nachoprototype Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	MRP, Wives, and Borderline Personality Disorder		nachoprototype	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/01/15 05:09 PM

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2	MRP, Wives, and Borderline Personality Disorder Yeah, I reported for trolling.	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/01/15 07:08 PM
1	MRP, Wives, and Borderline Personality Disorder On second thought, you're probably right. This info does seem dangerous out in the open on MRP. I'm sure some would add it as a new Redpill "tool."	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/01/15 06:58 PM
1	MRP, Wives, and Borderline Personality Disorder Absolutely not the majority as you stated. I really stress the importance of professional help for the MRP men because it is very controversial. I know there is a lot of push back in making this information public but I also believe that a relationship with a BP is an abusive relationship most of the time and people need to know the information.	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/01/15 06:40 PM
3	MRP, Wives, and Borderline Personality Disorder Yup, a trait of a person with BPD is projecting their own traits on others. This is why it's difficult to diagnose and a controversial psychology subject. Part of the BPD strategy (often subconsciously) is to convince the other person that they have the problem. And this is why we have to seek professional counseling on the issue. It also causes a lot of confusion for the non-BP. You question whether this is actually the reality of the situation, you question your own emotions. Maybe you really …	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/01/15 06:23 PM
8	It's like she gets Colic before falling asleep. Set boundaries. Tell her you're going to sleep (or you're focusing on driving right now) but you will talk to her about it tomorrow at X time (a time that you deem you will be ready to talk about it). Just make sure to follow through. If she tries to turn it around on you when your scheduled time comes, ask her what time she would like to talk and see if it works for you. Pick a specific time to address her question when you're ready to talk to her, make sure you follow through.	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/01/15 04:03 PM
3	Contemplating Divorce: At What Point Is It Not Your Fault? I hope you read my post to you about borderline personality disorder because yes, that is way more bullshit than most have to deal with. I deal with it too, you're not alone. Are there times that something goes down, like a screaming session, and your left wondering what the fuck just happened and why it was your fault (according to her)? At some point you might actually start to believe it and start doubting your own emotions. The good thing is that RP is actually beneficial to a BP, but there'…	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/01/15 01:55 AM
8	Contemplating Divorce: At What Point Is It Not Your Fault? The MRP advice on this issue is misguided. What you are describing are the actions of a person with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) or BPD traits. Before anything you should probably take look at /r/BPDlovedones. Her behavior is not your fault and you aren't the only one that experiences the raging, manipulation, and blaming. There are many people like us. This book might also be helpful.	/r/MarriedRedPill	03/01/15 07:01 PM
0	Update and New RP-Push Back from Wife - How to Handle? It's easy to say "lawyer-up" and it seems the vocal minority of MRP are the experts on a stranger's personal life after reading only a few paragraphs. From my own experience I suggest checking this out: /r/BPDSOFFA Does stepping on eggshells apply? It's not just a RP issue. Maybe add this to the top of your reading list.	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/01/15 08:34 PM
2	So I just read NMMNG... I think it's a good primer for most guys as the majority of MRPers got where they are largely because they have nice guy syndrome. You have to fix problem one before you can fix problem two. Doesn't apply to everybody.	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/12/14 04:45 PM
3	Need some advice Thanks for all the input. 1.While I never hit her, I have raised my fist and threatened her on a # of occasions. I also used to scream obscenities and names at her whenever we fought. I would also demean and belittle her by attacking her intellect and abilities fairly regularly. I was a dick. All that stopped nearly a year ago but she does still bear some scars from it. Have you reconciled this? Have you talked to her about it?	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 08:10 PM
1	Redpill and Improving the World Well, the bible did appear to be fairly red pill, except for Joseph when his wife got knocked up by some god and he was apparently ok with that.	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 01:46 AM
3	Quick question... So she left you, with your son, and keeps breaking promises she makes to you? And you want her to move back in? Just because you think you were being a "beta pussy" doesn't excuse any of her actions. You're still making an apology for her actions, "The reasons she left in the first place are directly linked to my beta ways as well." It sounds like she made her choice and you're still the backup plan, stringing you along, letting you keep that thread of hope so you don't decide you're better off …	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/12/14 05:22 PM