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They don't give their affection away for "free". Everything is a transaction, not every transaction involves money as an intermediary however.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:14 PM
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And where might that be? Meeting a woman is appropriate in an area where each individual woman sees fit. If you do it in the "wrong" place, there will be negative repercussions. So where would this place be?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:15 PM
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Birthrates aren't a good measurement for a decline in the quality or simplicity of love. Things have gotten worse because things are overly complex and full of contradictions as OP pointed out. A better measurement would probably be marriage satisfaction and divorce rates. The first being at an all time low and the second being at an all time high.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:55 PM
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I think he just means in general. From other women probably most of all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:54 AM
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I wouldn't take any opinion stated online too seriously. People say things online, then act completely different in real life. I knew multiple women who dated older men, and from their perspective everything was just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:50 AM
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That depends on how far back you go and what you consider modern technology. Farming technology isn't traditionally viewed as technology, but it is the only reason the earth can support this many humans. One bad drought or crop yield means most family groups go away. There was a point in time when most of life was hunting to survive. They would not be able to "live" as we do it now. No one is thinking about hobbies or what I means to live a fulfilling life because you farm and hunt to survive. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:17 PM
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I mean possibly, but what you are effectively saying is women are able to survive in today's world because men made it soft enough for women to survive in. Women are unable to survive in a world pre the invention of the gun, alone. The inventions of old allow women to be what they are today. We as a society stand on the shoulders of giants, women stand on those shoulders and call themselves tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:36 PM
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I'm not sure what the point of this response was, I answered your question. You didn't even respond with a legitimate complaint. Why respond at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:14 PM
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Before my LTR I was getting a decent amount of attention from your average girl. I was saving myself for marriage at the time so I did a lot of "everything but". Whenever I would speak to beautiful women, they were usually in a relationship or being pursued which made things more complicated. I haven't truly chased anyone I believe to be over an 8 in beauty. It could be some level of my own insecurities, it could also be it wasn't worth the hassle. My hometown is fairly tough, and defending a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:13 PM
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Humans are a species of duplicity. Women say "Men are dogs", but are attracted to men who are bad for them. Men say "women aren't worth the trouble" but purse them. People do these things because the perceived reward outweighs the bad. If I buy a business for 30k when I'll be able to sell it for 35k the business is expensive. I will complain the business is expensive. However, I can still squeeze a profit out of it. That's sex. It's an expensive, laborious process with marginal gains. But they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:59 PM
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Because sex bring me the most dopamine out of any other activity. It's not really any more complicated than that. The frustration that builds when I don't have sex is a burden that becomes overwhelming, after having sex that frustration ceases. A lot of women say "don't you want an emotional bond?" Women are handing out emotional bonds left and right. They friend zone people in droves. If I want to hang with a woman for the friendship of it, I can do that far easier than have sex. That requires …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:34 PM
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I'm not sure about most men, but I work hard for access to sex. The idea of more sex in the future if I make more money is a huge motivating factor for me. I'd say I'm a level 7 ambitious out of 10. I've changed my life in a lot of ways by taking chances and always continually working. I haven't changed the direction of my entire field, but I have changed the direction of the company I work for to be far more profitable. I do know men who's motivations are extremely different though. I got into …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:11 PM
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I refute this claim by saying we may be attracted to food by it's look or salivate by it's smell, but we know the choice of eating the food brings consequences. Women preach that men should be self controlled even with a high desire for sex. But women can't be with a high desire for the wrong type of man? Which one is it? Either our emotions our too much to bare and we should all give in to our worst desires or we are all capable of self control and have no excuses around our actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:19 PM
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Most humans only date most humans because they find them attractive. If that weren't the case I doubt this subreddit would exist. Women don't date men at random or soley based on personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:12 PM
