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Yeah, if someone is making somewhat sexist, misogynistic, etc remarks/behavior, it’s a major red flag, and for some, it’s grounds for immediately ending things. And I completely agree with you on that. However, my point is basically focusing on a purely prejudicial behavior with a lot of historical context that is directly tied such behavior. And yeah, I’ve dated someone from Florida. Pet names, I mean there were nicknames for everything. Lol
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:34 AM
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I mean, I don’t get the context here. What is being implied here? Or what do you think is being implied here?
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:28 AM
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Wait, sorry, are you referring to me? And do I know you?
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:27 AM
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The paper you shared shows no data on who is dating who, whom is married to whom. Furthermore, it doesn’t have any data in regards to online dating where who we swipe on may be used to correlate race & preference for race during date (remember this is implicit behavior, not stuff we actively think about). It’s mostly qualitative and quantitative analysis of surveys. Perception is not reality. I mean we have consensus data, mass amounts of online dating platform data, etc. Those are data points a…
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:52 AM
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You’re referring to compatibility, while this conversation is about implicit bias like attitudes toward different races, etc Compatibility can be influenced by environments, college education, socioeconomic status of parents, etc. But that is definitely not the conversation here. Compatibility aside, white women overwhelmingly prefer white men. When observed from a compatibility perspective, white women are more likely to choose less compatible white as compared to a more compatible POC. Mind yo…
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:29 AM
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I’m sure you’re a terrific guy, but it’s not you man. It’s them, it’s white women. White women, on average, prefer white men. Asian men are the least desired by white women, regardless of looks. Asian are generally perceived not very masculine/assertive/confident, not very well endowed, lacking emotions, nerdy, etc
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:46 AM
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Anecdotally, you’re right. It’s true for you. But if you look at this from a Marco level, instead of micro-level analysis, you’ll see what the person said was statistically correct.
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:42 AM
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White women overwhelming prefer white men as compared to others races of women and their preference for their own race. POC, especially women of color are way more open to other races
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:40 AM
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No, we prefer moneybags. Oh wait, thats what we call you
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:36 PM
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If age is your only filter, then something seems odd. Like you’re going to get older, but if you’re always dating 22year olds at 50, it begs the question why her age matters.
/r/seduction01/04/22 02:46 PM
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Sorry, I meant to say fortunately. Should have double checked. Thanks for pointing it out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:37 PM
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I see your point. Unfortunately, I think there are some studies that look into the discrepancy of divorcees based on gender. I can link you one or two if you’d like
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:14 PM
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I do think this might be one of the biggest parts You think? Or do you have some data to back this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:46 AM
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How’s that related to nuclear families?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:41 AM
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The burden is on you, not me, as you’re making a claim based on personal experiences. Ultimately, this is your decision to make and you shouldn’t take my or anyones word for it, you should check your own sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:02 AM
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There’s actually data done on this. Check out Google scholar and read a paper or two. There’s many many studies done on this topic, and making sweeping generalizations from personal experiences is not the best approach
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:44 AM
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Yes. You are correct. But that was done on purpose to further reinforce ones relationships with the gods. All of this was done to legitimate ones rule which was bestowed upon by the gods themselves; Alexander the Great claiming to be a demigod, Julius Caesar & Jupiter, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:46 PM
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I think adopting internationally is just as expensive, you have to hire a private agency to do the background check which takes maybe 2 years. So that’s an easy 30-40k.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:01 AM
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The responsibility of a child are the two individuals that conceived it, regardless of how. Everyone knew the risk when they decided to have sex. Personal bias? Sure, all judges have it. But in case of custody? Do you have evidence for this? Custody is literally 50/50. I recently sat in a case having to do with custody in nyc. I had to read the federal and state guidelines for custody. And child support isn’t only paid by fathers, but mothers as well if she’s the primary breadwinner. Please get …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:59 AM
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There’s a difference between taking a condom off half way during sex and lying about being on birth control. In both cases, two consenting adults are having sex. It is the responsibility of each adult to take proper precautions, like if she lied about being on birth control, she wouldn’t have gotten pregnant if he had used a condom. Most importantly, adults understand the risk of sex. Even on Birth control, condoms, etc, there’s a slight chance of pregnancy. And if a child is conceived, why shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:13 AM
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What law in particular?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:41 PM
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My partner and I are planning on adopting children and yeah it’s expensive. There’s the foster care system if 30k+ price tag is too much. But you still have to pay a fee w/ fostercare and it’s a lot. We were thinking of adopting 2-3 children and it’s going to cost an arm and leg
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:35 PM
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And the small… pee pee
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:45 PM
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They (men) don’t care as much as women because physical looks isn’t the most important characteristic used by others to judge them, while it’s definitely the case for women when they are judged by others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:29 PM
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Normalization of obesity? When did this happen? Didn’t the American government literally launch a massive campaign against obesity in the 80s which still runs to this day? Frankly, everyone agrees that being overweight is unhealthy. But what’s overweight to you may not be overweight to someone else as genetics, environment, etc play a role. Always talk to your doctor if you’re concerned. And the most common form of bullying is shaming body size among children.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:26 PM
