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| 1 | I think I am going to die alone because I am uglyif you are ugly then im a fucking gargoyle bro | /r/seduction | 20/12/23 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Eastern Europe is so much better for dating than the west it’s crazyStopped reading after the first 3 words | /r/seduction | 19/09/23 10:35 PM |
| 1 | How do men who aren't on this sub get girls?yeah some people are just born with confidence and charisma. | /r/seduction | 01/09/23 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Take women off the pedestal and put yourself on the dammed thing insteadalright ill try to start celebrating the small wins and build off that. thanks | /r/seduction | 09/06/23 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Take women off the pedestal and put yourself on the dammed thing insteadthat is kind of you.. start small? | /r/seduction | 08/06/23 05:24 PM |
| 0 | Take women off the pedestal and put yourself on the dammed thing insteadand if you aren't good at anything?? | /r/seduction | 08/06/23 02:58 PM |
| 21 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?i assume im even less attractive than i think i am | /r/seduction | 23/05/23 03:19 PM |
| 6 | Having a mindset of gratitude is an underrated component of being attractiveis this really true? i dont even notice if people around me are positive or negative or how they feel aboyt themselves. how are you supposed to know that? | /r/seduction | 02/11/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Having a mindset of gratitude is an underrated component of being attractivehow is being happy about the bare minimum not cope? | /r/seduction | 02/11/22 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Having a mindset of gratitude is an underrated component of being attractivewhat things does it do | /r/seduction | 02/11/22 09:50 PM |
| -2 | Having a mindset of gratitude is an underrated component of being attractivethis is cope | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 08:34 PM |
| 10 | Does anyone have any tips for overcoming a feeling of inadequacy due to not being physically attractive?big cap | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 06:01 PM |
| 6 | How can I have an abundance mindset if no girl wants me?how does this work | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 11:04 PM |
| 1 | How can I have an abundance mindset if no girl wants me?i cant lie to myself like that | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they self-victimize and make excusescareer? and what hobbies? just wondering | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they self-victimize and make excuseswhat would you call a "hell of a life?" | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they self-victimize and make excusesthese toxic positivity people dont want to hear that | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they self-victimize and make excusesso you could fix all that and be in your prime at 33? sounds pretty good to me | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 01:39 PM |
| 1 | From shy “can’t look at people in the eyes” guy to popular, easy going dude that easily gets a girl a week: what I did and what you can learn from my experiencefeels impossible to me | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 01:41 PM |
| 2 | From shy “can’t look at people in the eyes” guy to popular, easy going dude that easily gets a girl a week: what I did and what you can learn from my experiencehow long did this process take for you? | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Online dating photo tipspersonality wont help if she shows up and ghosts you after finding out what you really look like | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 03:02 PM |
| 4 | Online dating photo tipsBut what is the end game though? So say you manage to take some acceptable pictures and get matches. What happens when you meet up IRL? what happens when she realizes that you only look good because you hired a professional photographer and editor and don't look that way in day to dat life?? | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 11:00 AM |
| -2 | Online dating photo tipsthe fake cooking pic 🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 10:39 AM |
| 8 | 4 ONS in a month, How to get laid in college for young men.bruh for real... and apparently dont have to work full time while going to class either | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 03:38 PM |
| 2 | 4 ONS in a month, How to get laid in college for young men.sounds fake af but congrats i guess if you arent lying | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Working out and learning to not give af has been a great help to meidk g probs the diet | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Working out and learning to not give af has been a great help to metrying to do both g | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Working out and learning to not give af has been a great help to meyeah they all BS. imma just keep working I guess | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 05:16 PM |
| 4 | Working out and learning to not give af has been a great help to methats why I hate all these "I went to the gym and got a haircut and girls fall in my lap now" posts | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Working out and learning to not give af has been a great help to meop said since april | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 04:44 PM |
| 4 | Wanna try out online dating? Here's some tips.right this guy needs to get over himself | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 02:44 PM |
| 4 | Working out and learning to not give af has been a great help to meJust trying to get healthy, not just trying to get women | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 02:20 PM |
| 32 | Working out and learning to not give af has been a great help to meIve been working out since january and have seen 0 of the success you have what am I doing wrong | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 01:40 PM |
| 5 | The reason that HUMOR is super attractiveJoke is on you I use humor to cover up insecurities and vulnerabilities | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 06:49 PM |
| 28 | I have been wearing height inserts for 5 months and I am afraid I will get exposed.you could paint ceilings wearing those things | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 01:56 PM |
