| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 441 | Shoot your shots even though it seems creepy | Field Report | nam292 | /r/seduction | 16/06/25 09:46 AM |
| 429 | Never listen to a girls tips on how to get girls | Field Report | nam292 | /r/seduction | 15/07/21 09:30 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Approach Women Sitting in Groups at BarsIm doing pretty well with online dating and this way as an ‘amateur’. Its about how I personally want things to continue, not how the general consensus is. | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 02:03 AM |
| -3 | Approach Women Sitting in Groups at BarsI'm not a bar guy, the only reason why I might be in one is because of someone close inviting me to one. So no I'd go back to talk to the person I'm meeting with. I only enjoy flirting if it's actually a date. Even if I were to flirt, I would want the contacts for future encounters. | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 01:21 PM |
| 3 | How to become more attractive as a manIt's not about how much they lift, it's about how your body looks. Obviously hygiene matters, that's the bare minimum. Being skinny is a major disadvantage to being buff. | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 11:32 AM |
| -7 | Approach Women Sitting in Groups at BarsI wouldn't even bother to 'borrow' her. Just straight up excuse me, can I have your numbers. | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 11:00 AM |
| 9 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedCompletely disagree, you can see my most recent post. Everybody knows why you suddenly start conversations with women my guy. | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 02:58 AM |
| 4 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedWhat effects and how can it goes south? Asking them for their socials and move on with your workouts ain't affecting shit. | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 02:56 AM |
| 0 | How do you flirt and date or become fwb with someone your already friends with?Just ask them? | /r/seduction | 01/07/25 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Shoot your shots even though it seems creepyWe said byes, and nothing else. | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Shoot your shots even though it seems creepyI am tall. Not sure about handsome but after gymming I do feel good about my body. | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 08:26 AM |
| 5 | Shoot your shots even though it seems creepyYes | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Shoot your shots even though it seems creepyHe is just not as swarve, debonair or even normal enough as a 'weird loser' like me, which leads to jealousy and hatred. | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Shoot your shots even though it seems creepyImagine comparing checking a girl out to robbing a a bank. Even still, this girl clearly enjoyed my attention, pretty sure banks don't enjoy being robbed. And I have not robbed anyone of anything.Nice try though. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Shoot your shots even though it seems creepyIt isn't that hard. Ask chatgpt for a plan(and diet), follow it, make sure you get enough proteins. Be patient, the earliest you can see the gains are 2 months, normally 3-4. Good luck king. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Shoot your shots even though it seems creepyCare to explain? I got what I wanted, and never would have had I not shot. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Shoot your shots even though it seems creepyMaybe, but better than not shooting for sure, which is evident in this case. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Shoot your shots even though it seems creepyTrans have a very different set of physical traits to real women. You should be able to tell 99% of the time. The 1% you will find out in bed. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 12:30 AM |
| 6 | Shoot your shots even though it seems creepyYou can't be banned doing what I do. Even if that's the case, you will receive warnings first. The other way is to get rejected and move on. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 12:28 AM |
| 3 | Shoot your shots even though it seems creepyDo what you feel is natural. Don't force yourself to be something you are not. Personally, I hate striking up or entertain a conversation. I am an introvert, so I communicate only when needed so the only lines I need is ' Can I get your numbers?' For you, it might be different since your personalities is different. I don't like your opener, as I'm sure she gets that all the time. Considering you both gym, why not ask her something like 'How long have you gymmed to look this good?, basically some… | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Shoot your shots even though it seems creepyYou don't like it when someone succeed 'deviatinf from the social contract' do you? Btw, not everybody wants to be popular. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Shoot your shots even though it seems creepyIf being wrong means bagging hot girls, I don't want to be right. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 12:10 AM |
| 0 | Shoot your shots even though it seems creepyIf I didn't stare, I wouldn't have asked for her numbers. And she clearly didn't mind. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Shoot your shots even though it seems creepyI shot and it landed. So not sure what's your point. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 12:07 AM |
| 6 | Shoot your shots even though it seems creepyReddit users(and others) in my case will always pussyfooting, and ended up being more creepy than me. Shooting your shots is universal, basic advice but from my experience not many follows it. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Shoot your shots even though it seems creepyUnlikely, them again, the odds are against you even if you are good looking, just much less so. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 12:03 AM |
