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Discussionnailpolishremover2/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 01:27 PM
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Discussionnailpolishremover2/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 04:04 PM
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Be civil. Reported for personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 08:22 PM
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I don’t expect random men to support me. But I 100% expect a husband to support me and if he doesn’t there is no point in having him around the first place. regardless of gender husband and wife should support each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 04:55 PM
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I don’t binge on garbage. I never binged in my entire life. But I am still chubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 04:46 PM
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Regardless that’s what husbands say
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 04:46 PM
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I’m not obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 01:05 PM
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You don’t realize that men don’t want to support women when they get an education and don’t want to move
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:29 PM
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Then your husband says “why did you make less money? You just want to use me for my income and not work hard”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:28 PM
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Exactly. You don’t. You’re just judgemental
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:14 PM
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A lot of medical professionals
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:10 PM
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I don’t know. He is just incredibly frugal and penny pinching. We never ever turn on the air conditioning, our house is falling apart (tiles falling off, not enough bedrooms, mold in a shower) and he doesn’t want to do basic remodeling or buy a new house, and he has 99 ¢ flip flops that got ripped and instead of buying new ones he repaired them with duct tape.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:09 PM
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I don’t care. If he was doing it to get married I would be happy. But to get laid I would be like “meh” because I don’t engage in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:07 PM
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It would give that woman better results but men would never ever stop mocking her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:06 PM
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Yeah because I don’t go on okcupid and have 100 men message me. If I made an okcupid profile I would have dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:06 PM
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Divorce Then men say “why do women initiate most divorces”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:05 PM
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It doesn’t mean she isn’t working long hours
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:04 PM
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So when you worked 80 hours a week, you destroyed your health but then you make fun of a woman who destroys her health doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:04 PM
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Exactly. A 6/10 chubby girl is alway going to be worth less than a 6/10 chubby guy because men have a hypergamous nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:02 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/8u5ur9/well_there_ya_go/?st=JIX4POEN&sh=e2d32029 Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:02 PM
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Regardless of whether or not you turn your husband down for sex, he will still masturbate to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 12:58 PM
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I would rather buy a treadmill. I don’t Want hemorrhoids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 12:56 PM
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Do you work 80 hours a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 12:56 PM
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Do you work 80 hours a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 12:56 PM
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This is hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 12:55 PM
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This is hypothetical. I don’t have a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 12:54 PM
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I never said I am gaining weight. I am staying the same weight for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 12:53 PM
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A married man jerking off is mentally cheating every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:21 AM
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You literally said I am annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:17 AM
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Good for you. I would try to starve myself because I can’t stand sitting that much, but I would be miserable and depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:16 AM
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It’s not an angry wife berating him for not giving him enough time. If he was a woman in law school his husband would be saying “you don’t make enough money. I am helping you pay so you take care of the kids”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:14 AM
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I never ever said I eat less than 1200. I eat about 1900. I feel like I am starving to death and stay up all night when I eat 1200 for more than like 2 days at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:13 AM
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Thanks for the tip. I guess I’ll just give up and stuff my face because I am an annoyance and a burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:12 AM
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I don’t. But I also don’t bully and put down people who do so and gain weight. Does he have to come home and cook and clean yo for his wife and kids while his wife sits down and watches the tv and says “you’re not making money in law school so you have to do all the housework”?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:11 AM
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Because I work hard on my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:10 AM
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half. From 2,000 to 1,000 calories. That’s very little.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:08 AM
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Do you you work 80 hours a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:07 AM
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Do you work 80 hours a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:07 AM
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And mine is 1200 so.....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:07 AM
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Do you work 80 hours per week?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:06 AM
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Do you work 80 hours a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:04 AM
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I also am just trying to lose like 20 lbs and you all treat me as if that means I am a morbidly obese disgusting cow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:04 AM
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Imagine working 80 hours a week and having twins. Would you still be upset if your wife gained 20 lbs?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:03 AM
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You’re a gold digger /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 10:43 PM
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Yeah at that point I would get a divorce. Then he’s going to say “why do women initiate most divorces, women are so disloyal”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 10:43 PM
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It’s not an excuse. You’re deliberately ignoring my point. When you’re stressed, exhausted, depressed, and overwhelmed you’re not going to think about your diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 10:42 PM
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You’re deliberately ignoring my point. When you’re stress, exhausted, depressed, and overwhelmed you aren’t going to say “let me watch what I eat”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 10:41 PM
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You’re deliberately ignoring my point. When you’re stretched thin to the breaking point, exhausted, depressed, and overwhelmed, you don’t say to yourself “I am going to try arch what I eat”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 10:40 PM
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My dad makes over $200k and he would never ever ever ever hit a maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 10:39 PM
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It is that if a woman works 60 hours a week and makes $70k and her husband works 40 hours a week but makes $150k, he will still expect her to do all the housework and not to quit working or work less hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:47 PM
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I am not firing any statistics. I am saying that most women work full time and are at least partial bread winners for their family.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:40 PM
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Woman: I want a man who dan sillier a middle class family Men: you’re a gold digger!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:34 PM
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Because I know a lot of working moms who work like dogs to support their husbands. Example: nurse married to a magician.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:30 PM
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Maybe go support a stay at home mom. I would rather be a SAHM but men call them gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:29 PM
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Even 10 pounds is important. Trust me. Men are very observant and critical.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:29 PM
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Usually they are working long hours and don’t have time for the gym. My dad works 80 hours a week and while he isn’t fat, he is out of shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:28 PM
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Sitting all day Having a lot of stress Being too exhausted to go to the gym or buy groceries after an 80 hour workweek being expected to do the housework
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:27 PM
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Okay. Your husband is still waiting for dinner. It’s 9 on. You’re exhausted and hungry. He gets upset when you suggest buying a stair master to keep at home, telling you that you’re a gold digger if you expect to spend the family money on one. The kids need to be fed, washed, and put to bed. When do you go to the gym? 2 am? You have to be up at 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:26 PM
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1 going to the gym doesn’t help you lose weight. I posted how much I exercise and was immediately shut down for being disgusting and fat and told over and over that going to the gym doesn’t help you lose weight. 2.Do you and your wife work 80 hours a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:24 PM
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Yeah but at least she is making good money and her her husband can never accused her of being a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:23 PM
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They don’t necessarily work less hours. Shocking, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:23 PM
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I doubt it. Men constantly masturbate other women on porn every day. A woman Can never feel truly secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:22 PM
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Maybe they needed the car??? That is a retarded analogy and it is regarded to expect a woman to dump her boyfriend for you and then hold a grudge against her for not dumping her boyfriend to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:21 PM
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I am glad you have an iron will and don’t eat after you’ve been at work for 16 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:20 PM
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Okay. I am glad to know that you have an iron will to not eat after you get home from work at 11 pm after being our since 7 am.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:19 PM
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After you get home at 9 pm frombeing out at work since 7 am when you’re tired and hungry, still have to do laundry, still have to help the kids with homework and pack their lunches, still need to please your husband sexually and vacuum the house, You’re not going to say “let me go get some fresh vegetables and make a salad then go jogging at midnight”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:18 PM
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Okay so you naturally don’t eat as much. Someone who has a large appetite and just worked 16 hours at a shitty job and just got home at 9 pm isn’t going to say “okay lemme to jogging and eat a salad after I cook dinner for j kids and put them to bed and have sex with my husband and be up and ready to bring the kids to school and make breakfast at 5 am”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:16 PM
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Men don’t approach women anymore. Women. Have to do it. If your not calm and enthusiastic after I approach you, then you’ve lost your chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:13 PM
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No it’s not. Women are not ridiculously picky about looks the way men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:13 PM
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If he settles he becomes resentful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:12 PM
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I would be pissed if my husband dumped everything on me (work, childcare, housework and then was like “be careful not to get fat!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:12 PM
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Stress eating After a long 16 hour day at work, to puré not in the mood to have a salad and go jogging. You’re going to be super hungry and super tired. If you’ve ever worked night shifts, you get hungry in the usual daytime hours of breakfast, lunch, and dinner but then you get hungry at like 3 am at work. Do that for a year or so and you easily can gain 10-20 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:11 PM
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Yes but stress contributes to wanting to eat more. Sitting = less calories burned.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 04:00 PM
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About 40% of women are the main breadwinners for a family. Not just that, most women who aren’t the main breadwinner still have to work full time and do all the housework and childcare
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 03:59 PM
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Lol I agree somewhat
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 03:14 PM
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It’s not to compete. I just want one person not 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 02:59 PM
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Women gain weight because they have to work 2 jobs, do all the housework, and do all the childcare while married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 02:58 PM
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Maybe some women are the same. I don’t get approached ever either. But somehow I can maintain myself when it happens once in a blue moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 02:57 PM
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What if she is married and working on improving herself with her husband’s reeeeesourced without the intention of divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 02:57 PM
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Personally, I think women get fat after marriage because they have to support a man financially and they end up working 2 jobs and gaining weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 02:56 PM
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Yeah but why do 6/10 slightly chubby men reject women like them, who are a 6/10 and need to lose like 10-20 lbs?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 02:55 PM
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That’s pretty depressing that men look at their attractive young wife and the first thing they can think of is “will she get fat”. For the record most women who get fat do so because they are working 2 desk jobs to support the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 02:54 PM
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Do men look down on her for making the changes ONLY to find a man. Not for herself, her life, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 02:03 PM
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I don’t mind initiating conversations and even asking someone out (depending on the situation) but the guy has to be enthusiastic and happy with my attention. If you don’t seem happy to have me there and don’t seem to be putting an effort into dating me and whatnot, then I will back off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 12:53 PM
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Higher risk. Women can’t run away from a pregnancy the way men can (men can just leave and suffer no physical consequences, women can’t). Women are also more prone to STD’s. Women’s sexual arousal depends on circumstance. It’s easy to get turned on with an attractive guy who you know is crazy about and in love with you and only you. It’s not easy if you know you’re just another notch on his belt. Men can just see boobs and get a boner. Women need emotions and psyche involved. Higher slut shaming…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 11:59 PM
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She had a boyfriend She was moving out of state and didn’t want to commit and get hurt She didn’t feel emotionally ready to date after a bad breakup She had too much personal stress going on due to family life. All these are valid reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 08:23 PM
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It depends on what happened. You rejected me because you had a girlfriend? Then it’s fine. You rejected me because you thought I was ugly? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 04:14 PM
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Why wouldn’t you just say no instead of playing mind games???
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:03 PM
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Oh good Lord, imagine a guy being this petty about 2 years. How old are you, btw?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:01 PM
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Adam drivers face is much better looking good grief.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 01:29 AM
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If a guy was flakey and weird and I was the type of person who was super into casual sex I would just kick him out of the bedroom or leave if he didn’t try.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 06:17 PM
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Do you really believe there isn’t a plethora of men who don’t derive pride from making a woman orgasm (several times even)? Do you really believe that if a woman puts on her tinder bio “I am looking for a guy who will help me find my g-spot” that most men are going to read her bio and be like “that’s gonna be a no from me, dawg, that’s too much work.” And do you believe that if a woman goes out and has NSA casual sex with some random, and tells him “I want you to do XYZ” (eg role play, fetish, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 02:56 PM
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Most guys want something in return for free sex??? Hahahahahahaha. He gets FREE SEX. Men are the ones who pay for sex. If I wanted casual sex and I get it, I get sex and he gets sex. That’s the exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 01:28 PM
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Cosmo magazine does not have “game”. It’s mainly just sex tips. Inb4 that is game. There isn’t information on things like “how to find a suitable husband” or “how to ensure that he texts you back”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 01:22 PM
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Omg on Reddit if you say that worrying about chores and laundry and errands is stressful they will bother you and say that it’s women’s work. Even if you both work full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 01:20 PM
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Why would I pay a sex worker to please me sexually when I can find a man on tinder who will do it with pleasure and gusto for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 07:14 PM
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I agree but literally a ton of men told me I am demanding and entitled if I wait a few months before having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:34 PM
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But every failed relationship means an n count which is that much higher, an age which is that much higher, and an SMV which is that much lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:06 PM
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tells me that all women offer is vagina even I don’t say it’s all women have to offer 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 01:03 PM
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These men complain about how construction is so hard, but then turn their noses up at becoming nurses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 01:02 PM
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Why do you think that this is true? Most of the time women who become resentful and dead bedroom a guy are women who are working 3 jobs to keep food on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 01:01 PM
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There are entire communities of men saying all women offer is their vagina and nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 03:44 AM
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Many people do a good job of hiding these things and pretending to be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 11:43 PM
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Implying physical violence is the only way a man can fuck up your life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:19 PM
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No they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:59 PM
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This thread is comparing construction workers and nurses. That said, more women than men are now in medical school.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:07 PM
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And the higher your SMV and RMV the more options a woman has.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:05 PM
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No one is stopping men from going to Nursing school.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:03 PM
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If only nice men weren’t so disgustingly ugly!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:02 PM
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Not me. I am waiting until marriage. That said, I will entertain. IUD: you literally have a device shoved up your uterus. It hurts, messes with your period, and is a foreign object in your uterus. Many have hormones. Birth control: these are hormones. They mess with your mood, your monthly cycle, your weight, etc. I know so many young women who became suicidal or nuts on birth control. Others who got fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 08:50 PM
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Because repeatedly, men, including you, have said that if a woman demands commitment before sex she will end up old and alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 08:44 PM
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STOP FUCKING DOUCHEBAGS BUT ALSO STOP WAITING FOR EXCLUSIVITY TO HAVE SEX. COMMITMENT IS TOO MUCH TO ASK FOR
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 08:35 PM
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I thought a 40 year old man ages like wine and gets to regularly bang 20 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 08:33 PM
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Why didn’t the men become nurses too?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 08:32 PM
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Men call stay at home moms lazy gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 08:30 PM
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Do you think men tell women up front that they are going to leave them and not pay child support? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 08:29 PM
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You think shitty men tell you up front about how shitty they are??? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 08:28 PM
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Yes but I would rather be Rich and unable to find a husband than a poor abandoned single mom in a ghetto neighborhood who easily found men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 08:26 PM
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I am not a surgeon. I don’t make that much money. I make a pretty middle class income but have been living with my family and saving most of it. If I marry someone who is like me, we could easily get a good quality condo with a 15 year morras in a nice area and be able to make all the monthly payments without crippling ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 05:13 PM
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Well tons of men have have gone out of their way to tell me my body is most likely disgusting and I will never be good enough unless I become skinny. So. There we go.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 05:11 PM
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And I make good money. I really don’t want to live in a ghetto area. I would rather own a condo in a good neighborhood than a mansion in a shitty neighborhood
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 05:10 PM
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Well I am aiming for a truly great body. Period. All or nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 05:00 PM
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I am not fat though. I am average. But by reading how critical and harsh men are towards women’s bodies, men would say I am fat. I don’t look at myself and see fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 04:51 PM
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Nope. Not ugly. I’ve been called cute by men online.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:02 PM
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so much for love, right? Love isn’t just blind lust for the person you’re with 24/7 and being eager to be pushed around and used. If you want to get married, and the guy you’re with doesn’t want to marry you, then you’re loving the wrong person. A problem with the list you made is that men don’t really want those things (trust me, when men ask angrily “what do you have to offer” I make a list of similar values and get harshly torn apart. good partners A woman has to spend a year or so proving sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 01:21 PM
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You basically said everything I sad is right and on top of it all women are scheming to ruin your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 12:52 PM
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I am not attracted to anyone at this time. I am basing this off my readings on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 01:33 AM
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men feelings Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 01:30 AM
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So you agree. Men hate women. Women are destined to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 08:05 PM
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I don’t mind lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 06:02 PM
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Mgtow, the red pill, r9k lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 02:57 PM
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Men find love and commitment to be a huge burden and don’t want to do it. Men are extremely critical and harsh about women’s bodies and age. Men don’t want to marry. Men don’t want to combine finances after marriage. Men consider financially supporting/ contributing to their family to be a huge burden. Men expect their wives to make good money Even if she is making good money, she has to do all the housework and childcare and errands and whatnot. Men consider a woman who wants to live in a good …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 01:32 PM
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Do mentally stable men talk about “post wall” women IRL? Nope. Neither will I.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 12:54 PM
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Ayyy I am waiting too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 06:25 AM
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That obese women are getting male models I have never seen this irl. I have seen an obese woman with a non obese guy but not an obese woman with an exceptionally attractive guy. That men who are ugly are more loving and appreciative. Yes, the chadly male model 9/10 is more likely to be a douche than the 5/10 average dude. But the 4/10 guy isn’t always going to be nicer than the 7-8/10 guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 06:25 AM
1

