myupvoterforme Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
457	"The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative view	Red Pill Theory	myupvoterforme	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/15 01:02 PM

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1	"The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative view In which case I hope the operation goes well!	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/15 12:09 PM
1	"The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative view Thank you for your contribution.	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/15 12:07 PM
1	"The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative view No one is saying a 5/10 man can raise himself to be a 9/10 man. All I have ever argued is that a man should push to be the best he can be and surpass the expectations of as many women as possible.	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/15 12:05 PM
1	"The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative view That seems a little radical. I've never met a balding guy who couldn't cut his losses and just shave everything off. Jaw surgery is even more radical. How weak/shallow is your jaw?	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/15 11:24 AM
1	"The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative view If a 6/10 woman is sleeping with a 9/10 man then they are, by definition, in each others leagues. You are correct to point out that societal conditioning has skewed the ratings. That is the world we now live in. A 6/10 woman is equal to a 9/10 man. However illogical to us this seems, this is now the reality. It is a mans responsibility to be the best he can be and reap the benefits. You do this, or remain average and get rejected by women who used to be in your league but are no longer because y…	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/15 11:00 AM
1	"The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative view I re-read. You still seem a bit bitter.	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/15 09:37 AM
1	"The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative view I'm not ashamed to say I enjoy being desired by women. I'm sure your life is extremely challenging and rewarding.	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/15 08:17 AM
2	"The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative view Replace the word fault with responsibility. It is your responsibility to be in the top 10%.	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/15 08:13 AM
1	"The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative view If you wish. I'm not going to deny that I enjoy being desired by women and sleeping with women who really want to sleep with me. This is a perfectly natural feeling and I'm sure many TRPers feel the same.	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/15 08:05 AM
1	"The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative view ^ Case in point. Bitterness 101.	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/15 07:46 AM
2	"The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative view Emotional investment is not bad if the person investing in has proven themselves worthy i.e. when you've established that they're faithful and committed to you. Emotional investment is bad if you commit too early. Spinning plates is great. Having consensual sex with multiple women without having to commit to any of them because you have made it clear you are not exclusive. What's not to love? I'm not sure what you mean when you say "Why would I do something that I'd be upset about if the shoe wa…	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/15 10:42 PM
1	"The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative view Agreed! I thought you wouldn't disagree. I just wanted to make the distinction very clear. You're post still offers invaluable advice!	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/15 10:03 PM
2	"The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative view Disagree. There are, of course, exceptions to what I'm about to say and I understand that all women have the propensity to act as you say but.... The offer of friendship by a women in replace of sex is not some thinly veiled attempt to reduce you to the role of a servant. That sounds like paranoid talk. In the majority of cases women will offer friendship, as you say, as a pleasantry and because it's the most they're willing to offer you. From my experience most women don't actually mind if you …	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/15 07:22 PM
3	"The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative view This is a fair criticism. But I think it can be reconciled by a change in wording and clarification on my part. Even if you are simply not her type, which is quite possible, I maintain that it's your fault she's rejected your sexual advances. You have chosen to come across the way you do i.e. not a stoner. It is not her fault she likes stoners. When I use the word "fault" it doesn't necessarily imply you've done anything wrong. I hope that makes sense.	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/15 06:14 PM
5	"The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative view I'm delighted for you. I hope for your sake what you've said is more than empty rhetoric.	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/15 05:59 PM
0	"The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative view This is a perfectly valid line of reasoning. If that's your prerogative then go MGTOW and stay that way indefinitely.	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/15 05:40 PM
3	"The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative view That personal preference I suppose. In my experience friendship groups of girls all tend to go for the same type guys. Meaning if you're not good enough for one of them you're probably not good enough for the others. Depends how friendly you intend to get. Stay as amicable acquaintances? Sure. That way you're invited to parties and things. Stay as actual friends who spend time hanging out together? No way I'm wasting my time doing that.	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/15 05:18 PM
1	"The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative view I am not a young man anymore, but thank you. I'm unconvinced by anything you've said. I'm not even sure I understand exactly what your point is. Could you clarify? As far as I am concerned, you were rejected by several women when you were younger because you were not up to their standards. It was your fault. Perhaps you weren't fit enough? Rich enough? Charming enough? Funny enough? Stable enough? I don't know why, but you failed. To argue otherwise is hamstering. They have come back to you now …	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/15 04:33 PM
0	"The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative view Agreed, his post was aimed at newbies. But the fact remains being insulted insinuates blame and bitterness. It's nigh on impossible to separate yourself from there feelings when being insulted. All it does is leave room in the mans mind to hamster that perhaps "It's not him, it's her". I don't doubt OPs intentions, I just think it was an over simplistic message with counterproductive repercussions.	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/15 04:16 PM
30	"The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative view Fair point. But pushing yourself to become a better man certainly narrows this illogical margin, no doubt.	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/15 02:37 PM
15	"The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative view You haven't been harsh or attacked me at all. I use the term "unworthy" from the women's perspective. The man in question is not worthy of a sexual relationship with herself, for whatever reason that may be. I, personally, am not calling anyone unworthy. I should have made that clearer. I'd agree with your definition of friendzone, but I think the general TRP consensus is that it's not possible for men and women to be in purely platonic relationships. That's a whole other debate that I'm not int…	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/15 02:36 PM
15	Game Cheat Sheet Good list. Only one criticism. talk louder, then louder than that Far, far too simplistic. If your goal is simply to talk louder than everyone else you end up looking like a moron. How loud your voice should be should contrast with how loud everyone else's voices are. If everybody around you is quiet/normal, then you should talk slightly louder than the rest. If everyone around you is louder/shouting then, providing there are spaces in the conversation and people are actually listening to you, y…	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/15 10:37 PM