| -1 | Smoking area easiest place to start a conversation?You can just ask them or someone else for a smoke. | /r/seduction | 16/06/25 09:15 AM |
| 4 | You want her? Don't tell her. Show her just enogh to keep her guessingConsidering it has worked for me and the girl escalated, gonna have to disagree. | /r/seduction | 16/06/25 08:35 AM |
| 4 | What are your guys favorite conversation starters to use?Hey, can I get your numbers? | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 04:47 AM |
| -5 | For the guys who don’t want to cold approachWork in yourself. Work on your career, work on your body. Ever since I started doing this cold approach is not needed anymore, just dating apps. Cliche but it is just about money and looks. | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 01:23 PM |
| 2 | The reason you’re getting ghosted is because you lack sparkWell, I use 'wagwan pifting wanna fuck' as an opener for online datings. Personally, it has taken me far enough. | /r/seduction | 23/04/25 02:48 PM |
| -1 | The reason you’re getting ghosted is because you lack sparkNot rich or good looking enough. I get ghosted but by that time already bagged baddies. Tips: go to the gym, works way better than some conversations or PUA bs. | /r/seduction | 23/04/25 02:04 PM |
| 3 | If You Do Not Wish To Begin, Save Yourself The Misery - The Real Reason Why Nothing Is Happening + Solution.You forgot working out. Ever since I started bagging baddies while having the most basic shorts and t-shirts have been much easier than dressing up before. | /r/seduction | 23/04/25 06:10 AM |
| 0 | I am tired of motivational jerk off posts around here and the lack of practical examples in othersHonestly, go to the gym and take care of your appearance. Works way better than PUA bs. My opener is 'can I get your numbers'. I don't even do and need cold approaches anymore, purely online dating and past hookups. | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 04:48 AM |
| 1 | How common is it to get aired after getting the number? If so what did you do to change it ?I'm not sure what you meant by 'problems'. My success rate is good enough now. I don't even go out much anymore and solely relying on tinder, bumble and past hookups. Easily getting a relieve once every 1-2 weeks | /r/seduction | 20/04/25 01:11 AM |
| 1 | How common is it to get aired after getting the number? If so what did you do to change it ?15 minutes/person, so if 4 a day it's 1 hour...that's time and effort. I don't have this much free time, and if I do, I can literally do anything else besides of boring convos I used to believe and do what you said. My cold approaches success rate drastically improved after gymming though, so my irl experiences is different. | /r/seduction | 20/04/25 12:54 AM |
| 1 | How common is it to get aired after getting the number? If so what did you do to change it ?Personally that takes more effort and resources than simply asking them for their contacts and dip. But I get what you mean, sometimes when girls give me their numbers, I deliberately read it out with 1 wrong digit. If they fix it, cool, real numbers. If they didn't, cool. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 10:47 AM |
| 1 | How common is it to get aired after getting the number? If so what did you do to change it ?This 'hook point' takes less time to achieve when you are more attractive though. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 09:21 AM |
| 1 | How common is it to get aired after getting the number? If so what did you do to change it ?Just go to the gym. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 08:44 AM |
| 1 | How common is it to get aired after getting the number? If so what did you do to change it ?Maybe you are right, I just find it if she likes you, the approach doesn't matter. I got aired way less after going to the gym and use 'hey, can I have your ig/numbers' as the only line than chatting them up for 15+ minutes. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Going to the gym is a game-changerHere's the thing,I don't go to nightclubs, bars,... I don't care about daygame/night game bs. Not anymore after college. Just workout, have a decent career. Be proactive. Don't put getting girls as your main objective. | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Going to the gym is a game-changerWhy does it have to be a week? On that note when I was traveling I got a ons by doing this in a week. I don't see the point of purposefully going out on the street just to approach, I just do it when I feel like it(usually when I see an attractive person). | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 02:04 AM |
| 3 | Going to the gym is a game-changerI barelt go out and spend most of my free time at home. Yet I have no problems getting women, either by cold approach or through dating apps just by 'hey, can I get your number' as an opener to sleeping and having relationships with them. You spend too much time thinking about these stufffs. | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Going to the gym is a game-changerIt doesn't matter lol, you will look better, women will be more reciprocative, you talk more, then you will be more confident. | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 02:10 AM |
