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| 1 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?Yeah, if someone is making somewhat sexist, misogynistic, etc remarks/behavior, it’s a major red flag, and for some, it’s grounds for immediately ending things. And I completely agree with you on that. However, my point is basically focusing on a purely prejudicial behavior with a lot of historical context that is directly tied such behavior. And yeah, I’ve dated someone from Florida. Pet names, I mean there were nicknames for everything. Lol | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 03:34 AM |
| 1 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?I mean, I don’t get the context here. What is being implied here? Or what do you think is being implied here? | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 03:28 AM |
| 0 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?Wait, sorry, are you referring to me? And do I know you? | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 03:27 AM |
| 2 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?The paper you shared shows no data on who is dating who, whom is married to whom. Furthermore, it doesn’t have any data in regards to online dating where who we swipe on may be used to correlate race & preference for race during date (remember this is implicit behavior, not stuff we actively think about). It’s mostly qualitative and quantitative analysis of surveys. Perception is not reality. I mean we have consensus data, mass amounts of online dating platform data, etc. Those are data points a… | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 01:52 AM |
| 9 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?You’re referring to compatibility, while this conversation is about implicit bias like attitudes toward different races, etc Compatibility can be influenced by environments, college education, socioeconomic status of parents, etc. But that is definitely not the conversation here. Compatibility aside, white women overwhelmingly prefer white men. When observed from a compatibility perspective, white women are more likely to choose less compatible white as compared to a more compatible POC. Mind yo… | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 01:29 AM |
| 22 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?I’m sure you’re a terrific guy, but it’s not you man. It’s them, it’s white women. White women, on average, prefer white men. Asian men are the least desired by white women, regardless of looks. Asian are generally perceived not very masculine/assertive/confident, not very well endowed, lacking emotions, nerdy, etc | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 12:46 AM |
| 3 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?Anecdotally, you’re right. It’s true for you. But if you look at this from a Marco level, instead of micro-level analysis, you’ll see what the person said was statistically correct. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 12:42 AM |
| -5 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?White women overwhelming prefer white men as compared to others races of women and their preference for their own race. POC, especially women of color are way more open to other races | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 12:40 AM |
| 2 | How Do You Know if a Girl is Too Drunk for Consent?No, we prefer moneybags. Oh wait, thats what we call you | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Getting shamed for dating women younger than meIf age is your only filter, then something seems odd. Like you’re going to get older, but if you’re always dating 22year olds at 50, it begs the question why her age matters. | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Gender Gap in Never Married peopleSorry, I meant to say fortunately. Should have double checked. Thanks for pointing it out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Gender Gap in Never Married peopleI see your point. Unfortunately, I think there are some studies that look into the discrepancy of divorcees based on gender. I can link you one or two if you’d like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Gender Gap in Never Married peopleI do think this might be one of the biggest parts You think? Or do you have some data to back this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 07:46 AM |
| 0 | Gender Gap in Never Married peopleHow’s that related to nuclear families? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 07:41 AM |
| -1 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.The burden is on you, not me, as you’re making a claim based on personal experiences. Ultimately, this is your decision to make and you shouldn’t take my or anyones word for it, you should check your own sources. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 07:02 AM |
| 0 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.There’s actually data done on this. Check out Google scholar and read a paper or two. There’s many many studies done on this topic, and making sweeping generalizations from personal experiences is not the best approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Masculinity is NOT in a crisis nor is it on a declineYes. You are correct. But that was done on purpose to further reinforce ones relationships with the gods. All of this was done to legitimate ones rule which was bestowed upon by the gods themselves; Alexander the Great claiming to be a demigod, Julius Caesar & Jupiter, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 07:46 PM |
| 1 | If women tend to go for very attractive men how come every where i go I always see a couple of a unattractive man and beautiful woman?I think adopting internationally is just as expensive, you have to hire a private agency to do the background check which takes maybe 2 years. So that’s an easy 30-40k. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 01:01 AM |
| 0 | Q4All, Do you allow past traumas to taint your view of the other gender/cause disturbances in your present relationship?The responsibility of a child are the two individuals that conceived it, regardless of how. Everyone knew the risk when they decided to have sex. Personal bias? Sure, all judges have it. But in case of custody? Do you have evidence for this? Custody is literally 50/50. I recently sat in a case having to do with custody in nyc. I had to read the federal and state guidelines for custody. And child support isn’t only paid by fathers, but mothers as well if she’s the primary breadwinner. Please get … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 12:59 AM |