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There are loads of women who use this attention to their advantage. Everything from flirting their way out of a parking ticket to using increased attention to promote their businesses or sell products. It's hard to claim you hate something if you receive benefits from it your whole life. I think they enjoy the attention when it suits them, and they dislike it when it doesn't. But you can have it both ways. You can't enjoy how quickly your YouTube audience grows, but hate that it brings comments …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:08 PM
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Can confirm. Am man, would love to be viewed as meat
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:00 PM
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They cry if a OF model makes money because women cry that they are being seen as an object. To be honest I don't get what the big deal is. Most relationships are transactional. I'm not sure why men and women relationships should be any different. Most people are seen as objects to someone who doesn't care about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:36 PM
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The only logical choice is A. 23 who looks 40 sounds rough. If the 23 y/o is vulnerable it won't help the equation at all. I don't think men pick young women because of that, I just think younger women are more enthusiastic and youthful. A woman who is 40 has seen a 1000 men so the joys of sex doesn't have that new feeling. I would pick a 40 virgin woman who is excited about sex and companionship over a 23 y/o with loads of experience who's bored of it all. The real issue is women settle down an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:48 AM
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Alright, from this second all men should avoid protecting women. That will reduce their chances of being in violent crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:14 AM
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Ironically, that's because we are different. Men are on average far stronger than women. So why would men be afraid of a woman walking down the street? Women have power in other ways, and in those ways men are afraid of. Women can easily socially destroy a man with one rape accusation. Men are definitely afraid of that. Men are afraid of losing their assets in marriage. Women obviously control the "supply" of sex (if men are heterosexual). Men handle the scarcity of that finite resource in a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:24 PM
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As I said in another comment men are both the victim of men issues and women issues. If a woman is truly in danger she us going to get a man. That's it. She's calling a male cop or looking for male aid. A man has himself. Men get into fights protecting women getting them killed, women don't do the same. Men get targeted for gang and crime violence. Killing a woman is usually seen as a big event, killing a man means its Wednesday. They aren't comparable. Women are getting caught in fear over the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:16 PM
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I'm from an area that actually had a lot of gang violence. A lot of people didn't "join" gangs, you are jumped into one. They find you on the street, be at the crap out of you, and if you don't cry you are in for life. They only way you leave the gang is in a casket. They don't do these acts to women. Women aren't relied upon to be protectors in any way. Women kill less, because men do it for them. If a woman got hit, she isn't punching the guy back. She's getting her father, brothers, boy frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:18 PM
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Men are more likely to be the victims of violent crimes than women are in the U.S. If anyone should have a real fear it's men, yet women believe they are more at risk. Why's that? Fear mongering.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:04 PM
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Staying 21 for life is relatively easier than both growing your height, and dick 4 inches post growing ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:21 PM
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Objection, Assumes facts not found in evidence your honor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:00 AM
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I think the difference is what's actually an achievable ask. The things men want, usually a thinner to thicc build, have sexual desire, be loyal. That's it really. Things women want 6foot, 6in+, six figures, handsome, has hobbies, etc, etc, the list goes on. High status is a lot harder to achieve than taking decent care of your body and working out. It's not even like women have to do that to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:58 AM
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I think the market for custom open will be far larger than just incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:19 AM
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If he has kids he wouldn't be that successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:22 AM
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Oh, but there in lies the true skill! Any knob can have sex with a beautiful man or woman, but only the truly determined can have sex with someone they find unattractive. No better prove of love can be found! /s, but there's some truth in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:14 PM
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That is your choice based off of your emotions, not based off of the equality of the two situations. Both situations involve people making different decisions that they normally wouldn't make based off of hormones. Your moral view of the situation doesn't change that they are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:06 AM
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I'm saying we can't make excuses for some because of hormones and not make excuses for others. I personally am of the camp that no one gets a pass. You horny, it sucks but its your burden to bare if you chose that relationship. Post partum depression? You chose to have kids so this is what comes with it. We either make excuses for all hormones or none at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 11:14 PM
