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Excellent point. I dated a successful man and he didn’t treat me well, he seemed to only want a girlfriend experience such as cuddles and cooking. He never wanted to open up or support me if I needed help and I’m very independent. He gave me 3 rides in 6 months and complained on the 2nd trip! I left him and his response is that he would have treated me better. He started to become very petty after I dumped him. I realized he wasn’t mature enough to learn from his mistakes & blamed me as a <3less…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/22 06:08 PM
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Former pickme, I read a ton of books on relationships after my final loser boyfriend so I could ensure I never had a loser boyfriend again. They all said "never make the 1st move" flirt, hint that you're into a man but make sure he's interested enough to ask you out. Generally men are sex driven and even if he isn't into you if he has the option to boink he's going to go for it. When a man wants to be with you he will pursue you and make it known. If you're his 2nd or 3rd choice you might not kn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 03:06 AM
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YESSSSS my ex bf was the first HVM I dated on paper but he was immature and emotionally unavailable. I had been :( for 2 months before I dumped him and one reason was that he rarely texted. I even read a book about texting to learn the kinds of texts men like and what to text because I didn't know what to say and had nobody to ask. He ignored most of my messages even after I educated myself. I stopped trying as he only wanted to text on a day we had plans to confirm plans. When I dumped him we t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 11:42 PM
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I'm a black lady and I feel like this has been a particular issue with black ladies in the past. My mom and many other black moms I know are single and never got any child support. My mom always said she'd feel guilty going after my bum dad and I would plead with her. He had a job and didn't pay rent because he lived with his mom. My mom was so concerned with pride and this idea that she didn't need help and was powerful and strong but she wasn't. She was an alcoholic and stoner for a long time,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 07:29 PM
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Damn! Does she have his contact info because he sounds like a real WINNER and I'm in love #savethedate #manofmydreams While researching personality disorders I learned that some men with them are late on dates or ghost as a "power move" and I think that was the intention here. It happened to me once and I will NEVER wait for more than a few minutes if my date is running late. Not sure if I should wait up to 10 as that seems legit but I waited 20 for some dude that was truly insane. He said he wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 07:17 PM
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Long after I have died and the cult that worships me wanders the earth this will be part of the sacred scriptures my followers will know verbatim. Wait, lets hope this current truth is no longer truth in the future and my cult members can enjoy simple things like reading fun books and drinking tea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 06:53 PM
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YESSSSS Back in my pickme days I would create stories about a dude in my head, play out fantasy scenarios and ignore red flags so I could continue the fantasy. Never again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 04:00 PM
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This is why leveling up and being a HVW is so crucial. I've read a lot of books about dating and still have a lot to learn but there is often a common theme and this is it MEN ARE NOT LOYAL. They will leave you if you aren't the type of women they want to be with as soon as they have the chance. I think supporting a man devalues you in their eyes as I've heard too many stories like the one above. This is also why I support dating up financially, if he already had a good job/ degree he wouldn't n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 03:38 PM
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Yikes! these men are so stupid and disturbing, why would you put that with your face online? You know it's bad when you agree with the comments on a daily mail article.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 08:59 AM
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Years ago I had JUST read about repill and posted a new dating profile, the profile got a lot of attention but mostly not my kinda dudes and my main picture was really flattering. Someone with no profile picture and who I assume was new to redpill or PUA strategies wrote me. He straight up insulted me, he said something like you're pretty ugly but I'd be open to dating you anyway. For about 10 seconds I wanted to write him back to defend myself, I'm not ugly wah. Then I thought better of it, I t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 02:18 AM
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Years ago when I was very poor I had a roommate who had just been able to get herself out of a homeless shelter. While there she dated a man who was mentally unstable and months later he had other homeless friends keeping tabs on her. He knew where she lived and what she was up to. To this day I'm cryptic about the personal info I share online. I don't even order magazines through the mail because that info is sold to shady companies like peoplefinder where someone can buy your contact informati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 01:48 AM
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Thank you <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 01:22 AM
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just me and a girl who worked there inside the shop, I've asked men to leave me alone with others nearby and that didn't help if he wanted to cause a scene. People sometimes don't want to get involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 01:14 AM
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I think a cold approach can be tasteful but I've almost never had one of those in my life. When I was younger before I learned about hypergamy I would approach men. Once I got a date because I started a conversation with a guy in line behind me at a coffee shop and invited him to sit with me, he asked me out after that. Another time I was making hot eye contact with a man on a subway and got the courage to tell him I thought he was attractive and ask if I could give him my #. I would NEVER hit o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 11:23 PM