It depends on your family and culture. I would never live with someone until I am married but I am conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 06:20 AM
5

It’s not a game if you clearly, in plain English say “let’s slow things down a bit. Marriage is a huge commitment. I want to make sure you’re the one for me. Let’s be a serious couple for a few months to decide about marriage.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 06:19 AM
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Tell him early on that you’re looking for marriage. “Just so you know, I want to eventually find a guy to settle down with and marry. If this isn’t something you eventually want, it’s fine if you don’t, but I would rather know early on so that we don’t waste each other’s time”. Then spend a good 6-12 months seriously vetting him as potential husband material. That means observing how he treats you, children, his family, your family, etc. Is this someone kind, loving, self-sacrificing, generous, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 06:17 AM
1

Exactly. Men love to complain about women who are several years younger than them but are still “too old” (example: a 45 year old man complaining how women over 30 are awful), so I will complain about men who are too old for me, loud and proud the same way these men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 03:28 AM
3

As a girl who is working on going from ugly to hot, as soon as I get hot enough to find a boyfriend I am going to be a huge bitch and bother him for not liking me as I am now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 07:02 PM
2

Yay
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 06:43 PM
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Young fun guy: will listen to podcasts, jog, travel, try to build a farm, go to theme parks/ activities, experiment with restaurants, and just have cool hobbies he won’t be a snob about teaching me about. Old fun guy: I don’t date men over 33. So idgaf what they do. They’re old.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 03:12 PM
1

A half assed question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 04:37 AM
2

The biggest challenge for men is finding a woman who is okay with open relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 12:02 AM
9

I always prefer the less experienced guy. No one wants used goods with excess emotional baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 12:02 AM
1

I hate that A) already shit tons of men on Reddit have gone out of their way to point out that if I don’t have hoards of men throwing themselves at me then I am going to die alone B) men are constantly trying to tear me apart even at this age C) if I haven’t found a husband now I am destined to die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 01:08 AM
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Good lord imagine marrying a guy who is super concerned about how your vagina will feel in 30 years. 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 01:00 AM
0

Look at the clusterfuck of anger that men created when I said women should pursue high value men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 12:58 AM
1

So no hairstylists
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 07:25 PM
2

Do you really sit there and say “ehhh she looks like a six. NEXTl”?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 07:23 PM
1

Yes they do. A person’s social class declines with age. even if you’re a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 04:50 PM
1

You considered her for an LTR but didn’t actually LTR her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:26 PM
2

There’s a difference between starting a relationship and getting married. Just dating a few times and sure, I would want you to be my boyfriend. But marriage? We have to make sure we are compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:23 PM
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https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/hypergamy But it also applies to SMV If you’re an old, ugly, or poor man your sexual market value is lower than a hot young female thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:48 PM
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https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/hypergamy But it also applies to SMV If you’re an old, ugly, or poor man your sexual market value is lower than a hot young female thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:48 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/8qr35m/for_the_love_of_god_guys_careful_with_drugs_learn/?st=JIDRLT3T&sh=3200d5cc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 11:57 PM
2

https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/8qrh1h/the_thousand_cock_stare_is_real_and_ive_seen_it/?st=JIDRL5I2&sh=7cbb1baa
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 11:46 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/8qt7hp/it_doesnt_make_sense_to_date_a_woman_unless_shes/?st=JIDRJ53L&sh=087e1a05
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 11:45 PM
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Yes I can. Marrying someone superior. If you’re an old or ugly or poor man expecting a hot young thing, you are hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 10:09 PM
1

What? Men still hate them now. On girl has asked out a few (NERDY BETA) guys and had her h see broken so bad that she needed therapy. She is skinny and blonde.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 10:08 PM
1

When I was in high school my friends would fawn after NERDY UNPOPULAR guys and feel depressed that no man would notice them. These were 15 year old girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 06:03 PM
3

Good for you. You also believe women should have kids in an LTR with no legal protection
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 06:02 PM
12

Damn men are entitled and hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 06:01 PM
1

I think you commented it to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 06:01 PM
2

Yes it does. The guy in op is being petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 06:00 PM
1

You guys. “Gold digger”. “If you haven’t found a good guy who wants to marry you by now, it means you must be fat or ugly”. “What have you done to deserve a nice guy!!” Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 03:40 PM
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Good Lord do men really sit down and analyze a 3 year age difference and get a beady and resentful about 3 years??? Wow! And they dare call women superficial and picky! 80% of men only want the top 20% of women. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 03:38 PM
1

Most women are not looking for rich men. A good job yes, but that doesn’t mean rich. (Unless you’re one of those people who believe a guy who makes $70k a year is rich). Most of us just want a good guy with a good job. Most of us who want that are shamed for having that as our desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 03:34 PM
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I have never seen a woman put down short men IRL OR online except for one time in high school! One time like 8 years ago!! I see men putting down fat women daily, and small chested women and women their own age at least once a week. I also never see women harshly criticize men’s appearance IRL or online. But guess what? I see men harshly criticizing women’s appearance daily online and Irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 03:32 PM
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They’re mad because he is 29. He is being petty about 2-3 years. 26 is literally only 3 years younger than 29. I can’t even tell the difference between a 26 and a 29 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 03:29 PM
4

Wow imagine working hard for a year to lose weight only to go from a 6 to a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 11:17 PM
3

Then he can leave with his road rage and driving problems. I have zero tolerance for road rage and reckless driving. Zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 03:14 PM
1

Lol. I would just need to say “I am saving sex for marriage” and there would be a bunch out already. “I hate alcohol and drugs” Who’s left? No one. The only thing is, I wouldn’t date a minimalist “woke millennial” guy. I would date the conservative beta guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 01:27 PM
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No. The most disrespectful thing anyone can do is cheat. Weight gain is a problem, but cheating is significantly worse. You can work hard and lose weight. You can’t work hard and undo cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 01:07 PM
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Men who are assholes don’t show the asshole right away. Examples: He’s nice and romantic until he gets mad and drives recklessly to scare you during a fight. He is sweet and takes you out on dates but then you notice that he is keeping you a secret from his friends and family. You eat dinner together and he’s nice but then when you say you aren’t ready to have sex he says “but I paid for pizza!!” And takes you to small claims court over the pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 01:01 PM
1

I would rather be married though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 02:28 AM
1

Hold up. If a guy is having sex with me and another woman simultaneously, I will be so disgusted and shocked that I would never ever talk to him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 02:25 AM
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I’m still a female incel and I’m 24. Edit: I am saving sex for marriage. I am not married. I would rather be married now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 02:23 AM
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Whenever I say I don’t want a NEET or someone poor I get called a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 05:41 PM
1

Pm me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 05:40 PM
1

I guess to you chad means “employed and average looking”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 02:04 AM
1

Not to the point that they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 02:03 AM
2

So it’s fairly normal to join a sex cult and etch a cross on your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 10:52 PM
1

Why is this a response to Charles mason lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 10:19 PM
1

It’s not night time where I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 10:18 PM
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Yes. They didn’t just sleep with him. They ruined their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 07:19 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 07:16 PM
1

Same except for not to that extreme. If I get married I don’t want a ring. I want laser hair removal instead. It’s the wedding gift that will literally make our marriage much happier for life. No body hair = happy husband = happy wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 06:31 PM
2

So we are to blame if we like a guy who gets laid easily? We should only like guys who struggle?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 06:28 PM
3

So if they come to you why are you so resentful?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 06:22 PM
3

No. My fat friend asked an even fatter morbidly obese guy to prom in high school and he turned her down for being too fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 06:21 PM
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Dude I never had a boyfriend before and men still accuse me of Chad and friendzoning and cock carouseling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 06:20 PM
1

You don’t have to prove yourself if you have a decent job
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 06:18 PM
0

Yeah men want only the top 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 06:18 PM
2

And men only want the top 20% of women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 06:17 PM
2

But just being a millionaire is enough for women to go on dates. Also persian men are known to be good at grooming themselves. I am sure you don’t look like rob Kardashian and look more like faz3
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 06:16 PM
2

And men claim to like all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 06:14 PM
1

No I am not. Men act like we only have two options: the shitty guy and the top alpha male.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 06:14 PM
-1