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Eh, I see a bunch of angry responses attacking this post instead of addressing the blatant double standard between the perception of men and women's hormones. When women go into crying fits, or anger outbursts due too her period or pregnancy we are taught to be empathetic, yet this entire thread lacks that same empathy for men. Next time a woman is suffering from postpartum depression we should "lock her away for everyone's safety" when she does an angry outbursts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:38 PM
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Neither is this one???? However, they complain about men with straw man arguments. That's how its relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:46 AM
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Yeah I know, it sucks. I can have that same mentality occasionally , but if I'm being realistic the real issue is there is no other tangible enemy. Blame God or my parents for me being born without peak Chad looks? Blame myself for all of the shots I didn't take? ( I most likely have already because I am my worst critique). Everything I could do to improve I have. I make decent money, I workout regularly, I'm even married, and yet I still feel as though I missed out. I can't explain it, maybe th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 01:30 AM
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I can't say I disagree. This has increasingly become a space to complain about the perceived unfairness of the sexual marketplace. Which I am not against, but I can see how this doesn't attract and retain an audience of women. I think women's priorities are more aligned with perceived freedom than base pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:31 AM
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It's about 75% there for sure, women post here too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:07 AM
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You obviously haven't visited the twoxchromosomes subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:28 PM
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Well, it's not that simple. First, not all jobs are created equally. For all of the advancements we enjoy today. Satellites, phone service, GPS. These ideas and executions required 1000s of hours of studying and knowledge to come to be. They don't have the same time as someone who is a male influencer like (Jake Paul for example) has to just go to the gym all of the time. The people actually shaping the world have to spend time learning how to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:31 AM
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Everyone comes in with a bias, that's why this is a debate subreddit. Two people with matching ideals don't need to debate. This post doesn't show a lack of critical thinking, or at least any less critical thinking than any other post on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:54 AM
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Yes, but that's not always a good thing. Galileo wasn't creditable in his time, but he was still correct. Going against common beliefs will always been seen as as disreputable offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:51 AM
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You're going to have to dispute specifics points you believe to be twisted. I can't give a retort to issues never raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:47 AM
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Some of this data is obvious though. We've all seen the tinder statistics on how many swipe rights women do. Do you see a bunch of nerds or engineers getting dates vs fboys? Some of this stuff is common sense. Look at your friend group, do you see the nerds running through women? I can link some papers when I get to a computer later.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:44 AM
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I believe there are probably half truths in every perspective, but I don't think all women can get the whole package. I'd imagine there are very few on the supply side so the only women who can get that are the best of women. Also, why would a guy with all of the good qualities that women desire want to settle down? They are incentivized to play the field because they have all of the options just like women do. There are numerous articles and papers that say the more successful the woman is, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:38 AM
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Because 1 satisfied man doesn't do the work of 10 satisfied men. People who enjoy life tend to perform better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:50 AM
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Ad hominem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:49 AM
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No one elevates fuckboys more, and puts down "beta" dudes more than blackpillers online, which this post screams of. They reduce everyones intrinsic value to how much or how little sex they are having. This is a half truth. They amplify it more most likely, but only to drown out the lies women tend to say. When a man asks a woman for advice for dating women they virtue signal and give answers like "be yourself, be confident". When women go for men who are good looking with money. Black pillers a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:42 AM
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More notorious than renowned. This controversial figure is probably most famous for racism and far-right bias. Quoting them as though they are a neutral party or even well-versed in gender research is an odd choice Ad hominem take. Attack the ideas not the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:25 AM
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Chill with the ad hominems. Men don't have low standards just for sex, they also tend to marry down. Hypergamy is a proven concept. Women marry up and at the same level and men marry down. I never said "men are desperate and will sleep with anything" so I'm unsure of what you are quoting. I also don't understand what you mean when you say "taking men seriously". Taking them seriously as dating prospects? If someone is straight, there isn't much of a choice. It's either they want companionship or…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:39 PM