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As I've been harassed in the past I thought best to just leave. Sometimes as with today I don't feel comfortable talking to someone like that because him coming in is such a red flag and he ignored my body language so I doubt me saying please go away would have worked. Is this guy going to go to his car and follow me and my friends around? Is he going to cause a scene? Is he mental with a gun? I've seen some people act really bonkers unprovoked. I am fine that I just bounced today. Maybe in the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 11:06 PM
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I agree and as someone who has studied up on personality disorders this could be an indication of that as well. Most men in general will not make a u turn and go into an establishment just to talk harass a lady and would notice she didn't smile or look happy to see them. I did look away but he already had his mind made up to come inside the shop. Once when I was very young I was walking down the street and made very brief eye contact with a man, he was driving and made a u turn and started to fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 11:03 PM
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Eww, I would probably not say anything until the trip was over except that I did not feel comfortable with her bringing men into the room to bone during the trip. After the trip I might confront her regarding that behavior, for me my friends are pretty drama free and while none of us are perfect I respect them. Not sure I could respect my friend for cheating and just having bad taste. They say you are the average of the 5 ppl you spend the most time with so do you need to spend time with her? I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 10:11 PM
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This seems fake. Like if a grownup had issues to that extent with incontinence they would wear adult diapers. I think this is clickbait fakeness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 05:40 PM
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Yuck. See sis, not sure if I totes f'd this up but I've dated one HVM so far, that was my ex. He was a professor and I worked at a front desk. Because he traveled for our first date and it was at the height of Covid I set up a picnic. I believe on the 2nd date I informed him that I was hypergamous, he said what's this? I informed him that it was the act of dating up, that I myself had goals and planned to succeed BUT I saw no reason in dating men who did not already have success. I admitted that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 11:51 AM
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Its a small office with a tight knit team and everyone is friendly. I'll start documenting things and if in a similar situation again I'll leave the room. I can't not talk to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 11:07 AM
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For a brief period after having sex for the 1st time with my abusive boyfriend I did everything but sex with guys fast for a year or two. I realized that sex and sexual activities meant a lot to me so I stopped doing that. Other women called me a prude but I didn't care at all. I learned over time that men who were just using me bounced right away when sex didn't happen. Men who cared had no issue waiting for a bit. I've been celibate for nearly 2 years and have gone 6 years without sex. While r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 01:12 AM
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Back when I was a pick me I read the book He's just not that into you I've read it after each heartbreak and will likely read it again. It's short, can be read in a few hours and basically states out all the scenarios where a man might be disrespectful and reminds the reader that in 99.9% of those cases he will let you know if he is into you. Best to match someones energy, if you aren't into texting I'm not either, lets see what happens when I stop. If they don't come around that relationship wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 12:49 AM
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Eww, this argument is so old, even if one is not hypergamous if a man isn't open to spending $5 on a date he is too cheap to date period. He is also creepy, delusional and sexist. He is literally saying if I spend a cent I expect sexual favors, this broke ass bitch needs to get himself a blow up doll because clearly he's too cheap even for a hooker. For any woman willing to date him her time is more valuable, due to the pay gap she probably earns a smaller income. She is spending time to get rea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 12:43 AM
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YES! These men also sometimes have overbearing female caregivers that either 1. belittle them (good way to create a psycho) 2. Make them feel like kings no matter how much of loser their sons are, we all know sexist moms who make their daughters wait on the f up boys hand and foot and dismiss the girls talents and hard work. Some of the behaviors are learned at home. All of these men communicate with other LVM and have their ideas validated. They are like flat earthers, they feel special in thei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 02:23 AM
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Yeah, the headline says it all & this is exactly how incels and redpills see things. If a person wants to have a victim mindset they can do that and assume they can read minds. Its a cognitive distortion tho https://cogbtherapy.com/cbt-blog/common-cognitive-distortions-mind-reading these guys say they are unfairly treated. They feel entitled to hot "females" and would rather say all woman are shallow and mean than get their shit together. Funnily enough they often have the harshest words to say …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 10:47 PM
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Yes, even for local travel. I used to live in a rural area and most of the men I matched with were in a town an hour away. When I was ready to date I told all matches they could meet me in my town, most men said no that it was too far but asked me to visit them, I ghosted those trolls. If it's too far for you then what makes you think I'm going to travel when you wouldn't for me? I also knew that these men weren't interested in anything real if they weren't willing to travel an hour, you can upd…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 07:28 PM
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Yasss! These comments are everything black women deserve brunch like everyone else. My goal is to be able to 1. have a personal chef that cooks most meals 2. Have a man that will cook with me/ for me and brunch is mandatory, I've got to have fun with my girls!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 02:36 AM