| -1 | Q4All, Do you allow past traumas to taint your view of the other gender/cause disturbances in your present relationship?There’s a difference between taking a condom off half way during sex and lying about being on birth control. In both cases, two consenting adults are having sex. It is the responsibility of each adult to take proper precautions, like if she lied about being on birth control, she wouldn’t have gotten pregnant if he had used a condom. Most importantly, adults understand the risk of sex. Even on Birth control, condoms, etc, there’s a slight chance of pregnancy. And if a child is conceived, why shou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 12:13 AM |
| 4 | Q4All, Do you allow past traumas to taint your view of the other gender/cause disturbances in your present relationship?What law in particular? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 11:41 PM |
| 2 | If women tend to go for very attractive men how come every where i go I always see a couple of a unattractive man and beautiful woman?My partner and I are planning on adopting children and yeah it’s expensive. There’s the foster care system if 30k+ price tag is too much. But you still have to pay a fee w/ fostercare and it’s a lot. We were thinking of adopting 2-3 children and it’s going to cost an arm and leg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Masculinity is NOT in a crisis nor is it on a declineAnd the small… pee pee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 09:45 PM |
| 0 | Masculinity is NOT in a crisis nor is it on a declineThey (men) don’t care as much as women because physical looks isn’t the most important characteristic used by others to judge them, while it’s definitely the case for women when they are judged by others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 07:29 PM |
| 0 | Masculinity is NOT in a crisis nor is it on a declineNormalization of obesity? When did this happen? Didn’t the American government literally launch a massive campaign against obesity in the 80s which still runs to this day? Frankly, everyone agrees that being overweight is unhealthy. But what’s overweight to you may not be overweight to someone else as genetics, environment, etc play a role. Always talk to your doctor if you’re concerned. And the most common form of bullying is shaming body size among children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 07:26 PM |
| 6 | Masculinity is NOT in a crisis nor is it on a declineSource for this? I’ve seen more than enough statues where men are sculpted with a body of the gods; but I assumed that was done on purpose as they’re trying to showcase a relationship between a mortal and a god. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 07:15 PM |
| 6 | Is crying a turnoff for you?Oh, your relationship w/ fwb came off to me as something that consisted of a close friendship + sex, which from my perspective is a precursor to a relationship. Nonetheless, amazing that you and him have a healthy fwb relationship. 12 years is a very very long time, not just in fwb time. Most romantic relationships don’t last that long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 04:07 PM |
| 9 | Is crying a turnoff for you?My girlfriend cries a lot, like atleast once a day over some very trivial (from my perspective, I understand it’s important to her) things. On the other hand, I do not cry, like at all. The last time I cried probably was as a young teenager when my mom decided to beat my ass with a wooden stick. That shit hurt, like alot. But I don’t mind her crying, sometimes I may get annoyed when we’re have an uncomfortable & tense conversation, but I’ve learned that’s how she reacts to whenever she’s overwhe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 04:04 PM |
| 5 | Is crying a turnoff for you?Is your fwb just fwb or potentially something more? I’m inclined to assume the latter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 03:55 PM |
| 2 | If women tend to go for very attractive men how come every where i go I always see a couple of a unattractive man and beautiful woman?the percentage man, that’s what I care about. The statement w/o the percentage is right, but the 90%, that I would like to see. It’s a bold statement. **on your point about gravity, well, you’re not exactly my high school teacher. Not sure if I should just take the word of a random person online. Doesn’t hurt to double check. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 09:52 AM |
| 1 | If women tend to go for very attractive men how come every where i go I always see a couple of a unattractive man and beautiful woman?Please link me a paper regarding this and I’ll get back to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 09:33 AM |
| 6 | If women tend to go for very attractive men how come every where i go I always see a couple of a unattractive man and beautiful woman?Wanting to have your own children and pass on your own genes is very innate and affects both gender (very subconscious). Not sure why this is being debated. Welfare queens? Wiki that please. I don’t think you know what that means, rather how it’s understood in public policy. My point about childbirth is that it’s strenuous and it’s so resource intensive on your body that by the end of your pregnancy, your physiology has been altered. Generally, men have to experience no such experience in their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 08:25 AM |
| 9 | If women tend to go for very attractive men how come every where i go I always see a couple of a unattractive man and beautiful woman?No one is telling you what to believe in. You have Google scholar like I do. You can do your own research. Then you can choose to believe in facts or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 07:35 AM |
| 16 | If women tend to go for very attractive men how come every where i go I always see a couple of a unattractive man and beautiful woman?Because losing pregnancy weight and the experience of pregnancy aren’t disconnected. Something like 1/6 to 1/5 of women experience postpartum depression. After childbirth, mothers are primary responsible for child-rearing (western countries). Taking care of a new born baby requires 24/7 attention. I’ve hardly exhausted all the issues that come with being a new mother and it’s already quite obvious that there’s very little time mothers have to themselves to do things like workout. Im sure there a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 07:17 AM |