She was stupid. That’s why.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 06:11 PM
2

Maybe don’t expect women to come to you. You need to talk to them and befriend them and ask them on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 05:08 PM
2

You’re persian and a millionaire though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 03:18 PM
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There is a whole spectrum of men who aren’t athletes or janitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 02:03 PM
0

Charles Manson was not attractive I don’t know why women liked him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 02:01 PM
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See? There’s no in between! You’re either a disabled guy in a wheelchair/ obese guy/ poor NEET or a bodybuilder with fashion sense. There literally is no in between at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 02:01 PM
3

So why blame women for liking Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 01:59 PM
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Are men really competing for females or for only the top females?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 01:58 PM
2

shames women who have had two partners shames women who have had zero partners H y p o c r i t e
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 01:03 AM
1

No. For men, looks are paramount. As you said. A woman has to have peak attractiveness for a man to look at her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 10:52 PM
1

And men still look uglier. Women are more forgiving of looks though. They aren’t as hypergamous as men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 04:48 PM
1

No i wouldn’t. Not for cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 04:47 PM
1

I don’t know why tf you think I would lie. If a man cheated on me I would divorce rape him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 02:02 PM
1

Yes. A number of men who want to cope agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 02:02 PM
1

Keep telling yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 02:00 PM
1

It’s not sour grapes. You’re the one who got all sarcastic when I said I want a guy who has a decent job and who is in his 30’s. You’re the one who compared it to a flying Lamborghini, something impossible to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 12:57 PM
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Kissless Handholdless Virgin And I am cute You're bitter and resentful about a woman with 2 partners, but then consider a KHV to be worthless. Hmm....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 04:57 AM
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You should be grateful to get any attention from me. I am a KHV.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 01:20 AM
1

Degree doesn’t matter. Income does.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 01:01 AM
1

Literally this entire board is dedicated to lowering women’s self esteem. Men want us to feel unworthy so that we settle for their abusive asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 01:01 AM
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And men age poorly too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 12:56 AM
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No. I wouldn’t turn a blind eye. It’s literally the ultimate betrayal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 12:56 AM
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You’re not 40. Find a 25 year old now and not in 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 12:55 AM
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Oh and one was married off at 9. Oh and my grandma says it’s okay for men to cheat as long as they buy you jewelry after.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 10:11 PM
1

Well it happened to my aunt
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 10:09 PM
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It’s all fine and dandy but if she goes outside without a burkha on she gets acid thrown on her face. If her husband abuses her, people say “what did she do wrong” instead of “why did he hit her?”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 10:08 PM
1

Splitting finances only works if you both make roughly around the same amount of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 10:06 PM
1

It’s not worth it to be a stay at home Mom in that situation
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 10:05 PM
1

So you get to retire and she doesn’t???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 10:05 PM
1

Do you think the average dude doesn’t have youth and energy? If “youthful and energetic and has a decent job” is chad to you then there you go. And men do lie. They say they like all women. Bulllllshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 09:48 PM
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Because I am on mobile. Furthermore that proves even more to stay away from older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 09:37 PM
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If he is old and looks old BUT he has lots of money, he has tons of options. He only has few options if he is poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 09:36 PM
1

So that puts her at an extreme disadvantage if she becomes a SAHM. Let’s say she took 5 years off work. You escalate to making $150k a year and then she can’t find a job paying well. She makes $40k. You go out and buy cars and have vacations etc. but she can’t. If she stays working she won’t have that disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 09:35 PM
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She’s going to make way less money. Do you still combine finances??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 09:07 PM
1

Yes. You called me a liberal arts type I would divorce rape him if I did. He better do a damn good job of keeping it a full secret until he dies or else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 09:05 PM
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1 I am conservative Believe it or not the 40 something woman has less options too and is less likely to branch swing. Why don’t you marry her?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 09:03 PM
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just another fan 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 08:59 PM
1

I have read about resentment that their wife doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 08:59 PM
1

Once again, an old man can leave his wife. I don’t want a chad. Stop only noticing Stacy. M n life to insult women. One guy when went on calling AJ from Aly and AJ “fugly”. Men only notice Stacy. Don’t ever say I notice chad only. Men only want and notice Stacy. You’re projecting men onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 03:19 PM
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I never said chasing kids isn’t fulfilling. But a man needs MONEY if he wants a SAHM. Literally all an old man offers over a guy who is like 30 is money. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 03:17 PM
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retirement I knew a man who retired at 65 while his 50 year old wife worked full time nights as a nurse. He built a a house in El Salvador with the money from his retirement and then financially depended on his wife. Bullshit, you don’t build a house in El Salvador while your wife works night shifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 03:16 PM
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all most guys want from a younger woman is a ONS that isn’t making older men more appealing to me. SAHM Once again, you are supporting that literally all an older man offers is money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 03:15 PM
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he’s more likely to be wealthy Did you bother to read my post?? That’s literally the only thing an old guy offers he’s less likely to cheat Bullshit. Loom at the old men here who boast about having wives and girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 03:13 PM
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I am not a liberal arts type. I would LOVE to be a SAHM, but guess what, you have to make good money to afford it. I could find a wonderful 30-something guy instead of a 40-something guy I am not a feminist If he has a side chick I will chop his penis off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 03:08 PM
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My dad never cheated. My dad always had basic respect for my mom. Finances were combined. They’ve been married over 30 years
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:34 PM
1

According to TRP and MGTOW, he cares a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:33 PM
1

comparing a guy who is 30 and has a decent job to a Lamborghini I guess you could say men are so lazy that finding a guy with a decent job over 30 is as rare as being able to afford a Lamborghini since most men are lazy shits who just lay around all day waiting for a woman to come and support them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:33 PM
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So you want damaged goods. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:32 PM
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They have a husband hanging over their head resenting them for not making money. Don’t get me wrong, i would love to be a stay at home mom. As long as I am not resented.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 06:43 AM
1

Yes that helps a lot. But the people I knew also went to good schools. No one ended up homeless or never finding a job. It just took 6-12 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 06:41 AM
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You literally were caustic and sarcastic about morals and daddy issues then turn around and pretend to care about your ex gf. No you didn’t. You used her for sex and you got it. You won
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 06:41 AM
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Well I know MSW’s, Masters of engineering, RN’s, etc who graduated in 2012-2016 and most took 6-12 months to get a job. These weren’t dumb people and they got good jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 06:40 AM
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Also, it seems that your peers find it to be a turn-on. I will give some credit to the wealth of daddy issues creates by two generations of women raised by single mothers. and guess what? Since I started this a few years ago, I have been amazed by how you girls do not give a fuck about the situation. I only spoke about daddy issues with my LTR, but generally just when she would bring them up. My heart hurt for her and still does. She was a very good girl and while the breakup was a few months ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:33 AM
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Yeah. They initiate divorces after adultery. The Bible says adultery is a full on justification for divorce. It’s the only thing clearly stated as a justification for divorce. Once again, your wife is loyal. She doesn’t cheat. She plays along with your retarded game because she is dicknotized or doesn’t believe she can do better or deserves better. If she was so hot about being polyamorous she would have slept with other men by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:31 AM
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She hasn’t because women are more loyal. your station isn’t threatened and you won’t be publicly embarrassed so I’ll go shot my business Fuck that. You cheating is the ultimate betrayal. That’s literally the only situation where I would strive to milk every cent I can from my ex husband and get full custody of the kids. If my husband got schizophrenia I would be sad and may move out, but I wouldn’t divorce. If he cheated. I’m out. And getting the best lawyers I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:24 AM
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Well at least she can sleep around too. And not my peers. Even my friends whose dads abandoned them would never consent to an open relationship. Do you also speak to these women about their daddy issues? Once again, y i k e s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:18 AM
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“You girls” Not me. Hell no. Also, are you okay with your wife sleeping around, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:15 AM
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And is your wife aware? Regardless. , Y i k e s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:14 AM
3

Keep telling yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 12:36 AM
2

Exactly. She should be grateful and you should stop putting her down for winning a prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 09:31 PM
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I am attractive, feminine, cooperative, loyal, and respectful and I TRULY desire to be an outstanding wife. just not for an old man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 09:30 PM
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I sure hope he is 😉 👄 💦 /s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 08:44 PM
2

Not really. According to TRP a woman should be eternally grateful just to find a man-any man- who is willing to settle down with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 08:32 PM
1

See my replies to this comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/8onabh/comment/e05pry9?st=JI23XYXF&sh=b31323b0
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 07:59 PM
1

our girlfriend Y I K E S congratulations on finding women who hate themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 07:52 PM
1

Someone’s salty that young women don’t want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 07:50 PM
3

Physically attractive to me Good conversationalist Loyal Not loud and overbearing At least somewhat mentally stable
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 06:52 PM
1

If you want to see pictures become my friend for a few months on discord
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 06:52 PM
3

In addition to reciprocal physical attraction she has to have the makings of a good partner. She has to be someone you can trust with your money and/or children. She has to be someone you contributes to the partnership. She has to be useful not just decorative.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 06:51 PM
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Taken from my post asking what men look for: Attractive enough to cause spontaneous boners; Preference for coming out intelligent above coming out naive; Not an attention whore; Capacity to assess situations and admit being wrong coupled with initiative to do it and act without the need of provocation; Emotional availability.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 06:50 PM
2

Sure keep telling yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 04:28 PM
2

HE is the one who assumes she settled. She is NOT the one saying “I settled”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 04:28 PM
3

No. Hundreds of men over and over again on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 04:27 PM
3

I don’t have problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 04:27 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 04:26 PM
2

What makes you say they don’t impose those conditions on a man who will die sooner?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 04:26 PM
3

comparing stand up comedians to the average dude
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 04:25 PM
3

But I am worthy of a guy who is 30 and has a decent job.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 04:25 PM
3

Because here men over 40 make sweeping generalizations about women their own age
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:53 PM
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Wtf? I like men age 24-34. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:51 PM
3

7-9 years isn’t 20 years. I am talking about women in their 20’s and men over 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:51 PM
2

Not to me. But to countless men here, yes. To me, women stay attractive until they’re about 40. And men too. Around 40, both women and men start to become ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:41 PM
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Because a young woman generally wont love an old man for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:40 PM
1

What can I say? If a woman says she wants anything else she is harshly put down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:39 PM
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It’s not a personal attack. It’s how all men over 40 act. “Well you won’t find anyone besides me!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:38 PM
1

Pick one what??? They’re all under 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:37 PM
1

implying they will divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:22 PM
1

Exactly. And they have no problem going for an old guy who is rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:20 PM
2

And she can find that without going with a 40+ year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:19 PM
3

Not really. If men were more happy to marry and were more stable, more women would marry them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:19 PM
2

Society and life offer NOTHING to a woman who is 20 dating a 40 year old who will die when she’s still in her 60’s and be 62-65 when his kids graduate college. besides money
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:12 PM
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And a man needs to also achieve that goal before 40 too. Unless he is rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:10 PM
1

And it worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:58 PM
1

But she won. She didn’t have to settle for an old fart.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:55 PM
3

And on him too for agreeing to date women while married. Don’t dump 100% of the responsibility on the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:54 PM
1

Where I live it depends. Good hospital? Highly competitive to get a job. Psych unit? Just have a pulse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:54 PM
2

So you believe that women who aren’t married by 25 have no choice but to marry your sorry elderly self even though you have no money 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:53 PM
2

Wtf is a top 20% man? Yes I do. I am a top 20% woman. Even if I wasn’t, I would highly prefer a top 60% man my age than a top 20% old guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:52 PM
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Yes. You’re implying men over 40 are the only ones who want to marry. If you go online and write “I am looking for a man to make my husband” then men answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:52 PM
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Not marrying an old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:51 PM
2

But she has a husband now. If she followed your advice, would she have found her husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:51 PM
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Because they think she is saggy, old, and gross. At 30 lol. You tell me, though. What is the reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:50 PM
2

So you mock her for getting a degree to find a husband. But she did find a husband. And it sounds like he is her looksmatch and he has a graduate degree. Wtf are you so bitter and critical about? A) men here love to remind women that they will die alone unless they get married by a certain age. She did it. She won. B) it’s her life. Not yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:01 PM
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I am a 20 something woman. I have been hit on by men in their 40’s. I have asked myself “who do they think they are” and “what is so bad about women their own age?”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:59 PM
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I never said you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:58 PM
2

and money Look, I prefer full stop older guys. I am 24. I prefer 26-32. But NOT 40. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:21 PM
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Why don’t those much older men give women their own age a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:16 PM
2

