| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | It do be like thatBYEEEEE LMFAOOOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 06:50 AM |
| 7 | What's your opinion on having male friends (purely platonic)?shouldn’t your S.O be your best friend ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 10:06 PM |
| -3 | Oh Lort 🤭LMFAOOOOOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 03:37 AM |
| 96 | this is the bare minimum ladies !the bar is so low and they still can’t meet it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:29 AM |
| 7 | Ladies, how do you let someone know that you're interested?yesssss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 11:30 PM |
| 18 | Does not turning heads mean you're not attractive anymore?it’s all ab the posture and how u walk. if you walk slouched and looking at the ground no one is gonna notice you. you have to rádiate confident and feminine energy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 12:44 AM |
| 37 | “i win” 🙄a real w would’ve been her dumping his ass. or doing this AND dumping his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:42 AM |
| 4 | Not sorry that I know my worth and exactly what I want in a man 💅ugh yes he’s so fine but his character in the show made me so mad. but irl he’s fine asffff😹😹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 02:42 AM |
| 20 | Not sorry that I know my worth and exactly what I want in a man 💅i don’t think the show was bad. it was to represent the reality of life. the characters were so complex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 02:41 AM |
| 20 | Have I just had too many awful experiences with men where being too sweet is a red flag or is this really too sweet? Also only been on one date with this guy, we barely know each other!all i gotta say is. actions speak louder than words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 12:38 AM |
| 4 | I have a crush...how long has this been going on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 03:06 AM |
| 80 | pick me spotted.obv i would let my man play games and what not but the only time girls complain ab it is when it’s excessive. and this girl is making a video in response to the girls who have boyfriends who do nothing but sit on their asses in front of their xbox. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 03:00 AM |
| 158 | A L A R M B E L L Sbruh. HE is the common denominator. can he not see he is problem ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 11:30 PM |
| 11 | The feeling I get from blocking a LVM is almost euphoric.i love blocking them when they’re typing and before they have the chance to respond. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Abuse tactics. be careful ladies, if you or a friend are unsure if you’re in a toxic/ abusive relationship then read this. hopefully this helps some of you.oh my this remembers the past dude i was “talking” to like a year ago and he’s told me “why can’t you be like _____(his guy friends name) , he knows how to joke around and isn’t so sensitive like you” and i was like 😐. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Abuse tactics. be careful ladies, if you or a friend are unsure if you’re in a toxic/ abusive relationship then read this. hopefully this helps some of you.i’m so sorry that happened to you, you don’t deserve that. i’m telling you right now it wasn’t your fault. you just don’t know something is bad until AFTER the damage is done. hopefully you forgive yourself. it took me a long time to forgive myself after some past relationships. just know you’re a strong and worthy person. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 10:07 PM |
| 17 | Abuse tactics. be careful ladies, if you or a friend are unsure if you’re in a toxic/ abusive relationship then read this. hopefully this helps some of you.here is the google doc since the screenshot got messed up https://docs.google.com/document/d/10Ds9rDAHRM8MsUh08DPcH2eqj6BUaGFvc1dnUaWqIXI/edit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 07:16 PM |
| 7 | This Just in: Men find game character (Saharah from Animal Crossing) to be sexual, slut shames them while also slut shaming real women.he wrote that. re read it. and pressed post. and thought to himself. “yeah that’s about right. “ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 05:30 PM |
| 79 | The reason Reddit men think FDS is anti-male is because they think refusing to have sex with them because they’re ugly, useless, creepy, bad at sex, and all around annoying is a hate crime.they’re so entitled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 03:37 AM |
| 8 | This man is a joke, and gross, and I don't know why I'm wasting my time explaining things to him.this guy is giving me joe from the show “you” vibes. major stalker creep vibes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 06:04 PM |
| 4 | do you wear make-up everyday?only if i have a breakout. but mascara or curling eyelashes and lip balm is a must no matter where u go. it makes me feel a bit more feminine but it’s also minimal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 06:00 PM |
| 14 | A little levity but entirely HVM behavior lol.ooo girl i fart all the time but i never knew it could slip out my booty while sleeping! i get all my farts out during the day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 09:05 PM |
| 20 | PickMes Have No Self Awareness At All 🤣i - omg she’s so wrong for saying that 💀 my mouth practically opened when i read the reply | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:40 PM |