| 93 | I have been wearing height inserts for 5 months and I am afraid I will get exposed.im pretty sure gf has noticed buddy walking around in stilettos by now. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 01:55 PM |
| 0 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlsI mean you can work at something but if you dont have talent or skills or good genes it wont work.. idk how im not making sense either? people cant just be good at whatever they want to. if that were true everyone would be astonauts and football players like everyone wanted to when they were kids right? | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 02:03 AM |
| 0 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlsI mean if you were already talented then sure go ahead but if not then yeah trying to paint when you cant is faking. like this is common sense right? | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 12:19 AM |
| 1 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlsi dont think its a shit attitude I think it realistic. yall can pretend that everyone can be a winner but its not possible. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 09:57 PM |
| 1 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlshumans, are mean. source: all of human history. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlsokay sure even if you go to the gym for 5 years. it still means you were attractive before. gym doesn't change your face. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 10:07 PM |
| 1 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlssee, toxicly positive. i appreciate the attempt at niceness, but what you said cannot be true. not everyone can be a shining star. statistically impossible. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 10:06 PM |
| -6 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlsi mean you are changing yourself.. what other definition is there other than trying to be something you are not ie fake. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 09:40 PM |
| 1 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlsthere is attractive, and unattractive. if going to the gym once and getting a new outfit makes you magically attractive, then you weren't unattractive in the first place. it cant work for everyone. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 09:34 PM |
| 0 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlsnah they will see right thru it. these subs are toxic positivity sometimes. yall act like there are no mean people in the world | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 08:18 PM |
| 1 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlsdoesnt work for everyone | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 07:16 PM |
| 0 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlsi mean if you are not a trendy classy person and you try to dress like that i feel people will immediatly notice that and call you out for that. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 07:15 PM |
| 0 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlsthat doenst work at the end of the day you either are something or you are not, why would you want to change who you are or try to fake and be something you are not? | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlsthanks | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlsthanks | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 07:10 PM |
| -1 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlswhy would you want to pretend to be something you are not? | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 06:31 PM |
| 2 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlsease them into it huh | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 06:30 PM |
| -3 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlscuz its fake | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 06:27 PM |
| -2 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlsi mean if you are trying to fake something you are not then yeah | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 06:26 PM |
| -16 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlsk. just seems fake to me | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 06:26 PM |
| -18 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlsI would judge somebody for doing that so I call bs | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 06:09 PM |
| -21 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlsthat seems so fake tho.... wont people notice and call you out if you suddenly start to try to wear nicer clothes? | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 05:39 PM |
| 2 | If people really don't have incredibly high standards regarding whom they view as "attractive", how come it's still quite difficult to find a match?pretty off topic | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 03:46 PM |
| 3 | If people really don't have incredibly high standards regarding whom they view as "attractive", how come it's still quite difficult to find a match?Not wrong, but at least men dont pretend otherwise | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 03:09 PM |
| 5 | If people really don't have incredibly high standards regarding whom they view as "attractive", how come it's still quite difficult to find a match?its a pick up artist subreddit what were you expecting bud? | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 01:55 PM |
| 15 | If people really don't have incredibly high standards regarding whom they view as "attractive", how come it's still quite difficult to find a match?Women are liars. They say nice things like this to make themselves seem virtuous and kind and feel better about themselves, but at the end of the day, they will go for the hot dude. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Advice for Single Guys Who Are Strugglingyeah that would be included in the talent i mentioned. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Advice for Single Guys Who Are Strugglinghis reference literally has status and money tho lol | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 03:04 PM |
| 6 | Advice for Single Guys Who Are Strugglingyeah but hes rich talented and funny. no one would give two shits about jack black if he looked exactly the same and worked at walmart. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 03:03 PM |