Okay so your gf isn’t in her 20’s while you go about saying “women over 30 are awful” Your age difference 54 and 41 while a little big isn’t that big.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:06 PM
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You don’t decide what is unreasonable demands for men to have. Women do. And 99.999% of women in their 20’s won’t go after a guy in his 40’s. unless he is rich
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:01 PM
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So it’s unreasonable for me to demand a man less than ten years older than me who makes around what I make. Even though what I make is ”poor”? But then it’s reasonable for a 40 year old who isn’t making a lot of money to exclusively date women in their 20’s? 😂 Such hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 12:58 PM
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To carry them = provide for them = $$$ Did she find a husband???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 12:57 PM
1

Who make good money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 12:55 PM
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comparing a middle class guy to celebrities. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 12:55 PM
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Literally it’s just one demand. Money. And literally the majority of women in their 20’s won’t date a guy in his 40’s. unless he has money
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 12:54 PM
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If I say I want a man who makes $80k+ men here will (and have) go on and on telling me that I want only the top 20% of men and how I am so entitled and demanding and how I will die alone. Now you’re telling me it’s poor? 😂 bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 12:53 PM
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How many females do you know who are 25 and absolutely enamored by much older men????
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 12:49 PM
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And you’re married.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 12:47 PM
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It’s not sugar babying. Make me a list of stuff that men in their 40’s offer that men in their 30’s don’t offer. Besides money. Literally money is the only thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 12:46 PM
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This is on THE RED PILL and MGTOW forums. Even the “conservative” men have awful shit to say about SAHM’s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 12:45 PM
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Because attraction isn’t on a normal curve. You either are or are not. More women look better than men because more women put effort into their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 12:44 PM
1

Aww thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 12:43 PM
3

Ugh that standards list for men here is so accurate and on point. Then if you say “have a good job, be kind and respectful, and love me” they call you an entitled cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 12:42 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 06:12 AM
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I can pm you my career path. I applied to hundreds of jobs. What I do, when you start somewhere and hop around too much you create a bad reputation early on. Plus, if you don’t get experience in a certain area, that door closes for good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 05:51 AM
1

That makes a lot of sense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 05:30 AM
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I know I am joking in agreement lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 05:14 AM
2

Wait a second according to others here those young men have fierce competition of women chasing them and she will never measure up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 05:14 AM
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Once again, any sane 20 something isn’t going to go with a guy in his 40’s unless he is rich. 99.999% of the time. Regardless of how desperately you long to have hot women 20 years younger than you long for your cool personality and graying body.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 05:13 AM
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Yes. If you want young hot sex from a young hot woman, and you aren’t young and hot, then it becomes a financial transaction. Now if you were going after your looksmatch and both of you were equal, it wouldn’t be a financial transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 05:11 AM
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When did I ever say it’s not a liveable wage??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 05:10 AM
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comparing 30’s to 40’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 05:10 AM
1

Okay I know a guy who is an accountant and for some reason he doesn’t want to get his CPA and he keeps saying CPA’s are abused. Why??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 05:10 AM
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That was such a weak comeback.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 05:09 AM
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Once again: I WOULD HAVE BEEN BETTER OFF IF I WAITED AND APPLIED TO GOOD JOBS FOR 6-12 MONTHS. TAKING THE FIRST JOB I COULD GET MESSED UP MY CAREER FOR LIFE.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 05:08 AM
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Hush now someone is going to ask you if you’re married yet and if you’re not, then you have no right to say anything because you will be forced to settle for an old man if you’re not engaged by 25. 💍🕑🕒🕔🕕
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 05:06 AM
2

You see entire blogs and major YouTube channels and websites and books about this shit. Are you delusional?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 05:05 AM
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Not according to the men here you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 05:04 AM
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You’re acting like I am old and withered already and I will have no choice at 25 but to settle for an old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 05:04 AM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 05:03 AM
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6-12 months to get a good job is not a big deal. My biggest regret in life was taking your advice. I worked 2 Shitty jobs and watched one by one as my friends who were patient found much better jobs than me, jobs I closed the door to by rushing. I ended up fine, but I could have ended up much better off if I just was patient during those 6-12 months. That was a crucial mistake I can never take back.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:58 AM
5

Well I want a nice normal man who isn’t old
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:56 AM
1

Well most men love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:55 AM
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Some do. My cousin took about a year (she got a good job) as a BME and my other friends who are nurses took 6-12 months. Unless they moved to rural areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:55 AM
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Uhhh men bitch about it and get extremely upset about it all the time. To top it off, there are tons of women who say “he can be under 5’10!”” “Just be taller than me!” And then they get mad and shoot those women down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:54 AM
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Or you could just go with a 30 year old. A guy who is going nowhere at 30 likely isn’t going to go anywhere. By 30 most men have established themselves at least at an introductory level.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:53 AM
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Yeah but far less competition for a good man her age.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:52 AM
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And men constantly have asked me since I found the Internet “what do you have to offer?” Since men love that question so much, I love it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:50 AM
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I see it all the time here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:49 AM
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Yeah but I have plenty of nice normal men within 5-10 years of my age who would date me and offer a lot more than a Middle Aged man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:49 AM
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yep. All you need to do is love me and commit to me if you're young.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:35 AM
1

oh wait you're agreeing with me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:34 AM
1

I am not a boomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:34 AM
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No. I like guys my age within 5-10 years. They offer a lot more than old men do. More energy, time together, understanding, youth, looks, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:33 AM
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I don't know just don't leave her old and poor and a widow
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:33 AM
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Regardless, I am worthy of middle class guy who isn't 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:32 AM
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Exactly. You have to be able to support her when she’s old and withered and too old to work and Worn down from caring from you. That’s 2 retirement accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:18 AM
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And neither can men. Again, you don’t say what older men offer that less older men don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:17 AM
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It’s not reality or God. Name 5 things 40 year old men offer that 30 year old men don’t. Besides money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:16 AM
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I work with a ton of Asian people and Asian men who are 49 do not look like college kids. Some look maybe 35 but not 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:14 AM
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Exactly. See above. That’s literally the only thing old people offer. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:13 AM
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I’m a 20 something woman. And no it isn’t that wealthy. But when I say that’s what I want on Reddit I get called a materialistic cunt who only wants the top 20% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:13 AM
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Ugh not with me once I find out your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:12 AM
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Yes. I know it’s worse outside America.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:11 AM
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Amen, friend
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:08 AM
2

What happens when you die and she’s still like 70?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:07 AM
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I’m 24 and I don’t want to hit 30 and have tons of men suddenly be disgusted in me if I don’t happen to meet the love of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:06 AM
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Once I marry, or LTR, no one can swoop in on me. That’s it. But if you’re old, and I am single, you better offer something my younger counterparts can offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:05 AM
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Yeah. But for a guy who gives her the same. I’m not doing it for some old dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:04 AM
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And I am free to be critical. Furthermore, of course I am hurt. To hear over and over again that crusty old men wouldn’t even want me when I am 30?? These aren’t even attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:03 AM
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good. At least you acknowledge that a sane 20-something isn’t going to date an old guy without any incentive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:02 AM
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Yeah but it takes 6-12 months to get a job and you won’t make $100k unless you’re in the Bay Area.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:57 AM
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Well I’m 24 and I would never go near some old guy. unless he was a millionaire
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:56 AM
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Key word: financially secure Aka: r i c h
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:56 AM
1

Well I will date a guy around my age for free. So 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:55 AM
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I am outraged if they aren’t rich and they demand a woman who is 20 years younger and complain about women their age or who are like 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:55 AM
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And men refuse to consider women who are like 30 but are 10+ years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:54 AM
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No. More like $60-80k and it takes 6-12 months to get a job. It’s still good. What you said oh applies in the Bay Area.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:53 AM
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I have only dared within 5-10 years. I would never consider a man over 10 years older than me. But on Reddit it looks like the majority of men over 40 refuse to even consider a woman who is like 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:53 AM
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This has nothing to do with age. Why tf should I ::date:: marry a guy in his 40’s, when I can find a guy who is less than 10 years older?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:45 AM
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You’re delusional if you think that college graduates are finding jobs in their fields straight out of college en masse. This includes STEM and Nursing and accounting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:40 AM
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So? Name 5 things a 40 year old guy offers that a 30 year old doesn’t besides money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:40 AM
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Aka be rich if you’re over 30. Tbh, I’m 24. I’ll go up to age 30-32. But if I go older than that job better make good money. That’s it. There’s literally nothing else you can offer beyond that point. I don’t care if it sounds gold digger ish to you. Stop being sensitive. I’ll take looks and compatibility anytime but if a guy is going to be crusty and old then he has to offer something to mar up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:39 AM
1

Well I am getting a PhD in ZERO debt so....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:23 AM
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Well if a nice successful surgeon who is like 35-40 wants to marry my 24 year old self. Here i am If anyone over 35 isn’t a successful surgeon (or more) he can fuck off. I’ll take a nice normal guy around my age instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:18 AM
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Yes but MD = $200k+ debt just for the MD PhD: if you her your bachelors at a state school, live with your parents and spend a year or two paying off your debt after graduation, then get into a PhD program = $0 debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:16 AM
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But nurses are hardly a gold digger. You hey make their own money. I am sure he wouldn’t be marrying a hairstylist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:11 AM
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PhD is tuition free in most schools. You get paid to do your PhD. You get paid for teaching, doing research, and getting grants.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:10 AM
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https://www.bloomberg.com/graphics/2016-who-marries-whom/ And teaching is a legitimate profession too FYI.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:55 AM
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https://wire.ama-assn.org/life-career/why-doctors-marry-doctors-exploring-medical-marriages 40%.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:54 AM
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So how do you explain why the majority of doctors are married to other doctors and nurses?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:53 AM
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If he can’t support a nice UMC lifestyle until my death then there is zero point in dating an old man. I can find a guy who is like 30 and poor who will marry me and at least won’t be withered and old and expecting me to work full time and care for him when he gets old. We can work together and do stuff together.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:48 AM
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I’m not a feminist. Once again, if a man 20 years older than me wants me to marry him, then he needs to be rich. So that I can be a stay at home mom, AND I won’t have to work to support him AND I can live well and comfortably in a NICE HOUSE in s GOOD NEIGHBORHOOD until I die.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:47 AM
3

Exactly. If men think this way, it’s fully clear that men don’t trust SAHM’s or want one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:46 AM
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Not an excuse to be a jackass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:44 AM
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If we marry a guy who is 20 years older we have to spend our 40’s and onward working while he lounges around retired. Yikes. And when we reach our 60’s we have to take care of his bedridden ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:42 AM
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It’s only worth it if you fully finance her being a SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:40 AM
1

Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:39 AM
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Lol literally look up “Stay at home mom” on Reddit MOST MEN consider SAHM’s to be gold diggers. I was called a materialistic cunt several times when I said I want to marry a man with a good income to have the possibility of being a SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:38 AM
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Maybe if men didn’t look so disgusting and were rich at an old age we would want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:36 AM
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Then they shouldn’t expect women to settle with them in a monogamous relationship in her 20’s either, and he shouldn’t complain that the women who want to LTR him are “crusty old” “disgusting” 30 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:35 AM
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Why are men so eager to call random women ugly? Go spend time with your wife instead of trying to put a random girl on the Internet down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:34 AM
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Lying by omission.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 11:52 PM
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How tf is that saying he’s higher value??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 08:59 PM
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Yeah. That means for an extended period, “a while” you don’t want a relationship, but you’re willing to act like that’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 06:33 PM
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I’d probably fuck her with vague allusions toward us who knows maybe possibly being in a relationship some day but definitely not for a while bc I’m not ready for that right now That does not equate to “who knows”. You said “definitely not”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 06:23 PM
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🙄 you could have just said “I am sorry I am not ready for a relationship”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 01:07 PM
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Commitment isn’t marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 05:05 AM
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grateful there’s a guy out there willing to fuck her 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 05:04 AM
1

“Beneath me” 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 05:03 AM
1

Why not just say “I’m not ready for a relationship right now” instead of stringing her along and using her?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 05:03 AM
1

