| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 327 | Ladies, I'm in desperate need for some advice. Please help!!! | RED FLAG 🚨 | nalia1rebel | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 05:44 PM |
| 94 | Mark my words. | MALE DEPRAVITY | nalia1rebel | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 09:12 PM |
| 36 | My experience with an older guy and the bullshit some of them might say to you. | LIES MEN TELL | nalia1rebel | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 12:31 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 19 | Ladies, I'm in desperate need for some advice. Please help!!!Ladies, I just wanted you to know that I've read every single comment, and thankful for your support. After some long hard thoughts, I have to make a tough choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 08:34 PM |
| 1 | More kneejerk defenses of porn and threats we’re all going to die alone unless we accept it. “Nice Guys” don’t make overt threats, they wrap it up in some concern trolling.That's perfectly fine. I'm bi so either I'll lean more towards women or just not date. Finding a man isn't that important to me and dieing alone isn't really a threat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 03:39 PM |
| 24 | “He can look at porn, ogle other women, go to strip clubs, say sexual things about other women in front of me..” -pickmeishaCouldn't be me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 08:19 PM |
| 10 | Please remember men like this exist. This was taken from a post about men having babies with one night stands or FWB if the woman gets pregnant. Pleaaaassseee respect yourself enough to never be in the predicament of being pregnant with a losers childReason #576327 why you shouldn't fuck with men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 06:47 PM |
| 6 | I bet he thinks he's being soo cute being this uselessWhat an idiot 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 06:33 PM |
| 9 | Why women shouldn’t pursue men.Yep! Never doing that again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 06:30 PM |
| 39 | Just another reason to ditch the apps and non-verified OLD. These dorks are out there “chadfishing” because they’re so obsessed with FDS and can’t cope.Here's how it actually goes: Woman gets weird message from dude trying to "insult" her, woman is confused, woman either blocks, ignores, or moves on to the next, and forgets the whole thing while dude continues to message insults at women to fill some type of hole that his anger has burned through him, to no avail. And where do they see suicidal people here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 11:25 PM |
| 44 | Cyber cheating is real 😆And supposedly we're the insecure ones.... Riiiiiight | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 11:19 PM |
| 32 | Bad News, Good News: Men with ED and Porn useI had a guy pull out his phone to watch lesbian porn when we were in the middle of sexual activity. He asked me twice. The first time I said no but the second time I caved in for some reason. I was putting in most of the work and the sex was pretty bland to say the least. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 10:22 PM |
| 98 | Cyber cheating is real 😆It's kinda like window shopping. Guy scrolls and likes a bunch of pics of hot insta chicks, even though they're unattainable. But if miraculously he gets a reply or the opportunity, he would probably jump on it in a heart beat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Ghosting a guy first after sexI agree. I'm not go to lie, I felt like doing something similar to what OP is saying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 07:23 PM |
| 25 | Ghosting a guy first after sexIf you feel that you have to hurry up and ghost a guy after a hookup just to be sure he won't ghost you first, I don't think you should be hooking up with the dude in the first place. But if you really don't give a fuck about the dude and just wanted a one night stand, then I don't really see the problem with ghosting. A lot of guys do it all the time with hookups. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 06:52 PM |
| 28 | Ghosting a guy first after sexI feel that op wants to ghost first before the guy gets to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 06:49 PM |
| 11 | I’m learning faster and faster to cut these loser clown idiots off at the pass. My dreams don’t die the second I meet some dude. 🙄Did you block? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 06:38 PM |
| 58 | BDSM normalization. PickMe normalization. All of it bullshit.🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 06:32 PM |
| 10 | I overheard a pick me on the busAh shit, this used to be me at one point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 11:15 PM |
| 9 | What. The. Fuck.Sometimes it's so stupid you have to laugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 11:12 PM |
| 8 | Don’t send long paragraphs explaining how you feel to men who don’t careHe hit me with that "I'm so sorry what I did to you" about a year later. I was still a pick me back then so was about to give him another try but it never worked out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 12:50 PM |
| 49 | Don’t send long paragraphs explaining how you feel to men who don’t careHad I known this about 2 years ago it would have saved me the heartache. He didn't give a fuck and ignored it completely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 09:42 PM |
| 10 | How to cope when you lose a queen bestie to an LVM?Unfortunately, some will have to learn the hard way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 09:30 PM |
| 18 | LVM think women are stupid.They sure as fuck do. I've had some guys try to fake being someone else and text me on fake accounts or numbers, thinking I wouldn't figure out it was them 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 01:44 AM |