| 10 | White lies to create valuehow bout you make effort to actually being interesting instead of lying about it. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 05:21 PM |
| 8 | Going to a rave next weekan outdoor pool is not a real rave lol | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 05:02 PM |
| 44 | Lower your standards, sleep with some fun women, and your abundance mindset will become real, and hotter girls more accessible.if a 7 cant get you hard you have porn brain | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 01:36 AM |
| 1 | She was doing this to me at the beach, does she like me?dude its so obvious this is painful to read | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 02:53 PM |
| 2 | I feel as if men now a days have it all wrong.Not sure what you are responding to sorry | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 06:34 PM |
| 31 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?For real. Even average women have 1000s of followers. Has locals thinking they are lil celebrities. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 06:31 PM |
| 2 | I feel as if men now a days have it all wrong.Hey op said they were 15 bucks not me | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 10:17 AM |
| 7 | I feel as if men now a days have it all wrong.Lol all Im saying is that these posts aren't helpful. "I got a haircut, a new outfit and went to the gym once and girls fall into my lap now!!" Alright what if youve been doing that for years with no change? Its just kind of insensitive to suggest doing the bare minimum will get you results. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 07:53 PM |
| 14 | I feel as if men now a days have it all wrong.Its the literal minimum effort you can put in. If putting the minimum in makes you attractive, then you weren't unattractive. It also is garbo advice because there are people who have been following it for years with no changes at all. Im just saying it is kind of pointless advice. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 07:47 PM |
| 35 | I feel as if men now a days have it all wrong.yes im so tired of the "get a haircut and then you will magically be attractive" bs posts. if all it takes is getting a haircut and some 15$ shirts then you weren't unattractive in the first place. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 02:49 PM |
| 11 | I feel as if men now a days have it all wrong.wow another "get a haircut and new clothes and women will fall into your lap" bs post. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 02:42 PM |
| 2 | I feel like dating as a man is like being a single working class dad during Christmasnot really no | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 01:39 AM |
| 8 | I feel like dating as a man is like being a single working class dad during Christmasbro band tshirts are my entire wardrobe whats wrong with that | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Pulling back - not watching IG stories?Man I hate my own generation I swear | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Where the hell can I meet girls?really? | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Where the hell can I meet girls?only if you make it weird. they are high school friends. you will find in a few years people make new friend groups. I am a decade out of high school and barely talk to anyone from my high school outside of a handfull of people i still keep in touch with. | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Where the hell can I meet girls?"I have friends but they have parties with their friends from high school, so I can’t join them." Well, why not??? | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Honest question for women: why aren't women having sex all the time?oh boy | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 04:29 PM |
| 3 | Honest question for women: why aren't women having sex all the time?🧢🧢🧢🧢 | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | I just want to be genuine and vulnerable and have someone still love meI am not good at things | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 04:05 PM |
| 1 | I just want to be genuine and vulnerable and have someone still love meive been trying to be good at things for 3 decades 😭 | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 02:38 PM |
| 13 | Alcohol really makes a difference with seduction?yes alcohol reduces your inhibitions, i thought everyone over 12 years old knew this | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Any guys who get zero matches but have success in real life?okay okay its Only Long Dongs | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 11:01 PM |
| 15 | For average guys that have been in the game for a decade or so. Has the rate of girls flaking gotten worse?Social media age. Even average looking women have thousands of followers and thirsty guys in their dm's. Has locals thinking they are lil celebrities. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 04:06 PM |
| 1 | I don’t want to have relationships, I just want to hook up with a girl.Right on. Ive been training 5 days a week since the beginning of the year, haven't seen much changes yet but I will keep at it. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 04:23 PM |
| 3 | I don’t want to have relationships, I just want to hook up with a girl.how long to see that change after starting to go to the gym? | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 02:13 PM |
| 4 | I don’t want to have relationships, I just want to hook up with a girl.why even comment on this thread then if op specifically said he didn't want a relationship | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 02:12 PM |
| 1 | What's your seduction unpopular opinion?there is no way to have done everything you possibly can unless you are dead | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 12:21 AM |
| 15 | What's your seduction unpopular opinion?Women are not a monolith. There are not tips and tricks or techniques that magically work on all of them. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 06:50 PM |
| 6 | What's your seduction unpopular opinion?Well to be fair 50 years ago any job out of high school could afford you a house and a family. And our food wasn't all preservatives and fast food. Not making excuses just saying. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 06:09 PM |
