| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 13 | How do you get a guy to try harder? | Escalation & Calibration | nada-name | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 05:30 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Have my first date with a girl I really like Saturday any advice?Treat her like a good friend and respect her space until she gets into yours. Remember she’s in your space and in a new environment so let her feel safe. I say build chemistry before doing anything physical - if you like her then I say that will be the best thing for both of you. | /r/seduction | 01/12/20 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Female Redditors, what’s the best flirty compliment you’ve ever received?At a crowded bar with friends, a guy walked by me and smiled. I smiled back and he asked me a question. After about a minute of speaking, he says “you have a great energy.” And then he left (in relation to the question). He didn’t seem to have an ulterior motive like wanting to sleep with me. I wish I told him to stay.. it was a nice comment, had nothing to do with how I look, and genuinely made me feel good. | /r/seduction | 20/03/20 03:31 AM |
| 3 | How do you get a guy to try harder?Feel like you were right to err on the side of caution there if she wasn’t giving absolute, positive responses. She probably just wanted to say she didn’t throw herself at you or the opportunity to make out. Completely her fault there to wait and text to say that. I’ll do something more. The thought of experiencing the same level of prolonged frustration.. | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 04:07 PM |
| 2 | How do you get a guy to try harder?This is completely valid. My only answer is that things can slowly progress, can’t they? He can find his hand on my shoulder when we’re talking - easy shrug off if a girl’s not into it. Red light for further touching..? | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 03:56 PM |
| 6 | How do you get a guy to try harder?Thank you. I don’t think I’m wrong about the signs (or hope not at least). He‘s asked me about past relationships and the kind of guys I’m into - then passively mentions that he’s that guy. You might be right and that I may not be the most obvious. I thought I held his gaze pretty well and sometimes we just find ourselves smiling quietly at each other. I touch his arm when he jokes (which I thought guys understood was textbook female flirtation). I’ll try more but what other than putting myself … | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Why do girl lose interest (apparently) after being super interested in the beginningThe girl can only do so much. We feel like we’re being desperate so we stop. Guys need to carry the rest - you can’t depend on it being one sided the entire time. | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Is mutual attraction something you can just feel? How would you describe it?I think the energy you feel has got to be mutual. It doesn’t come without some sort of reciprocity. Honestly, it’s probably just sexual tension. | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 05:11 AM |
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