naeboy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
35	Over-socialization from social media has skewed the idea of conventionally attractive individuals	CMV	naeboy	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/22 09:08 AM

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7	Who pays for dates? Chiming in on this as well (as a man); I always go cheap on the first date, and typically buy both mine and hers. I wouldn’t say I’m hyper traditional (I want to be but atm I don’t make enough money), and if we’re going for something a bit pricier I try to make it explicit up front if I can’t cover both our tabs. When it comes to who pays, age and circumstance is such a massive factor. I’m 25 and finishing an EE degree; I’m not cheap, just broke. I imagine most men in their early to mid 20’s are…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/11/24 03:45 AM
8	Feeling defeated I’m a man but I think I can provide a bit of insight for the second man: from my interpretation of the reading, he asked to split 50/50 moving forward after the first date. Also, make note that this is about men in their early-mid 20’s, so if he’s older than 30 this really shouldn’t be applicable as he should be farther along in his career. Something to consider is just because someone wants to be a provider and has a good job, doesn’t mean they’re immediately going to be able to foot every bill…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/08/24 08:51 PM
1	How Important Do You Think Your Romantic Life is to Your Happiness? Moderately. I want a family, and want to be able to provide for a family. So I need a career. Got the degree, working on getting that ball rolling. I’d certainly be happier in the moment to moment right now, but that’s just because I’m working a miserable job. If I met someone here, it would restrict my career mobility because my industry doesn’t exist where I’m located. So I don’t date, because I don’t like casual dating (ie, dating because I’m lonely and unhappy vs dating because I want to vet…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/23 06:00 PM
1	Q4Everyone, what is romance for you? What is the last romantic thing you and your partner did for each other? What romantic gestures would you like to receive? 1) just spending time together. In today’s world, that alone is rare. I like to get my partner’s stuff and I just like their company. 2) bought her a ring. She cheated. 3) Anything, but ideally something that involves us doing an activity together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 06:14 PM
1	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth PIN THIS POST	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 06:01 PM
1	What do you think is more important in relationships: Similarity or polarity? Polarity in interest, similarity in goals and values. This is hard to find, so I'll give up interests before values	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/23 05:11 PM
1	Men, how long is waiting for sex too long? Hehe, funny numbers	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/23 04:54 PM
15	Where have all the good men gone? TLDR: It's happening because a lot of men want love and they don't have any avenue to get it, so they live apathetically until they die. And yes, this falls on women. Now, I'm not saying women are wrong for the choices they've made, this is just my observations of what has led to this gulch. 1) The liberation of women - This is the first time in history where being a woman who's single in her 30's doesn't make you the gossip of the water-cooler and church. It's independent and empowering. Women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 05:47 AM
3	Would you be happier with women making the first shot at this point? Seeing as how I know 2 men who have been dateraped and 1 who's had a stalker ex, I'm gonna say yeah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 07:13 PM
1	Would you be happier with women making the first shot at this point? You said,and I quote "are ya gonna creep shame her if she's unattractive" to which I gave the answer. We won't. Additionally, the idea that a woman is not a danger to a man is ridiculous. I live in a red state and most of the people I know (men and women) conceal carry. I could be raped at gunpoint just as easily as a woman. I'm just not paranoid about the consequences because I know most people are typically NOT going to assault or injure me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 06:28 PM
1	Would you be happier with women making the first shot at this point? I mean, no. If I get approached by a fat ugly woman (which I have btw) I politely inform her that I have a gf (I don't) and then go about my day. I don't record her secretly and laugh at her later online with thousands of other people. I might have a giggle with the homies though after a beer or two later that day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 06:18 PM
1	Jury takes just ONE hour to clear 24-stone student of forcing a man to have sex with her - after she told them she was ‘too lazy’ to be on top for 15 minutes and by the time she returned to bed after checking she hadn’t burned her onion rings he was asleep Most same shroom subreddit user	/r/PussyPass	26/10/22 07:58 PM
6	Pretty woman wanted me to be non-emotionally engaged to her, I set my conditions, she didn't accept them. He's volcel you dumb fuck. Getting offered sex is not something that happens to incels.	/r/PussyPassDenied	26/10/22 05:25 PM
