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| 2 | Slept with 20 women in one year: Truing to deal with bad effectsI think it’s becoming more common among men to want to date closer to themselves in age. | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 02:37 AM |
| 5 | What activities and things can you do to become more masculine?Depends on the criteria for sparring. I do mostly bjj, so I spar with a fair amount of intensity every session. Right now that’s 6 days a week. In something like boxing I like spar super light once a week. It depends. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 03:45 AM |
| 7 | Asked a girl out and she said 'awww'I typically treat people differently depending on the social context and how they behave. I don’t roast all my bros the same way. I’m the same person, but I don’t even use the same accents or discuss the same subjects with different bros. | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 02:19 AM |
| 4 | “Do women like muscles?”This guy is just a dumbass, don’t worry about him. | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 03:41 AM |
| 6 | What behaviors or habits scream low self-esteem?“Be socially dominant bro,” uh wtf do you mean? “Describes normal human behavior” | /r/seduction | 06/04/21 07:20 PM |
| 3 | I slid in the dm's and got rejectedThat’s hasn’t been my experience, I get more attention now so I wouldn’t put much stock in it | /r/seduction | 21/03/21 11:12 PM |
| 3 | Becoming more physically attractive has made me realize I’m def gonna be single foreverI used to think that motivation and the drive to do stuff was simply like an ability I didn’t have or something that came from outside of me. That I was helpless to do basic tasks because of prior habits. That was a bunch of bullshit I told myself to excuse being lazy. You might be suffering from depression or something else. It’s okay to get professional help. | /r/seduction | 21/03/21 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Are women inherently more aware of male nature than men are of women’s?Yeah that’s the way to put it. Agents will try to go with the flow, and look after their own interests, and this often leads to powerful synergies. Like in a smaller level if I see all these fat fucks lined up 40 cars long at my local McDonald’s. If I decide to buy some shares with my Biden Bucks. I’m not conspiring, I’m seeing which way the money is going and casting my lot in with continued fatness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Are women inherently more aware of male nature than men are of women’s?Yeah I and most of my friends have different checklists for stuff like that. Sometimes they’re mutually exclusive and super toxic Madonna whore complex stuff. Sometimes it’s just “oh she’s missing the child/lifestyle/religiosity/whatever checkbox. Still gets me hot and heavy tho.” I think people of both genders are often that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Are women inherently more aware of male nature than men are of women’s?I don’t think fat acceptance is a McDonald’s conspiracy anymore than transgendered people are a niche clothing sizes conspiracy. They’re just a lot of fat people, and to them it’s easier to change their mind than change their habits. I’m not into actually fat chicks, and sometimes my female friends will rub me about it. Then I rib them about not dating short guys. The only chicks who complain about it to me are fat chicks who have a crush on me lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 04:01 PM |
| 15 | My tinder date turned out to be taller than me.A lot of girls also can’t tell height accurately. I know women who think I’m 5’4 and 6’. I’m 5’8. | /r/seduction | 06/03/21 03:26 PM |
| 1 | While you’re at home sulking, the woman of your dreams is building a well rounded life. Make sure you meet half way.Why are you being so fucking negative on a self help board? Read the room. | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 07:08 PM |
| 2 | What if the Difference was 15KGI think we agree. Until I was 27 I was pretty strictly a couch potato, very little meaningful physical activity. Then I started getting into combat sports and lifting weights, things I had always wanted to do since I was a kid "some day". After a couple years of someday being "soon" I just got into it. I'm in the best shape of my life, and I find my current hobbies at least as fun as video games, which I still play a bit but not like before. I look hugely different, I'm not an Instagram model, b… | /r/seduction | 26/10/20 08:00 PM |
| 2 | What if the Difference was 15KGIt's less about pure numbers of weight and more about general overall fitness. Which is something that must pf us can control barring some serious medical or lifestyle malady. | /r/seduction | 26/10/20 06:37 PM |
| 1 | The women's fat positivity movement must be stoppedYeah I don't get their point. You're supposed to catcall and heckle fat people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/20 04:31 AM |