| -2 | The Discourse around men's height is inaccurate and social media is preying upon your insecuritieswho wants to post the link? | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 06:00 PM |
| 5 | For those men who think they are "losers" life begins much later than you thinkno one says that | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 10:00 PM |
| 5 | For those men who think they are "losers" life begins much later than you thinkidk man if i lived true to myself i would lay around doing nothing all day | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 10:00 PM |
| 2 | For those men who think they are "losers" life begins much later than you thinkhow do you just find thos ppl | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 09:59 PM |
| 7 | recommendations for hobbies that can be done from home and make you a more attractive well-rounded person for dating?or bottle and sell your bath water! | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | If Roe V Wade is overturned, do you think that would stop people from dating and/or hooking up?I think it should really be two subs because there is almost two streams of thought here. Theres the PUAs and old school seduction tactics from the 2000s it seems. Then there is the self improvement you spoke of that seems to be more geared towards people finding a long term relationship, or at least making yourself attractive. But nonetheless there is good advice here to be found you just have to sort through just like any other sub. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 01:19 PM |
| 0 | If Roe V Wade is overturned, do you think that would stop people from dating and/or hooking up?the whole 'pick up artist' thing is about tricking women into sleeping with you, most of em are not good people | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 01:03 PM |
| 1 | getting a girl vs being attractiveI think that advice is also painful to hear because there are plenty of us who have been focused on that stuff for years and it hasn't helped so to hear it repeated over and over like it magically works every time sucks. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 04:40 PM |
| 1 | getting a girl vs being attractivesure thing | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 04:28 PM |
| 7 | getting a girl vs being attractivebruh if a change of clothes, a shower, and 'voice tonality' suddenly makes you attractive, then you weren't unattractive before, you just weren't trying. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 11:55 PM |
| 21 | getting a girl vs being attractive"just be attractive" | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Has anybody here successfully transitioned themselves into chick magnet?hm im coming up on 5 months months now hope i see changes soon | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Has anybody here successfully transitioned themselves into chick magnet?how long did it take to start seeing changes after starting to work out? i started in January | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 10:37 AM |
| 3 | Does every man have to go through a “hoe phase” in order to be confident and secure with themselves?well if its true.. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 10:09 PM |
| 4 | Does every man have to go through a “hoe phase” in order to be confident and secure with themselves?must have followed the 2 rules | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | A constant theme I've noticed among my female friends who use dating appshow to make yourself grow a beard | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 06:27 PM |
| 4 | A constant theme I've noticed among my female friends who use dating appsfuck gotta stop hanging out wiht myself | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 06:25 PM |
| 7 | is it not possible to pick up women if i don't drink alcohol?If you don't drink, why the fuck are you going to bars man? Because thats where a lot of young single people go? you can go there and not drink and still meet people. | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 04:53 PM |
| 4 | how come most people get pretty girlfriends without knowing anything about "game" or all the psychological stuff, just being a random joe? Is game for hookups or low-value men only?I think #3 is key. | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 05:57 PM |
| 3 | So self improvement is preached here. But at what point are you good enough?yeah i think this sub can be kinda toxic, preaching that no one is good enough as who they are and they must make massive changes to their life before trying to find someone. As if no one can find anyone who will ever like them for who they are. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 09:22 PM |
| 13 | I'm 20 years old and I have been with 59 womenOne of the things I did is I started really taking care of my hygiene and I have to say that I really started getting more attention from women. Man as someone who has always taken care of hygiene these kinds of statements baffle me. If taking a shower is the difference between turning heads and not then you are probably following the first 2 rules. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 09:17 PM |
| 1 | I think "game" has hurt me more than it has ever helped me. It's just a bunch of needy behaviors/tricks to attempt to make women like you. It seems like its constantly reinforcing the idea that you're not good enough.tru Ive always thought all this nonsense and all these tricks will end up hurting someone. Better to just be yourself than confuse yourself. Do the guys who have been pulling girls since middle school have all this in their head? no it just comes naturally to them. always has. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Are you better off not sharing your success with guy friends?alright how do you make sure they are better | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Are you better off not sharing your success with guy friends?how do you get better friends | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Is it even possible to be good with women and have a 9-5 job?tf you do that has those hours you own a restaurant or something | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Is it even possible to be good with women and have a 9-5 job?thats awful man sun isn't up at 6am tho 🧐 | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Is it even possible to be good with women and have a 9-5 job?try working a 6 am to 5 buddy you got loads of time | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Is it even possible to be good with women and have a 9-5 job?schedule your shit better then man. plan to do all your errand and chores on one day then the rest of your week is free.. start meal prepping and then you only have to worry about food once or twice a week... also 12-8 is a solid 8 hours, then an hour to get ready and commute? not unreasonable at all man | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 08:08 PM |