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You are making a sweeping generalazation regarding behavior of ALL women, you wrote "women are manipulative and are good at emotional abuse". What you stated was not a fact it was an opinion so your argument is moot. I for example have been a victim of narcassitic parents and boyfriends. I have never manipulated anyone, have you? You have a lot of resentment towards women and that's something you'll need to work on for yourself. Perhaps this can help https://goodmenproject.com/ Remember your opi…
/r/ExRedPill23/03/22 02:27 AM
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You know most violent criminals are men right? In general, most studies using self-report measures of Machiavellianism (In psychology, the dark triad comprises the personality traits of narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy) have found that men tend to have higher scores on Machiavellianism self-report scales than women (e.g. Ali & Chamorro-Premuzic, 2010; Jones & Paulhus, 2009a, 2009b; Linton & Wiener, 2001; McHoskey, 2001; Wilson, Near, & Miller, 1996) Regarding personality disorders m…
/r/ExRedPill23/03/22 01:56 AM
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Thank you so much for sharing. It's nice to hear that you've got a good man and wonderful relationship after 30. Proving the haters WRONG <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 01:35 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qtl2wWpXe-4&ab_channel=keranminum PREACH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 01:10 AM
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100x YES. Consenting adults get together and if one wants to shower the other in gifts and spend large amounts wtf cares? Also the men in the so called gold digger relationships are normally dating someone much younger who is exceptionally beautiful. If we as a society have decided it's not fair for a woman to be interested in a man's socioeconomic status and date men with much more wealth we also need to say it's not fair for men to be interested in much younger and more attractive woman. Both …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 01:07 AM
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LVM want participation trophies for engaging in appropriate behavior. This might be a good way to vet a man because I can't imagine anyone high value agreeing to this. I also ask a man his history and only been cheated on once with my first boyfriend who was a monster. My friends tend to be drama free and my exes since have also been somewhat chill, they had issues but never cheated. Some data suggests men and women are nearly = likely to cheat. I want to feel special too. Can I get a pat on the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 08:15 PM
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YES 100% If you must talk to someone like this be polite but do not engage in conversation other than nodding and saying yes or no and the briefest answers. Also okay to say "I don't discuss that at work" or "I don't feel comfortable talking about that"/ "rather not discuss this". Listen and then once they've stfu excuse yourself. It's impossible to build rapport with people who don't actually talk to you. I've used this to avoid LVM I was forced to interact with in everyday life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 11:28 AM
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Age is relevant but I won't want to say anything ageist and call this loser names related to his advanced age, it's so problematic, we women don't appreciate that crap so let's not be hypocrites. This man is a complete creep, he also had you paying for premium gas for the trips so it wasn't exactly free to you. Why would he be delusional and think you were interested? He was also sexist to say if I were rich you'd marry me, I'm 38 and would not want a 65 year old partner. Most women prefer someo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 11:23 AM
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Extend this advice to toxic friends as well, no need to prolong the drama or give these people more of your time. They know they risk losing you with their behavior and think they can continue to be disrespectful. People normally circle back at some point, if they contact me I either block and ignore or reply with a final "I'm done knowing you, I have blocked you from all platforms, no need to contact me". Even if they do somehow message me after I blocked I NEVER RESPOND and try to block again.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 02:20 PM
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Only LVM care about what race someone dates and LVM of all races do this. Decent HVM are too busy thinking about their own lives and not insecure/ racist. I will add that male POC I've talked to have their own trauma regarding race, since the media standard of beauty and success is western/ European I think a lot of POC with self esteem issues date Europeans for validation. A lot of these guys prefer white women for these reasons and will occasionally date WOC but as those ladies don't scratch t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 05:13 AM
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So interesting, the last time I checked Asian women were the most likely minority to date interracially and it was either 50% or 52% that married men of other races. Black women and Asian men are the least likely to marry interracially. Black women (thats me) are the least likely and black men are twice as likely as we are, I think it's 8% vs about 15%. Black men still gave me the side eye when I dated white guys, never got dirty looks so much if with another POC but men would stare or make a sn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 04:08 AM
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I watch horror movies for fun without fear, this shit is terrifying. Sleeping with the night light on today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 03:35 AM
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So in love with this <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 03:33 AM
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Oh yes honey, I think we have all been there some point. I used to get so mad about that, giving yesterday boys today's attention. I am so grateful to all those men because they proved to me that I am worthy of more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 02:06 AM
