mytrpaway Archive

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1	Feeling Stuck on Self Improvement Fitness. I used to be very fit ... Now, I’m so busy with school that I don’t have much time to work out. Everyone makes time for their priorities. If time is truly a huge concern then anaerobic, explosive exercises will help you - think burpees. I've also had great experience with jumping rope. How can I become more relaxed at dances, and what are some general tips for being better at dancing? Dancing is a technical skill, much like any other physical activity. It's relatively straightforward to…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/10/18 08:22 AM
6	I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship? was taught to debate at the dinner table like a kennedy since I was a kid. It’s hard for me to keep my mouth shut when I feel something is unjust or know something is false. I used to believe that I had a duty to convince people of the truth if they had false beliefs. I would argue with other people all the time and generally be quite abrasive. One day, I read "how to make friends and influence people". There is a passage in that book where the author says something along the lines of: the purpo…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/09/18 02:11 PM
2	“Men are intimidates by intelligence in women” I don’t believe this statement to be true, that men are intimidated by smart women. I think there is overwhelming evidence that romantic love of men by women is predicated on a foundation of respect. It is sometimes the case that women can't respect men who are less than them in some particular way. Some women can't respect men who are shorter than them. Some women can't respect men who make less money than them. Some women can't respect men who are physically weaker than them. Some women can't …	/r/RedPillWomen	18/04/18 12:31 AM
2	Back to the basic - value Just felt that door slamming shut in my face This is part of the reason all of the RP subreddits really push fitness as the first thing, and (one of the) most important things to work on. If you assume that fit people mate assortatively, being fit gets you past one of the most restrictive filters in the modern dating scene.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/18 05:59 PM
4	Back to the basic - value Just to put some numbers on this: taller than me 90-95 % of men are taller than the median woman [0] has better education than me About 30% of men have a bachelor's degree. [1] earns more than I will 15.8% of men earn 100k/year or more. This number probably over estimates the population of eligible men as the distribution is probably heavily skewed towards older men.[2] and is fit 2.7% of people are fit, don't smoke and have a healthy diet [3]. While that is more restrictive than your exact requ…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/18 10:02 AM
1	What if your bf made you sign a contract before moving in together? I’m from Colorado here there is no set time limits it’s totally up for a judge to decide. Not quite. The Lucero case outlines the basic criteria for a common law marriage in Colorado. The couple must: Cohabitate, Mutually agree to be married, and Openly hold themselves out to the public as married. https://www.colorado-family-law.com/common-law-marriage/colorado-common-law-marriage-requirements.htm	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/18 08:53 AM
2	Advice Needed: Should I have Emergency Asset(s)? Other posters have addressed the relationship side of your question. They insist that I should at least have an asset of my own (eg:house) Do you have trouble saving money or investing? Houses are ok investments, but they are relatively high maintenance. I think some people see houses as good investments because, once you sign the mortgage, you are forced to invest. If you have the discipline to save, I would suggest low cost index mutual funds instead. They have a higher/comparable expected rat…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/04/18 12:33 AM
2	Something so obvious that I only realized recently A digression from the discussion about going to the gym: Most of the effort in visible abs is losing weight, not building muscle. 6-pack abs just means someone has discipline, which one can presumably cultivate and employ with a minimum of (wasted) time. In your defense, 6-pack abs is probably pretty highly correlated with big arms and legs, which definitely require gym work to cultivate. I also did a quick google search to see what's out there in terms of studies. I only found 2 [0][1], both of…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/03/18 10:13 PM
1	Should your man know your cycle? tracking your cycle is a very easy way to end up pregnant. Most sex ed programs I know about speak poorly about pulling out or the rhythm method, but they are almost as effective as condoms. https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2014/09/14/sunday-review/unplanned-pregnancies.html	/r/RedPillWomen	12/03/18 07:20 PM
2	Transactional vs. Validational Sex Basically he feels that he was "conned" (his word) into the marriage, saying that he wouldn't have even dated me, let alone married me, if he'd known what he knows now. His view of me has been irreparably changed and he no longer sees me "as someone worthy of being [his] wife". (quoting him here... fucking prick) Beyond the sexual aspect, he says he no longer trusts me because I "kept something this big" from him our whole relationship. Nothing I could do or say could convince him that these wer…	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/03/18 11:16 PM
13	Explaining traditional relationship to BPers I personally believe that it's a complete waste of time trying to argue with other people. There's essentially no chance at all that I haven't heard all of the arguments they'll make before they make them (in the context of TRP). Any arguments I make will sound weird and sexist enough that there's little chance I convince them. I've gotten a ton of milage out of just not arguing with people. "Doesn't he help you around the house?" Nope! "My husband washes dishes, does laundry, I couldn't have do…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/18 12:06 AM
