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2	Being led around by my dick Uhhh…bull market. Likely to lose big time as it blows up. Just let your 401k triple, take a third for you. A third for Uncle Sam, and give her 1/3 and everyone wins!!!! Ugggh…I have this crypto illness too🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️	/r/Divorce_Men	06/12/23 09:33 PM
10	Kids activities and custody Following. Work as a physician. Wife is SAHM. Says she’ll have to move to find a suitable job so she’ll have to take the kids. So 50:50 just won’t be possible. Also splitting assets 50:50 won’t be enough. Anyway she schedules activities 5 nights a week for the kids. My work schedule simply doesn’t give me all that time off. She has all that time off because I’m working. If I had someone paying all my bills damn straight I’d be with them waaayyyy more. But alas someone has to work. The system is …	/r/Divorce_Men	22/08/23 05:12 AM
3	Anyone win her back? Depends on your definition…we are about 1 1/2 years into rebuilding. It’s infinitely better than 2 years ago our low point. What do you want to know? Lots of anger, lots of hurt, lots of sleeping alone, moved out to the guest house, did a lot of searching, tried something’s, failed at others, just couldn’t get past the hump so to speak. It’s been a bit slow but we are definitely making progress together. Fwiw it’s been very hard. In another 5 years I might be able to say whether it’s worth it. I…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/05/23 10:19 PM
0	This guy is a genius Sometimes we create ideological echo chambers for various reasons. Some out of experience, some to protect or egos, some because it becomes comforting or it’s comfortable. If this process works for you and you’re able to save your marriage and it’s able to flourish for both of you, congratulations. You and your spouse are a select few that pull through this. It’s not all your responsibility. It’s not all hers. In our limited experience (anecdotal experiences are the worst), we had both neglected…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/05/23 04:29 PM
8	Brothers, I need feedback. I'm 90% there, but I'm scared. Probably not terribly popular but …savethemarriage.com. There’s a podcast as well. You really want to be certain you’ve covered all the bases. That said…you say no house, no kids? Depends on how much you really have in this. I personally under those circumstances would find it very difficult under those circumstances to stay. Add kids, house, and other factors like how you see the marriage commitment, family, etc and it becomes tougher. Best of luck. Either way you will survive. It’s on you whet…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/05/23 11:34 PM
2	Doctors From an ER perspective as a provider in an ED we often see kids brought in because of custody issues. Claims of abuse by the other spouse they want documented. It’s a difficult situation. I share more as an FYI, heads up. It may seem like going for minor things. Just be aware that behind closed doors an entirely different picture gets presented sometimes.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/05/23 09:48 PM

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