| 20 | If women tend to go for very attractive men how come every where i go I always see a couple of a unattractive man and beautiful woman?Not sure if this is a joke. Pregnancy literally changes the physiology of a womens body. The kind of extreme pain that they have to go through from month 3ish to the day of delivery is unexplainable unless you have personally experienced it. Then there’s the pain from actually delivering the baby. As a male, I just don’t know how women are able to persevere giving birth. It’s astounding. If a simple punch to our (males) testicles is too painful, imagine a punch that’s 200X stronger over a period… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women have fetishes at the rate of men?That sucks. Married couples hardly have sex, just a few times a month (single digit) and each session lasting a few mins as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women have fetishes at the rate of men?I think the average sex session is a couple of mins and usually ends with the male finishes. Which is not surprising when you consider that 90% of men finish and only 30-40ish% of women finish during your average sex session. And married couples in their 30s (after just a couple of years of marriage) have sex a handful of times each month, as low as 1-2 times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 04:32 AM |
| 2 | Those Who Complain About OnlyFan/Instathots... What Would You Actually Like Them To Do Instead?Onlyfans has roughly 130MM subscribers, so that’s a lot dudes that hate themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Leggings aside, do you still workout, idk maybe at home or something? And did you enjoy working out at the gym when people weren’t all over your personal space? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?For me, it’s only noticeable when someone points it out. I’m a guy and I think all leggings look the same. Someone had to literally explain what jeggings were with a side by side comparison and I still can’t tell accurately. 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I’m not patronizing you. You only mentioned your own individual experience, and just one experience, making no literal mention of other experiences. From my perspective, where I explicitly mentioned the experiences of my peers (peers in setting where tights were required everyday, all the time during practice), I simply provided a perspective over a long period of time (numerous wrestling seasons over couple of years) including hundreds if not thousands of young to old men being alive and active… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?A big factor of working out is motivation, the constant motivation. Working out… isn’t exactly the best, most joyous or/and stimulating activity. It’s no wonder that we have phases where we workout, stop, get motivated, workout again, stop and repeat. Why do we workout? Obviously, it’s healthy. Also, it’s great way to virtue signal; you’re active, have a healthy lifestyle and displaying ones work ethic/goal-oriented, etc. And it’s one way to tell people you workout, but it’s even better than whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 03:41 AM |
| 0 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Have seen women wear it outside the gym too (outdoor park) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Don’t let your individual anecdote generalize the experience for men who wear tight leggings. I wear tights when I work out (from my wrestling days) and trust me when I say this, I’ve seen a lot of men wear super tight clothing while working out. Never, have I ever seen them inappropriately touched or done anything to them inappropriately. Sure, sometimes spectators would stare at the gym, but it never affected our workouts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Leading women on for sex is exactly as moral/immoral as TwitchThots or Only Fans girls taking money from simpsAre you actively aware you’re selling to a minor? Then there’s intent. Unknowingly selling doesn’t exonerate you of responsibility either, as with selling alcohol, you’re required to check ID. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Whats the equivalent of Daddy Issues for guys?Either overprotective female authority or abandoned female authority (I’m assuming it just doesn’t have to be mothers, could be sister, grandma, etc ) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Whats the equivalent of Daddy Issues for guys?I would probably fit into a mix of #1 and #2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Is this way too creepy?Yeah. She probably assumed that you took her for a sex worker or something, which from her POV is sort of humiliating & embarrassing given she choose to share private parts of her life because she trusted you. | /r/seduction | 22/03/21 07:49 PM |
| 2 | The total lack of parenting in dating.You’re right, the Pareto rule exist very much in dating (80/20). The least successful are those that don’t try, easily give up & are dealing with complex problems whether that may be their families that they’re living with, school, etc. Time and time again, success in dating is defined by relentless persistence (not creepy), overcoming the adversity of love & knowing that tomorrow is a another, better day. | /r/seduction | 19/03/21 05:54 AM |
| 2 | The total lack of parenting in dating.Shit, bro thats literally me. Super conservative & religious mom, dad was no where to be found & older brother would always make fun of me cause he was so much better looking than me. | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 10:41 PM |
| 6 | The total lack of parenting in dating.Don’t dip your pen into the company’s ink. | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 09:44 PM |
| 8 | The total lack of parenting in dating.I would tread very carefully at work. | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Afraid I might drop the ballYeah, girls are so so so understanding when it comes to topic. I can't say the same for men. Just do it! | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Afraid I might drop the ballYou should yolo it & be unapologetically yourself. And if you don't like small-talk or suck at it, use it to make conversation. I'm sure both of you can relate. Also, tell her you're a virgin man. | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 02:33 PM |