| 4 | What’s your opinion on approaching girls at the gym?Yeah, I get where he's coming from. And I dont think it's wrong for chicks to shoot their shots. I usually like it and I think they should do it more. But it's shitty advice to pretend that any woman could just bag any guy she wants by walking up to him at the gym. That's not reality, it makes all these incels feel specially persecuted, and it sets up all these normie chicks up for disappointment when they realize they have no game and many guys who are pro being approached just freeze up becaus… | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 03:59 PM |
| 9 | What’s your opinion on approaching girls at the gym?And yet I know plenty of men in real life who talk about how they find it awkward to be approached by women. When I'm at the gym, I mostly dont want to talk. I just want to do my sets and escape. Sometimes I'll see someone from work or the bjj gym and I nod to them, or say hi. But unless they initiate it I font try to stop and talk for more than like 15 seconds. I am flattered when people men or women want to talk to me for a bit, and I'm not rude so I'll humor the conversation. I wouldn't be an… | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 10:39 AM |
| 4 | Summary of Models by Mark MasonThat's also the whole ego vs no ego thing when it comes to self improvement in general. Ego can be toxic and entirely detrimental to self improvement, but if you really had no ego you would be trying to improve yourself, to do better. You'd just accept whatever came your way good and bad. | /r/seduction | 09/07/20 02:43 PM |
| 19 | The Easiest Hack To Get Anyone To Like YouI do this at Starbucks with my regulars and once I saw how well it worked, I started doing it in my personal life. It's legit. | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Do NOT waste time getting girls on social mediaI'm a barista, not super high social status. I live weights a bit, so I've upgraded from skinny fat to dad bod but im no fitness model. Worked on my social skills a bit. Started doing more social activities that didn't involve looking at a screen. Cultivating discipline by following through on hobbies , challenges, social calls even when I didn't feel like it. Having more fun, building confidence from small victories. Basically the vast majority of this self help stuff you see on here. You dont … | /r/seduction | 15/06/20 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Do NOT waste time getting girls on social mediaI'm chubby, bald, short, and broke..and I still do okay with women. Your negative self beliefs are more of a handicap than any card life has actually dealt you. | /r/seduction | 14/06/20 05:34 AM |
| 2 | [20M] Is suicide something I should seriously consider?You know a few young kids in their honeymoon. Lots of depressed, single, lonely people out there. But those qualities aren't always linked. | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 08:22 PM |
| 4 | Virgins are demonised, yet apparently most men can't get laid?I've talked about it with a few guys I know. But mostly I've talked about it with women when drinking. Ideas are spread out. But anecdotally the most common idea was they didn't get why guys didn't just go slam chicks out at will, especially handsome guys. | /r/seduction | 11/03/19 06:08 PM |
| 9 | Virgins are demonised, yet apparently most men can't get laid?I think the virgins suck thing is more like an older sorta trope, something I heard in high school, and something I hear people complaining about on here. I dont really hear about it in real life much, except some people not understanding how someone could be a virgin into their 20s. Not as haters, but mostly as a comment from attractive women. | /r/seduction | 11/03/19 10:27 AM |
| 2 | how did the gym and or weight loss/muscle gain change your dating life?Being in shape will get you more looks. Feeling good about yourself makes you a more pleasant person to be with. | /r/seduction | 02/03/19 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Start backing up all RSD youtube videos, another media scandel is about to hitI can't find the link, but it was on here a few days ago. Cross post from maybe r/news. Puas teach men how to tape. Or something. And I'll be damned, dude goes way past the cringey weird shit you sometimes see to undeniable rape. It was really weird that he didn't have any self awareness. | /r/seduction | 04/10/18 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Start backing up all RSD youtube videos, another media scandel is about to hitA few of them posted blogs where they talk about dealing with LMR by raping women. Something like that. | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 10:57 PM |
| 1 | How do I compete against guys who have a larger frame, more accomplished, and better looking than me?Pull guard, insta sweep for two points. Reach for the kimura, but don't commit. Just enough to get his arms moving, grab giftwrap, take the back for 4 points. Stall out the clock. 6-0 easy peasy. | /r/seduction | 22/06/18 01:27 PM |
| 1 | I've worked on myself for months now, yet I feel like I am going backwardsI gravitate to partners with the same attributes, but it's good training to go with bigger and smaller people. I've trained with 260lb freak beasts men and 80 pound teenage girls. There's value in both | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 06:30 PM |
| 0 | Does anyone still ‘sarge’ anymore?I did while single, but not in daygame. I never went out to actively daygame. I only went out to expressly mack at night, otherwise I was just making on those who crossed my path. | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 04:23 AM |