So you would branch swing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 08:09 PM
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“I am taken, what do you have to offer” Is extremely different from “I am taken/ I’m not interested, we can be friends” Why? Because the first implies that it she offers something valuable enough, you’re willing to branch swing into a relationship with her instead. The second implies that the door is closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 05:43 PM
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You don’t write like someone from the suburbs writes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 05:30 PM
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Where did I say she says she wants to marry you and have your children??? She is LOOKING for someone to eventually marry. It doesn’t mean it will be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 05:29 PM
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Ok have fun in the hood
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 05:19 PM
2

If she wants to fuck you more than life itself without knowing you, then it’s extremely likely her n count isn’t low.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 05:15 PM
2

This literally is the original scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 05:14 PM
2

You could just say “I am not interested” instead of acting crazy and rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 04:33 PM
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Why would you show nudes of your ex to anyone? That’s an enormous violation of trust. This is why no one ever will get nudes of me. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 04:30 PM
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Lol Go on Reddit Make an r4r profile “39 F looking for M for Wild fun” Watch how few men reply 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 04:19 PM
2

Excellent answer
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 04:17 PM
1

🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 04:15 PM
2

If your sexual foundation is not good you just break up. You’re not married. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 04:06 PM
2

You both go to class together. She makes a point to sit by you every day you have class. She talks to you about stuff every class. After a few weeks she asks for your number and you start texting. Later she sends you funny snaps on Snapchat and invites you to hang out. After a few months she asks you on a date. She tells you “I like you and want to date you but just so you know, I don’t have sex outside of a relationship and I am looking for something serious not something casual”. Switch in cla…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 04:06 PM
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The higher an n count goes, the lower her SMV is. If she has sex with you her value goes down. You have to be selective and maintain your value so you don’t become worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:56 PM
2

Why
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:52 PM
2

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:52 PM
2

Saying “I intend to find a guy to ltr and eventually marry”, to me, isn’t a demand. It’s just a clear and honest statement so that you don’t waste her time stringing her along in hopes of casual sex or yours having her go on dates with you without getting the early sex you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:51 PM
2

And waiting is not a sign of low libido. It just is what many people do to avoid being hurt or used.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:50 PM
2

That’s a good answer
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:49 PM
2

5-6/10 Average looking or a little better than average So unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:49 PM
2

You can be friends without stringing her along. “I don’t want to date you but I will be your friend.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:48 PM
2

That’s still not a reason to string someone along.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:47 PM
2

She doesn’t intend to marry you right now at all. She is husband hunting. She wants to get to know men to marry, and not waste her youth with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:47 PM
2

Why
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:45 PM
2

No. That’s not what I am doing. Jfc. I am trying to see if men get offended when they get approached because men have said here several times that if a man finds you attractive he WILL approach you and if he doesn’t approach you it’s as if you’ve already been rejected. It means he doesn’t like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:45 PM
1

She doesn’t use sexual innuendo she just talks to you a lot b
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:44 PM
4

Not everyone thinks this way. Most people I associate with have had sex only in the context of an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:43 PM
2

She doesn’t want to marry you without knowing you. She wants to get to know you with the intention of finding an LTR. Kind of like when you do online dating and say “I am not looking for anything casual”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:42 PM
1

What does caught flat footed mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:39 PM
2

That’s a kind of rude answer I would be annoyed and kind of back off and never talk to again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:38 PM
1

Why
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:37 PM
2

🙄 you’re a lot better off being upfront rather than leasing someone on. If you lead someone on you’re MUCH more likely to get free meals and use someone and MUCH more likely to be in metoo situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:37 PM
3

yoga pants Are you Saudi or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:31 PM
2

I mean you shouldn’t get worked up that you were never approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 06:37 AM
3

It’s not making it a big deal to just mention it. It’s a big deal if you drag it on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 06:32 AM
2

I mean I am a woman and it’s not like men aggressively hit on me outside the internet either. It’s not a big deal. People don’t approach random people anymore really. Unless you go to a nightclub or something
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 06:31 AM
4

Because literally here they say over and over if a woman is attractive enough she will be approached and if she isn’t being approached, then it means the guy views her as low value. Based on that logic, which is my framework and education about dating, if a woman isn’t being approached by a young and single man she meets it means he doesn’t really like her that much. Asking him out, talking to him, etc is aggressive because if she hasn’t been approached it’s because he most likely doesn’t even w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 06:13 AM
1

I mean how ugly are you that you say such a thing??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 06:11 AM
3

I don’t find it bold. I don’t want to waste a guys time if he only wants/ expects sex even if I did ask him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 06:10 AM
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I mean if you’re not in high school (or at a super cliquey college) that’s a really radical thing to presume.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 05:40 AM
1

Yes. But how do you you politely tell someone to tone it down without hurting them or turning them off?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 05:30 AM
2

I think just pursuing a man is aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 05:29 AM
3

Why not just politely turn her down instead of stringing her along?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 05:29 AM
2

How do you insist without being aggressive?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 05:28 AM
4

No talking to you every time she sees you and hinting at dates and then eventually asking you out. As said in the op she won’t have sex outside an established relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:52 AM
3

Why don’t you say “I have a girlfriend” instead of stringing her along???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:50 AM
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So you may have missed someone good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:49 AM
4

Nothing to you if you’re taken. She’s not a home wrecker.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:40 AM
2

Do you approach every single 5-6/10 woman who you see in your daily social life?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:39 AM
2

Why didn’t that turn you off? Isn’t that aggressive too?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:26 AM
1

Yes because approaching and talking to a man is aggressive. No need to be hostile and downvote. 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:22 AM
3

Yeah average or a little above average
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:22 AM
1

Why is it aggressive? Do you pursue a ton of 5-6/10 women? Surely there are women who you’re attracted to but who you ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:16 AM
1

What if she tells you on the first date “I am looking for a relationship, not sex, and I won’t have sex if and until we are an established and serious couple”. Then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:16 AM
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Where, in quotes, did I say I REFUSE to meet men outside of church? Where, in quotes, did I say I REFUSE to smile at guys in the street? Of course I refuse to go to bars. Do people meet WIVES at the bar?? Because nightclubs are for CASUAL SEX I don’t refuse. It’s my LAST RESORT Yes. I meet old middle aged men. Mostly married. BESIDES BARS AND NIGHTCLUBS WHAT ARE THESE PLACES? When I start grad school full time, I will join activities. If I meet a guy who is, I don’t know, a promising dental or e…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 05:12 PM
1

Yes I want a Virgin man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 05:07 PM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 05:07 PM
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Typical middle eastern man: sleeps with one of women but expects a qt pure wife. Nope. I am a qt pure wife and I want a pure man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 12:03 AM
1

In the USA it definitely is
/r/askTRP02/06/18 12:02 AM
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Persian is white.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:49 PM
3

Ah the typical middle eastern man 🙄 I thought you exclusively wanted to marry one woman who is 10 yeas younger than you 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 09:48 PM
1

you are
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 09:36 PM
1

Do you have reading comprehension. ONLINE ITS EASY TO MEET MEN. IN REAL LIFE ITS NOT EASY TO MEET MEN. I DONT MEET MEN IN REAL LIFE
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 09:36 PM
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You’re not old
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 06:48 AM
1

Thank you and good luck to you too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 06:44 AM
1

I like this advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 06:00 AM
1

Yes. It’s making me extremely pessimistic. I don’t trust men now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 05:59 AM
1

Somehow I feel that you’re being sarcastic though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 04:51 AM
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If you want my youth and beauty and you’re not you g and beautiful yourself then you better offer something in exchange. I would rather be a SAHM but not if it means being abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 04:51 AM
1

Thank you 🙏🏼 amen lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 04:49 AM
1

Do you realize that I don’t meet men? It’s not like i hace a stock of like 40 men who are dreaming of being with me if I just lower my standards a little? If I want to meet men, in the first place, I have to pursue them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:43 AM
1

Because literally half the comments here say “if the mate you want isn’t flinging himself at you, then you are a worthless low value woman and need to lower your standards”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:30 AM
1

MY STANDARDS ARE ALREADY LOW
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:28 AM
1

MY STANDARDS ARE ALREADY LOW
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:28 AM
2

Oh yes. Financially. The only way I would give my youth and beauty to an old man is if he guarantees me full financial security If not, what do you offer over a guy that’s 26-30?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:23 AM
1

Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:22 AM
1

No one in their late 30’s. Nope. No. I am not going to work for 15 years while he spends those 15 years retired. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:11 AM
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It’s my only interaction with millennial men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:10 AM
1

I get it. I am too fat to talk to a man I like. Thanks for the tip.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:02 AM
1

Yes. I am too fat to even ask a guy out. I got it. Thanks for the tip.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:02 AM
1

Do what does cut it so that I am worthy to smile at you from across the room and ask you in a date and be graced by your presence?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:01 AM
1

No hymen no diamond. No diamond no hymen. 💍
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:01 AM
1

Olay. I say it in your words. I am repulsive to the right man. There. I am sorry I would ask him out on a date. If I ever meet a good man who I like I will just ignore him because I am not worthy to talk to him. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:00 AM
1

I agree but apparently I am an entitled butch who is asking for too much 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 02:59 AM
1

Lol I agree. I have been told over and over that this is a demanding list.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 02:59 AM
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No. I understand. I won’t make eye contact with any man again. I am too fat to be worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 02:58 AM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 02:57 AM
1

And all I have to offer is the home between my legs according to men here. If that wasn’t it then I would have been approached by hundreds of high value men by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 02:57 AM
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Where did I say I “deserve” to be pursued. I offer most of the things most guys listed as ideal in the other post I made. If that’s not good enough for you then I don’t know what to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 02:56 AM
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I’m 24 an this is disgusting me from men around my age. They’re just going to leave me in 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 02:55 AM
1

$70-80k
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 12:56 AM
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https://reddit.app.link/u6rS6LEGnN I also offer what the majority of men list out over here. Please rip it apart too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 12:55 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 12:53 AM
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That’s true thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 11:11 PM
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Because my entire last post was people trying to tear me down and tell me that if I romantically pursue a man he will be resenting me and telling me I have nothing to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 10:31 PM
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I’m not pursuing you. What I offer: I’m under 25 I make good money myself and got a free scholarship to grad school I have no children and a loving family I’m a cute exotic middle eastern girl I am loyal and loving and understanding I cook and clean I am not mentally ill But I don’t want a stuck up bigshot, I just want a guy who is an engineer or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 10:30 PM
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So you wouldn’t date a 29 year old or 30 year old. Even if she was rich. Good grief. At least you’re rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 09:39 PM
1

And be ten years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 09:35 PM
3

What do you offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 09:34 PM
0

What do you offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 09:34 PM
1

Whatever do you offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 09:34 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 09:33 PM
1

I don’t trust middle eastern men they tend to be cruel
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 09:28 PM
1

What do you offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 09:27 PM
1

I’m not hitting on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 09:26 PM
1

Well I am Arab so no my face looks much different.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 08:58 PM
1

Yes me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 08:57 PM
0

I have these
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 08:57 PM
1

I’m not trying to seduce you or attract you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 08:56 PM
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I don’t think I am not fit. If you want to see pictures spend a few months befriending me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 07:00 PM
1

By attributes I meant physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 06:51 PM
0

At least you are honest
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 06:49 PM
2

To you maybe but to many people yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 06:49 PM
1

I’m slightly overweight but my face is cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 06:41 PM
0

I fit all these.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 06:38 PM
1

I fit all these.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 06:38 PM
2

Yep I fit all these.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 06:38 PM
1

I pm’ed you. I fit every single standard men listed in my other post, but it’s still not good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 06:36 PM
1

What specific standards are too high??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 06:35 PM
2

What if she’s 34?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 06:34 PM
1

Because most men here are trying to put me down, including you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 06:33 PM
1

I don’t think fat is repulsive. That is the motto echoed through here over and over and I merely reflect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 06:33 PM
1

Would you love her if she was also 40?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 06:30 PM
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I fill all these except funny. And you forgot “much younger than me”. But you keep pestering me that I am apparently ugly because I don’t have a husband yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 06:29 PM
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I am talking about REAL LIFE not ONLINE I am not complaining. Just stating the facts. You are projecting your own anger about a woman wanting a high value man onto me. Who doesn’t wish high value men would come to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 05:49 PM
1

Yep. Not poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 05:30 PM
1

What specific standards do I need to lower. Be SPECIFIC.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 05:30 PM
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They all exercise intensely. So you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 05:29 PM
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Apparently here everyone insists I am disgusting and obese. So yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 05:26 PM
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No they aren’t available. They are only available online. That’s it. It’s rare to meet them IRL and when you do you have to grab them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 05:24 PM
1

