nahdawgnahh Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	As a newbie, some questions about this sub and moving forward Don't worry about it, man. They're not tricks. You're not changing "you". "You" refers to the personality created by the sum of your experiences thus far; you can't take those away. You're just adding new experiences. You're not changing yourself, you're building yourself up.	/r/seduction	17/05/13 05:49 AM
2	Excuse me for a minute. I need to [Rant] Almost every guy has had SOME girl tell him he's ugly. I've had at least a couple, and most of my buddies have had similar experiences and they're all good looking and do fine with women. Some girls just say shitty stuff to get a rise out of you. Just cause a few women called you ugly does NOT mean you are ugly. I sincerely doubt you are ugly. As for a look of disgust, hardly any woman will give you a look of disgust immediately because of your looks (a very, very few might but they are outliers…	/r/seduction	17/05/13 05:19 AM
5	What advice would you guys give to a 15 year old who wants to really work on his inner game and mainly do daygame? This is just my personal opinion, but this is what I would force myself to do at 15 if I had a time machine (more lifestyle stuff than techniques for meeting people, but I think this is the most important stuff for your social life in the long run): Lift weights. Put on a bunch of muscle and then cut down until you're ripped. Play a sport (preferably contact). If you aren't good at the traditional sports, start training a martial art (a real one, like one of the MMA ones) and compete. Those two …	/r/seduction	17/05/13 04:20 AM
1	I know it's a taboo, but anyone ever succeed in Gym Game? Ruh roh. Maybe once Google Glass becomes widespread, there will be an app that has floating age numbers above everyone's heads so those situations are more easily avoidable. We can only hope.	/r/seduction	17/05/13 03:51 AM
7	did I escalate too quickly and scare her off? Your problem is probably that you told her you are inexperienced. That's pretty much a guaranteed attraction-killer. If it comes up with future girls, don't lie about it, just be slightly evasive and don't give them straight answers. Just turn it into playful teasing or something.	/r/seduction	17/05/13 03:50 AM
1	I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement. Hey man, I've always loved your posts and you've really been an awesome contributor over the years. Best of luck with the Kickstarter but I doubt you'll have any troubles with that. Keep rocking.	/r/seduction	17/05/13 03:30 AM
1	Excuse me for a minute. I need to [Rant] Haha, okay yeah, that's a great point. BTW I totally agree that outer game is woefully underrepresented on seddit. I was just theorizing as to why that happens. I guess that what I meant was that part of that guy's mindset is "It's okay to look this way, and girls should accept me for who I am - the way I dress and my fitness level are part of that." Guys like this also tend to think that you can't improve your game, but that you're just inherently good or bad with women and you're doomed to you…	/r/seduction	16/05/13 09:26 PM
1	Excuse me for a minute. I need to [Rant] I have seen you posting around here before and I'm convinced that your "genetic deficiency" is purely in your head. You let it get to you and it shines through in your behaviour - THAT's what people are reacting to, not your looks. I don't know what the solution is but I have really become certain that the problem is your self-defeating attitude. I know that's not a very helpful thing to say and I'm sorry I can't give any good advice, but your posts make me sad because you're just sabotaging you…	/r/seduction	16/05/13 06:46 PM
1	Excuse me for a minute. I need to [Rant] You are right, but I think there are a good amount of guys whose "inner game" is so messed up that no amount of outer game will help. Fedora-wearing overweight neckbeards in ratty metal band XXL T shirts, for example. Those guys are gonna have to go through some modicum of "self improvement" measures before they can really start seeing any results just from running outer game techniques. This being the internet, and reddit having a lot of these gamer dudes (who I totally dig and am not trying to…	/r/seduction	16/05/13 06:41 PM
21	Excuse me for a minute. I need to [Rant] A lot of guys use toned-down cold approach techniques for social circle game. So they don't ever sarge, but the stuff that gets posted here helps them anyhow.	/r/seduction	16/05/13 06:35 PM
