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A lot of people aren't able to understand that just because women can now control their fertility, it won't undo thousands and thousands of years of evolution. It couldn't be more obvious why women would evolve to be pickier - as the sex who has to bear children, and as the sex who is penetrated. But people's minds often don't even go there because they can only understand the current reality. And of course, the 'nature and nurture' crowd usually is only interested in the latter and doesn't actu…
/r/ExRedPill01/12/22 06:06 PM
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My take. They're both born out of a similar kind of paranoia related to the opposite sex. FDS'ers are often wounded people who move through the world as though they have a target on their back. Every decision made in the dating process assumes the worst out of every man. They have no trust in their intuition which is why they need this rigid protocol. It's also reassuring for them to overemphasize what they believe to be men's ugly nature, and they regularly took material from TRP to strengthen …
/r/ExRedPill30/11/22 10:54 AM
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No matter what people on here might say, you do not need to be okay with any of this. It's perfectly fine for you to want a partner who does not have that kind of past. You do not need to gaslight yourself into accepting this, even if she was using it to cope with issues she was having at the time. You just need to self-examine for a little longer, to understand whether or not you take issue with it because of a fundamentally different conception of intimacy. You do not need to view sex a fun ga…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 01:18 AM
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While a certain positive correlation might exist, those of us who have been around men who are playboys can testify to the fact that many of these types are horribly misogynistic, in a way that is more dangerous to women due to their constant real life intimate engagement with them. We can simply call out the misogyny and address the arguments instead of speculating about someone's sex life. The tacit assumption lurking behind this rhetoric is that women have no higher, better purpose beyond bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:32 PM
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Why not just stick to calling them misogynists? I don't understand the obsession with calling sexist men sexless around here. Getting your dick wet doesn't make you any less likely to be a shitty person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:09 PM
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You know that 40% of households in America have female breadwinners and that most people date within their socioeconomic class...?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:57 PM
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I don't think that's a great parallel, and I don't think any of the comments saying it's not real life are really satisfying the curiosity. Because it is a bit strange that a group of people who want equality in every other sphere enjoy submission in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:26 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:42 PM
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What the fuck. Where do you live that you've never heard of that happening? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:24 PM
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It's not about being desperate. It's about being horny. You don't know any hoes. Almost every hoe has a million anecdotes about lays that she regrets now that the sex drive calmed down.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 07:33 AM
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Does he only get dates through Tinder? Does he use other apps? Does his profile include something about wanting a serious relationship? How old are the women he is seeing? Maybe instead of going from jock to nerdy, he could try to tailor a more less 'fun' profile. Serious, professional man type. Just to catch those matches...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:06 AM
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I appreciate this point. I've pointed out in another comment that most people (or at least, the most active) seem to have a very rigid narrative they stick to. Men who will say that sexual intimacy with a loving partner is almost a need for them will be downvoted, even when they specify that they can still live without it and don't use it to be toxic to others. Just that it's really difficult to cope with. It feels like people here don't want to allow men to have a space to talk about their expe…
/r/ExRedPill28/09/22 11:11 PM
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Dude is at the right place at the right time... Or he can host. Pretty big perk when you're young.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:00 PM
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Yeah... that's true for some people. There are promiscuous women with different standards who will sleep with men that they aren't that interested in because of opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 08:57 PM
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Because people here are deeply committed to their narrative and don't want you to say that having sex with someone who cares about you is a need for you. That reminds them of RP rhetoric, so it's not an okay thing to voice.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/22 03:49 PM
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I genuinely don't think that will ever happen, whether it's for men or women. Because of our biological imperative. I think that people who know that it's not in the cards for them shouldn't rely on society approving of them, or not considering them as fully accomplished.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/22 03:40 PM
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I'm a woman. Sorry to inform you that not all of us are like you and that your experience is not the universal female experience. It is quite bold for you to assume that any woman who doesn't reflect your experience is a dude. I've very careful with my wording in my original comment in order not to make a statement encompassing all women, I spoke about those of us who like these qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:25 PM
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You can reread my comment. It started with 'some of us', then 'those of us who' and 'some women'.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:23 AM
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Some of us like men who are bold and forward... especially when we're looking to date. And those of us who are that worried about being used for sex will simply wait for the appropriate time. Turns out it's a fairly common vetting strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:38 PM
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They would go to gay clubs if it was just about dancing. That's why I don't buy it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:15 PM
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Because people have emotions. You can enjoy sex & still develop feelings for someone or have certain expectations based on how you connect. Not everyone can deal with that no strings attached sex, and being ghosted right after having sex with someone you connected with on an emotional level often hurts. I don't understand why you think someone enjoying sex while at the same time being upset at being used for sex by a person they thought had an investment in them is contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:30 AM
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And you won't get any sympathy from the men on here. They will just argue over numbers, say your fear is unfounded, etc. They're never going to understand what it is like to fear for their safety & life in a dating context.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:43 PM
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Lose weight.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 11:04 PM
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Become really good at pleasing her?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:47 AM
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Your comment was about what he 'should' do, not what he can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:06 PM
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Why 'should' he do anything? Why are you, and other people here, that concerned about what men who belong to a tiny demographic you will never be apart of are doing? Does it piss you off that some older, rich gentlemen choose to pursue and date women who are around their age?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:58 PM
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And you're still here, posting on this pedo-filled website. I don't know why you're under the impression this platform is any better than other social media platforms (Twitter for example, exposes minors to sexual content and its ToS condones this). The mods are well within their right to not want to invest their time in this anymore. And they could've just given the subreddit to someone else, instead of shutting it down because they want to leave, not considering how hundreds of thousands of wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/22 03:11 AM
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Would he forgive you if you cheated on him and let you go at the same place around the dude you cheated on him with? Ask yourself that. Don't allow for behaviour your partner would never accept from you, especially when they are acting like they're the victim when they're the ones who wronged you in the first place. He obviously doesn't care about your feelings enough.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/22 01:28 AM
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Yeah, literally no one cares if individuals choose to do things they're uncomfortable with for their partner's sake, if it's a free decision they made. My problem is with this idea you should do something that is uncomfortable and painful to 'prove your love'.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:51 PM
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I don't really see how it's relevant to my original comment since I said 'It's only women who have to do things they're not comfortable with to get their partner off?". Comfort level is the reason I mentioned pegging. It's only a minority of women who have tried anal, and an even smaller number who have enjoyed it and continue doing it. It's painful, most women either have no interest in doing it or derive zero pleasure from it. It is unfair for men to demand women engage in sex acts they do not…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:04 AM
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And you don't care to elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:08 AM
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Wonder if he'd let his wife stick it in his ass if that's her fetish. Oh, this only goes one way? It's only women who have to do things they're not comfortable with to get their partner off? Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:32 PM
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That's one of the issues with this whole 'you're sexualizing yourself by wearing leggings' discourse. They seem to forget curvy women... exist. If you have big boobs, they will be visible unless you wear XL men's sweatshirts all the time. If you're a woman with a big butt, it will show unless you're going around wearing large dresses that are designed to hide any curves. So by this logic, all of us who dress like regular women are constantly sexualizing ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:08 AM
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They can't even let women complain about issues we all know women are mostly the targets of (eg. rape or domestic violence) because in their world, men must be the victims, always. Some extreme victim mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:47 PM
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The fact they often bring up the 'But I'm a man and none of my female relatives or friends ever told me they were raped!!!' is funny. I guess because women don't feel comfortable telling people, especially men, that they got raped, it means it only happens to 0.00000001% of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:34 PM
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