| 3 | I'm a woman and I don't know how to flirthttps://youtu.be/vGIM6UySZM0 This is sorta my good to concise explanation to women who want to get put on the right track. | /r/seduction | 29/03/18 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Why does society condition men to be beta males instead of alpha males?Society needs more followers than leaders. It teaches people to follow the dotted line. That includes passive behaviours that some nerds would refer to as beta. This is somewhat cultural though. I know a lot of circles where the opposite is true. Personal, professional, etc. TBH those circles have a disportionate number of assholes in them. So, whatever. | /r/seduction | 25/12/17 06:51 PM |
| 2 | What are "normal" people doing differently?Most people glob onto the first aquintance that wants to hold hands with them . Most people are not in the dating scene. | /r/seduction | 16/10/17 01:42 PM |
| 0 | How do you be vulnerable <-> not reveal personal info, express sexual intent <-> be the prince charming/great catch, be fun-loving + always smiling <-> act uninterested/stoic all at once??Be Tony Stark. | /r/seduction | 12/11/16 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Friend zoned, is it permanent?Yeah it could be her legit not being sure. It could be her being sure she wants you to chase her, and her being a bit hard to get. It could just be a polite rejection. The only way to figure it out is to chase the booty. Which is why I say, keep chasing other chicks, and as soon as you stop having fun, stop chasing. If you get after it the right way, no harm no foul. But if you get careless, you can easily end up with a massive crush on a chick who won't get with you. That sucks. Don't do that. | /r/seduction | 31/08/16 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Friend zoned, is it permanent?I don't know she's sorta giving you the green light to chase her with "she doesn't wanna rule anything out and that anything can happen." But it's not the instant sort of slam dunk Seddit will tell you to pursue and it does look like the beginning of a lot of stories where a guy chases one chick forever to no avail. But I say get after the booty, while still chasing other chicks. Don't get obsessed, and as soon as it stops being fun, stop trying to hook up. | /r/seduction | 31/08/16 03:05 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid being needy.Krav is dope. But a little lifting can help you hit harder and look cooler. | /r/seduction | 16/08/16 04:14 PM |
| 1 | The Nice Guy: A form of disrespect?It's just a book you clown, and a short read at that. | /r/seduction | 14/08/16 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Something that often gets neglected in posts about text game: How do you text after you've already been out on a date?After a date. If I liked it. I'll send one pinging text within the next 24 hours to let them know. "I had a great time. We should do it again." Then go radio silent until I want to set up the next date. As time goes on I might text a bit more frequently. Ask her a question and have a short exchange if we haven't seen each other in a few weeks. Or just more normal texting habits in a steady relationship. | /r/seduction | 07/08/16 12:49 PM |
| 1 | How To Deal With Rejection - The Mindset To Never Getting Rejected AgainWithout watching the video I'm assuming it's about reframing girls not liking you. That she's not rejecting you and your value, she doesn't know you or had some external factor preventing her form liking you, that's it's not a judgement on your value, but a judgement of her situation. | /r/seduction | 06/08/16 09:28 PM |
| 3 | Asian man (32) seeking adviceYou're starting from square one. But look through the sidebar info. That should get your started. Essentially start dressing and presenting yourself better. Get in better shape. Work on your social skills, figure out something that is fun and social where women go, go there. And become confident. It's simple but not easy. Like diet and exercise. That's what works. Read the side bar. Your obstacles are speed bumps not road blocks. Have fun. | /r/seduction | 06/08/16 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Wearing lifts in the club makes me feel bad about my height.Just be comfortable with who you are. Shorter guys still pull. Wearing lifts is like a guy wearing a toupee, or a chick in a push up bra. You can wear it if you want, but you should just own your identity. | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 03:21 AM |
| 1 | What hobbies/activities helped you imrprove your confidence and game beside pickup?One thing that helped me a bit was martial arts classes. The classes have a decent amount of women, who you'll end up doing drills and bullshitting with. But mostly it helped me in the sense that for an hour or so you're doing all this physical activity, putting your hands on a bunch of different relative strangers, and getting a bit knocked around. By the time I come out I feel like a million bucks, just a natural high. I'm more alert, energized, and relaxed. Going out to a bar or socializing r… | /r/seduction | 29/07/16 06:19 PM |