10	How much do looks really matter when trying to attract high quality man? I know men aren't typically allowed on this sub when it comes to input, but I think men can answer this a lot better than women so I'm gonna chip in. Looks do matter to men, as it's what attracts us initially. However, for dating what matters is similar life goals, aspirations, and attractive attitude. Something to keep in mind is that most men will fuck anything on 2 legs with a pulse; doesn't mean that we'll date it. To describe male dating strategy, men are more selective about looks when sea…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/22 06:27 AM
5	Just realized I’m a plate Riding the cock carousel	/r/RedPillWomen	11/09/22 11:09 PM
1	The two Delaware women charged with stealing a MAGA hat from a child have had their charges upgraded to hate crimes Your goalpost is shifting lol. I'm completely fine with hating hateful people and telling them they're hateful. The freedom to associate includes the freedom to disassociate. Ain't that great? You just can't destroy their property and assault them, claiming they're trying to erase your existence, which is what you were throwing a temper tantrum over in the first place. How much time do you spend on the internet homie? Go out and talk to a trumper, I promise the majority of them just voted bc of …	/r/PussyPassDenied	10/09/22 10:37 PM
1	The two Delaware women charged with stealing a MAGA hat from a child have had their charges upgraded to hate crimes Holy shit you're retarded. Nazis didn't go from "Hey we're just spreading rhetoric" to Holocaust immediately and overnight. The moment they began enacting actual LAW that discriminates against ethnic or religious groups is when it becomes an issue. And to answer the second, put them on lists but don't prevent them from acting until there is evidence they've planned a jacking. Again, "I wanna kill [x]" is a different statement from "I'm going to kill [x] via shotgun to the head at 3:47pm @ [y] lo…	/r/PussyPassDenied	10/09/22 10:03 PM
1	The two Delaware women charged with stealing a MAGA hat from a child have had their charges upgraded to hate crimes Surface level understanding of German history. Nazis were dictators and used an act to detain and contain political dissidents while disarming their populace. The peoples' opinions quite literally did not matter. EDIT: Also the Holocaust was acting on a belief, which is a completely different situation. Someone saying "I Wanna kill black people" is not threatening black people's existence, acting on it is. Freedom of belief is freedom of belief, regardless of how vile it is. With that said, the …	/r/PussyPassDenied	10/09/22 09:21 PM
2	The two Delaware women charged with stealing a MAGA hat from a child have had their charges upgraded to hate crimes Bruh, your life cannot be threatened by anyone's beliefs	/r/PussyPassDenied	10/09/22 03:08 PM
1	The two Delaware women charged with stealing a MAGA hat from a child have had their charges upgraded to hate crimes Holy shit redditors genuinely believe children are incapable of any belief systems LOL!	/r/PussyPassDenied	10/09/22 03:04 PM
28	I discovered I want marriage and children a bit late in the game. Where to go from here? If his stance on marriage is because the courts hate men, and it's typically a terrible affair for men in general, have you considered a prenup? Something that essentially says equal time with the kids, I'm not gonna bankrupt you, etc etc.? Now, I'm a man and I don't know exactly why your bf rejects marriage, but many men I know reject it due to the fact that courts fucking hate us. All of my buddies are in serious LTRs but have essentially told their girls they won't get married without prenups…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/08/22 01:29 AM
6	Simple rules for protecting yourself in the workplace Powerlifter/bodybuilder gyms. Like, no AC 100+ degree warehouse gyms. Only ran across 2 women in a setting like that and they were both bigger than me.	/r/MensRights	19/07/22 10:00 PM
6	this subreddit changed my entire perspective. thank you. I think it's more that as feminists get older/more mature they've begun to realize this as just an uncomfortable truth. Like, the amount of emotional and social struggles men go through have been well known to feminists since Norah Vincent wrote self-made man, but nobody ever talks about it in the post 3rd wave social groups. Edit: Grammar	/r/MensRights	16/07/22 01:21 PM
183	this subreddit changed my entire perspective. thank you. Good job. What people need to realize is that men suffer too, that's all this sub is about (or at least supposed to be), and they take it as an incel misogynist group.	/r/MensRights	16/07/22 07:56 AM
2	The bar IS in hell for men. But woman choose the bar Because men are traditionally the earners and women the caretakers. Not saying this is right or wrong, but for thousands of years this was the dominant societal structure. The bigger issues come from the fact that (like you said) men and women are different, and are judged different. A man being extremely active in raising his kids is unusual, a man changing his own oil is not unusual. Conversely, a woman being active in raising her kids is seen as the status quo, but changing her own oil is unu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 05:13 PM
3	Over-socialization from social media has skewed the idea of conventionally attractive individuals I agree with you, but a trend I've noticed among people my age (18-23, aka college age) is just the overexposure to these things. I know plenty of good looking guys who're super insecure with their looks, and plenty of pretty girls who're willing to go under a knife to fix minor cosmetic flaws. I genuinely feel like this overexposure, even with confident people, does influence their own evaluations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/22 11:02 AM