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Source for this? I’ve seen more than enough statues where men are sculpted with a body of the gods; but I assumed that was done on purpose as they’re trying to showcase a relationship between a mortal and a god.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:15 PM
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Oh, your relationship w/ fwb came off to me as something that consisted of a close friendship + sex, which from my perspective is a precursor to a relationship. Nonetheless, amazing that you and him have a healthy fwb relationship. 12 years is a very very long time, not just in fwb time. Most romantic relationships don’t last that long.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:07 PM
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My girlfriend cries a lot, like atleast once a day over some very trivial (from my perspective, I understand it’s important to her) things. On the other hand, I do not cry, like at all. The last time I cried probably was as a young teenager when my mom decided to beat my ass with a wooden stick. That shit hurt, like alot. But I don’t mind her crying, sometimes I may get annoyed when we’re have an uncomfortable & tense conversation, but I’ve learned that’s how she reacts to whenever she’s overwhe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:04 PM
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Is your fwb just fwb or potentially something more? I’m inclined to assume the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:55 PM
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the percentage man, that’s what I care about. The statement w/o the percentage is right, but the 90%, that I would like to see. It’s a bold statement. **on your point about gravity, well, you’re not exactly my high school teacher. Not sure if I should just take the word of a random person online. Doesn’t hurt to double check.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:52 AM
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Please link me a paper regarding this and I’ll get back to you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:33 AM
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Wanting to have your own children and pass on your own genes is very innate and affects both gender (very subconscious). Not sure why this is being debated. Welfare queens? Wiki that please. I don’t think you know what that means, rather how it’s understood in public policy. My point about childbirth is that it’s strenuous and it’s so resource intensive on your body that by the end of your pregnancy, your physiology has been altered. Generally, men have to experience no such experience in their …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:25 AM
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No one is telling you what to believe in. You have Google scholar like I do. You can do your own research. Then you can choose to believe in facts or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:35 AM
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Because losing pregnancy weight and the experience of pregnancy aren’t disconnected. Something like 1/6 to 1/5 of women experience postpartum depression. After childbirth, mothers are primary responsible for child-rearing (western countries). Taking care of a new born baby requires 24/7 attention. I’ve hardly exhausted all the issues that come with being a new mother and it’s already quite obvious that there’s very little time mothers have to themselves to do things like workout. Im sure there a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:17 AM
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Not sure if this is a joke. Pregnancy literally changes the physiology of a womens body. The kind of extreme pain that they have to go through from month 3ish to the day of delivery is unexplainable unless you have personally experienced it. Then there’s the pain from actually delivering the baby. As a male, I just don’t know how women are able to persevere giving birth. It’s astounding. If a simple punch to our (males) testicles is too painful, imagine a punch that’s 200X stronger over a period…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:59 AM
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That sucks. Married couples hardly have sex, just a few times a month (single digit) and each session lasting a few mins as well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:37 AM
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I think the average sex session is a couple of mins and usually ends with the male finishes. Which is not surprising when you consider that 90% of men finish and only 30-40ish% of women finish during your average sex session. And married couples in their 30s (after just a couple of years of marriage) have sex a handful of times each month, as low as 1-2 times
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:32 AM
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Onlyfans has roughly 130MM subscribers, so that’s a lot dudes that hate themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:03 PM
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Leggings aside, do you still workout, idk maybe at home or something? And did you enjoy working out at the gym when people weren’t all over your personal space?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:03 AM
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For me, it’s only noticeable when someone points it out. I’m a guy and I think all leggings look the same. Someone had to literally explain what jeggings were with a side by side comparison and I still can’t tell accurately. 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:55 AM
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I’m not patronizing you. You only mentioned your own individual experience, and just one experience, making no literal mention of other experiences. From my perspective, where I explicitly mentioned the experiences of my peers (peers in setting where tights were required everyday, all the time during practice), I simply provided a perspective over a long period of time (numerous wrestling seasons over couple of years) including hundreds if not thousands of young to old men being alive and active…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:50 AM
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A big factor of working out is motivation, the constant motivation. Working out… isn’t exactly the best, most joyous or/and stimulating activity. It’s no wonder that we have phases where we workout, stop, get motivated, workout again, stop and repeat. Why do we workout? Obviously, it’s healthy. Also, it’s great way to virtue signal; you’re active, have a healthy lifestyle and displaying ones work ethic/goal-oriented, etc. And it’s one way to tell people you workout, but it’s even better than whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:41 AM
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Have seen women wear it outside the gym too (outdoor park)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:32 AM
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Don’t let your individual anecdote generalize the experience for men who wear tight leggings. I wear tights when I work out (from my wrestling days) and trust me when I say this, I’ve seen a lot of men wear super tight clothing while working out. Never, have I ever seen them inappropriately touched or done anything to them inappropriately. Sure, sometimes spectators would stare at the gym, but it never affected our workouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:31 AM
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Are you actively aware you’re selling to a minor? Then there’s intent. Unknowingly selling doesn’t exonerate you of responsibility either, as with selling alcohol, you’re required to check ID.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:01 PM
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Either overprotective female authority or abandoned female authority (I’m assuming it just doesn’t have to be mothers, could be sister, grandma, etc )
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 02:11 PM
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I would probably fit into a mix of #1 and #2
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 02:10 PM
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Yeah. She probably assumed that you took her for a sex worker or something, which from her POV is sort of humiliating & embarrassing given she choose to share private parts of her life because she trusted you.