| 1 | what do youse mean by teasing? how do i tease? examples?Essentially busting their balls. Not like you do with your bros, don't say "Why you wanna blow me fag?," then put them in a headlock. That won't play with most chicks. But do joke on them a bit in good faith, while smiling, and not trying to hurt their feelings. If you guys are talking about shows "Oh you like Dr Who? I'm sorry but I just don't think we can be friends anymore." If you're talking to one girl in a set of coworkers "So you're the one they had to drag you out right? 'Poor Sally does… | /r/seduction | 29/07/16 04:54 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys say after the "you are funny!" ??I alternate between a simple "I know," and the occasional "I know, I'm pretty great." | /r/seduction | 25/07/16 01:56 AM |
| 1 | to anyone saying this stuff is easy, it's the hardest thing you'll ever fucking doThis is all good advice. But also consider that if you're getting burnt out because of your outcome dependence, and it's hurting your game. You might want to take a break rather than powering through. If you were on a workout regimen, and your shoulder really hurt. Would you just keep working around it, while it went back and forth between almost getting better and then really hurt again, or would you take off a week and see if it recovered? Honestly that's up to you to answer. You might also wa… | /r/seduction | 25/07/16 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Are there any books on this?Lots of anecdotal advice, but nothing peer review. What typically works best is dates where there is some sort of physical activity and physical closeness. Get the juices flowing from go cart racing, be close enough to touch her by dancing. Those dates are consistently better than movie and dinner dates. But no one sat down and wrote down the data for a book. Though that is the agreed upon advice in the community. | /r/seduction | 24/07/16 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Obsessed. Using sex for validation. Can't focus.I've found that the more confident I feel/act generally the more people get along with me. If people don't like it, they've never told me. When they comment on it to me explicitly, it's usually either women telling me I'm full of myself while laughing, or older guys busting my chops for being a braggart. I dunno if I've never really had a hater problem because I'm also really friendly so it doesn't come across as a hostile arrogance, or if my haters are just silent. Cocky funny has always worked… | /r/seduction | 24/07/16 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Excluding physical things like working out and wearing better clothes, how do you "work on yourself" to become more dateable?Start living a more attractive lifestyle. The type of life that a relationship would complement, and not complete. So get some cool hobbies. | /r/seduction | 21/07/16 08:57 AM |
| 1 | I MADE IT and YOU WILL TOO !The bulk of the article acts as if this is a crush and not a long term relationship, because that's the majority of people who suffer from oneitis. But the effect is the same. You have built up a prior relationship or person to be this thing that no new experience can compete with "she was just better and more interesting than everyone i meet," is text book oneitis. This sense of nostalgia, that this was young love, and now you're with all these older chicks and it'll never be the same. Well, it… | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 06:52 AM |
| 1 | I MADE IT and YOU WILL TOO !http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2011/09/oneitis/all/1/ You got oneitis bro. | /r/seduction | 19/07/16 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Do I need to have a Facebook account? [23 M]Oh dope advice, I didn't even think of that awesome subterfuge. Do this if you get FB op. | /r/seduction | 06/07/16 06:19 AM |
| 4 | Do I need to have a Facebook account? [23 M]This, if you feel self conscious about it. Make a FB account, add a few coworkers and family members. And have one decent picture of your face so people recognize you. That way if people want to get at you, they can through the internet. But don't use it all the time, or constantly post retarded memes, or a bunch of pictures to prove how dope your life is. Just use it as one more avenue for people to reach out to you. If you're fucking with chicks who are into FB, they'll tag you into their self… | /r/seduction | 06/07/16 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Once I officially decide I like a girl I kind of self destruct. Not sure how I do this.I wish you could help you more brother. But it's something I'm personally struggling with myself. I do my best to prevent it. If I'm sending a text, I think about it over and over. Would I send this text with another girl? Or I see her hanging out, would I approach her immediately if she was another girl? Those aren't as hard, because you have time to process your course of action. Where I still fuck up is in the moment. It doesn't happen too much, because if I really like a girl or not, once I … | /r/seduction | 30/06/16 06:53 AM |