3	Over-socialization from social media has skewed the idea of conventionally attractive individuals I disagree with not comparing yourself with others a bit. It's unrealistic for men to not do so in the dating scene. However, and this is a big one, he shouldn't be doing it to boys who aren't local. Being active online and comparing yourself to some of the most attractive people out there is destructive towards self worth, I definitely agree on that point. Edit: Sigma essentially means standard deviation across a population. So if the data was pretty evenly distributed, then a first sigma would…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/22 10:39 AM
4	Over-socialization from social media has skewed the idea of conventionally attractive individuals As a slight refutation, I don't think all sources affect people in the way social media does. A lot of people are unconsciously caught up in the SM ratrace and don't realize how unrealistic it actually is; compared to reality television, a movie, or a poster where the looksmaxxers are expected to exist and consumers are able to recognize the falsity easily. Social media was initially meant to be a place to keep tabs on your loved ones/find new interests. as such people treated it as "real" compa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/22 10:08 AM
1	I see a lot of "call outs" where women wish men would share their emotions more, and now men are pushing back saying when they do, it's weaponized against them. What's the healthy balance? Ah, I get where you're coming from now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/22 09:14 AM
1	Where are all the good looking people IRL? Imo, over socialization and internet exposure heavily screws what people perceive as attractive. There's plenty of women at my workplace (in the southern Indiana Kentucky border area) that I would call attractive, but because people think of the third sigma population they're exposed to online, they don't perceive the first sigma as attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/22 08:15 AM
1	I see a lot of "call outs" where women wish men would share their emotions more, and now men are pushing back saying when they do, it's weaponized against them. What's the healthy balance? They are saying that the stereotype of "Males are warriors" is bullshit. Testosterone counts and a peepee doesn't change shit when it comes to PTSD. they're trying to make the greater point that men are expected to be stoics, regardless of how absolutely atrocious their actual situation is. In short, they're agreeing with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/22 08:07 AM
1	I see a lot of "call outs" where women wish men would share their emotions more, and now men are pushing back saying when they do, it's weaponized against them. What's the healthy balance? Think it was a sarcastic response homie	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/22 07:48 AM
1	Reasons for ignoring texts or delays in responses I mean, it's nice to at least send a 😂,🗿, or 💀. Let's me know they at least saw it. I don't expect a dissertation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/22 06:45 AM
1	If familiarity kills attraction, do ALL LTR's EVENTUALLY become void of attraction? Certainly doesn't from familiarity, but exclusivity with sexual partners does not necessarily equate to familiarity with sexual acts. Doing missionary all the time is no fun, so switch it up. Talk to your partner beforehand and suggest different things: positions, toys, locations, power dynamics, etc. There's a lot to explore with just two people when it comes to sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/22 06:31 AM
1	Does the average guy really not get casual sex? I have not had sex since my ex, so around 3 years. Now, I have not necessarily been proactive in seeking out anyone, but being proactive is a key word there. In my experience as a senior in college, it is far easier for a woman to hook up with a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/22 03:50 AM
1	If familiarity kills attraction, do ALL LTR's EVENTUALLY become void of attraction? Work on making yourself (and her) more sexy, and bring it up sometime. "Hey, I love you but the sex is lacking. What can we do as a couple to fix this?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/22 02:16 AM
6	Do men want uglier or more attractive/beautiful/hot women in long term relationships or in casual one’s? That's just one characteristic. Eyes set too far apart, droopy eyes, thin lips, weird nose shape, etc. I'm not out here chasing uggos, but conventionally attractive people often are extremely vain imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/22 10:39 PM
11	Do men want uglier or more attractive/beautiful/hot women in long term relationships or in casual one’s? Conventional attractive standards don't appeal to me. I know I'm not the one you asked, but I think unconventionally attractive women are far more beautiful. I can't really describe standard characteristics, but out of all the women I've dated (5, 23m) only one didn't have a scraggly tooth. It's not that this is necessarily desirable, but rather I just think that imperfection is extremely indearing, especially when they have great smiles in spite of that. Edit: basically the one time I bagged a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/22 10:09 PM
1	How Much Is Too Much: N-Count Baseline Answer? Like someone else said, I don't really care about body count too much, it's more about how they perceive sex and love. To me they're deeply intertwined, and I can't be with someone who detaches emotional intimacy from sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/22 09:22 PM