3	Tempted to join an open-for-all Saturday Day Game sarge in London this weekend but I am afraid I am too ugly in comparison to the other guys I have seen there -- perhaps this is too ambitious? FUCKING GO DUDE. (insert speech from Braveheart here). Go. Before you go, grab a few hundred bucks. Head to a nice clothing store (with casual clothes, figure it out on the interwebs or on /r/malefashionadvice) and get someone that works there to help you pick out some stylish outfits. If you have time take that shit to a tailor and get it all custom-fitted and badassified. Read the shit on the MFA sidebar about shoes and grab some new ones. You don't have to spend a ton on these, just follow th…	/r/seduction	15/05/13 07:17 AM
1	Having trouble seducing myself Are you creative in any way? Music/art is always a solid choice. If not, perhaps something that will require you to start a mission, particularly with a group. Like decide to run a marathon or something, and joining a training group. Lifting is a bit solitary, and kind of never-ending, so maybe a physical pursuit with a defined goal would give you the center you're looking for.	/r/seduction	15/05/13 07:03 AM
4	Serious question - men who cleaned up their life and became awesome, what were the biggest things that helped you? IMO alcohol is awesome when you're starting out (in moderation of course) because it gives you a sneak peek of "not giving a fuck." It can be really difficult to get out of your head and just talk to people when you're new. If you get a bit drunk and lose a few inhibitions, you'll probably have a bunch of great interactions that you can then recall afterwards and think "Oh, this is what happens when I just stop worrying about everything and have fun." It helps build positive reference experience…	/r/seduction	14/05/13 07:25 AM
4	How do you respond when a friend devalues you? This is your friend. There's no need to fuck with any game stuff to put him in his place, or whatever. Just tell him exactly what you have a problem with. "Dude, when we are talking to girls, and you say negative shit about me, it makes me look bad. You gotta stop that shit. It's fucking up my game." If he doesn't stop after you tell him this ONE FUCKING TIME, then bam - he's not your friend. But probably he'll just stop and everything will be happy and cool forever. I think there are a ton of g…	/r/seduction	14/05/13 07:20 AM
0	Billy's Guide to Shit Tests I dig your attitude, but I think shit tests are a fact of life no matter how flawless your game is. In fact the naturals I know get shit tested constantly, in really obvious ways, because they pursue the hottest girls. The only times I haven't had regular shit tests from a girl have been from girls who are clearly cruising for dick and just waiting for the first doable prospect to come along.	/r/seduction	10/05/13 05:31 PM
30	Billy's Guide to Shit Tests Hmm, are those Beta responses really THAT bad? I guess it depends on the delivery... but they seem passable at least. shrug Your suggestions, though, are some serious balls-of-steel moves. The "gay" one especially. You're leaving nothing left of her frame but a smoldering crater :)	/r/seduction	10/05/13 05:40 AM
1	Girls look down at their feet when they walk by me? I don't know man, I have known some guys who embodied attractive characteristics in every way, and even they would not often have girls on the street making eye contact. In a bar/club, yeah, sure. But on the street I think they just intimidated the shit out of most girls. Guys too, for that matter. Now I don't know if the OP is intimidating anybody, my intuition is probably not. But I also doubt that the girls are avoiding his gaze because of any negative reason. TLDR Don't worry about it OP	/r/seduction	10/05/13 04:24 AM
2	Do girls get intimidated by good looking men like men get intimidated by good looking women? Check out /u/KitsBeach comment above - body language, posture, etc. These things can indeed indicate confidence from afar, I'd argue. Also I'd imagine social proof would be a factor; if the guy appears to be the "leader" of his group, or has a bunch of attractive girls with him at the bar, or what not.	/r/seduction	10/05/13 04:14 AM
1	Alright seddit..... I need some feedback on what it takes to pull the 8's,9's and 10's.... People who are better than me can probably give better advice, but all I can say is that in my opinion this is just always gonna be tough, maybe impossible for most guys. In America especially, something like 60% of girls are overweight. This means that fit girls in the 6-10 range are relatively much more attractive than they'd be if we didn't have such a nationwide weight problem. In turn, this means that girls at the high end of the scale go from being interested in only really attractive guys…	/r/seduction	09/05/13 08:21 AM