| 44 | Person who comments “watching porn when you have a gf is disrespectful and harmful to well-being” gets downvoted in r/AdviceWhy is watching other people have fake emotionless sex a necessity? I get masturbation and sex itself can be a necessity, but why porn? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 01:40 AM |
| 30 | So much butthurt...Post like that just give the sub more newcomers. We're not out seeking to cause men harm or go out and kill people based on our bad experiences with men.... Unlike other subs which I won't mention. Why would we get removed/banned? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 01:37 AM |
| 17 | If your gut is telling you something might be off with him, something is off.Actually I started reading it online a few weeks ago and you reminded me I should keep reading | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 01:23 AM |
| 214 | If your gut is telling you something might be off with him, something is off.Seems like all the times when I've ignored my intuition, I regretted the outcomes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 08:46 PM |
| 2 | This dude has a file called “Face for jerking off” AND is so proud to share it with one of the women he added in there.I used to have a small YouTube channel with my face in it but I privated all my videos for reasons like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 08:01 PM |
| 7 | Don’t entertain LVM sliding into those DMs to argue. They’re just looking for attention and we got better things to do 💅🏻You'd be surprised | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:37 AM |
| 16 | Jhene Aiko might be one of the worst pick me female celebrities of all timeCan we address that 9 orgasm thing. Men and even women were eating that shit up when Big Sean was bragging about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:35 AM |
| 44 | Pickmeisha’s LVM takes her to a strip club for Valentine’s Day. In what universe is this acceptable? It’s so trashy and disrespectful.Comment from that thread: So hot! Sounds like you’ve got a nice healthy relationship 💯 Yikes...... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 09:43 PM |
| 63 | Am i the only one who cringes at r/tinder posts?Women on r/tinder: "yeah! I'm a seXuaL DeviAnt toO! Just like the bOis!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 05:22 PM |
| 21 | Disgusting.So glad I'm either going to start seeking women or just die alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 11:49 PM |
| 18 | A woman who has had men in her life constantly use porn to scar her yet she still sees herself as “intrusive” for wanting to put a mirror app on her husbands phone after HE WATCHED PORN WHILST SHE WAS IN LABOURSo he "doesn't remember" huh. How can you fall for that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 05:38 PM |
| 8 | Can we let the FWB‘s go please?Usually there's zero love involved though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 05:17 PM |
| 33 | Stay HappyGross I got flashbacks from this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 10:35 PM |
| 2 | I need to rant a little bitThis breaks my heart. I wish she would see what we see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 05:26 PM |
| 10 | SOBRIETY ISN’T A QUESTION MARK. Men who continues push on are dates are LVM and questionable people all around.Reminds me of this guy who influenced me to smoke weed and then everytime I saw him, he kept saying smoke more. Even when I try to say that's enough he kept insisting. I don't get it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 04:59 PM |
| 13 | I have no idea what to make of this, to be honest. Just strange male behavior all around.What the actual fuck is this ⁉️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 03:15 AM |
| 8 | I went on a first date, and I don’t know if this was ok or not for the guy to do...Coming from someone with anxiety, I used to think I was overreacting alot when it came to certain guys, but I learned years later that it's actually a personal sign that they shouldn't be in my life, and to stay away from them. Maybe you are like that too. And you really shouldn't be worried about what other people say about breaking off with this guy. People are shitty no matter how tall they are or what their career is. One mistake, especially ignoring the boundaries that you've already stated… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 07:27 PM |
| 13 | The men of asktrp won’t let “moral responsibility” stop them from spreading disease. Yet another reminder that men dgaf, and will knowingly harm you just to get off. 🙄🤮I wasn't aware it was this bad. Thanks for the heads up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 04:24 PM |
| 19 | LVM Commentor in r/JordanPeterson talking about this awesome sub being closedLol, if that were to happen to this sub I would just laugh and take reddit even less seriously than I already do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 10:29 PM |
| 17 | Young woman being pressured by her pornsick boyfriend to have anal sex even though it hurts. WE ARE NOT BLOWUP DOLLS.Sorry this happened 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 09:50 PM |
| 17 | Support our sisters: who here has been the victim of “accidental” anal sex? I suspect it’s more common than we think.That happened to me once and I was so pissed off and in pain to the point where we had to stop | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 09:46 PM |
| 17 | Mark my words.These poor kids... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 10:20 PM |
| 22 | Mark my words.Jesus 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 10:18 PM |
| 9 | Mark my words.I'm not even surprised at this point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 10:17 PM |