| 9 | I’m afraid of approaching girlsyou are scared because you are putting them on a pedestal and thinking they are above you. try speaking to them as you would a guy or anyone else that you can speak to freely. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 07:30 PM |
| 7 | After MONTHS of being a scared little bi*ch I finally did my first direct approach! I feel like on top of the world :Dyeah ive defs seen this exact post before lol | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 09:33 PM |
| 30 | After MONTHS of being a scared little bi*ch I finally did my first direct approach! I feel like on top of the world :Dwait ive seen this exact post before | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Does it even make sense to date in the twenties?uh yes 20s are the prime time for dating | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you need social media for modern dating?All of that is valid but there are females that age who would find it weird that OP doesn't use socials. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 09:45 PM |
| 11 | Do you need social media for modern dating?okay how old are you tho? op is 19 college age | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 10:33 AM |
| 3 | After being convinced looks don't matter (much), I've gone full circleAt the volleyballcourt then your volleyball skills are super important etc. this shit made me laugh out loud but its so true initial attraction can be very context based | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Getting shamed for dating women younger than meOkay sorry sorry being overly aggressive. I just feel its ridiculous that the age keeps moving back. Honestly its insulting to women saying that a 22 year old woman is incapable of seeing these things herself.. yes obviously there are some situations but its unfair to have blanket statements and thats how we have op getting shamed for dating someone 27 when hes 32 which is perfectly reasonable. | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 02:11 PM |
| 3 | Getting shamed for dating women younger than meI think its unfair and dangerous to label every man who dates a younger woman a predator. You know they are many younger women who prefer an older guy right? | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Looking for some advice :)sounds like this one should stay a friend | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 08:32 PM |
| 16 | Getting shamed for dating women younger than meffs yall keep moving the bar on this.. soon it will be predatory to date anyone under 30.. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Kissless virgin at 20, might be until I’m 21. Do I have any hope of true redemption/becoming a confident man?wait no one is pretending.. thats just a fact right | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Kissless virgin at 20, might be until I’m 21. Do I have any hope of true redemption/becoming a confident man?okay well get to work then | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 12:47 PM |
| 3 | Kissless virgin at 20, might be until I’m 21. Do I have any hope of true redemption/becoming a confident man?late bloomer bro you are 20.. what most people wouldnt give to go back and be 20 again... you say late bloomer but in reality you havent even started yet. cant even go to a bar yet bro! get to work and you can be thriving and in your prime in a few years at 21 22 23 which is pretty normal if you ask me. take it from someone who was in the same boat. leave the past in the past and focus on the future. if you dwell on what you missed in the past you will miss whats in the present and in a decade y… | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 12:25 PM |
| 7 | Kissless virgin at 20, might be until I’m 21. Do I have any hope of true redemption/becoming a confident man?pretty sure like half the population is in your situation at your age, its not really uncommon | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 12:21 PM |
| 0 | What's the truth about height?Find a short girl and you are tall to her king | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 12:23 AM |
| 4 | How can I talk about my job in a more interesting way?wheres that one guy who always posts about selling feet pics is his job | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | What is it like to be pretty handsome dude, seriously?I mean sure, but that wont rearrange your features. You can follow all those steps and still look unfortunate ha. | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 03:50 PM |
| 1 | What is it like to be pretty handsome dude, seriously?how can time and effort change a face? | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 02:24 PM |
| 3 | What is it like to be pretty handsome dude, seriously?😬😬😬😬 | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Don’t let your personal victories get filed away during periods of self-doubt and insecurity. Always refer back to what makes you unique and feel like a prizeyou guys are having victories? | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Are Modern Women's dating standards too high? Why or why not?You can be actively improving yourself and still make observations about a landscape without dwelling on them. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 07:24 PM |
| 5 | Are Modern Women's dating standards too high? Why or why not?saying "standards are high" makes you an incel now? lol | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 04:22 PM |
| 102 | Social proof without much effort just clever prep"I call it 'The Regular' Jerry." | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 10:28 AM |
| 1 | What’s your hobby?oh are you coming from the uk? | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 09:36 PM |