| 7 | A little levity but entirely HVM behavior lol.how does someone fart while sleeping omg 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:23 PM |
| 3 | i’m tired of the fetishization of latina women and men assuming all of us are “spicy” and crazy. being called “creatures” is so disgusting.omg a lot of girls duetted this video putting on makeup or agreeing with him in my ming i was confused like why would you wanna be generalized. ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:21 PM |
| 54 | i’m tired of the fetishization of latina women and men assuming all of us are “spicy” and crazy. being called “creatures” is so disgusting.im mexican too and i’m exactly like you but it’s annoying when a man comes to you with these stereotypes in their mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:09 AM |
| 13 | 365 Days in Netflixomg yes it was soooo rapey. i hear the man has some rape allegations against him 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 12:09 AM |
| 16 | Advice needed: Taken men in committed relationships liking a lot of seductive photos of other women. Is this low value?actions speak louder than words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 12:03 AM |
| 43 | His response back was “cunt” and I was promptly unmatched 🤣 the trash takes itself out ladies!i usually agree w not responding back and blocking but omg that reply was savage AF. you really put him in his place 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 11:55 PM |
| 37 | I hope she gets picked 🤡omg why can’t they understand this ! they think that if we want to be taken care of financially that it means we are poor. like no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 11:51 PM |
| 21 | Survivor of domestic abuse starts dating a man who reveals himself to be a past abuser. Several people in the comments tell her “maybe he’s changed”omg being honest ab it is expected. it’s not something to applaud. it’s basic decency | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 11:48 PM |
| 1 | How much to talk about your sexual/romantic past?if i were you i would just introduce your ex (aka now-friend) as someone you have history with but i wouldn’t give out too many details. and i get where you’re coming from. i’m bisexual but haven’t been with a girl but i can see the dilemma with having to introduce her to your future s.o. whenever a guy finds out you like girls he will use that to ask u for threesomes or a poly relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 05:46 PM |
| 1 | How much to talk about your sexual/romantic past?the only “mistake” i see that will affect u is him knowing you have been with a girl. if he is a LVM he might ask u for a three some or a poly relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 05:18 PM |
| 6 | 😬“but but that’s our relationships’s sense of humor ! we joke around like that” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 01:59 AM |
| 4 | This man boldly made SEVERAL antiblack sentiments in the face of me, a black woman.omg mexican too and it’s weird asf. they associate us latinas with having a bitchy attitude or being provocative it’s weird | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 04:41 AM |
| 36 | This man boldly made SEVERAL antiblack sentiments in the face of me, a black woman.“but but i can say it ! my friends are black “ 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 01:36 AM |
| 110 | My uncle, who's almost 50 and still lives with his mother, keeps sending me these *funny* memes.or they accuse a girl of being a gold digger when they’re broke asf. that’s when it’s really funny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 01:29 AM |
| 15 | Boyfriend made me anxious about my breasts and triggered an emotional flashbackthat’s not his place to talk about that. and that apology seem insincere since he was bringing up every excuse in the world to justify what he said. and going braless is actually beneficial i believe i read somewhere that it was. i always wear bras and i’m a teen and mine drop down and their big but who cares ? a MAN appreciates your body regardless of its appearance. if you choose to stay with this boy then you’re choosing to accept the comments he makes. the comments he is making towards ur ap… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 05:20 PM |
| 80 | Ladies Do Not be Afraid to Block- ANYONEomg yessss !! i unfriended everyone on my snap that posted racist shit (it was all guys) the audacity some racists have !!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Ladies what do you think of this?is this FDS approved?yes!! she’s a real queen and a strong woman. @angel_dreamz her tik tok account. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Ladies what do you think of this?is this FDS approved?my bad i didn’t even know. it just came on my for you page on tik tok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 07:11 PM |
| 14 | Am I a gold digger? I need brutal honesty.And P.S. I would check where his money is going. Sounds weird that he has all this money but yet he asked u for the 80$ back for groceries. Idk an alarm went off when I read that part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 10:03 PM |