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Thank you for being an ally, I have been trying to educate myself about other cultures but often feel too weird to comment on my observations so I'm glad you did. I've had some of the most meaningful conversations with Asian friends about shared traumas and communial trauma. I don't even know how to wrap my head around the spikes in Asian hate crimes. With this said for Breonna I feel so sad about her and that justice was not served. I went to a vigil for her in my town in Montana, big turnout. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 01:39 AM
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Very helpful. I just used #1 while talking to my father. He is a narcissist and gets overly excited when talking, he starts to raise his voice and talk over you when he's not even upset. If I continue talking he won't stop but when i said that sentence it worked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 10:42 PM
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If someone puts themselves in this position they need to be smart about it. Anna Bey talked about her first rich boyfriend cutting her off and she had nothing, no job and no savings. She learned from this and suggested that if accepting gifts from a partner to ask for items that could easily be sold such as Birken bags. One of my moms friends was a trophy husband, he set aside thousands each month from his husband in case things went south. You need to have an exit strategy/ safety net.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 10:39 PM
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When I read this post I thought this is real life Lolita, I saw the film as a teen. It completely grossed me out. I feel so bad for this mom and the daughter for being taken advantage of in this way. This is why it is so crucial to not be financially dependent on anyone, have your own assets especially if you have children, she wanted out but couldn't afford to leave!!?? Her desperation put her and her child in a vulnerable situation. I'm sure her lack of resources made her the perfect target fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 10:32 PM
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She probably didn't even lie, might not have discloused that information yet. Dating can be expensive, I cannot imagine some broke ass dusty asking me to pay for a date after the fact. If you can't afford to spend some $ and be out while searching for the one don't date. It's like going to a bar when you can't afford to tip, stay home bro!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 01:08 AM
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Read books like "How to Win Friends and Influence People", learn how to befriend people and have more resilience for the bullies in the world. Know you are capable of making friends in all places and getting good grades so do that. Just because your mom and sister and mean and you get bullied at school this does not mean you are not amazing and worthy of respect. Just because your father is a bum doesn't mean you need to be, you are not him and don't need to be ashamed of his association. Money …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 02:53 PM
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I'm glad you got away from him, it's so incredible how when we become less accepting of BS behavior that behavior can magically change, his schedule suddenly opened up? Its a miracle. With my LV ex I would break up with him for something and he'd say oh no, I'm fixing this/ doing this right now (one example is that I begged for months to skype while long distance and he kept putting it off + he was mean so I had nothing to look forward to and cried all the time). Then he'd be somewhat nice for a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 02:45 PM
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​ I met a guy at a party when I was a LVW and we did everything but have sex, we met up a couple more times and I never heard from him again. I moved on with my life and moved to another city, I KID YOU NOT ,10 yes TEN years later this fool hits up my Instagram. I recognized his name but had forgotten about him, he was ignorant AF too because he said that he saw me at a party the night before and wanted to see me again. I did write him back saying it must have been some other black woman because…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 02:32 PM
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Maddie wouldn't enter the show for a chance of love, she's on to grow her social media account. I was never able to watch that trash because of all the sex, it's gross. A lot of contestants had to quit jobs to go on the show for up to 3 months and they have to pay for their own wardrobe and makeup. Some have gone broke buying new wardrobes, why would anyone take it seriously?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 03:37 AM
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Thank you so much for this I 100% agree with you. I would like to use kinder language in the future so I don't trigger anyone who may be insecure talking about weight; there is absolutely nothing wrong with me wanting to wait until I've worked on my body and mind to date. Then comments telling me I was obsessive and stuff rolled off my back but most of those comments were respectful. I do think that we need to be open to conversations regarding looks because they actually matter to a large exten…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 03:10 AM
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I live in Montana now, I suggest you give MT a chance, I don't drive so this is not a good area for me, I need to Uber to work. Haven't lived in PDX for years but left at the right time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 01:10 AM
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Thank you so very much for this. I love everything you said and will work on this <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 04:30 AM
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Thank you so much for this, I read your comment a few times & I am so happy I shared my experience, it has inspired me to glow up and work on my self esteem. I'm having dinner with some lovely people this weekend so hopefully I can start building that support network. Ideally I'd start dating as soon as I saved up enough to move from where I currently live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 04:25 AM
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I think this can be healthy as long as it doesn't lead to avoidance of real life dating. I've been watching more romance films and looking for romance books to keep the idea of romance alive in my mind, I read Brigerton #1 and found it swoon worthy, the show was nice. I can watch any K Drama and swoon over the love interest, fantasize about those men but once the episode's over I'm not thinking about it again. I've had a few long time celebrity crushes based on looks alone and during dry spells …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 02:11 AM