| 1 | What’s your hobby?how do you afford the Europe trips? | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | What’s your hobby?sounds like you have hobbies! | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 06:42 PM |
| 1 | What’s your hobby?what do you mean sparks your mind | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | How can I truly work on my self-esteem?what new hobbies have you tried? | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women are aware of the skillset guys have to have to be successful at datinghow fo you unlock this superpower | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women are aware of the skillset guys have to have to be successful at datingbeen to walmart lately? | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Trouble with expression leads to trouble connecting and seducingYeah Ive been there unfortunately but its a much hetter chance than the "smile at him and hope he notices" tactic that many women take | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Best place to meet women?Its an abundance of choices dilemma. More than a few ago people rarely left their hometown so it was a simple as people pairing up in high school or church youth group. I think theres a different in society too. Women were expected to settle down with a man, and houses were cheap. Lots more "high school sweethearts" that got married back then. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 05:29 PM |
| 19 | Trouble with expression leads to trouble connecting and seducingTo be fair many women are horrible at giving hints too. (Smiling or making eye contact is not a hint ladies) but if OP grabbed this guys arm and said "hey i really like you we should go on a date sometime" he almost certainly would get the hint. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Self Confidence Development Reference Sheet to Become Unstoppablewell it would work for adult sport league ha | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Self Confidence Development Reference Sheet to Become Unstoppableso would basketball team work for that | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Want advice on a very specific scenarioDude. She has already ignored you/ blocked you twice. What more signals do you need? Move on. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 03:42 PM |
| 7 | Should I have taken the ride?bruh you fucked up big time | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 03:23 PM |
| 44 | Trouble with expression leads to trouble connecting and seducingHave you tried just being blunt and direct? many guys this age are clueless when it comes to hints. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Self Confidence Development Reference Sheet to Become Unstoppablewhat kinds of things would work for #9? | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 03:09 PM |
| 1 | [23M] How to make up for crucial social milestones I missed out on during my youth?yeah... any tips on how to get passed this? | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 02:57 PM |
| 1 | [23M] How to make up for crucial social milestones I missed out on during my youth?You're self limiting. You have been your whole life. You may have learned it from parents, but now it's all you Oof thats where I am. Didn't realize for so long. Trying to work passed it but its real hard. | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | [23M] How to make up for crucial social milestones I missed out on during my youth?I feel this so hard my guy. I had extremely strict and conservative parents that restricted my life growing up. I was not allowed to visit friends. Ever. Every day was going to school then coming home and studying and reading. We had no tv or video games or anything current so I couldn't connect with other kids on anything. This continued all through high school. I asked and begged so many times to be let to do things but they refused. The idea of going to a party was laughable, as if they ever … | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 04:46 PM |
| 2 | [23M] How to make up for crucial social milestones I missed out on during my youth?this is true but people wont admit it | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 04:18 PM |
| 1 | My new GF (4 months in) is perfect in every way except 1…..i dont think its needy man, it can come from a place of genuine concern if a loved one is wasting too much time on social media. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 09:56 PM |
| 1 | My new GF (4 months in) is perfect in every way except 1…..bro you better be laugh reacting every single one of her memes | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Things are finally workingah thanks got it | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 01:47 AM |
| 5 | Things are finally workingwhat are the 3 easy steps bro | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Am I missing out by not being on Instagram?social media is only terrible for your mental health if you let it be. i use insta to follow skateboarders and car companies. no toxicity on my timeline 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Learn to play an instrument or join a band and it is guaranteed you’ll get laidmaybe its not | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 05:45 AM |
| 2 | “Fake it till you make it” and “Women can tell when you’re being fake and it puts them off”oh yeah i cant figure out any goals so thats my issue for almost everything ha | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 03:13 AM |
| 2 | “Fake it till you make it” and “Women can tell when you’re being fake and it puts them off”okay how do you just "have" confidence | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 02:50 AM |
| 2 | This is NOT an incel sub, and some people on here need reminding of that. You have control over your own dating success if you improve & approach.Those things barely qualify as incel comments, if even at all. Acknowledging things have changed does not make someone an incel... Just another word people are starting to throw around so much its losing its meaning. | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Why guys don't approach during at the day, unless it's at a bar or something, when I am with my girl friend?It got posted again in another thread. | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Why guys don't approach during at the day, unless it's at a bar or something, when I am with my girl friend?This comment is so false its hilarious | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 07:50 PM |
