nadlam Archive

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1	First, first date. Need advice. Well done, man. For the second date, I would agree with OG4 that some escalation should happen. I would avoid lengthy dinner conversation, unless you know that you are building sexual attraction. The more that she sees you as someone to just talk to, the farther you will dive into the friend zone. At this point, she knows you are interested in her, and can hold a fun conversation for a long time. As you learn more and more about her, conversation will likely tone down a bit. I like the idea of t…	/r/seduction	15/12/14 12:37 AM
2	Poisonous Mindsets I need a woman. When you need a woman, you've already lost. Be outcome independent, toss your neediness in the trash can, and know that you have amazing value to add to some lucky lady's life. Realize that everything in life is easier to achieve when you don't NEED it so badly	/r/seduction	14/12/14 07:51 AM
1	How to get over fear of approach? Throughout my life, these are the best ideas I have come up with to conquer approach anxiety. Start approaching EVERYBODY throughout the day- doesn't matter who. People on the bus, in class, in the grocery store, etc. Not only attractive women, but old people, young people, and everyone in between. The more experience you have making an entrance, the more natural it becomes. Go in with the mindset of "outcome independence." This means that you don't let the interaction phase you, no matter how i…	/r/seduction	11/12/14 03:13 AM
3	I'm 23 years old and have zero experience with women. Is there any hope for me? Absolutely not my friend, not at all. I would agree that it is the hardest thing in the world to have confidence when you have absolutely no idea where to start. When I faced that situation a few years ago, it seemed like I'd never get a girl. I had the worst game in the world, and it seemed like all my friends were just doing great with women. I highly recommend signing up for some dating advice newsletters- some names I have really learned a lot from are Jason Capital, David Wygant, Josh Pelli…	/r/seduction	08/12/14 04:42 AM
2	[FR] Convinced myself to go out, ended up making out with a girl and getting her number haha yes the "ratchet" connotation is not what I was going for. replace with "skyrocket"	/r/seduction	08/12/14 04:31 AM
4	[FR] Convinced myself to go out, ended up making out with a girl and getting her number Awesome stuff man! I definitely recommend learning some super-basic dancing to any guy who is looking to get physical with women. As a guy who doesn't know how to dance and has had success with girls in clubs, I can tell you that when you can start improving your "push/pull" dynamic when dancing, you can really ratchet up the sexual tension. After you've been dancing with a girl for a bit, you start escalating a bit more. Getting closer to her face with your face, exploring a bit more with your …	/r/seduction	07/12/14 10:50 PM
1	How do you transition from getting a drink to "more serious" stuff? Definitely go for the kiss on the first date. The reality is, women want to have sex as much as men. If you don't take the lead and demonstrate some kind of sexual intention, then they might think you aren't interested, or if they don't want a kiss after the date, than you did not build enough sexual attraction during the date. This will likely lead you straight to the friend zone.	/r/seduction	27/11/14 05:44 AM
4	Seduction techniques get rid of "The Chase"... Whether you go in with a straight-up approach or a more mysterious (does he want to get with me? I can't tell!) approach, there are three things that are CRUCIAL to have. 1. Confidence- explains itself. If you don't think you are f*cking awesome, then why would she? 2. Non-neediness- isn't it creepy when people want something from you so bad, they are willing to go to extreme lengths to get it, especially if you hardly know them at all? 3. Social value: can you hold a conversation? Can you be fu…	/r/seduction	27/11/14 05:39 AM
3	How do you respond? Mixed Signals That's rotten. Few ideas here to avoid becoming Mayor of the friend zone. Be seen by HER with other girls in public, on facebook, etc. Do NOT give her the validation of knowing that you are into her in that way. Any chance you get, put HER in the friend zone. Become indifferent about seeing her, and do not let her get any indication that you are sexually attracted to her. Use her as a female friend to go out with, in order to become SIGNIFICANTLY more attractive to other girls in the area. Have …	/r/seduction	26/11/14 06:35 AM
5	Ever had the game backfire? My Story: THE PSYCHO I once met a wise man named Jamie, and he told me to blame it on the alcohol	/r/seduction	26/11/14 06:25 AM