well wishes and for the advice! The guy in my OP would have passed the first and second red flag tests, but not the third. Is it something about the artistic type that means they're harder to pin down? Maybe I should start looking at the STEM majors; I'm thinking of majoring in biology, and there are a decent amount of guys in my classes...
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/17 12:30 AM
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Oh but playing the numbers game is so rough...I guess I'll just make it a goal to talk to one new guy a day or something to start then.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/17 12:29 AM
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I think it's interesting that you want to try things out with him again. Something I've learned from my relationship drama is not to date the potential, but to date the person who is here right now. Are you sure you're seeing him for who is truly is right now?
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/17 06:23 PM
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Yes, I would like to know as well. I have found a couple of guys who don't like to party, but one was the guy I mentioned above, and another is in an LDR. How do I actively find more college-aged guys who would consider a LTR?
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/17 05:53 PM
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Thank you so much! I look forward to hearing everyone's thoughts.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/17 05:52 PM
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I don't know if you're being serious or not. Could you elaborate?
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/17 05:50 PM
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Yes! I'm very good at vetting out the guys who fall under the first category, because I make it really clear I don't party, but it'd the second type of guy that I'm horrible at vetting. I tend to settle for the average guys who want to pursue me, unless they actually just creep me out. My roommates have told me that I am interested in people who are not good-looking and somewhat self-absorbed...so I'd love some tips.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/17 05:49 PM
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