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This is the internet age. There are plenty of people who can do work from home. If you're implying she made a lot of money before marriage stopped her from working she is most likely doing a job she can work from home. There are very few high paying jobs you need to come in for. Most of the skills change, but all you would need to do is brush up and stay relevant. She doesn't need to have the same level of expenditure as a worker. She can just learn the new software over time at a leisurely pace…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:17 PM
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This is only true with small children. Once a child/children goes to school the SAHM is free for 8 hours + if there children have after school programs. After 5 years old they have 8 hours a day to dedicate to whatever they want. Assuming 3 hours are spent on house maintenance, 1 in the commute for dropping kids off, and 2 hours of downtime this leaves 2 hours + that can be used towards retaining or growing any job skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:30 AM
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I'm not sure your comment makes much sense. What examples can you give me of the opposite? I don't think men are as unrealistic in their standards compared to women. Women joke often that men have no standards so the situations aren't comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:21 AM
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I guess men just want women to be realistic. It's like a kid who says they are going to be in the NBA when they grow up. Sure, there is a very small percentage that they actually get what they want. The reality is, it's probably not going to happen. Especially if they are an average basketball player. A growing group of women in wealthy countries are average basketball players trying to make it into the NBA.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:48 AM
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We are discussing marriage risk for a woman vs a man. Child support and alimony are both marriage risks for men and safety nets for women. If you wanted to discuss alimony why would you give the woman in your example children?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:19 AM
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This is a bad question because most modern women are somewhere in between 1 and 2. They don't want to cook, or clean, or have sex, and they follow their own interests. That's the real harder choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:14 AM
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Dressing sexy isn't a polarizing act. Acting wildly is. If I saw a doctor yelling and dancing on everyone in the club, then tried to show up and be my doctor, I'd pass. Logically I'd want a doctor who's very boring and pretty nerdy about his/her profession. That would increase my chances of survival given a major procedure or operation. I would not want to interact with anyone that could decrease my chances. If I believe someone to be a wild card I don't want them performing open heart surgery o…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:09 AM
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It's only more rare now because women can support themselves in case of a separation. However, this post is discussing women being stay at home mothers with kids. This case will always award alimony. It wouldn't be rare for this circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:48 AM
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Yes they do, but they can't objectify themselves only when it suits them and expect peoples perception of them to not change. If someone commits any polarizing act they are more closely associated with that act. We call people who act, actors. We call people who practice law, lawyers. We call people who kill, killers. The title doesn't change depending on the time of day. What you do, you become.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:15 AM
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I find it hard to argue when people use the word objectified. Everyone treats everyone like an object. That's pretty much human nature. Our brains are driven by a reward system. If we feel there are no rewards in an action, we cease to do that action. Most people use people for what they can provide. We have friends because days are long and having people close to you makes the day go by faster. We have relationships because not all of us like the idea of dying alone. Some abstain from relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:09 AM
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I fundamentally disagree with the notion that being rude and being exciting aren't linked to some degree. It appeals to humans worst instinct. If someone yells in a coffee shop everyone is going to turn to watch. If someone says a snarky comment that is a clever diss on someone you get big reactions. In any case, your reactions will always be more so than that of politeness. Politeness doesn't catch attention, it doesn't turn heads. It's to be expected according to society. The opposite of love …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:07 PM
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If being polite was an effective seduction tactic we wouldn't have a mass of men complaining about how ineffective being a nice guy is would we? The reality is being nice and polite isn't exciting. And if you are from a wealthy country rich enough for you to survive easily without question of death you get bored. When you are bored you want excitement in your life. That excitement usually stemming from your carnal desires, but any strong desire being met will do. If women wanted nice guys the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:29 PM
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I understand that it isn't evidence. The reality is for someone to date another person someone has to make the first move. If it's not going to be women, it has to be men. Like all things people receive things vastly different. A crude joke could get you a laugh or a slap depending on who you are talking to, but if you say nothing, you end up alone. That's the reality. There's your evidence, saying nothing leaves you single, and chances are no matter what you say someone in the would would recei…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:46 AM