| 2 | This is NOT an incel sub, and some people on here need reminding of that. You have control over your own dating success if you improve & approach.Why is this being downvoted as if its not true.. | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 05:13 PM |
| 0 | It drives me how wild how society raises men to be soft, but craves men with edge.lol way out of line here | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 05:09 PM |
| 0 | Please Work on your looksKeep telling yourself that Im sure that will help 👍 | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Please Work on your looksYou can definitely change your mindset and you can definitely improve with women. I know its hard, I struggle with the same things, but right now I think you are your own biggest obstacle. | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 02:41 AM |
| 0 | Please Work on your looksLiterally no one agrees with what you are saying man. | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 02:15 AM |
| -1 | Please Work on your looksits crazy how every thing youve said in this thread has been wrong | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Please Work on your looksThats... normal? Look if you want to get bigger just go to the gym pretty simple | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Please Work on your looksThere's your problem then. | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Please Work on your lookshow do you think successful people achieve success? | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Please Work on your looksthats such bullshit man have you even tried? anyone can gain muscle mass its science. | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 11:33 PM |
| 4 | Had sex but then got ghostedbecause its pretty clear shes not interested in making this more than a one time thing | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 10:48 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I am basically the person you described, just already older. What are your best tips for making improvements? | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 09:57 PM |
| 1 | But what if the reason I’m so depressed is BECAUSE I’m lonely?where are you looking? | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 08:08 PM |
| 1 | But what if the reason I’m so depressed is BECAUSE I’m lonely?yeah op, you said youve been with 6 girls since fall.... | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 08:07 PM |
| 2 | I just got depressed reading and article on the front page about dating (as it applies to me). I wonder how I can turn things around?If you live near a bar and become a regular that can definitely help. If there is a consistent group that goes there you can start hanging out with them. Make friends with the bartenders bouncers etc. It may sound silly but its a slight status symbol when you walk in a bar and a bunch of people know you, the bartender gives you free drinks etc. Can help introduce you to other people. | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 05:36 PM |
| 1 | I just got depressed reading and article on the front page about dating (as it applies to me). I wonder how I can turn things around?You might be surprised | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Hooked up with a girl at a festival last nightI never claimed festival girls are full of stds man. That was some other commenter. OPs post is literally about fucking a girl he just met. All I said was people who have more partners are more likely to have stds. Which is a fact. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 09:41 PM |
| 3 | Hooked up with a girl at a festival last nightThe more partners a person has the more likely they are to have an STI thats not hateful thats obvious common sense and statistics. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 05:53 PM |
| 4 | Hooked up with a girl at a festival last nightYou're pretty strange man | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 05:43 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to "how old are you?"hope im dead before then tbh | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 05:12 PM |
| 8 | Hooked up with a girl at a festival last nightIf someone will sleep with you after spending 2 hours with you at a festival its safe to assume its not their first time. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to "how old are you?"im 28 and i feel old af | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 04:36 PM |
| 10 | Hooked up with a girl at a festival last nightBuddy if someone sleeps around there is a higher chance they have a std its not hateful its just a fact. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 04:33 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Hmm what is some of the tips and techniques that have been lost to the ages | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 08:26 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Over time it sort of morphed into self-improvement, and a philosophy of “you can’t fake it”. In order to be successful you really need to improve your life and become a better man. You need a more holistic approach, as opposed to the many people who just want “techniques” to get laid without changing much of anything. It’s about actually becoming a person who is confident and good with women, not just imitating a few behaviors. This worked really well for me. At the time the sub also seemed fill… | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 07:03 PM |
| 10 | Feelings of inadequacy (inferior)I actually do not remember a cute girl checking me out, because it never happened. | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 04:31 PM |
| 1 | When should you bring a girl back to your place when you live with roommates?Good idea. Yeah maybe clean up the place a bit, but roommates being around shouldn't be a deal breaker in college. Idk how it is on your campus but on mine everyone had roommates unless you had rich parents that got you your own place. | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 03:03 PM |