/r/seduction22/03/21 07:49 PM
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You’re right, the Pareto rule exist very much in dating (80/20). The least successful are those that don’t try, easily give up & are dealing with complex problems whether that may be their families that they’re living with, school, etc. Time and time again, success in dating is defined by relentless persistence (not creepy), overcoming the adversity of love & knowing that tomorrow is a another, better day.
/r/seduction19/03/21 05:54 AM
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Shit, bro thats literally me. Super conservative & religious mom, dad was no where to be found & older brother would always make fun of me cause he was so much better looking than me.
/r/seduction18/03/21 10:41 PM
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Don’t dip your pen into the company’s ink.
/r/seduction18/03/21 09:44 PM
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I would tread very carefully at work.
/r/seduction18/03/21 07:15 PM
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Yeah, girls are so so so understanding when it comes to topic. I can't say the same for men. Just do it!
/r/seduction18/03/21 03:22 PM
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You should yolo it & be unapologetically yourself. And if you don't like small-talk or suck at it, use it to make conversation. I'm sure both of you can relate. Also, tell her you're a virgin man.
/r/seduction18/03/21 02:33 PM
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We’re (millennials) having less sex with less partners than our parents. I shit you not. Going to bar or club was always hard for our parents. The odds are, our parents met each through mutual friends or family. This method is still the most effective today.
/r/seduction18/03/21 01:20 PM
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How many of our parents know the ins and outs of dating? LOL They seldom ever have decent communication skills which they pass on us. ​ Its really up to us. We have to be better.
/r/seduction18/03/21 11:20 AM
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Darwin did marry his first cousin, so I can't say if he was good with women
/r/seduction10/03/21 08:49 AM
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> I’m sorry but if you don’t flirt with girls, they will just view you as a friend... That is not true. Regardless of what girls want or don't, telling them how you feel is the surest way for them to know if you like them or not.
/r/seduction10/03/21 08:45 AM
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Autism spectrum disorder (ASD).
/r/seduction10/03/21 07:54 AM
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I freaking love Goedel & I seldom understand most of his stuff. IDK I have so much pity for mathematicians ( I am one). We are probably some of the most eccentric individuals & ASD is way too common.
/r/seduction10/03/21 01:24 AM
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This is really about communication skills, above all else. There is a great book I'd recommend. ​ It is People Skills by Robert Bolton. Its a difficult read, so take your time. Also, writing about your feelings is just as great :)
/r/seduction10/03/21 01:21 AM
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That’s not how the law works. If you believe that, then you’ll be in for quite the surprise when you’re in similar situation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 08:35 AM
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Woah, I think many of the comments are reading a little too much into your behavior without observable context. By socially awkward, I think you mean that you're a little eccentric and/or idiosyncratic. You maybe communicate & respond, I do not know. Its important to know that everyone is a little awkward. Your social awkwardness may be a result of lack of meaningful socializing experiences OR you have Autism Spectrum Disorder. Most often, if you have the latter, you will definitely experience (…
/r/seduction22/01/21 07:09 AM
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Oh woah. That’s a very simplified view of the world. Okay man. If that’s what you believe, do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 02:36 AM
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Maybe that’s the problem, you just reduced all your female friends to you objects of sex gratification. You can be friends with the opposite sex & not have sexual desires for them. My comment was a generalization looking at things like effort & human decency. There are obviously other things at play compatibility & timing. However effort & human decency should be a given.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 09:28 PM
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They're not assumptions. The age of consent was never set by any scientific basis. Historically, puberty was a "good" barometer because it told them they can get married & immediately have kids. In recent history, the voting age has played a strong role in influencing the age of consent. BUT BUT its been met with quite a bit of political opposition (no surprise here, look who the politicians are). ​ Look, we know someone at 18 shouldn’t date someone thats 40, regardless of gender. But that is di…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 09:03 PM
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Most people, nearly the entire population are generally nice. They are nicer** when it comes to interactions with the sex they find attractive. The rationale that assholes or whatever gets a girl is false & misleading. The more interesting individual, the one that takes their time getting to know & shows care gets the girl. Being nice doesn't entitle you to anything. And men that think because they are nice, they deserve X, Y, Z are already behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 08:50 PM
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Yeah, well breakups in general are hard. No one actually wants to be the one to initiate the breakup. And even if you have fallen out of love, odds are, you still care about your SO. So we try to avoid it for as long as we can, its something we are all too good it. ​ Being able to confront your partner & really express your reality of things require great willpower. It doesn't help that no matter what we do, its going to hurt someone we deeply care about. So you can see why its easy to just avoi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:06 PM