Do you make over $269k?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:51 PM
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I do to. But guess what? Most men hate SAHM’s, consider them lazy gold diggers, or can’t afford them. So.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:50 PM
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Male POPULATION? Not many men out of all men are between 25-35 to begin with. That eliminates a lot of men. But out of men between 25-35? Like 40%.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:44 PM
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Good thing I am not poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:43 PM
1

why doesn’t she be more careful who she sleeps with? Exactly. Save sex for commitment, save your value. Sex isn’t rewarding for women. Men should pay for it. Until you stop saying “no hymen no diamond” and harshly criticizing n count then you have to be willing to provide something in exchange for sex. You only have other men to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:42 PM
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You notice his personality because you talk to him and see him at church or social activities. I never said that I expect a man to approach. Quote me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:41 PM
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See. Complaining. Women just do and don’t complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:40 PM
1

https://instagram.com/p/BjSjHZjH60k/ https://instagram.com/p/Bjb5OeED1RF/ https://instagram.com/p/BjbiRBCnKdl/ https://instagram.com/p/BjLQlrunOl3/
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:39 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:29 PM
1

According to your logic she is gross and can only get a poor ugly loser man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:29 PM
1

Fat = repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:28 PM
1

Fat = repulsive. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:23 PM
1

FAT IS REPULSIVE. PERIOD. anyway, I am not saying “it’s so hard to attract a good man”. I am saying women have to PURSUE a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:23 PM
1

What? You managed to marry an anesthesiologist and therefore have the privilege of financially depending on your wife. So be grateful and submit to her leadership. Furthermore, most men are too lazy to work and shower. Look how me saying “work hard, have a good job, be a good and kind person, and practice minimum hygiene and fitness standards (key word: minimum)” and how men say that this is the top 20% of men, that these standards are very high and unreasonable. I fulfill them and more, but app…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:22 PM
1

Every man a woman adds to her n count makes her worth a little bit less. Every woman a man adds to his n count boosts his SMV a little more. If she is sleeping with you, she’s willingly giving you a little bit of her SMV, boosting yours and lowering hers. The least you can do is buy her dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 03:24 PM
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Just because a guy doesn’t catch my eye doesn’t mean I won’t like him. God lord, what an imbecilic deduction. You GET TO KNOW PEOPLE THEN BECOME ATTRACTED. THIS ISNT TINDER. ONCE YOU SEE HIS PERSONALITY YOU APPROACH. IF HE DOESNT SHOW ENTHUSIASTIC INTEREST BACK THEN YOU SOFT NEXT HIM
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 03:21 PM
1

Pursuing a man doesn’t mean that you put your neck on the line or give a guy all the cards to hold.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:59 PM
1

What makes you think I don’t have those characteristics and am low value??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:58 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:35 PM
2

Since they don’t do housework yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:32 PM
1

In all age groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:29 PM
1

Are you pro Ana or what??!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:28 PM
1

That’s fine because below average to you is high value to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:28 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/Braincels/comments/8nda3o/i_just_want_a_woman_who_is_loyal_and_can_cook/?st=JHUKQ6EF&sh=e3f37f28 Everything here. You can rip it apart too! Also I am a Virgin, never married or divorced and no past drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:27 PM
1

Yes. 8-5 with a 1 hour commute. I wake up at 5 to walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:26 PM
1

Most women do. Most women work and do everything but are called entitled for a guy who is like them. Take me. I look decent, am polite, kind, reasonably in shape, and have a good job. But men tell me I am extremely entitled for wanting the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:25 PM
1

It’s reasonable for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:24 PM
1

So if a 30 year old guy with a decent job and who is nice can easily find a 23 year old woman with the snap of his fingers. If so, why do men here complain a lot? I don’t mind dating a guy who is 30, I’m 24. But I would be hella pissed if he kept bringing up that I am younger and how inferior women his own age are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:23 PM
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Any guy who is attracted to me goes up like 3-4 points in looks. A 6/10 becomes a 9-10 a 4 becomes a 7-8.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:22 PM
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I agree. I see the thick ladies like this and I consider her a solid 8-9 but here they would throw up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:20 PM
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No. I am talking about meeting people IN REAL LIFE in the op. (Which is crazy because most men I meet IRL at church are saving sex for marriage or at least are lying that they are saving sex for marriage) But he’s insisting that they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:14 PM
1

And we have extremely different definitions of high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:13 PM
1

Men complain about effort 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:12 PM
1

You consider 1800-2000 calories to be pig like???
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:12 PM
1

https://m.imgur.com/Bk59QRH
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:11 PM
1

Apparently everyone here is saying that she is disgustingly obese. https://m.imgur.com/Bk59QRH
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:10 PM
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https://m.imgur.com/Bk59QRH So you think she is repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:09 PM
1

https://m.imgur.com/Bk59QRH So you think this woman is repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:09 PM
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I do 30 minutes of strength training with 5-15 lb dumb bells 5 days a week I run 1-2 miles 3 days a week I walk 8-12 miles a day 7 days a week rain or shine , cold or hot I don’t understand why you’re insisting that this woman is repulsive. https://m.imgur.com/Bk59QRH
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:07 PM
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Yes but I have a lot of muscle now and i don’t look like a fat cow as a result. I have defined abs, lines on both sides of my abs, and my stomach is relatively flat (only bulges when I drink a ton of water or have a large meal), because I work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:04 PM
1

If you expect a woman to do all the housework, it should be divided based on hours worked, not income. Exception: if one person is in school full time. I make over $70k but will quit my job to go to grad school for free and have zero debt and will always make over $40k unless something really bad happens I don’t care how fat a man is as long as he isn’t morbidly obese I am not plus sized I don’t care if a guy is over 6’ (“ = inches) just be over like 5’4” Saying “I will never ever say my weight”…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:02 PM
1

800-1000 calories per day? That’s not even enough to survive. Wtf is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:54 PM
1

Yes men make women take on a heavier burden of housework even if she works the same/ linger hours I think a woman doing the housework is the natural dynamic if she doesn’t work full time
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:53 PM
1

Because if he is going to sleep with you, he should pay. Women lose and men gain when they have sex. The least a guy can do is pay for dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:51 PM
1

Just because a woman rates a guy she doesn’t know low on the rating scale, doesn’t mean that once she gets to know him she won’t date him or find him higher. Most random dudes I see walking around are not catching my eye the men ogle random women. But a random dude who likes me can easily jump from a 4 to an 8 in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:50 PM
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No. I am saying that I am short but the same proportions. I have muscle and fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 06:44 AM
1

Or if she works 60 hours a week and you work 40 hours a week, you do more of the cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 06:43 AM
1

If you don’t want to financially support a woman you’re married to, then you have to be willing to do half of the cooking and cleaning. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 06:42 AM
2

What kind of bullshit answer is this? I don’t expect a man to pay for dates. I fully expect a man to save his money for marriage and commitment and to buy a house. I am saving aggressively for a house, too. I won’t buy a house until I get married and want to start a family. That is a BASIC CONCEPT
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 06:41 AM
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Because he’s claiming that I have no choice but to have precommitment sex or die alone. It’s a bullshit lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 05:41 AM
1

Hence why women pursue men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 03:22 AM
1

Literally no one I have liked has said to me “I don’t want to advance a relationship with you”.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:02 AM
2

At least you’re honest that losing weight is starvation and not giving the bullshit “don’t starve yourself” lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:47 AM
1

Still I wouldn’t want to be used by people who want casual sex only from me like you, hence why the hard next.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:45 AM
0

Well according to here that poll is bullshit. Men are much pickier and women don’t care. Men want exclusively 8+/10 and women just want someone pasable not necessarily above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:44 AM
2

No. tell me what my level is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:43 AM
1

I don’t know my bf % and I will never ever say my weight. Also I am not the same weight as her. I am just built like that but petite.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:43 AM
1

I track it by eating roughly the same things every day and I know how many calories each thing has. It’s not a strict count but I know how much a serving is and how much I am eating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:41 AM
1

Dude I eat like 2000 calories and I am not skinny. I know I am not shoveling 3000 calories a day into my mouth. This thing is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:10 AM
0

Do you realize that I am slightly chubby, not so fat that anyone is going to hate me???
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:09 AM
1

How fat do you think I am????? Good lord you’re acting like I am an SSBBW or BBW or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:07 AM
1

So according to that I can eat like 2000 calories a day and still lose weight. Bullllllllllshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:06 AM
1

I don’t know I used a website for BMR calculations
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:02 AM
2

I have to work you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:02 AM
1

It’s been “equal” for like 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:56 PM
1

That’s my BMR if I just sit in bed all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:55 PM
1

Then I would have to stop exercising because that’s my BMR.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:54 PM
1

I AM under 27, have no debt, have no major health issues. All this just inflates my ego. I have a ton of muscle under my fat so I look built and thick. I never cheated or dated much and am a KHV Never have been married or engaged I am never divorced
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:52 PM
1

How is this visible for the man you are after? By getting to know each other over the course of 6-12 months he has no way to know that unless you act in a way that is physically flirty, By getting to know each other over the course of 6-12 how are you showing to your potential partner that your compassion will be used for the benefit of the relationship? There are a lot of women that are compassionate to pets and children but will not help their husbands when they are hitting rock bottom By bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:50 PM
0

And most men think a statistically average woman is fat and old.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:47 PM
1

Walking 7 days a week, 8-12 miles a day isn’t even a big deal. You just put a podcast or some music on and walk. It’s not some supreme exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:47 PM
3

Omg no I wouldn’t. What the heck are you guys doing at the gym??!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:46 PM
1

How is this visible for the man you are after? By getting to know each other over the course of 6-12 months he has no way to know that unless you act in a way that is physically flirty, By getting to know each other over the course of 6-12 how are you showing to your potential partner that your compassion will be used for the benefit of the relationship? There are a lot of women that are compassionate to pets and children but will not help their husbands when they are hitting rock bottom By bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:45 PM
1

Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:41 PM
1

Good lord so then I have to get plastic surgery and become a 10/10 because literally any man with a good job and stable mind and friendly personality can land himself a 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:41 PM
1

5’1
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:39 PM
1

I don’t know what my micro nutrients are but I do eat a ton of vegetables and fruits. I may even suspect that fruit is making me gain weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:39 PM
0

Why the sarcastic response? Does it bother you that womennsont want to be used and take measures to protect themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:34 PM
1

Mexicans overall are nicer people and better looking and more open minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:33 PM
3

Not the majority of men responding here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:32 PM
2

And all the nurses I posted are all below average because they aren’t the top 80%. Men did not hesitate to call them ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:32 PM
2

I don’t run 5 miles a day. I run like 1 mike a day 3 days a week. I walk about 10-12 miles a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:31 PM
2

I am thick but I get called fat repeatedly here to the point where I have extreme depression and anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:31 PM
2

Then take me there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:29 PM
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Idk why men are so lazy that they can’t get a decent job and shower regularly. I do all those things. I have a good job, look cute, and have a good personality. It’s not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:29 PM
1

I’ve done 1200 before and it’s starvation for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:28 PM
1

1200 is not a lot of food.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:28 PM
1

Hence why you save sex for commitment only.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:28 PM
1

Yeah but does she walk 4 hours a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:26 PM
1

See. It’s not good enough. You admit that men lie when they say they want a nice girl who is loyal and can cook. Biggest lie of the century. Bookmarked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:22 PM
1

So you believe that list isn’t good enough for a good man hmm?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:22 PM
2

You save sex for commitment. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:21 PM
1

Oh and there’s no hot thick ladies hmm?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:20 PM
1

Wtf is my level? Inb4 a morbidly obese homeless man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:19 PM
1

those women are in their 20’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:09 PM
2

Yes I go to church and there are young women and no young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:08 PM
1

Then I’ll hard next him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:07 PM
1

Or I could just go online and pick one of the 100’s of men who message me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:04 PM
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What year was this? Asking out a guy is not thrill seeking behavior. Good lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:01 PM
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Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 09:37 PM
0

I don’t mean below average. I am saying average.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 09:36 PM
-1

I don’t eat tons of crap. I eat like 1800-2000 calories a day
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 09:36 PM
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How fat and ugly do you think I am???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 08:27 PM
1

Apparently according to men too. My standards are too high per the men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 08:15 PM
1