| 4 | Once I officially decide I like a girl I kind of self destruct. Not sure how I do this.I get what you mean. The way you are with girls you don't like as much is you. But you act differently with different people, and with women you really like you over invest and signal neediness. I can't give you any magic bullet advice except, pull back. When you find yourself tripping, and you're thinking about texting or whatever. Think twice and make sure this is a text you'd otherwise send. Escalate emotionally slower. Basically just be mindful to make sure that even if you're super duper in… | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Too unsocial for any of this.If you're just fine on the social skills, don't like doing cold approaches, and it's hard to find groups dedicated to your interests, but you are flirting with the right women who do come up. Then I'd say at the very least stay open to the women you are meeting in your life naturally, and interact with them the right way and see who is interested. There are women who like hitting the gym and reading books and watching tv. You not wanting to meet a whole bunch of randos and screen then, will make… | /r/seduction | 26/06/16 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Women and friends are coming on to me out of the blue... no idea why.Maybe you been in a good mood lately, and once the train started it just became a positive feedback loop. You were happy so you were more attractive and one fucked you, and they started talking about you, and you were fucking and more happy and so on. | /r/seduction | 25/06/16 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Too unsocial for any of this.Did you try flirting with these women who you were platonically interacting with? Were you looking for invitation signals? Have you tried changing the way you dress and carry yourself? You say that you have social skills that you use in like public speech or leadership positions. Being able to get a group of people on track, is not the same thing as being having fun with them. Now don't tell me you're too unsocial to try to have fun(flirting) with women, when you want to have fun with a woman(gi… | /r/seduction | 25/06/16 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Too unsocial for any of this.About rejection, I don't personally know you. But everyone who I did know who said that was wrong. When I asked for specifics they'd tell me stories where a woman was super interested and they didn't realize it or botched it in a way they didn't understand. Mistakes that were 100% fixable. They would either accept it and work to improve their social skills, or they would argue until they were blue in the face about how they were deformed or wrong in some unfixable way. The second group needed th… | /r/seduction | 24/06/16 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Why you absolutely must be a space alienNo problem, that guy has a lot of useful advice for women when it comes to dating. Good luck with your future adventures. | /r/seduction | 24/06/16 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Be an experienceThis, it's attractive when people are enjoying themselves. Let's say you like [WHATEVER], and she says "Really, I hate it," if you're just genuinely enthused and communicate that without being self conscious she's probably going to respond positively. It's a lot better than sheepishly backtracking. If you are unapologetically the best version of yourself, it makes it easier to run game, because mostly you don't have to do it actively. It's just being (the best version of) yourself. | /r/seduction | 23/06/16 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Too unsocial for any of this.The idea that you cannot find women, because none of them could be interested in you is a self limiting belief. The idea that you could never want to interact socially with larger groups is a self limiting belief. What are you the solitary activities that interest you? Reading books, watching Arnold movies, painting? There are lots of groups where enthusiasts of everything meet up and do talk about them. If talking with a few relative strangers about your shared love of a solitary activity, like… | /r/seduction | 23/06/16 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Too unsocial for any of this.I'd think you'd be a happier person if you found a girlfriend. I'd think improving social skills. Not in a leadership way, but in a screening and qualifying people for traits you find attractive way, is a positive life improvement. I think persuing what you want makes you a better person. Learning new skills, and enacting positive life changes are self improvement. You want to get a girlfriend, and you are open to some amounts of social contact. If you were a complete hermit you would be entirel… | /r/seduction | 22/06/16 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Too unsocial for any of this.I do. I love who I am, but I'm not the best me, and I want to be better. Maybe that means I should work on being more considerate, or maybe I should learn to do something I can't but always wanted to. Like a new language or musical instrument. That doesn't mean I'm a totally different person, that doesn't mean I'm rejecting my old self, or that I was wrong or deficient before. There's nothing wrong with desiring more out of life and going after it. That's fucking cool. Being your best self, and … | /r/seduction | 22/06/16 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Too unsocial for any of this.The reason people are responding negatively, is because you are down on yourself, when they