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n00bDeveloper123/r/seduction14/02/18 08:59 PM
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Firstly, you need to stop blaming yourself. I’m pretty sure if you got as far as making out at her crib she’s, at the very least, attracted to your looks. She wouldn’t have swiped on you to begin with if she didn’t think you were cute. Secondly, it’s clear she’s going through something. Maybe her last relationship ended so badly she doesn’t feel safe around and/or trust men right now. This is definitely not about your looks man. She might hit you back up, you should leave yourself open to that.
/r/seduction27/10/21 04:01 PM
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Yeah man just try different things till you get it right. I’ve seen guys do that approach and smash the same night, and some guys come off as weird. Everyone’s game is different. Remember the more wrong things you do, the closer you get to the right thing. Then everything gets easier.
/r/seduction14/09/18 01:49 AM
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Yeah man if you think about it you’ll see the truth. It’s not like you have to stop hanging out with him just stop gaming with him. You guys can still chill, shoot the shit, drink or smoke or play video games or whatever you guys do. Just take a new approach to your game.
/r/seduction14/09/18 01:30 AM
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I had a friend like that. He had a larger than life personality and always tried to overshadow everyone in our group. He was AMOGing, and he did it because he wanted to feel like he was superior. Not that he meant any harm to anybody, he just wanted to feel good about himself. Unfortunately, being around those kind of guys can be toxic for your game. I only really started seeing success when I started going out alone or going out with different friends. The next time I went out with him, I had e…
/r/seduction14/09/18 01:10 AM
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Ah... not sure about that whole 4chan thing but sounds like you need new friends or to start going out alone... and also stop believing your ugly :/
/r/seduction14/09/18 12:55 AM
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What does any of that mean?
/r/seduction14/09/18 12:50 AM
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I speak and understand Arabic, and I’m sure a bunch of seditors would benefit from it.
/r/seduction15/08/18 07:22 AM
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Hey OP, I had some serious AA starting out. There’s a lot of the advice on here is about approaching like 50 women and that’s partially true. The more women you approach, the more rejection you are able to handle, and the easier it will be to approach. Although, this kind of advice didn’t help when I was starting out and made it sound even more intimidating. First thing I did was get my mentality right. I kept hesitating because I was afraid of rejection. But logically, how are you ever going to…
/r/seduction31/07/18 10:06 PM
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Hey man I appreciate all your advice. I wish I asked before, but I think the main problem is that I think about it too much beforehand. Trying to think of a routine or something, a quick fix for my anxiety, because I’m afraid of building the tension. But i guess that’s just something I need to get over like approaching. Next time, I’m going to try and go with a different mentality.
/r/seduction15/02/18 11:15 AM
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Hey thanks man, I appreciate the advice, I think I get what your trying to say. Another main problem of mine I think is I’m trying to plan it all out beforehand. There’s a gradual build up there.
/r/seduction15/02/18 10:36 AM
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Models by Mark Manson
/r/seduction11/02/18 12:03 AM
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Hmm.. I had the same problem, my main problem was that I was focused on the result more than the process. Seduction is a sequential set of steps, and you can’t skip any of them. Although when you get good at it, you can usually pull them off quicker. But be patient, and slowly develop. Listen to her content and stop thinking about how to seduce her. Getting to know her is and establishing an emotional connection is a key part of seduction. The only way you can do that is when you pay attention t…
/r/seduction10/02/18 03:09 AM
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No more mr.nice guy by Robert Glover The subtle art of not giving a f**k by Mark Manson Models Also by Mark Manson The Game by Neil Strauss Winning friends and influencing people by Dale Carnegie Peace is Every Step by Thich Nahn Hatt Just some books that put things in a different perspective for me personally
/r/seduction10/02/18 02:53 AM
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Bobby rio and rob judge
/r/seduction06/02/18 11:32 PM
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Hey man, still figuring this one out myself, but one thing I think made me a little better was reading a book called Magnetic Messaging. It breaks it down into a simple 3 step process that consists of: Sparking an emotion(usually a funny message) Creating a connection(relating to the girl on some common ground) Handle logistics (this is where you propose the date/hangout time/place) I would read the book, it’s pretty sweet and simple, but that’s the gist of it. You should be able to pull this of…
/r/seduction06/02/18 05:51 PM
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Yo coming from a fellow Muslim who’s not super practicing either. I think your best bet is to just approach and be a bit flirtatious. The hijab is a definite turn off, that’s why it’s there. :p Im a guy, but I know the pressure from family and society is often too much to go against it and take off your hijab. You’re definitely not alone in this though and many girls go through it. I’ve been friends with many girls that have had boyfriends despite this limitation. I think the most common things …
/r/seduction01/02/18 04:02 PM
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Go ahead man, complements are HUGE indicators of interest. If you take too long you risk losing that interest, since it’s a fleeting emotion.
/r/seduction05/01/18 12:18 PM
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Simple advice, but hard to follow, stop comparing yourself to others. If you do you put your self-worth in the hands of other people, when you should be the only one judging your self-worth. Read a book called the Subtle Art of Not Giving A F**k by Mark Manson. It might give you a new perspective on that kind of stuff.
/r/seduction08/12/17 03:59 AM
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Hey man I just wanted to say I liked your post a lot and I definitely agree that being disconnected socially amplifies approach anxiety. Being able to be social and building connections with people you don't know requires a certain degree of experience. I feel is almost like a muscle the more you do the more you work it out the easier it gets, and the less you work it out the harder it gets. I definitely disagree about your whole rant on us keeping a secret shame about our hobbies. I think hidin…
/r/seduction25/09/17 04:28 AM
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