| 4 | When should you bring a girl back to your place when you live with roommates?I mean if you are both in college she probably lives with roommates too or even a dorm and will understand or maybe not care? When I lived with 2 other guys one was a real player and he would bring girls home all the time, he would just be like "hey these are my roommates" on his way up to his room. Then him and his new friend would come back down and smoke with us after an hour or 2 lol. Maybe your situation is different idk. | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 02:46 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]^ ^ Makes text smaller on mobile, not sure about on desktop | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar?Wow this is good advice but idk how you do it man haha. Im not even 30 yet but I feel old and out of place in a club, bar or music venue. | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 03:14 PM |
| 1 | I am 29 and did not get to have a young adult life. Is it too late at my age?I feel the same way I never got to experience the fun party life but feel too old for it now. | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar?What are the best scenarios to put yourself into to have the kind of success you speak of? | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar?Well im on my way i hope, been running for a few years, started lifting this year, trying new hobbies | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar?I dont think its "common sense" otherwise everyone world be charming and charismatic and clearly thats kind of a rare trait even for people who are regularly and normally social. | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar?I’m curious as to how you mean that. Ive only ever had 2 experiences with a woman. | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar?We live wildly different lives ha | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar?And how does one get better at that? | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar?Same man I feel too old to go to the college bars already. | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar?Nearing 30 myself and need slme hope lol. How did it get easier in your 30s? What situations did you succeed in? | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar?That is the exception tho. The average 40yo does NOT look like that. | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Do you know someone whose life is just an epic wild fun ride?remember people only put their best moments on socials. yeah some people live the life but for most normal people those vacation pics might be from the one or two vacations they took in the last few years. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 02:44 AM |
| 3 | Do you know someone whose life is just an epic wild fun ride?sounds expensive | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Do you know someone whose life is just an epic wild fun ride?Ayy Ive been to like a dozen myself ha most fun ever | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Do you know someone whose life is just an epic wild fun ride?Be careful.. a lot of the "wild guys" I know are struggling financially due to hopping jobs/ getting fired for not showing up, plus spending all their money immediately on partying or on the next plane ticket. That or they are "wild" because they are fueled by a never ending stream of daddy's money. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Do you know someone whose life is just an epic wild fun ride?came here too say most of those "wild guys" are either funded by daddys money or they basically live in poverty because they immediately blow all their money on partying and plane tickets to Cabo. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Do you know someone whose life is just an epic wild fun ride?ever been to a festival? | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 01:50 AM |
| 7 | for newbies: big dating subreddits can do you more harm than goodi made a post in here just yesterday about how i hate the default "haircut, gym, new hobbies" advice and got downvoted to hell. | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 11:22 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Guess I fucked up by not being a millionaire | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 11:18 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]spot on | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 05:31 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]oh yeah? | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 10:49 PM |
| 5 | Do you think women know what average guys go through with dating?Your stats are way off... and the math doesnt add up lol. Over 50% of women AND men are married. Dont know where you are getting that ridiculous 10-20% stat from. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 10:21 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]thats a lot of changes in 6 minths | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 06:45 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]How long did it take to see changes in the body? Ive been running for 2 years and my body hasn't chaged at all lol. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Honestly, Im tired of pretending to be someone im not just to get laidYou have to either be extremely high value (top 20 percent) this just isnt true tho. Ever been to a Walmart? Seen the couples walking around there? There are butt ugly loser jobless males that pull women. Its about how you work the game. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 05:42 PM |
| 9 | Honestly, Im tired of pretending to be someone im not just to get laid100% agree. The go to advice on this sub is pretty much "change everything about yourself" | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 09:32 PM |
| 14 | [deleted by user]wait so where is it | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 11:20 PM |
| 1 | At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women?Who cares about a beard bruv, I cant grow one either. There are plenty of clean shaven men out there. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 05:06 PM |
| 5 | At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women?you think that sucks now but wait til you are 40 and look 30 and your competition looks old af. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 04:18 AM |
| 28 | At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women?This is reddit if a woman has ever looked your way you are ahead of the game lmao. | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 10:33 PM |
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