10	Does Love exists for an unattractive woman? I've became more and more conscious about the way I look and I obsess over any imperfection One thing you can do here that's practical is to focus on long-term difficult physical improvement. Everyone wants to look hot, no one wants to go to the gym. You can use a strong work ethic to help you stand out from the crowd. There are lots of people with lots of opinions on what exactly this means - pick one that you like and stick with it. I personally like paleo and macro lifts (squats/deadlifts). I…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/02/18 06:00 PM
5	Living together vs living apart If you're splitting the rent and bills equally, then both are getting equal benefit right? One additional cost is time. If one part of the couple is spending time vetting the other for marriage, while the other part of the couple is content with the relationship, then in a sense there is an unequal benefit. One person is living in their ideal relationships state. One person is paying time for a result that will never materialize. If the guy is paying most or all of the housing/living costs, then…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/02/18 10:25 AM
8	The Marriage Game Cohabitation as well, though it can be tempered by the laws in your area. Especially if you live in Canada.	/r/TheRedPill	03/02/18 10:56 AM
2	How to divorce your wife So I have already made it clear that you DO NOT WANT TO BE SEEING A LAWYER. One small caveat: it might be worth it to pay for an hour of a lawyer's time to get an idea of what the expected result of a contentious divorce would be. This may give you a better idea (when you're negotiating) of what to push back on and what to let slide.	/r/MarriedRedPill	24/01/18 09:12 AM
1	Best Laura Doyle Book? You might get better answers on one of the female oriented subs.	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/12/17 03:37 AM
1	Why Marriage - Part 1 - Finances Money can be inherited by a LTR partner but a portion will be lost to taxation. The current basic exclusion amount for gifts is $5,490,000. What you say is technically true, but applies to very few people.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/12/17 03:36 AM
2	Do men hit "the wall" too? My understanding of "the wall" is that it refers to the interaction between average male and female smv over time. If you refer to one of the classic graphs, "the wall" corresponds to the age when the smv ratio between male and female peers flips - right around 30. If you agree with that definition of "the wall", there is no wall for men - just a gradual decline into old age for both sexes.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/10/17 01:10 PM
5	Grew up a tomboy, trying to adjust Human hair grows about 6 inches every year. Just make sure you take care of your hair, and it'll grow out much faster than you expect.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/10/17 11:18 PM
3	[FR] So my wife actually does have a hamster! But at what point isn't it It helps if you really spell out what a covert contract is. A covert contract is an agreement between two people where one of them doesn't know about the agreement. "I'll become a better person so my wife will sleep with me" is a covert contract. "I'll become a better person so that I will be the kind of person people want to sleep with" is not a covert contract.	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/08/16 04:38 AM
7	Wow. My Red Pill Experience It was suggested that I repost this here, so here goes: I stumbled on the Red Pill thanks to Amazon's habit of recommending books based on your current selection. I bought a book called No More Mr Nice Guy after getting tired of years of duty sex despite doing literally everything in my power to make my wife happy. Amazon recommended The Rational Male, and the rest is history. I grew up poor, somewhat skinny, and socially awkward - lots of reasons to be introverted and lacking self esteem. I was…	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/07/16 02:55 AM
1	What's with all that meditation "brabble" lately ? - my first contribution There are many kinds of meditation. I've only really done Vipassana meditation. First of all, it was continuously stressed during our instruction that meditation should be practical - that it should have a benefit during everyday life and that if it didn't, that there was something wrong. The basic theory behind Vipassana meditation is that much of the pain and dissatisfaction from life is caused by a feedback loop between one's emotions and one's actions. This feedback look is often started by …	/r/TheRedPill	19/05/16 10:10 AM
7	"13 Men Reveal Their Thoughts About Marrying Their Long-term Girlfriends." Buckle up. Step 1 is probably to not live in a community property state.	/r/TheRedPill	24/09/15 05:55 AM
3	Woman Calls Me A Jerk! Then Proceeds To Fuck Me and Tell Me About Her Nice Guy Orbiter Who She Refused To Bang. Please do your homework. That being said, most of the issues around consent and recording only have to do with audio recording, not video.	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/15 06:42 AM
2	"If you don't make it sting a little, they won't respect you." The idea is not that you have to make everything painful. Instead, it is that if you want to let other people know you are capable of something you need to let enough of that capability shine through that they can correctly judge you.	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/15 08:16 AM
2	'Like a Girl,' or how biological differences between the sexes ought to be ignored. The throwing gap has been researched for more than half a century, and the results have been consistent. According to Jerry Thomas, dean of the College of Education at the University of North Texas in Denton, who did the throwing research Hyde cites in her paper, “The overhand throwing gap, beginning at 4 years of age, is three times the difference of any other motor task, and it just gets bigger across age. By 18, there’s hardly any overlap in the distribution: Nearly every boy by age 15 throws…	/r/TheRedPill	03/02/15 05:53 AM