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No study is perfect. As researchers reading academic papers, we have to have to pay close attention to the concerns expressed by the researchers. Tells to what extend we can use the conclusion shared by them & how we can improve. Again, the study you shared clearly outlined infidelity was the reaction, not the cause of the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 10:25 PM
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Many Americans are white & Christian. But that’s not everyone, doesn’t give the full picture & requires further study. I’m not saying this, the researchers are, from the study you shared.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 10:17 PM
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This man is behind website of the link you provided & he as a habit of misusing studies, publishing forgish studies & perpetuates obvious lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 09:32 PM
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Do you man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 09:20 PM
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I would not recommend this link. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/W._Bradford_Wilcox
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 09:03 PM
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They dont. Its whomever is the breadwinnner
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 09:01 PM
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Its not coincidence. Younger couples are more likely to get divorces. Inexperience, rushinng into things, & misaligned expectations. Our expectations improve with experience
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 09:00 PM
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Its almost marginal in the delta between men & women cheating. Whats useful isn't how likely we are to cheat rather over X number of relationships, will we chea.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 08:58 PM
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Paper Not sure if this is the best study. Also I know you didnt read the paper because I did. They cite various issues with their paper like small sample & almost all white & Christian participants. In the discussion, they regard financial hardship & unrealistic marriage expectations that lead to the problems you mentioned => "lack of commitment, infidelity, and conflict/arguing". We just dont start to behave terribly out of randomness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 08:56 PM
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There was a really really big study done on western countries why people got divorces. Single biggest reason? Misaligned & unrealistic expectations of marriage. Regardless of communication, compatibility, etc if your think a marriage will change things, fix something or whatever then you're going to have a difficult times. Also things like love is forever, etc plays into all this & makes the situation worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 08:50 PM
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Are woman unhappy? According to what benchmark? I don’t know. This is really complicated to survey & do analysis on. I think almost everyone on this post is generalizing & using anecdotals The only reason why modern society is so obsessed with happiness is because we misunderstand what happiness is. We assume it’s a constant, it’s not. Second, the Internet has given the masses an outlet to speak their mind, so we know more about others. Society as a whole is pretty shitty right now, not just wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 12:39 PM
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Maybe some are, most aren’t. The vast majority aren’t. If you take men & women, remove constructs that’s created by society like inequalities, gender roles, etc you’d notice that men & women are pursing each other mainly on personality & focusing on love. We have real world data on this. In countries that have strict gender roles, high disparity between gender equality & regulates one gender as inferior, the inferior gender is mainly uses economic mobility as their primary motivation towards mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 12:31 PM
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The differences shouldn’t matter because flirting doesn’t imply anything. It’s just banter, just having a fun conversation. It’s at your behest to extrapolate meaning from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 12:21 PM
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So is a relationship with children considered traditional?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 12:18 PM
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There’s a theory that almost everything we do, consciously or unconsciously, is to attract the opposite sex. Sure most of the actions aren’t directly related, but sum parts of something larger. This theory is interesting, but I’m crazy about it. But when in a public setting with an opposite sex, that alone (independent of your relationship status or their attractiveness) will influence your actions at that moment. This kind of thinking isn’t absurd or crazy. Our actions are driven by our need to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 12:16 PM
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So this is a topic I’m fairly familiar with (was planing a PhD on this, decided it was terrible idea). The problem you’re referring to isn’t as bad as you’re making it. But there’s a few things to point out; porn addiction is a serious issue. I’m read numerous medical cases of porn addiction & it’s not fun stuff. Social media has become a huge problem. For one, it has distorted our perceptions of beauty, sex, etc just in the last 10 years. It’s effect on women has been more substantial because o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 12:09 PM
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The book is like 10 years old. I enjoyed it. But this is a very different problem
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:59 AM
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