But I don’t eat that much. If you want to befriend me I will send pics in a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 08:15 PM
2

I mean what race are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 08:14 PM
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I am loyal I am cute I would have sex regularly I am compassionate I have a good stable career I am smart and educated I work hard to be in shape I am hard working I persevere Do you need more, is it not good enough? Do I now have a pass to ask a guy out on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 08:14 PM
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No I eat a vegetarian plant based diet and limit sweets and carbs. I eat maybe 1800-2000 calories a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 08:13 PM
1

I could do like 12 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 08:12 PM
1

I don’t eat like a pig. I eat roughly 1800-2000 calories a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 08:12 PM
1

implying that’s how a woman gets a good husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 08:12 PM
2

Because they say “bobs and vagina” not “lets go on a date sometime”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 08:11 PM
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But a woman can always turn you down for not committing to her and pursue someone else who won’t leave her. It’s not like they are bound to you because you approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 08:11 PM
1

Exactly the first two have to put in more work
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 08:10 PM
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It’s because men aren’t pursuing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 08:09 PM
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I agree. A good thing about pursuing is you pick a guy you want. It doesn’t mean you have to stick to him if you realize he has problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 04:27 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/8n991d/comment/dztq9p5?st=JHTBKS9W&sh=10dd29e1
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 04:23 PM
1

I’m overweight but I don’t look fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 04:22 PM
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Hard next.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 04:21 PM
0

Yes it is. I have been on incels they all look decent
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 04:21 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/8n991d/cmv_average_women_nowadays_have_to_pursue_men_in/dztte82/?context=3&st=JHTBE788&sh=753d7f55
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 04:18 PM
2

I lift 5 days a week and run 3 days a week and walk 7 days a week and I look like the first woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 04:18 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/8n991d/cmv_average_women_nowadays_have_to_pursue_men_in/dztszdc/?context=3&st=JHTBDTXD&sh=7f984fa2
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 04:17 PM
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once or twice a week Lol I work out 7 days a week and I am a short version of the first woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 04:17 PM
4

Not by the people at church.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 04:16 PM
3

Exactly. Men despise average women. Those are not single moms. That’s why the average woman has to work extra hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 04:15 PM
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implying men in romantic relationships don’t split the bill
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 04:14 PM
2

Yeah that’s what I want but over and over again I am told that is super high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 04:14 PM
2

Even if you are the right woman, you still need to pursue the right man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 04:14 PM
1

Exactly why it’s the best place to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 04:13 PM
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Maybe because those men who are struggling don’t have a good job or don’t practice hygiene or have crazy characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:44 PM
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According to other commenters here, it’s excessively high standards to have
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:43 PM
2

No. You SPLIT it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:42 PM
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No it’s not. It’s all that except right up to “fuck her boyfriend”. They just go on to say “how do I keep this casual”?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:42 PM
1

THE WOMEN STANDING WITH HER
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:41 PM
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I meant the WOMEN STANDING WITH HER.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:41 PM
2

“Fat” to men though is like this or this When fat actually is more like this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:40 PM
2

Hence why you settle on being pursued and do the pursuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:38 PM
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Literally all a man has to do to not be ugly is to not be fat and have decent hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:38 PM
2

No. A 5/10 or 6/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:37 PM
2

https://instagram.com/p/BdLW5-6FP1M/ All the women who pose with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:34 PM
2

https://instagram.com/p/BfJLjqElKJ9/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:34 PM
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https://instagram.com/p/BgEhxvph-bY/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:33 PM
2

https://instagram.com/p/Bi7NzDGFll6/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:33 PM
2

Ask out on a date, when you see him (before dating) walk immediately to him and talk to him, flirt, hint at dates and relationships, text him first call him first
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:25 PM
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Yes I don’t understand why men have such a hard time being decent looking (hygiene), polite, kind, reasonably in shape and not even bothering for a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:23 PM
4

So she pursued him
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:22 PM
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At a bar isn’t a place to meet an LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:21 PM
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in the past year What do you expect? A hundred women per year? I’ve only been pursued by like 2 men the past year. Welcome to the world of an average looking woman. who the hell goes to church? Hence why it is a prime place to meet a spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:21 PM
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In my experiences the woman had to pursue the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:19 PM
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The entire manosphere is about how LTR’s are a pain. “She’s asking me where this is going and I want her to be a plate what do I do?” “She wants to get married because we have been together for 10 years what do I do?”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:18 PM
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No. I am not complaining. I am saying we have to pursue men. Men don’t pursue women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:17 PM
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Oh yeah they still do get women anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:17 PM
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Not if you draw a hard boundary. “No sex unless we have an established LTR/ marriage”. If he is flakey about it or weird about it, there is literally nothing stopping you from hard nextinf him. It’s not like you’re bound to a guy because you pursued him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:16 PM
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That’s a last resort. Plus why are these men looking online? If you’re a man who has a good job and isn’t super ugly, and you go to church regularly women will come to you in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:15 PM
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Wtf is an average man? Poor and ugly and a jerk?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:13 PM
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Hence “in rea life”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:13 PM
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It’s CMV not “why not” lol but I agree. Why not? Many men are low value to be frank, and can’t fulfill the basic tenants of “get a job” “practice hygiene” “don’t be a druggie” and “don’t be an asshole”. It’s so hard to find a guy who meets those reasonable and stable guy that when you do find him, you have to work for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:09 PM
1

The birth rate IS going down in the western world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 02:32 PM
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Yes it does. There’s less men so they have to compete more. An average dude with a good job who is Christian is a hot commodity
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 11:48 PM
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http://www.pewforum.org/2016/03/22/the-gender-gap-in-religion-around-the-world/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 08:54 PM
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Gonwild proves my point even more. Only the best looking women get attention there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 05:09 AM
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He called himself average. And yeah I would date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:36 PM
1

6-7
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:36 PM
1

I’m not fat though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:29 PM
1

“It’s hard being average” posts below average guy No weight. I did my say my weight. If you want to see my pic you have to befriend me over time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:22 PM
1

Basically most guys will do unless they have a genetic disorder or deformity
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:18 PM
1

Yes I searched for all women are whores And he basically said all women are not whores UNLESS you’re high value. Then they are whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:17 PM
1

Amen 🙏🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:12 PM
1

Good thing I am not obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:12 PM
1

Until someone prettier shows attention. Then he gets antsy and resentful
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:09 PM
1

Yes, it doesn’t happen to normal girls
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:07 PM
1

Not true. Look at Instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:06 PM
1

How tf do you “earn” a good man?? “Oh I didn’t like you at first but then you learned how to sew so now you’ve earned my love”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:06 PM
1

Because I don’t want to kill myself
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:04 PM
1

No young and single and available men at work
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:03 PM
1

Obviously if he dead bedrooms me it’s because he finds me fat. Per Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:02 PM
1

Tons of young desperate women looking for a good Christian guy. There are notoriously far fewer Christian men than women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:02 PM
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“Decent” man = not abusive, not hideous, middle class job, under 35 Sorry if that makes my standard too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:00 PM
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No he didn’t want to date me. He is just bluffing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 05:46 AM
1

I am saying men who say that they notice all women are lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 05:45 AM
1

He says “women are not whores UNLESS you’re the fun high value guy”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 05:42 AM
1

I mean whores
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 05:41 AM
0

I don’t know Romania maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 05:40 AM
1

Im in grad school part time and work full time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:00 AM
1

Im not a shut in though. I just don’t meet young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 02:30 AM
1

Because marriage is a huge life change
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 02:29 AM
1

Maybe they had less sex because of the other problems
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 02:26 AM
1

I’ll try a convention eventually but I have done door to door and haven’t met men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 02:08 AM
1

I don’t meet young single men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 02:07 AM
1

How do you know they just didn’t have other issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 02:06 AM
1

Me too but they have to at least pretend to believe in the religion
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:58 AM
1

I will pm you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:49 AM
1

I don’t drink. I have tried setting up and it never ever works. In fact men get mad when their moms try to set them up with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:49 AM
0

So if he cums to other women and dead bedrooms me then he should be willing to pay for my plastic surgery to look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:48 AM
1

Yeah but he still wishes he could do better
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:48 AM
1

I mean go to the favelas (is that the word?) and find a super poor girl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:47 AM
1

I am sorry if that happens to you but most of the time it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:47 AM
1

Yes it is. It won’t happen instantly but once you go a dozen times or so and get involved then he’ll yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:46 AM
1

Well you should have thought about that instead of pushing us away and hating us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:45 AM
0

Did you bother to read how much men utterly despise women in the entire internet? Hm? Why do men hate women so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:45 AM
1

Just go to church.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:44 AM
1

No. I am in school part time then I have to rush to work. My class is all women and gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:44 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/8m1dxj/trigger_warning/?st=JHO5S8OP&sh=e18d44cb
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:42 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/8mdxke/he_has_a_net_worth_of_100_million/?st=JHO5J07L&sh=384385cc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:35 AM
1

Go on mgtow. I’ll do it for you and link you the evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:34 AM
1

Because men say that women settling = she isn’t attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:33 AM
0

So why aren’t American men paying them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:33 AM
1

But they are still attracted even if they settled. Can’t you wrap your mind around that??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:32 AM
1

I DONT EVEN MEET YOUNG DUDES LET ALONE ONES I FIND ATTRACTIVE
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:32 AM
0

If he goes to church hands down women will be all over him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:31 AM
2

See? Your price isn’t good enough so go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:31 AM
1

No but definitely in real life he will.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:31 AM
1

Then men shouldn’t complain about being beta bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:25 AM
2

A wedding ring and a lifetime of love and sacrifice and loyalty and commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:25 AM
1

Men online do it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:24 AM
2

You’re mgtow. Mgtow is notorious for tearing down even the tiniest flaw a woman has. They are even more proof that men hate most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:24 AM
1

Work and church and School. Part time school.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:23 AM
1

Well find a girl from the Brazilian slums.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:23 AM
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No i dont. I am average and I get zilch. I have to go online if I want attention. Women have to pursue men now days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:22 AM
1

A man’s second choice when he realizes he can’t get any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:22 AM
1

I should be specific. I meet people. Not young single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:21 AM
1

Fuck that if a man told me I was his second choice in terms of looks I would leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:21 AM
2

They are vividly jealous of women and men who get attention. Check out the incels page.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:20 AM
1

I don’t even meet young and single men who are interested in me. I have to go online.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:15 AM
0

But that’s how the freaking dating market is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:14 AM
1

Just go there and pay like $10 and there you go a show.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:13 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:12 AM
1

I don’t know. Are men mad that they don’t get business?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:12 AM
0

Im conservative And religious and dress modestly and no men like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:10 AM
1

So you will be okay with that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:09 AM
3

Only the top women get attention from a lot of men. Less attractive or average women like me need to pursue men and fight for their attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:08 AM
1

Yes. He said that women are whites for the best men. He didn’t say they aren’t whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:08 AM
2

Do you tell your wife that you’re settling? It’s okay to settle with a woman and still be attracted to her but somehow women don’t do that??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:07 AM
1

Look these are guys who say they want to kill themselves. They would rather die than build a career and convert? Hmm?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:06 AM
2

You never made any opportunity. You just basically said watch your teeth and sent a picture of Mary Poppins.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:05 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1g4dl4/1_plastic_surgeon_in_belgium_ill_stick_to_my/?st=JHO4FJR4&sh=99ab89e5
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:04 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2byphz/american_women_are_whores/?st=JHO4F1LZ&sh=15efc9f0
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:03 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/78ed3f/all_women_are_whores/?st=JHO4EG3F&sh=825bb7c5
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:03 AM
2

Women are the same but men get extremely mad if they aren’t he top choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:57 AM
-1

Don’t all men in the manosphere call all women prostitutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:57 AM
2

Anyone can look like Mary Poppins if they just buy the costume. Tons of menonite girls look like that but are you willing to become a Menonite?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:56 AM
1

So why are men so upset about alpha rucks beta bucks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:55 AM
1

What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:45 AM
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It’s not bad but men get upset being beta bux. Same with women. Why would I want to be beta bux
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:45 AM
1

And it’s okay for men to settle??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:44 AM
3

No multiple people have told me I am not fat even though I quote Reddit posts like this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:44 AM
1

I get ZERO action.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:43 AM
3

did you bother to read where I say these aren’t even obese women versus models? Or did you just impulsively comment before reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:42 AM
1

