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Your assumption of these “chances” is simply wrong and anyone who runs in the same circles as these men knows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:18 AM
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This is a manosphere fantasy. Young women want and prefer young men. I do think that there are probably a good number of women in their 20s who have gone on a couple of dates with an older man once for the thrill, fun, and the man’s persistence on spending money. But it’s like a once, maybe twice and never again type of thing. We don’t take them seriously. There’s no actual social currency in dating a significantly older man compared to an attractive man of similar age. The most gold digging hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:08 AM
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Everywhere you go, there you are. If you want to change your life, you need to be proactive about it. Society making changes won’t solve the problem of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:28 PM
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Current meaning current relationship. Again, it’s not 1:1 and I’m not sure about trends when it actually comes to attractiveness and attractiveness alone. How a man feels about himself and how his life is going imo is the best determinant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:08 PM
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I have never seen this trend in real life. It has more to do with self-esteem. Men with more insecurities and chips on their shoulder tend to treat you the worst. A lot of attractive men who have been attractive all of their lives tend to be more secure with themselves and they are easier to deal with as a woman, especially as an attractive woman. If I had to rate which relationship was best to worst it would be: Above average man (current; no egos or insecurities) Below average man (used money …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:42 PM
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Haven’t you posted this same thread multiple times?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:26 PM
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You are actually VERY correct here. Any woman who has had a legit FWB and wasn’t using it as a way to slide into a relationship can tell you this. Men often think they can handle a woman who is on the same page with them in wanting a purely casual sex relationship but often they can’t. They start feeing rejected if you only hit them up for a booty call, get more possessive, and try to create more emotional attachments with you. This is why I’ll never believe a man who says sex is purely physical…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:13 AM
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crickets
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 12:21 AM
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If somehow every other attribute was hypothetically equal, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:23 AM
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Depends on face and overall physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:22 AM
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Threads like these are exactly what we mean when we say that this sub is full of social retards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:37 PM
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I never said STEM guys are generally bad prospects. But I tend to have a more front row seat to late bloomer men because I am in STEM.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:14 PM
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As a woman in STEM, you are honestly right on the money. More often than not these men aren’t going to be this magical “good guy” partner that just wants the opportunity to give love like a lot of men on here like to portray. These men tend to have serious chips on their shoulders and they definitely project that onto the woman with whom they finally start to become intimate. So it ends up that they aren’t exactly better prospects than a “Chad”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:14 AM
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Uh, it does. You aren’t my male equivalent. You’re a literal teenager. And if you are claiming the title of a virgin incel that young, no shade, but that angst is for sure apparent to people in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:22 AM
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It’s the truth. If you are a black guy in your 20s that fits everything I said but is still a virgin, you’re overrating your attractiveness or you don’t understand how socially deficient you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:16 AM
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Then you’re either unattractive or a loser….neither of which I am. I’m friends with my male equivalent in real life and they aren’t missing out on anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:13 AM
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It doesn’t really matter? In any major city with black women, my male equivalent would clean up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:39 AM
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America
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:35 AM
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Black
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:34 AM
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It would be easier because my community worships my male counterpart.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:32 AM
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I’m a tall, fit darkskin woman that’s pursuing a professional degree and is from a well-to-do background. I’m not a pessimistic, antisocial loner either. My male equivalent would have a grand ol’ time in the dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:20 AM
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Wow. You sound like an ex of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 11:57 PM
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Relaxed, confident, doesn’t take himself too seriously, knows how to read the room, has a “you win some, you lose some” attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:19 PM
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This is hilarious. Most men would actually be on homicide-suicide watch if this was an actual thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:52 AM
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This is such an uneducated take. Fiction has played a huge role in unraveling societal concerns, issues, and values throughout history.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:53 AM
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How do you figure that you are better? The market clearly disagrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:30 AM
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How you act platonically =/= how you act romantically. You have no clue how you will come off / act in a relationship until you are actually in one. It’s easier to mask negative traits/manifestations of low self-esteem / brokenness when you aren’t deeply intertwining yourself with another person. After all, most people are performing during interactions with the outside world. I dated a man exactly like this. One who was seen as a reserved nice guy by friends, including women who were the ones t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:18 AM
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It’s actually so fucking crazy. They’ve built a manifesto on this point that women need to lower their standards but…we clearly already have if we are readily messaging back men who we deemed as below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:11 AM
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What we fear is not rejection. Women DO realize that we would have a high “success rate” if we were to ask men out but we also know that it is because men are desperate for attention and sex. Most times the man will just go along with it for sex and remain lukewarm to the woman because it was not his own will that made their connection happen. A man approaching a woman confers something to her - he is genuinely interested in her, he is intentional about pursuing her, he put whatever insecurities…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:20 PM