| 1 | The Brutal Truth About Approaching Women Nobody Wants to HearAll I do is come up to them and said can I get your numbers. | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Can an introvert loner get a gf and how?I’m awkward as hell when talking to not so close friends, I’m just uncomfortable feeling left out and I dont have many friends either.However, I don’t mind cold approach’s. When I go to a concert, coffee, etc( public places I dont hesitate to ask for contacts). I don’t even say anything, just hey, can I get your numbers. Works well, I get their numbers 4/5 times, but only 2 I can actually go on a date with | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 06:36 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Lol. You may look bad initially but you can improve yourself. Go to the gym, smell nice, wear nice clothes, work hard. It's a circle, if you improve yourself, you see yourself more attractive and more confident to approach girls, giving you more experience. Life is not fair. However, you may look bad but you are good in something else. Focus on yourself | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Fellas, stop watching dating advice, alpha male content and other crap like that. It’s making you second guess yourself and it’s ruining your confidenceEh after watching anrypicnic, Jimmy Zhang O have the guts to talk to people I don't know and got some dates. My games definitely not on their level, and I get rejected a lot 70% but doing it more improve my chances. But it's ok for me since I can make sth with the 30% | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Eye contact from a distance. Smile or no?Usually when I do this it's like an awkward smile when we make eye contact with strangers lol | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Never listen to a girls tips on how to get girlsI get you but I have never had a girl do that. They usually just say no, I have a bf or gave me a fake numbers. I have had many just ghosted me tho. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Never listen to a girls tips on how to get girlsUhm I do that so it saves me time to not bother save it on my phone. If I knew it was fake, I would just say thanks and walk away anyway | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 03:27 AM |
| 3 | Do you think white men have an enormous advantage in seduction and meeting women compared to other races of men and what’s your advice to someone thats none white?This is generally true, especially for my race. So I'm Asian and move to the UK. Almost every British born Asian I know like white guys. And BBA generally have the same preference as white girls. And imo they like black guys more than Asians, just less than whites However the og Asian girls do like Asian guys. But they don't like black guys I find blacks, Latinos, south Asians and especially slavics are more receptive towards me. Honestly just shoot your shots man. I get rejected soooo many time… | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 03:04 AM |
| -1 | Never listen to a girls tips on how to get girlsI did find her attractive. That's why I was able to overheard her conversation. I probably would still talk to her but it was uncertain at the time. But once I heard it, I was thinking of the saying don't ask the fish how to fish, ask the fisherman and when I finished my thoughts her call ended. So I was like why not? Let's test this theory I know it sounds odd and a bit douchey but obviously the girl doesn't think so since she agreed to meet in the end. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 02:45 AM |
| 2 | “Hey, do you mind watching this for me?”I tried this with other methods a lot. And I get rejected 7/10 times. The more you do it, the more potential you have to meet a nice girl. Plus your confidence also increases, which further raising your chance of success | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 02:04 AM |
| -3 | Never listen to a girls tips on how to get girlsI mean sure, if they are her friends and can tell me what s her hobbies are etc. And for like delicate things like how to treat her when she is sad,.. and this only works when you already know her But for pick ups, nah, they often say stuffs like be nice, be yourself and it only works when you are hot af, and at that point you can say whatever. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 12:44 AM |
| 5 | Never listen to a girls tips on how to get girlsWe agreed on a date. So unless she gives out a random number and that person happens to agree on a date, yeah probably not fake | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 12:00 AM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]What's with this 'waiting'. If I want to hang again I text and reply asap. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Spent the entire day just asking where's the closest StarbucksI always đó: I'm looking for( pointing fingers at a random direction)... your numbers. | /r/seduction | 01/05/21 08:46 AM |
| 15 | Girls don't do things by accidentUgh she either tell me or don't. If I know that she likes me, yeah. But I always tell a girl that I like her whether signals or not.Cannot give enough shit about hints | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 03:33 PM |
| 5 | I asked girls for directions today.Watch a YouTube channel called angry picnic. He asked for directions but then start flirting and asking for their numbers. It's Hella funny and I tried it and it works sometimes | /r/seduction | 28/03/21 08:47 PM |
| 1 | I slid in the dm's and got rejectedNot just girls. It's a great way of knowing people, my social circle would be like 10 ppl if I didn't do it. I don't just ask immediately but talk about sth first | /r/seduction | 22/03/21 08:40 PM |
| 1 | I slid in the dm's and got rejectedYo same I literally find 80% of the girl on my uni campus attractive. I just ask them to hang out, snapchat and numbers if they are down. Coincidentally, I always can be friends but rejected romantically 80% of the time | /r/seduction | 22/03/21 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Only use texting to set up a date.I text my tinder matches maximum 10 texts and I try to get their ig SC or phone numbers asap. Then call, or text first and call to arrange a meetup. Occasional flirty texts are fine but that's it | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Only use texting to set up a date.I would rather give her a call. Texting just waste my time. Although I can be really cringey when texting. Honestly some girls don't like it but if they like you it doesn't really matter what you text | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 04:07 PM |
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