1	Getting discouraged Check out Day Bang by Roosh - he recommends an indirect style of daygame with a pretty nifty system that works well at coffee shops and similar places (a friend of mine has used it a lot and had good results). It might help you with the creepiness thing. In particular Roosh doesn't recommend any kino at all during the approach, which could maybe change your results? I'm gonna take a slightly different tack from the other commenters here and say that people are probably acting like daytime approa…	/r/seduction	09/05/13 06:42 AM
3	College game is a totally different animal, and from what I've experienced so far, I think it should be approached differently. Agree/disagree? Just gotta say, high five for throwing up actual numbers. Also it sounds like you have devised a pretty efficient pipeline.	/r/seduction	09/05/13 06:31 AM
2	College game is a totally different animal, and from what I've experienced so far, I think it should be approached differently. Agree/disagree? Agreed. Your friends probably just don't have the right frame. Treat the study session like you would a date - push/pull, qualify her, get her talking about herself, escalate, etc. You're not there to study, you're there to get laid :)	/r/seduction	09/05/13 06:28 AM
3	[FR] College party game, first time F-close/almost-SNL Yeah but without game he could have changed that at any step along the way. I think girls put you in the "fuck" or "no fuck" box within seconds of meeting you and game mostly just keeps you in the "fuck" box if you're there already. Maybe if you're a magic PUA wizard you can go from "no fuck" to "fuck", though. But I don't think I've ever done that. However, I've seen plenty of guys (and myself, often :P) that were doing okay make a misstep and get denied.	/r/seduction	09/05/13 06:20 AM
2	On crutches, figured they'd help, at least start a convo, but still same ol' same ol'. ADVICE? Ha, well perhaps it isn't "evolutionarily attractive" as /u/Atavistar said, that's a fair point. But, by that logic really skinny dudes shouldn't be getting laid, and plenty of them do fine. Hell, guys with glasses should be out of luck, too. My intuition is that you should be fine with crutches. Your response to that shit test might have been a little shaky; I think you're probably still just getting the hang of things. Keep going out! Getting a lay while on crutches would make a great story.	/r/seduction	09/05/13 06:13 AM
1	Motorcycles. Try one. Interesting point, but you probably have some confirmation bias. I wouldn't be surprised if the truth is closer to "Women don't give a fuck about motorcycles, but they love the type of guys who ride motorcycles." You have a motorcycle BECAUSE you're one of those guys. You'd probably do just fine without it. Now, the interesting question is whether getting a motorcycle could push a person further toward BECOMING the same type of guy as a typical motorcycle owner. And hey, having the balls to get …	/r/seduction	09/05/13 04:45 AM
0	Motorcycles. Try one. There's no sense in bitching about something you can't change, just accept it and learn to appreciate it for what it is. Tigers are total dickholes, but most people still think they are cool even though tigers do a lot of shit that people wish they wouldn't. I think girls often use ineffective decision-making processes (even girls that are unquestionably super-intelligent in an academic sense) and tend to gravitate towards people who are unhealthy for them, but they are a lot better than me at o…	/r/seduction	09/05/13 04:41 AM
1	How can I get over my scarcity mindset when I live in an area of scarcity? Yeah, this is kind of a shitty situation. It's hard to have oneitis when you have tons of options. But with no options it can creep in more easily. You need to move to a big city. Live where the girls live. If you really want girls to be a part of your life you have to prioritize the pursuit of girls to the same level you do everything else. Start applying for other jobs now. Or, ask your buddy if you can work remotely. You'd have a hard time surviving as a subsistence fisherman if you lived far…	/r/seduction	09/05/13 04:34 AM