| 15 | Am I a gold digger? I need brutal honesty.I’m just like you. I LOVEEE the luxurious lifestyle. Money is a love language. The fact that u said he earns MORE money than you and he’s still stingy is weird asf. Like what else is he doing with the money. I’ve seen men like these. My dad earns more money than my mom but is stingy ASF and let me tell you it’s going to be horrible for u if you get married with a stingy man. It’s one of the most annoying things if you want to be in that luxurious lifestyle. Don’t expect less. I’m not gonna tell … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 10:00 PM |
| 1 | What about the lesser attractive women?Confidence. It’s so obvious but like when you radiate confident energy it’s so noticeable. Being comfortable in your own body and skin really shows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 07:57 PM |
| 32 | I got flamed for this on tiktok- was trying to spread the fds word in my own way😢Omg I saw this on my FYP and I liked it lolz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:49 AM |
| 54 | RED FLAG 🚩: men who hate “narcissistic” (confident) womenOmg yes. For example 1. Pretty girl - I’m so beautiful I love myself. LVM- so arrogant 2. Pretty girl - I’m so ugly LVM- wow ur fishing for compliments | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 02:04 AM |
| 8 | Natural beautyIt’s none of their business. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 02:26 AM |
| 61 | Why do some men cheat by living a double life?He didn’t value you girl. No matter how much you gave him It wasn’t enough for him. Glad you got out of that relationship you deserve better❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 02:20 AM |
| 9 | Do you ladies think porn is always bad?You don’t need porn to know your sexuality. | /r/askFDS | 28/04/20 07:55 PM |
| 61 | He’s got me thinking he’s gonna lock me in a basement and carve a bible verse into my legRUN FOR YOUR LIFE HONEYY 🏃♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 03:12 AM |
| 278 | “LoVe YoUr HaIr If ItS yOuRs” me and my hair will be ignoring you. Half the shit black women deal with. They try to tear us down by any mean necessary yet men still fall at my feet and that won’t stop.Why is it mostly black men who are rude to black women. Like they hate the women of their race the most. Smh. Keep ur head up queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 02:33 AM |
| 31 | What should I do?He knows when he says something out of line. He just apologizes based on your reaction. He’s testing you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 04:15 PM |
| 5 | Sending nudes is a terrible ideaI agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 12:04 AM |
| 19 | He cheated on her, she's divorcing himhttps://twitter.com/_guaddd_/status/1253741283517947904?s=21 this is her reply . https://twitter.com/flourishblkgirl/status/1253387557141975040?s=21 this is the main tweet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 07:43 PM |
| 214 | He cheated on her, she's divorcing himGuys in the replies of the tweet saying “what’s ab till death do us part” 🥱🤮and the worst part about the replies is that a pick me said “Nah y’all just ain’t like the old times where forgiveness was key... that’s why marriages nowadays go to shit 🤷♀️” as if women weren’t degraded in old times? She’s mad cause we know our worth now and won’t settle for less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Blackmailed as a 13 year old.Yep still a minor. And I interacted with him so much that I still remember his Snapchat. I really wanna see him get in trouble I just don’t know how | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 03:35 AM |
| 8 | Blackmailed as a 13 year old.i really wanted to but i felt like it would be pointless because then my family would know, and i dont think the police would be much help. i know what college he goes to though. i just felt powerless at that time tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 05:29 AM |
| 12 | Blackmailed as a 13 year old.I did say “alright then expose the pics” but that’s when he started saying his intention wasn’t to do that so idk very manipulative and weird situation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 03:27 AM |
| 27 | Blackmailed as a 13 year old.Thank you for being so understanding. 🥺💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 01:34 AM |
| 8 | Why do men always keep ghosting me without a answer?“I am not sexual in any way” that’s why. They want quick pussy and they’re LVM. There’s nothing wrong with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 08:26 PM |
| 17 | How Males Look Defending Their Porn UseUgh I just remembered I was about 12 in my uncles house because my dad was doing yard work at his house and I found this movie case and I opened it and it was a porn CD I have never been so disgusted in my life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 12:29 AM |
| 7 | Average male RedditorJawline non existent | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 09:36 PM |
| 3 | What he wants doesn't matter.He looks like shaggy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 03:28 AM |
| 21 | boyfriends opened up about kinks - i’m a recovering kinkmeisha.Once you let him degrade you during sex he will start degrading you outside of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 10:06 PM |
| 5 | What the actual...DelusionalOMG LMFAOOOO SJSKSJSKS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 02:20 AM |
| 36 | What the actual...DelusionalHe looks like a thumb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 12:31 AM |