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I actually agree with you but this dynamic is terrible and exhausting for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:40 PM
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You are correct. Women do not have “higher standards for looks” like what the men on this forum like to say. Women are not physically attracted to men less than they were before. Ask most older women and they will be the first to tell you that looks were not important in being with their husbands. Physical attraction was almost always irrelevant. But the husband provided security, resources, and reinforced status. Women don’t need to rely on men for survival nowadays and what you see now is simp…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:19 PM
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It is the very definition of controlling to do so. Luckily, many men realize that clothing is pretty irrelevant on the state of the relationship and aren’t so afraid of a women leaving/cheating on them like you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:13 PM
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I can tell that y’all haven’t dated much. Most people put their best foot forward in the first 6 months. Then their representative drops and the real them starts seeping out when they become more comfortable in their position, for the better or for worse. I have an ex who I was introduced to through a female gay friend. He was vouched for and everything. Heard that we had a lot of similarities and shared common interests. He came across as a pretty funny and friendly nerd. Slowly over the months…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:06 AM
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We aren’t men so we don’t think like men nor do we experience attraction like men. Just ACCEPT that and move on. This obsession with trying to breakdown female attraction and telling women that they don’t know about themselves is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 12:02 PM
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Do you go out and socialize? Do you have friends? Do you approach women? Or do you just do work-gym-home-repeat?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:34 AM
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I was a later than the norm virgin and I preferred 1. Virgin men of my age, especially when I look at this sub, are much more likely to have sexual hang ups, something I didn’t want to have to deal with. I wanted men who understood their own sensuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:25 AM
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A lot of this sub is copium on steroids. The matter of the fact is you cannot gamify life or interpersonal relationships. It eats up a lot of these men that people they see as flawed are living life better than themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:35 PM
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Eh, I feel like these women just haven’t taken the time to explore their bodies properly. A lot of women are still battling sexual repression and are uncomfortable with their vaginas due to societal programming. We weren’t created in a way where we need a machine to get us off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:24 PM
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I feel like these women just haven’t taken the time to explore their bodies properly. We weren’t created in a way that we need a machine to get us off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:22 PM
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“Good man” doesn’t mean good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:05 PM
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Who told you this? Or are you implying that the average woman isn’t sane?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:47 PM
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The act of foreplay (not just oral) reveals a lot about a man - his ability to listen and take feedback/constructive criticism, his open-mindedness, his sensuality, his attentiveness, his desire to please, etc. I get instantly turned off if the foreplay is terrible. I also won’t fuck you if you’re not into oral. Like my body just won’t be into it any more. Pleasurable sex will make someone much more attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:22 PM
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Do you have friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:35 PM
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Because society does not have a consistent definition of rape and there are many men who would not consider some of their past actions as falling within the category of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:33 PM
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“Self-identified” That’s even worse…and I can’t believe you would actually try to use that as a reliable statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:13 PM
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Only 6.5% of men have been CONVICTED of rape. With the way rapes are generally underreported and when they are actually reported rarely lead to actual conviction, this stat should actually worry you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:07 PM
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I find it so interesting how easily y’all believe your own lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:25 PM
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I have yet to get an answer on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:30 PM
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Because what they really mean is that women should pick them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:01 PM
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This, exactly this. The men on here are so out of touch. It’s odd to me that they think only “Chads” terrorize women or harbor negative relationship behaviors. I’ve dated a couple of men who leaned commitment-phobic. They were decent-looking average men but they weren’t slanging in pussy. Nor were they above my league. They had past / childhood shit to sort through which caused the emotionally unavailability. A lot of men, especially this younger generation, are just…lost, I think. That was a co…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:48 AM
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No. I actually go outside so I’m comparing this with the average woman on the street. They are all on average better looking than any of the women shown. The only one that I might consider average is example 2 but her styling is terrible/niche and would drop her down a couple points by most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:28 AM
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I think only the third guy represents the average person. The rest are below average for their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:57 AM
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Yes. It also doesn’t help that men are not as big on upkeep as women. But I think guys don’t understand that unattractive =/= “ugly” to many women. You guys get more upset by this than you should. It simply means we are not attracted to them and I really can’t imagine why I would even be attracted to most people on this Earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:09 AM
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This isn’t even an insult but an observation. The more and more I read this forum, the more I can’t help but think that a lot of you are somewhere along the spectrum. It would explain many of the posts…such as this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 11:06 PM
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Breakdowns like this are very autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:51 PM
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This is over-exaggerated. Go to social gathering places and you will see all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:53 PM
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There is. It’s called going outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:29 PM
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