97	Do girls get intimidated by good looking men like men get intimidated by good looking women? I think girls are intimidated by ATTRACTIVE men, just like guys are by attractive girls. The difference is, attractive girls = physically good-looking, while attractive guys = a whole host of factors. So they probably won't be intimidated by a guy based solely on his physical appearance, at least not to the degree that a guy would by a hot girl. Just my guess.	/r/seduction	09/05/13 04:21 AM
21	Do girls get intimidated by good looking men like men get intimidated by good looking women? Ha yup, girls are masters of indirect openers :P	/r/seduction	09/05/13 04:19 AM
1	Is it bad game to not be a aloof and to not observe things like texting rules? How much damage is this doing to my game? Most people's experience is that what you are describing is, indeed, bad for your game. In fact, you're kind of breaking all of the rules of text/phone game with what you're describing. I'm not really sure whether you are "practicing bad game" or "ignoring game" in this instance :P. Although I assume you must be doing fine in other aspects of your game since you're getting a bunch of dates. But, how about this? For the next 10 girls, follow normal "aloof" game rules (text/phone game especially) …	/r/seduction	08/05/13 09:34 AM
2	New Stanford research on speed dating examines what makes couples 'click' in four minutes Edit: I kind of misread your post, my reply was more geared towards in-person conversation. One thing you can do is phrase your questions as statements. Instead of "what was it like to XYZ?" you could say "oh, it must have been really difficult for you to XYZ since you're so ABC." Even if you're wrong in your assumption it'll still lead to more conversation.	/r/seduction	07/05/13 09:43 AM
1	Comedy and Seduction I think listening to some standup could help. He gets name dropped around here a lot, but Joe Rogan is a really awesome comic that I think is really in line with the community as far as his views on dating, etc. He also has sections at the end of his CDs where he just "freestyle jokes" more or less while answering audience questions, those could be especially helpful to listen to. It might not be too original, but if you're listening to stuff that's even slightly "off the beaten path" you can ju…	/r/seduction	07/05/13 08:55 AM
3	I'm good at working a group, but when it comes to 1 on 1 interactions I have no idea what I'm doing. I'm kind of the same way and I generally stick to few things during dates. Conversation threading - I think this is in the sidebar, or you can google it. Basically, look at every noun and verb in a sentence and base your next sentence on that. I.e., from "I flew to Paris this Spring" could go to FLEW: "Oh man, how long is that flight? Planes really freak me out.", or to PARIS: "Paris? Whoa did you see the Louvre? I've always heard the Mona Lisa is weirdly small in person.", or to SPRING: "Well, …	/r/seduction	07/05/13 08:28 AM
1	I'm worried that I'm wasting college I wasn't in this situation in college but I ended up in a similar one when most of my buddies got married. I just had one (awesome) friend/wing to hang with and we had 0 social circle (not counting our stable, otherwise awesome, but very introverted friend group). So we started discussing how to grow one from scratch. Here's what we came up with, more or less: Don't shut out your old friends (unless they are truly toxic, and this certainly wasn't the case for us), just don't hang out with them o…	/r/seduction	07/05/13 07:39 AM
2	Here is my Bar/Club game. Please Critique. Whoa dude, dancing is awesome. Even if you don't have the smallest fucking clue how to dance, it doesn't matter at all. If a girl is interested in you AT ALL she will most likely dance with you without a second thought, and somehow in our ridiculous society this now means she will grind her ass and crotch against you (a guy she just met) while you vaguely rock back and forth to the beat for half an hour (this requires no dancing skill on your part). The fact that this is just what the average gi…	/r/seduction	07/05/13 06:28 AM
27	Seddit,how do you feel about taking a girl out who you're not extremely attracted to just to lose the V card? No offense to the other commenters here but I really disagree with what they are saying completely. The thing about your first time is that generally it's NOT special in any way, no matter who you do it with. It's only special because you think it's special, and you're gonna have to get it over with before you realize that. Plus, walking around with this self-imposed "weight" on your shoulders is gonna COMPLETELY ruin your ability to pull girls that you actually ARE attracted to, so the sooner y…	/r/seduction	07/05/13 03:09 AM