| 50 | Mark my words.Being in a sexual state of mind 24/7 like that just sounds depressing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Found on r/Tinder, the post was mocking a woman who was in university for gender studies.It just makes the human race look bad to be honest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 08:47 PM |
| 74 | If empowering my fellow sistahs is wrong, then I don't wanna be right! 🤣Who is that and why does he think you would give a fuck? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 08:43 PM |
| 8 | Anyone else getting spammed by incels lately? I think it's from posting in this and similar subredditsIf you need help let me know | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 05:37 PM |
| 28 | Anyone else getting spammed by incels lately? I think it's from posting in this and similar subredditsThat's why I have pms turned off on this account unless I message someone first. I suggest a lot of you do the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 05:28 PM |
| 96 | I’m slowly learning that I’d rather be singleLoving the single life so far | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 05:27 PM |
| 7 | Texting causes fake sense of intimacySome Hispanic dude I met in college. Wow it might be a universal thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 05:14 PM |
| 14 | Texting causes fake sense of intimacySounds exactly like someone I dealt with.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 08:55 AM |
| 9 | So apparently men scheduling appointments with female doctors specifically to sexually assault or harass them is a thing. Sounds like a very expensive perversion, but you, males gonna male.Holy shit this is actually a thing? I feel sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 08:23 AM |
| 132 | ''Women lose value once they turn 30'' --menThis trope also assumes that a woman's life is solely based on who finds her attractive. "Oh no, once I turn this certain age nobody's going to want me 😭". Even if that's true who gives a fuck? There's more to life than being attractive to males and if people are actually walking around thinking their life is over once they turn 30, I feel bad for them. That's only what, 20% of someone's life? There's way more important shit to worry about lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 08:12 AM |
| 13 | Her BF is addicted to porn and now he has erectile dysfunction. Girl, please dump his ass.Just when you think it couldn't get any worse 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 12:34 AM |
| 25 | Be careful with Dominican menWhen I was more dumb and naive, I spent 2 years clinging on to this Dominican guy who had 2 kids and a partner who he would either call his "wife" or baby mom. He was abusive, controlling, dismissing, all the things you could imagine with this type of guy. He convinced me to be a side piece, and talk me into having a baby with him. I didn't, thank god. I eventually realized he wanted me to have a baby so I would always be associated with him with no way out and to try to "own me". I used to thin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 11:53 PM |
| 20 | is your man bi? How to tell if your man is a closeted homosexual or bisexual.This was downvoted but downlow men DO exist and is more common than you would believe. Might do a post on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 09:23 AM |
| 5 | #MakeHimWait2020. 90 days minimum.Been there 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 09:22 AM |
| 40 | But I keep being shouted at how men are always the victims of violence and themselves not violent. Hmm...I hope that's fake, but even if it is, the laughing emoji says it all. They won't be laughing when they end up murdered because they think this shit is okay and normal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 09:21 AM |
| 21 | men complaining about women "gossiping" is a red flag🚩Don't forget the creepy gossip when they see an attractive woman and yap about what they would do to her sexually | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 04:40 AM |
| 7 | and then there's this assholeWhat's wrong with his brain? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 11:52 PM |
| 3 | Are men inherently LV if they go to a strip club?"He thought of me the whole time". Idk about that one. Sounds like something he would want you to believe. But just my thought... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 08:27 PM |
| 9 | Saw this on a different sub. Another example of disrespectful misogynistic trash on an OLD app.Men like this belong in the woods. How can you function properly as a human being if you're a slave to your genitals? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Talk Therapy: tales of your pickmeisha past🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 08:42 AM |
| 3 | How long did it take you to internalize FDS? Did you go through any emotions of grief? (anger, etc.)You bet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Believe itNeeded this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 08:20 AM |
| 17 | How long did it take you to internalize FDS? Did you go through any emotions of grief? (anger, etc.)Literally a couple of days. Before I even found fds I pretty much told myself I wasn't going through the shit I've gone through anymore. Then tada, I found this gem of a sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 07:58 AM |
| 69 | can't stand these malesNope. Had a guy I used to hook up with try to pull the same shit. Messaged me months later after no contact to "hang out" with no plans as to where and it was after 10pm. Said "I never said anything about sex 🙄". Don't fall for the bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 09:52 AM |
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