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I nearly forgot, when I was in college I befriended a couple named Fernando and Fern lol. Fern and Fernando broke up and she moved away due to mental health issues. Now newly single Fernando decided to tell me that Fern was too big, I'm going to talk about appearance now cus I think it's relevant. Fern might have been a size 14 - 16, blonde bombshell and absolutely stunning, he was cheap beer in a can. He started to talk about how nice I looked and that he wanted to be with me while dating her. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 12:37 AM
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Excellent critique and very interesting, I didn't know the writer was a short man and while overall the film is enjoyable and passes the Bechdel test it is not without fault. In the first film Jodi is ridiculed for her height and it makes her insecure. Then a gorgeous foreign exchange student from Sweden arrives named Stig, he likes Jodi. The hot guy turns into a jerk and Jodi realizing she doesn't need a man accepts a gift from Jack (6 inch? heels) which I honestly thought was real nice. She wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 12:23 AM
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Thanks so much! I really appreciate your comment <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:34 AM
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Former pickme here, I was raised to believe I was not a prize and that men were. It took a lot for me to realize I had the potential to date well but even with my HV ex I had a hard time accepting that he bought meals w/o feeling weird because of how I was raised. I'll get over it. I never shamed other women who had better standards though. I convinced a sexist creep I knew to drop the 50/50 argument with the following. Most women earn less than male counterparts due to the pay gap + there is ex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:21 AM
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I didn't remove anything, I added. "Every body is a beach body" is a common phrase in the body + community and not from a dove ad, try googling that. Also not tough love, my post had several likes but I did want to update to inform NO HARM intended if my body image concerns were harming others. If me wanting to get back to my original size offends anyone that's on them. On my end you seem defensive but it does not matter. Fortunately this page is here so we can all grow together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 01:37 AM
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Sorry, I did not mean to imply women of all sizes weren't deserving, for me I do not want to date when not comfy in my skin. I agree with what you said, I haven't had any male friends for a long time. I went to work and told a married HVM co worker what happened and he said that for men when they hear no they think maybe & that I gave him false hope when I shared my #. I will not make that mistake again. I need to get to a place of self love to level up for me. I get so lazy when I think to do i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 01:03 AM
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Before I learned about HVM and everything else I naturally was queen pick me and tried to always play wifey and look amazing. My weight was not something I had to work on but everything else I did. I'm also very girly so I would do the other stuff anyway. Maybe this is why I was having difficulty motivating myself. How did you glow up for yourself? That's what I want to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 12:50 AM
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Being curvy is also awesome, I've been a flat chested size 2 most of my life and just want to feel comfortable in my skin. Now I'm a flat size 8, I wear flattering clothes but don't feel good. I could never be a size 0 physically and could never have a bodacious body without plastic surgery, want MY body back healthy. I gained weight in the past 2 years in an unhealthy way, not obsessed with unhealthy weight loss or anything, simply want a body back that I feel flatters the assets I have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 12:48 AM
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Yep that is what I meant. I also said mentally, having been isolated for awhile now I'd like a life before I start dating too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 12:33 AM
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Every body is a beach body and all that jazz, I personally don't feel attractive and don't want to date in my body, it is my body and my preference. Plenty of people are date-able and down to date of all sizes, I'm not anti woman or anti man I am anti ME dating when I don't feel comfortable in my own skin. Please do not make grandiose statements and sweeping generalizations about me or my post. I said "I'm not in a position to date HVM mentally or physically" I did not say women of a certain siz…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 12:32 AM
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A lot of psychos are on dating apps specifically POF. "The shopping cart" serial killer was recently arrested for killing two women but they believe he killed 5, all of the women he met on Plenty of Fish which is notoriously creepy, I used that site twice in the past, both times I didn't even finish my profile or upload a picture when dozens of men started flooding my inbox with love bomb messages. I deleted the profile right after, CL is also very bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 01:20 AM
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Before I knew better I dated two narcissists, they both did several things from this list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 04:06 PM
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Nay. She has followed White supremacists and is generally problematic https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z_A4jHZzm8k&ab_channel=FundieFridays
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/22 02:34 PM
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100% I'm a very attractive lady in my 30's, I eat well exercise daily and put in a lot of effort to look younger than I am. I'm taller than average, attractive and intelligent so why should I want anything less than what I offer? My last two boyfriends were 6'3 and 6'4 and in shape. I don't want to date someone unsuccessful or unattractive, I don't want a micro penis or pencil dick. If that makes me shallow that's cool, nobody else is in my body though so nobody else has a say in who I choose to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 10:16 AM
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