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Escalation & Calibrationn015y/r/seduction07/09/21 08:41 PM
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Question For Menn015y/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:27 AM
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Right on, I'll try to talk about that with her tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:02 AM
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That is the thing, she in general is not jealous and doesn't look at things this way. Maybe we just have incompatible views on relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:00 AM
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Very grateful I got some objective answers here, thanks guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:57 AM
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I feel like this is what I'm thinking too. I'm not 100% sure I ever said anything very specific like "If you ex shows up, never do this and this", but we set some general boundaries and she knows how I feel about this stuff. I don't think I can point fingers at every possible situation and outcome and say this is wrong, she needs to think for herself. In conclusion, I'll just communicate all of this and see where it goes, I'm 100% sure she'll just agree with whatever I have to say tho as she doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:57 AM
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Sorry mod, thanks for flagging
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:53 AM
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Because I'm scared to break up and regret it later probably hah
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:53 AM
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She did, I couldn't that night.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:51 AM
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She lives in a student accommodation, yesterday was a "holiday for students" so they ended up partying. I was invited too but couldn't come. This is in general a rare occasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:46 AM
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I think the last one is definitely key, the ones above are all checked and I'm very confident about it. I'm gonna try to talk it through and just see where it goes, because it is much deeper than this forsure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:45 AM
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I think this is the biggest problem, I just feel like I have to point to things and say THIS IS WRONG for her to be able to understand right from wrong instead of just her using her brain... because in the end, she always just agrees with me without sharing arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:41 AM
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Thanks for the comment man, I'm very aware of that but also open minded and pretty sure that both sides can give valid points and I'll just filter out the bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:37 AM
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It's more about losing trust that she shares the same values as me about this kinda stuff even though we agreed upon them earlier. My thinking is that she just agreed to whatever I said so she doesn't create conflict, and then didn't really care much about it later on (now).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:35 AM
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I'm in general a very very anxious and jealous person... I don't show it to her tho and control it as much as I can as 90% of the time I just have nothing to worry about. In this specific situation, I'm not jealous at all, in fact I know the guy from high school and am okay with him, but the act itself and the way she didn't really see anything wrong with being around the guy even though we set some boundaries earlier in the relationship is what worries me here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:33 AM
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True lol, it never does work does it 😂
/r/seduction08/09/21 01:26 PM
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Naah man, I mentally already moved on, but why not use her for practice at least and try to raise her interest? If it fails who cares, if I get a second date out of it that's fine but I have no expectations.
/r/seduction08/09/21 01:24 PM
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Definitely will. I'll update on what happened.
/r/seduction08/09/21 08:41 AM
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Cool, sounds good. I was gonna reply with something like "Just hmu when you're free" but this is better.
/r/seduction07/09/21 09:24 PM
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Lol obvious. I'm asking because this seems like a shit test, therefore I don't wanna seem to eager and available and hit her up and ask her again tomorrow. Or maybe I'm just overthinking? Lol
/r/seduction07/09/21 09:04 PM
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