I don’t meet men or get asked out. Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:42 AM
2

How can a man be happy with me if he doesn’t come from being with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:41 AM
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No they don’t. Why don’t men give love and affection and resources to 80% of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:41 AM
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Yeah but we don’t want i be second choice for love and affection and relationships. What’s the point if 80% of men won’t love you even if they will have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:40 AM
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Why would I want to be second choice for a man? Alpha fucks beta bucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:38 AM
-1

They ignore desperate and cheap women because they aren’t hot enough for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:37 AM
0

Then men can’t complain. They ignore easy sexual favors for cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:37 AM
1

Im chubby but not fat. Fatter women get much more love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:36 AM
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If you’re hitting on women equally why wouldn’t you go for the 7-8/10’s and not exclusively the 9’s? These aren’t meh women. Why would I want to be a man’s second choice? What would you do if a woman said she was dating you because you’re all she can get?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:36 AM
1

Why would I want to be a beta bux?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:35 AM
0

Do you think most women don’t love their partners
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:34 AM
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So men settle and are even worse than women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:34 AM
1

And I like beta men for the same reason
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:33 AM
1

Why should I be sympathetic? There are incels out there who i would date if they just changed their religion and got a good job. The like 1-2 men I meet every year have been fine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:30 AM
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I do everything but I don’t meet men. I’m going to go online next year.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:28 AM
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Well I am not in the top 5-10% but I definitely am not in the bottom 50% but men still hate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 11:21 PM
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Yes. Go on and scroll to the bottom. Those girls make me so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 11:21 PM
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Nope. They don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 11:17 PM
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Maybe men notice more women than just those they love and date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 11:16 PM
1

I mean if you’re a famous cam girl yes you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 11:16 PM
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The top girls who get $10 are just going to say “thank you”. The random Eastern European girl will take off her shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 11:16 PM
1

Time affection love resources energy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 11:15 PM
2

Men. Men say 80% of women only want the top 20% of men while men don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 11:14 PM
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So why do they only pay the top women? Easily they could pay $20 to some Russian lady and she will do anything they want but instead they pay $20 to the top woman who just says thank you and ignores them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 11:14 PM
3

It’s literally 1-2 seconds of scrolling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 11:13 PM
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Just because a man reluctantly settles for you doesn’t mean he truly loves you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 11:12 PM
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No they get the most attention. 80% of men want the top 10-20% of women only.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 11:12 PM
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Nope lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 11:11 PM
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Yes. Men insist that they notice all women and that women only want the top 20% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 11:11 PM
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Lol nope Cam girl sites are proof that men only notice the top women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 10:40 PM
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No they aren’t. I browsed myfree cams . A few girls have thousands of guys watching and then the rest have like 2 guys watching and don’t make much money. In fact, it’s proof of 80% of men waning the top 20% of women. It’s even more like 90% of men wanting the top 5-10% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 08:32 PM
1

What
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 08:31 PM
2

You could just say girlfriend bu obviously she isn’t good enough for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 07:16 PM
1

Not if you’re average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 07:15 PM
2

So HE is the one with a problem. NOT her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 02:03 PM
3

And yet she’s just “the girl I’m banging” to you. Nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 02:03 PM
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😑 he can always help men too 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:19 AM
1

I’m sure you’re not ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 02:44 AM
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They are having sex bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 02:36 AM
1

So do you want to date now? Dm me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 01:55 AM
1

You describe yourself as a “post wall hag with autism” but isn’t that unattractive? Because you say “be attractive”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 01:18 AM
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He was being nice. JFC.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 01:17 AM
1

I’m 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 01:15 AM
7

ALL the cooking and housework in exchange for 5 less hours of work??? JFC I would rather just work 40 hours a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 01:13 AM
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How???
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 01:12 AM
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Omg how do you get these things can you tell a story about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 10:11 PM
4

So there is no way to do this without alluding to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 10:11 PM
1

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 10:02 PM
2

But how will that translate into “I’m gonna buy her jewelry”?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 09:56 PM
1

I regularly delete and make new accounts to manage my privacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 09:55 PM
5

I’m pretty and pleasant I want free stuff too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 09:55 PM
3

Exactly. Free gifts is a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 09:54 PM
2

I’m going to do the tinder experiment. Me sexy, me ugly, and me average and see if this works. No I am not larping. I regularly delete and make new accounts to protect my safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 09:54 PM
2

I don’t even know how to flirt for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 09:53 PM
2

How? I don’t even know how to flirt for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 09:53 PM
1

I don’t game how does this work
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 09:52 PM
2

Yeah what if you’re average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 09:52 PM
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Uhh where are these so I can have it too?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 09:51 PM
1

No. Just because I wouldn’t date him doesn’t mean he’s worthless as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 09:51 PM
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I wouldn’t call someone I don’t hate worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 08:46 PM
5

Welfare doesn’t count. You can get welfare too by being poor and having kids. You can fake schizophrenia and get disability. You can even get free methadone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 08:45 PM
14

“I work 40 hours a week at a desk job but I am going to make my wife keep doing all the cooking and cleaning even though she also works 40 hours a week at a desk job because some men are laborers”. “I am going to call women lazy because they work less hours than men even though they do more childcare and housework because childcare and housework are so easy hehe” Examples
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 08:44 PM
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Like? What? Where are the free things?? No one here is giving statistical evidence. benefits for having a baby or exchanging things for sex don’t count
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 08:42 PM
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Please send these random nice dudes my way because I have gotten ZILCH. ALSO with help moving: I would help my best friend move. I give junk I don’t want to my friends who don’t think it’s junk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 08:05 PM
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I am too lazy to find the comment but a month ish ago some guy posted several YouTube videos about how female Nurses Work less hard. I said “of course they work less if they have families and children” and he insisted that this meant women were lazy and female nurses are useless and don’t work hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 08:04 PM
1

So why do you hate your looksmatch so much
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 08:03 PM
20

Men also exaggerate how easy women have it. No one is going to give me free stuff simply for being a woman. The only situation where I may get free stuff is night clubs and those guys are trying to exchange alcohol for sex, not be nice people. Men also exaggerate nagging. “Ooh she asked me to do the dishes and when I didn’t do it several hours later she got annoyed! What a nag!!!” Lastly men also exaggerate how useful their jobs are to society. They call Nurses useless but construction workers u…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 07:32 PM
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Men exaggerate how much they work. You work M-F at a desk job 8-5 but then you put women down for not being a construction worker? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 07:15 PM
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No men specifically say they don’t care about money in an LTR and call women gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 01:05 PM
2

So you admit that you’re not attractive. But then you call your female counterpart worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:37 PM
2

Do you even pay attention to your looksmatch?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:18 PM
1

I. Don’t. Sleep. With. Anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:18 PM
1

Because they get money and drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:46 PM
2

chauvinistic Yemenis How many of these do you know that you believe women are sleeping with them? abusive gangbangers I know zero. But I do know I would rather be alone than with one. Hbu?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:42 PM
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Better than being 60 and having cats and a hitachi according to another poster.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:41 PM
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When sluts are compared to felons https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/8ldrd9/comment/dzer6zw?st=JHJ73G22&sh=a2a8a131 I think it’s safest not to be a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:20 PM
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“Hey. Use lube and be less rough or I will not have sex with you”. Plus you’re acting like men don’t change. Go on the dead bedrooms subreddit. There are plenty of men who had frequent and fun sex who stop. It’s not like premarital sex will solve that issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:08 PM
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Yes. We can’t empathize with not being able to get sex on demand but we can empathize with not being wanted and not being loved. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/8lciin/have_you_ever_dated_a_practice_or_placeholder/?st=JHJ6HU2R&sh=3d21a0ef
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:03 PM
1

Furthermore I would never ever talk about sex with anyone besides a therapist or confidential professional. Just in case they go on Reddit and post comments about it saying how “if only she just slept with me before marriage I could have given her good sex” 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:57 PM
1

I don’t need to go on Reddit to discuss sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:56 PM
1

Ok but you said in the other comment that you expect a woman to support you while you build a next wal mart
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:55 PM
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It’s not society. It’s what MEN say about MEN over and over again. “Men Love women unconditionally but women have conditions” “men love women more” “we don’t care about your career”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:53 PM
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When I have a lifelong attachment to a man, he’s not going to discard me and say “hehe she got off”. We will just keep having relationships. Do you realize that if you’re married being discarded after some sex/ messing around is EXTREMELY unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:51 PM
1

There’s a lot of mental gymnastics here in one comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:49 PM
2

I hear things aren’t going well in the bedroom Who tf talks about these things in public? you likely will not have your choice of premium guy What makes you think men who have casual sex are “premium”? I’ve never had a problem having decent men like me even though I make it clear I am saving sex for marriage. Sure I don’t get any wealthy playboys but that’s not what I want. I demand respect, a decent job, and good treatment and lo and behold that’s what I get. Furthermore if two people are havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:41 PM
1

AMALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:33 PM
1

No but you shouldn’t have messed around with her and used her body before discarding her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:33 PM
1

Wtf is a foundational legacy? You want to build a charity! So you expect a rich woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:32 PM
1

Yes. If a woman says “I’m not like other girls” he’ll hath no fury like the man she says it to. Also you’re not atypical or a unique special snowflake. Men care plenty about money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:31 PM
1

So you admit men lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:30 PM
1

Yes. I am saving sex for marriage. I would be disgusted by a guy who finds that to be a burden and considers commitment to be a burden. I want a man who is excited and happy to have me around, not someone who resents me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:30 PM
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Yes. Why would I choose to live with, sacrifice my career for, reproduce with, build a future with, etc. a man who can just pack up and leave at any time and ruin my life with no consequences? “Oh yeah we have 3 kids and you quit your job and gave up grad school where you could have made a 6-figure salary to raise the kids, but I am tired and want to be a painter and live with this 19 year old. Have fun raising 3 kids on 2 minimum wage jobs as a single mom! Bye!” “I know we spent 15 years togeth…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:28 PM
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“I’m not like other guys” - every man alive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:21 PM
1

So you don’t make enough money to support yourself and you expect a woman to support you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:20 PM
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Yeah but why is having cats and a hitachi magic wand worse than having an abusive gangbanger who pushes you around or a chuavanistic Yemeni guy who one day surprises you that he has a child bride in Yemen. You’re acting like being alone is worse than being with those people. Hello, no it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:19 PM
2

Yeah it’s obvious from TRP that men don’t like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:17 PM
0

Women don’t care about appearance. They care about money. A 6/10 man who has a good job will ALWAYS be more valuable than an 8/10 who is 30 and still figuring out what he wants to do with his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:17 PM
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I thought “no hymen no diamond” and women with a high n count are the bane of men’s existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:10 PM
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You got to mess around with her without any commitment. she’s not entitled to a relationship And you’re not entitled to sex outside a relationship. The thing is that you were willing to mess around outside the confines of a committed relationship. She lost something and you didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:08 PM
1

Wow condescending and to think men on Reddit way that women are the ones who think this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:06 PM
1

Because it’s the biggest lie men tell. This thread is proof. Every comment I replied it too indicates a situation where men do care about money and indicates that men lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:05 PM
2

People apply to hundreds of jobs and don’t get one. People try to build a business and it fails and they lose money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:04 PM
1

Yeah but what if she is stagnant but keeps trying. Hmm?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 05:36 AM
5

Wow looks like she was right to be nervous about having sex because you used her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:35 AM
3

I thought men didn’t care about money. 🙄 men lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:32 AM
1

“Men don’t care about money”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:31 AM
6

I thought men didn’t care about career and money 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:30 AM
3

“Men don’t care about money”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:29 AM
1

Because men say a woman saving sex for commitment is bargaining sex for commitment and is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 11:56 PM
1

Crazy as she may be, I would never ever have sex without an established serious LTR and it sounds like she was brought up that way but had men tell her this is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 05:29 PM
1

How do you know she lied about being a Virgin???
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 04:35 PM
4

Wtf is wrong with waiting to have sex until 25? It looks like she wasted her sex experiences on you, you don’t seem to respect her or like her very much despite the fact that she got naked with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 01:26 AM
3

6 women is a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 03:09 PM
2

Was he also 21? I didn’t meet anyone at 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 03:05 PM
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Yeah but what’s the point of husband hunting at 21 when no 21 year old man wants to marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 02:35 AM
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Lol what kind of 21 year old men are trying to start a family now days 😂 😂 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 01:35 AM
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This x 1000
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