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Well, the old saying is "fortune favors the bold" not " fortune favors the meek and non-aggressive".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:59 PM
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I would rather what would give me the best outcome to be honest. I'd rather not scare anyone, but if I though possibly scaring 1 out of 20 would increase my chances of dating someone I approach by 20% I'd take that risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:19 AM
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So I thought this response well was thought out, but you lost me towards the analogy at the end. The scale of the people harmed hiring a 18 year old CEO is far greater than that of who someone has sex with. Banks have investors and employees. Sex affects 2 people most of the time and less than 10 at max. I agree everyone matures differently so we must assign an arbitrary age range. We (in the U.S.) have chosen 18 to be the threshold for sex with other adults. I am arguing after 18 the threshold …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:08 AM
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Not all people at 18 years old have had equal life experiences. This means their maturity level can be vastly different from their peers. I know a woman who was raising herself at 14 and taking care of multiple siblings because her mother left for the U.S. Her maturity and view on life is far different than someone who has been at home shielded by the world their entire life. A power balance only exists if there is one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:18 PM
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Did you even read the comment above before posting your reply? If you did, the answer to your question would be obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:26 PM
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So you're telling me women . . . sleep with random men . . . to not make them angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:02 AM
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You can't claim victim blaming when someone chooses their fate. You can't pick your mate, then be unhappy with the one you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:26 PM
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This is just marketplace dynamics. If a good has less value it must have other things to make up for the lack of value. You wouldn't buy an $1000 T.V. with the same features as a $500 T.V. But it if comes with an entertainment system making it a $1050 value you might. The sexual marketplace is a marketplace and everyone wants to get the best deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:15 PM
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Again, I didn't say women were incapable at fighting or bad at it. I said I believe in a all out war between men and women, men would win. Maybe I can pick my sources better in the future, but history.com has people who hold th accountable for spreading unconfirmed information, while in this instance you do not. Have a nice day to you as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:59 PM
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I'm sorry, I think I'd trust a link to history.com over a redditor with no account picture claiming their grandfather was a Viet cong general.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:10 PM
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How is it not a choice? Was she kidnapped? Her saying no means she won't be won by shallow gifts, but by the weight of his character. If she picks him then she is saying his character doesn't matter and his money does. Which is a fine choice if you are willing to live with the consequences. No "bad men" this or "they never learn" that. She must lie in the bed she made.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:07 PM
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90% of the women that enlisted in the war were nurses.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:39 PM
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What do you mean by "treated as a human being"? A lot of people say that phrase, but how would that be different from assigning a label to someone as all humans do with all things?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 06:07 PM
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But she has the power in that situation. She can always say no. Choice is power.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:53 PM
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If this is the case, women should never complain about men because they didn't marry for love they married for genetics. So when he treats you poorly because his genetics are desired by multiple women and cheats, she should not complain. She made her sacrifices and got her end of the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:49 PM
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How so? If someone is super rich, handsome, and full of himself and he asks a girl out she doesn't need to say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:39 PM
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😂😂🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:36 PM
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I don't think shooting sports is a good example of who would in a war. War is far more than a technical endeavor, it involves anger, ruthlessness, a willingness to die for what you believe in. It involves following orders and having order. With all the factors weighed I believe men would still come out on top. I think women lead communities would have trouble developing a hierarchy. While with men only 1 rule is law, power is king. Whoever lacks it submits to those who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:16 PM
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Well, it's true what you are saying to a point. I just see both sides acting in their own self interest. Men just happen to be interested in sex, and women in things and freedom. That's it really. If someone was standing in front of something you desired most you will have dark thoughts as well. Most of the women I know in real life have stolen things before, which is all the same to me. Dark wants and desires driving someone to commit a taboo act against someone else. No one cares who's hurt, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:24 PM