| 47 | The total lack of parenting in dating.We’re (millennials) having less sex with less partners than our parents. I shit you not. Going to bar or club was always hard for our parents. The odds are, our parents met each through mutual friends or family. This method is still the most effective today. | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 01:20 PM |
| 120 | The total lack of parenting in dating.How many of our parents know the ins and outs of dating? LOL They seldom ever have decent communication skills which they pass on us. Its really up to us. We have to be better. | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 11:20 AM |
| 31 | Girls are impressed by guys who don't try to impress them. This is why bragging or showing off causes girls to lose interest. This epiphany made me realize it's about connecting with them and learning more about them, their goals, hobbies, past, etc.Darwin did marry his first cousin, so I can't say if he was good with women | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Girls are impressed by guys who don't try to impress them. This is why bragging or showing off causes girls to lose interest. This epiphany made me realize it's about connecting with them and learning more about them, their goals, hobbies, past, etc.> I’m sorry but if you don’t flirt with girls, they will just view you as a friend... That is not true. Regardless of what girls want or don't, telling them how you feel is the surest way for them to know if you like them or not. | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Attraction is not created by what you logically say but instead by what you emotionally convey. You cannot logically convince someone to like you.Autism spectrum disorder (ASD). | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Attraction is not created by what you logically say but instead by what you emotionally convey. You cannot logically convince someone to like you.I freaking love Goedel & I seldom understand most of his stuff. IDK I have so much pity for mathematicians ( I am one). We are probably some of the most eccentric individuals & ASD is way too common. | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 01:24 AM |
| 3 | Attraction is not created by what you logically say but instead by what you emotionally convey. You cannot logically convince someone to like you.This is really about communication skills, above all else. There is a great book I'd recommend. It is People Skills by Robert Bolton. Its a difficult read, so take your time. Also, writing about your feelings is just as great :) | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Which scenario is the most common when it comes to the reasons women divorce?That’s not how the law works. If you believe that, then you’ll be in for quite the surprise when you’re in similar situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 08:35 AM |
| 1 | What causes you to lose interest in a girl?Woah, I think many of the comments are reading a little too much into your behavior without observable context. By socially awkward, I think you mean that you're a little eccentric and/or idiosyncratic. You maybe communicate & respond, I do not know. Its important to know that everyone is a little awkward. Your social awkwardness may be a result of lack of meaningful socializing experiences OR you have Autism Spectrum Disorder. Most often, if you have the latter, you will definitely experience (… | /r/seduction | 22/01/21 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Women aren't "lying" about what they find sexually arousing.Oh woah. That’s a very simplified view of the world. Okay man. If that’s what you believe, do you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/21 02:36 AM |
| 1 | It's not that women are saying being nice is arousing, it's that they are saying they don't like jerks or assholes, but end up with an asshole anywayMaybe that’s the problem, you just reduced all your female friends to you objects of sex gratification. You can be friends with the opposite sex & not have sexual desires for them. My comment was a generalization looking at things like effort & human decency. There are obviously other things at play compatibility & timing. However effort & human decency should be a given. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/21 09:28 PM |
| 0 | Women aren't "lying" about what they find sexually arousing.They're not assumptions. The age of consent was never set by any scientific basis. Historically, puberty was a "good" barometer because it told them they can get married & immediately have kids. In recent history, the voting age has played a strong role in influencing the age of consent. BUT BUT its been met with quite a bit of political opposition (no surprise here, look who the politicians are). Look, we know someone at 18 shouldn’t date someone thats 40, regardless of gender. But that is di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/21 09:03 PM |
| 1 | It's not that women are saying being nice is arousing, it's that they are saying they don't like jerks or assholes, but end up with an asshole anywayMost people, nearly the entire population are generally nice. They are nicer** when it comes to interactions with the sex they find attractive. The rationale that assholes or whatever gets a girl is false & misleading. The more interesting individual, the one that takes their time getting to know & shows care gets the girl. Being nice doesn't entitle you to anything. And men that think because they are nice, they deserve X, Y, Z are already behind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/21 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Which scenario is the most common when it comes to the reasons women divorce?Yeah, well breakups in general are hard. No one actually wants to be the one to initiate the breakup. And even if you have fallen out of love, odds are, you still care about your SO. So we try to avoid it for as long as we can, its something we are all too good it. Being able to confront your partner & really express your reality of things require great willpower. It doesn't help that no matter what we do, its going to hurt someone we deeply care about. So you can see why its easy to just avoi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Which scenario is the most common when it comes to the reasons women divorce?No study is perfect. As researchers reading academic papers, we have to have to pay close attention to the concerns expressed by the researchers. Tells to what extend we can use the conclusion shared by them & how we can improve. Again, the study you shared clearly outlined infidelity was the reaction, not the cause of the divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Which scenario is the most common when it comes to the reasons women divorce?Many Americans are white & Christian. But that’s not everyone, doesn’t give the full picture & requires further study. I’m not saying this, the researchers are, from the study you shared. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 10:17 PM |