try to help you or give you advice, you say yeah but and respond with a self limiting belief. It's like talking to a wall, and is incredibly emotionally draining, it's like trying to cheer up someone who is depressed. You say you don't like social activity, but want to socially interact with a woman aka have a girlfriend. We say gain social activities , you say you don't want to give up your current hobbi… | /r/seduction | 22/06/16 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Why you absolutely must be a space alienIt's no problem. I actually saw a video in between our posts aimed at women addressing this sort of situation. https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/videos/1205590086126726/ I can't speak for all guys, but I can say the advice, for me at least, is pretty on point. | /r/seduction | 22/06/16 02:17 AM |
| 2 | A girl happily tells you that she broke up with her boyfriendYeah could be a huge invitation signal. Could be random her happy she's single. If you're into it, get after it. | /r/seduction | 21/06/16 11:15 PM |
| 1 | how do I [20F] find some new way to seduce and initiate sex with my boyfriend?Be more of a tease. Flirt with him throughout the day and try to actively work on sexual tension. Initiate in new ways, give him a massage, start going down on him. Improve the quality of the sex, seem like you're into it. Lights on, make a show of taking off your clothes, light dirty talk, initiate changes in position, try new stuff, wrap your legs around him, try to work with his rhythm. Take better care of your appearance, get a more flattering haircut, and clothes. Maybe hit the gym a bit. H… | /r/seduction | 21/06/16 11:14 PM |
| 1 | It's the rejections you don't see coming that hurt the mostI did almost basically this. I was pretty sure I was doing good. And I wasn't, and being surprised by it made me feel a bit worse than I otherwise would. IE normally I wouldn't care after 15 seconds. | /r/seduction | 19/06/16 07:28 AM |
| 2 | What is going on when a black guy says he is not into black girls?Interesting fact about your friend, nothing for you to get worked up over personally though. If you're wondering why, did you ask him? Did he say he doesn't like dating black chicks because of how they act, or that he's not attracted to black chicks in general, or what? | /r/seduction | 17/06/16 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Why you absolutely must be a space alienWhat I've found is that if a woman is really upfront, and I haven't made up my mind about her yet specifically. I sometimes feel on the spot, and when I feel on the spot, I often reject them. I'm not in the mood for whatever reason. I'm not going to be a dick, but it does mean I'm going to be polite and not engage unless you keep at it. Most people are going to get discouraged and walk away from regardless of gender. But if I'm in a good mood, or I already like you. Great! It also helps if there… | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 05:00 AM |
| 1 | [FR] My crush approached me through FacebookI would assume you waited too long, or weren't a good kisser, or she wanted to keep fooling around for a bit before she got comfortable or changed her mind last second or whatever. | /r/seduction | 14/06/16 04:45 AM |
| 5 | [FR] My crush approached me through FacebookYou didn't fuck her, which is what she wanted. She wanted you to make moves, which you did at the very last second. Then you were super needy. If you want to keep being friends, take a little break from chilling with her. If you want to chase her, then good luck. You're in quite the hole. | /r/seduction | 14/06/16 04:01 AM |
| 10 | thoughts on keeping girls that rejected you as friends?There's nothing wrong with being friends with some chick who shot you down. As long as it's not going to bother you when she tells you about how she's fucking around with this other guy, who's like, so cool! | /r/seduction | 13/06/16 05:50 AM |
| 1 | How do you properly take compliments?You can also agree and amplify. But more or less just agree with them. I usually smirk and say something like. "I know, I'm pretty awesome/handsome/whatever." | /r/seduction | 13/06/16 05:36 AM |
| 1 | "And what about your girlfriend?" "Ooh crap!"This. The girls are interested, so they want to see if you're single and ask about your love life. A lot of times they won't say "Oh are you single?" They'll say "You must be a handful for your girlfriend." And yeah, sort out the whole girlfriend thing. Is it something you want to work on? Or are you not into long term stuff, or maybe it's just irreconcilable. Whatever it is, that seems to be the real issue. It's okay to flirt for fun. But you seem like you might be a little unhappy with your cu… | /r/seduction | 12/06/16 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Has failure with women made anyone else bitter and resentful?Talk to a mental health professional if you're feeling that much ongoing stress. | /r/seduction | 11/06/16 05:08 AM |
| 1 | [Question] How to get over disgust?This. The fact that you think "human dicks are more disgusting than anything you can see on a farm, even the intestines on the floor." Means you need to go talk to some pros to get your shit sorted out. | /r/seduction | 02/06/16 07:34 PM |
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