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If this happened on a scale big enough to effect 30% or more men, women would not be safe. The reality is a world like the one you are describing only exists because of a level of safety created in developed countries by men. If men felt that women took advantage of that they would no longer deem women worthy of protection. Even with guns I doubt a woman with a gun is going to beat a man or group of men with the same weapons. Food, water and safety are the first priorities of a society. Women be…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:15 AM
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Teachers give women better grades regardless of their actions. It's said that teacher are hardwired to give girls better grades
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:12 AM
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You sound like a very hurt woman and I have some sympathy for your life outlook. However, the percentage of men that commit any of those crimes are in the minority and greatly so. Women also commit loads of crimes, they just don't happen to be of a sexual nature. Also as a man I don't personally feel the need to earn women's respect. It's just not something I think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:47 AM
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Any adult willing to hit another adult deserve whatever consequences that come with it. You don't want to get hit, don't hit people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:37 AM
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I don't think this can be further from the truth. Men make friends with people they click with. Usually all it takes is a good laugh for men to be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:10 AM
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Fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:36 AM
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I guess my friends are closer than most because they do know my deepest darkest secrets. I don't get jealous of them, and we don't cuddle normally. I actually don't cuddle for hours in my current relationship which may prove your point. This is a new perspective which I understand logically, but I don't empathize with. Maybe I am aromantic, which would be interesting because I'm probably the most romantic guy I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:35 AM
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I don't think that is the hard thing to believe. My personal gripe with women came from this. When I was young I was overweight, unconfident, and didn't know how to make my looks better. I honestly thought some people were just born good looking any others bad looking and there wasn't a thing anyone could do about it. Then in my sadness and with a desire to feel wanted I asked my female friends what I should do to find a girlfriend. I did this because other women, t.v., pop culture, my mom, girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:17 AM
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You know, I think this is an interesting take. I hear on Reddit all the time that women should divorce men over unwashed dishes, or him not doing laundry or something else of that nature. Those things in my mind seem more minor or at the very most equal to having to take care of someone for the rest of their lives for a disease they have. That seems like way more of an inconvenience. So what if he would divorce her, people have divorced for less. I told my wife if I ever get some crazy mind dise…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 12:57 AM
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I want to understand this, but I dont. I've always had close male and female friends who have always had my back. I felt as though I got everything I needed from those relationships and wanted for no more emotional intimacy. We commonly said "I love you", we cared about each other's thoughts and feelings, hugged each other, etc. The only thing I lacked was sex. I didn't think I needed any deeper friendships. I'm in a committed LTR and when things get annoying I wish I just took my chances with c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 12:51 AM
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It's not like anger at women is a pastime for men, but as I mentioned in my earlier comment and what you choose not to address is sexual history matters period. For you to say it doesn't would be a lie. It has nothing to do with anger at women an everything to do with this being true, but women trying to minimize it's importance when it concerns them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:38 AM
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Nah, probably not. Hand job wouldn't count as sex. But both terms oral sex, and anal sex have sex attached to it so I don't think it's far fetched to think they count.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:32 AM
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If any guy finishes inside any part of you, it counts. I also don't understand why people act like whom someone has sex with doesn't matter. Ladies answer me this, would you knowingly sleep with a guy who slept with your mom? No? Because the history of whom someone has sex with matters. If someone was squeaky clean after a day or two of no sex something like that wouldn't matter. Same with a best friend or a sister. History of sexual partners or lack thereof matter more than we give it credit fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:56 PM
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This makes sense and what I said was wrong now after giving it more thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:04 PM
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What's illogical about revenge?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:58 AM
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The reality is it probably did more for women than for men. Not only were they able to make money off of their looks in a new way, but men became more docile. Violent crimes against women in the U.S. were trending down for years before the pandemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:53 AM
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