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Social anxiety =/= introversion. Everyone has both introverted and extroverted qualities. Being introverted in the most basic sense means that social interaction uses more of our energy which we recoup by relaxing in solitude. Extroverts gain energy by being social and have to expend energy to accomplish more solitary tasks. Anecdote time: at my job I am extremely extroverted. Networking, joining group projects and volunteering for tasks that will build my skillset. At the end of my work day I g…
/r/askTRP01/10/15 08:00 PM
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Yes to which she replied "oh I can definitely behave!"
/r/askTRP26/09/15 02:13 PM
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Very well could be. I just found TRP back in may. I'm freshly out of a 4 year LTR and before I unplugged I basically went from LTR to LTR so I'm pretty inexperienced in this area. She did give her specific issues for why she is busy saturday and sunday and her. She was very enthusiastic when I told her she would have to behave if she wants to go on an adventure and when i told her to send me a picture to add to her contact entry she obeyed immediately so it does not seem like she is being flaky.…
/r/askTRP26/09/15 01:00 AM
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Check out this video : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xbp6umQT58A Stefan is pretty RP though always take anything said by a guy in front of an audience with a grain of salt. This is pretty much a more detailed explanation of your analysis.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 01:36 AM
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That is really insightful, I never considered that she WANTED to be mad. It makes sense though.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 06:24 PM
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I'm not letting anyone tell me how to feel. I was ranting about the experience and others decided to add their input/opinions. Its interesting to see other peoples interpretations and how they would have responded.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 08:10 PM
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OK I did a poor job with the time explanation, I was on mobile and kind of in a foul mood and not thinking clearly. My current relationship will be 2 years married in September, together for 6 years total so we dated for 4 years before getting married. My first marriage was right out of highschool before I shipped off for AIT training in another state and I was divorced before I was 21.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 06:35 PM
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No prenup and as far as marrying her after the fight, at the time my mother lived with me ( she tends to get passed between myself and my two sisters because she has a personality that is hard to deal with for long periods of time) I was sick on the couch with the flu and my mother and girlfriend had been butting heads over who the women of the house was. My mother instigated the fight but my girlfriend lost her temper and approached my mother who then felt the need to "defend" herself. That sit…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 04:46 PM
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You are right. The fault is with me and I could have changed the outcome had I acted differently. This does not change the fact that her behavior was selfish and I am having a hard time being OK with that level of selfishness in my life in the form of someone I am supposed to love.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 03:35 PM
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Yes I have learned that lesson the hard way but it doesn't take away from the fact that she acted so selfishly.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 03:26 PM
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Yeah I left it pretty vague. My sister is not a full time care giver its just my mother is on disability and lives with her. She was originally going to go on vacation but got sick the day before. And decided against travel. We can't set up a care plan because she is not to the point where we can step in and make those types of decisions on her behalf. She is still cognizant and able to make her own decisions. She is not prone to falls per set but in this instant she became light headed and lost…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 05:42 AM
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This is great advice it honestly is. The only problem that I have with it is that I feel like I've been sold a bill of goods and I honestly don't know if its worth it to me to put that much effort into stabilizing the relationship. I don't feel like being in any type of committed long term relationship is worth the vast amount of energy and stress. I have made my happiness dependent on another person for too long when in reality I should be finding happiness in myself. Sure she can change, under…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 05:34 AM
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Can you expand on that suggestion? It is rather vague and I am at a point where I could use some suggestions from others who have went through it. Common pitfalls to avoid and such.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 05:07 AM
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I'm trying to just focus on one task at a time. I joined a gym, found a workout plan that seems good. I've realized that there are things I want to do for myself that BP me just never cared about. BP me was only concerned with providing a good life for my wife and kids. Now I truly want to improve my life, for myself and the sake of my daughters. I've realized I want to travel, and take up rock climbing and learn to dance. I've realized there is so much more to life than sacrificing all my wants…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 03:57 AM
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