| 0 | Which scenario is the most common when it comes to the reasons women divorce?This man is behind website of the link you provided & he as a habit of misusing studies, publishing forgish studies & perpetuates obvious lies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Which scenario is the most common when it comes to the reasons women divorce?Do you man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 09:20 PM |
| 0 | Which scenario is the most common when it comes to the reasons women divorce?I would not recommend this link. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/W._Bradford_Wilcox | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Which scenario is the most common when it comes to the reasons women divorce?They dont. Its whomever is the breadwinnner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Which scenario is the most common when it comes to the reasons women divorce?Its not coincidence. Younger couples are more likely to get divorces. Inexperience, rushinng into things, & misaligned expectations. Our expectations improve with experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Which scenario is the most common when it comes to the reasons women divorce?Its almost marginal in the delta between men & women cheating. Whats useful isn't how likely we are to cheat rather over X number of relationships, will we chea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Which scenario is the most common when it comes to the reasons women divorce?Paper Not sure if this is the best study. Also I know you didnt read the paper because I did. They cite various issues with their paper like small sample & almost all white & Christian participants. In the discussion, they regard financial hardship & unrealistic marriage expectations that lead to the problems you mentioned => "lack of commitment, infidelity, and conflict/arguing". We just dont start to behave terribly out of randomness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Which scenario is the most common when it comes to the reasons women divorce?There was a really really big study done on western countries why people got divorces. Single biggest reason? Misaligned & unrealistic expectations of marriage. Regardless of communication, compatibility, etc if your think a marriage will change things, fix something or whatever then you're going to have a difficult times. Also things like love is forever, etc plays into all this & makes the situation worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Why are women unhappy?Are woman unhappy? According to what benchmark? I don’t know. This is really complicated to survey & do analysis on. I think almost everyone on this post is generalizing & using anecdotals The only reason why modern society is so obsessed with happiness is because we misunderstand what happiness is. We assume it’s a constant, it’s not. Second, the Internet has given the masses an outlet to speak their mind, so we know more about others. Society as a whole is pretty shitty right now, not just wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe that women are sexually attracted to status?Maybe some are, most aren’t. The vast majority aren’t. If you take men & women, remove constructs that’s created by society like inequalities, gender roles, etc you’d notice that men & women are pursing each other mainly on personality & focusing on love. We have real world data on this. In countries that have strict gender roles, high disparity between gender equality & regulates one gender as inferior, the inferior gender is mainly uses economic mobility as their primary motivation towards mar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 12:31 PM |
| 1 | What is the difference between FLIRTING and just being FRIENDLY?The differences shouldn’t matter because flirting doesn’t imply anything. It’s just banter, just having a fun conversation. It’s at your behest to extrapolate meaning from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Only a childfree relationship can be a relationship with true love and freedom for both - Your Opinion?So is a relationship with children considered traditional? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 12:18 PM |
| 1 | What proportion of the self improvement you do is solely for purpose of getting opposite sex attention?There’s a theory that almost everything we do, consciously or unconsciously, is to attract the opposite sex. Sure most of the actions aren’t directly related, but sum parts of something larger. This theory is interesting, but I’m crazy about it. But when in a public setting with an opposite sex, that alone (independent of your relationship status or their attractiveness) will influence your actions at that moment. This kind of thinking isn’t absurd or crazy. Our actions are driven by our need to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 12:16 PM |
| 3 | Both men AND women are failing in today’s society.So this is a topic I’m fairly familiar with (was planing a PhD on this, decided it was terrible idea). The problem you’re referring to isn’t as bad as you’re making it. But there’s a few things to point out; porn addiction is a serious issue. I’m read numerous medical cases of porn addiction & it’s not fun stuff. Social media has become a huge problem. For one, it has distorted our perceptions of beauty, sex, etc just in the last 10 years. It’s effect on women has been more substantial because o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Both men AND women are failing in today’s society.The book is like 10 years old. I enjoyed it. But this is a very different problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 11:59 AM |
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