| 18 | I need a little support, my husband and I are at odds sexuallyHe is way too old to be acting like that. He’s acting all oblivious and ignoring the fact that he’s pissing you off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Drunk agAin and accusing me of cheatingWhat’s the point of asking for advice if you’re continuing to not take it and ignore it ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 01:48 AM |
| 29 | Red flags for bi women dating menFor some women it’s a big part of their identity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 01:15 AM |
| 10 | Let a guy know I'm interested without being a pickme?Yessss that’s such a teenager thing omg. I’m in high school and literally some random dudes will come up to me and say “yo my friend over there thinks you’re fine asf” and I’m like “ok?.” I don’t see the point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 08:06 PM |
| 15 | "Other girls don't get butt hurt like you"Omg yes I would’ve blocked him the second he started making offensive jokes. He sounds like someone who peaked in high school | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 05:58 PM |
| 87 | New Red Flag Vocabulary Word: SimpMan: (posts a pic on insta appreciating their girlfriend/wife) Comments: “SIMP HAHAHA” “THIS MAN IS A SIMP”. “SIMP NATION” “CEO of SIMP” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 09:25 PM |
| 11 | Men on the idea of consentbUT mUHH dICKK | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 01:34 AM |
| 2 | How did I do in this interaction with a LVM?He doesn’t care about your long replies. Don’t waste your time. If you know that it’s not gonna work just block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 06:10 PM |
| 17 | Gross guy on snapchat thinks he reckons he has a "good chance" with me for being the complete bare minimum of what a human should beI said men because even some older guys act like that 🤮🤮🤢🤢but yeah high school sucks cause most boys are immature and/or fuckboys. I’m glad someone could relate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 11:35 PM |
| 77 | Gross guy on snapchat thinks he reckons he has a "good chance" with me for being the complete bare minimum of what a human should beThey think being friends = free sex 😍😍😋😋😳😳🤤🤤🤤. Men like this are sooo annoying. My Snapchat is filled with them since I’m in high school and that’s how most guys are at that age that’s why I chose to delete Snapchat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 11:30 PM |
| 17 | Arguing about her breast size with a scrote she doesn’t even know... yikesSame I got second hand embarrassment times 10000 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Should I ask my HVW friend to dump him?Oh I meant worrying like her being a little weirder out by it. Sorry if I confused you. But you’re a good friend but I feel like you’re getting too much in her business which I do with my friends too lol. It sucks cause you just want the best for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 08:43 PM |
| 8 | Should I ask my HVW friend to dump him?I think you should let her take care of it. She’s probably worried about it as well but doesn’t share her thoughts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 08:08 PM |
| 3 | What's your relationship with your HVM like?Oh my gosh I was grinning while reading this. This is so beautiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 06:07 PM |
| 4 | His name is Bird—Please fly awayI can’t tell if he has finger tattoos but his fingers look dirty af | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 08:52 PM |
| 12 | Made another one! Men during coronavirus be like:Love this 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 08:13 PM |
| 13 | Old classmate from college messaged me after 5 years asking how I was because of the pandemic. Suddenly sends these pictures. Why do men do this?My jaw just dropped GIRL LMFAOOAOOAOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 07:55 PM |
| 20 | Is he serious????!Omg yes I was having an argument with some “eDGY” 15 year old in guessing and I was like “this argument is pointless let’s just agree to disagree” and he goes “hAhA tHAt mEanS I WiN “ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 07:52 PM |
| 179 | FOUR YEARSThe infinity sign on the ring symbolizes “forever girlfriend “ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 07:47 PM |
| 4 | Perfect example of a “50/50” relationshipThank you for the laugh 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Sister Subs?Click the sub. Swipe left where it says about. Scroll down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 02:55 AM |
| 104 | “Put down like a dog” I hope these men are never blessed by anything a woman gives ever again,even casual kindness ever again.“Why did she put herself in that situation” excuse me. WHAT. Comments like these make me want to die inside. How can a person be so shitty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 02:51 AM |
| 23 | What act of leveling up are you proudest of, & why?Letting go of the fear of missing out on someone and focusing on myself and school. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 09:25 PM |
| 9 | Scrotes gonna Scrote : "Sister[19f] in law hitting on me[30m]." Turns out the OP is enjoying the attention and fantasizes about having sex with her. Then claims "to want to understand her psychology" #scrotelogicWhat the fuck did I just read. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 06:39 PM |
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