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27

I was so young and naive. Low self esteem, had gone to an all girls school, limited exposure to scrotes. I remember almost thinking it must be normal (even though I was disgusted) cause the guy said everyone does it 🤡 edit: typo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 06:07 PM
4

Sweet! gonna watch it this evening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 09:22 AM
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When I was 20, I dated an unemployed guy who lived at his parents house and had pee bottles under his bed. Not like one or two. I found 8 x 2litre bottles filled with urine. He said it was too difficult to go to the bathroom downstairs at night time. He ended up dumping me after two months of dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 09:18 AM
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If only they swam off to die after the first attempt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 09:22 PM
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Not to mention his giant ugly back tattoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:42 PM
23

Love hearing these kind of stories, especially as a 35+ lady. It’s wonderful there is a space for woman of all ages to share their experiences and wisdom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:41 PM
21

Height & 🤏🍤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 08:19 PM
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I’m so sorry, that’s so awful for your family - especially heartbreaking for her mother
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:24 PM
5

💯 this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:23 PM
18

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:04 AM
53

Single mum (by choice) perspective here. I honestly think most people are flippant about having children, like it's a life box-ticking activity. Myself included. I love my child more than anything else in the world, and she has made me a better person. But if I REALLY knew what it was like beforehand I may not have gone ahead with it. The ideal of having a child lives in the same fantasyland as marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:19 AM
1

Pretty accurate diagram
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:11 AM
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I don't want to take care of messy people. An untidy space makes me uncomfortable, frustrated and I can't relax – hence being compelled to clean up another persons mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:08 AM
7

Needed to hear this. Thank you <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:04 AM
59

Can we make this happen ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:31 AM
5

Is anyone else living for rape island the reality tv series. I can't get the visual out of my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:28 AM
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The only time he has eyes is when he "catches" her which parallels to the only time men put in effort is at the beginning of a relationship/situationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:42 AM
2

It's ok, I know better now ;) Plus it's been over a decade since I dumped that Scrote and his tiny dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:32 AM
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I've never done the full math, it would probably make me cry. I do remember one boyfriend had me move overseas with him - he insisted we rent a house (even though I was studying and we couldn't afford it) and he lost his job after 3 months, and I had to use all my savings (30k) which I saved from 14-21years to pay rent cause he was always in debt and had 6 credit cards. DON'T date someone who more than one credit card please. Another time he got arrested for drug possession, and rather than plea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:33 AM
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I really enjoy ‘Here to thrive’ by Kate Snowise https://open.spotify.com/episode/7mVGKk0HeLJiEaii7rCHhK?si=FytkCifnRbC89e35ijIRjQ&dl_branch=1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:58 AM
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Hey ladies, I'd love any tips on how to talk with a child about their absent father. My daughters biological father was a ZVM and never met her/left when I was in my first trimester. I've see articles online about being "honest" and never bad mouthing the biological father/sperm donor (this was in my preFDS dates). I've also read journals and literature about childhood development where kids tend to idealise and fantasise about absent parents. Would love to hear an FSD take on this and any tips/…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:44 AM
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Toddlers are easier to train than men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:12 PM
58

I'm currently levelling up my ice-queen status
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:11 PM
5

Awesome thank you @firestorm717 I must have missed it in the episode 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:42 AM
26

It is funny, cause in my former pick me life I dated a dude who had a brown mark on his pants near his butt crack. I thought perhaps he had a small episode of diarrhoea and let it slide and was too embarrassed to say anything. NOW I KNOW IT'S CAUSE HE DIDN'T WASH HIS ARSE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:33 AM
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Lillith fantastic episode!! 1000 thank-you for getting Gail on the podcast. Do you recall the name of that parent platform to educate tweens/teens about porn Gail was talking about. I don't think she ever said the name of the free platform, but I'd love to check it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:20 AM
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What an absolute joy to listen to. Gail explained everything so eloquently, she is a powerhouse of a human. Her quotes need to be framed, put in all male cubicles and on billboards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:52 AM
2

Seriously, WTF LEAVE HIM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:22 AM
2

BINGO! LOVE this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:08 PM
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They are just projecting their own relationship insecurities onto you. It’s sad many people in society behave this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:07 AM
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Totally here for this house
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:19 PM
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💯 duh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:32 PM
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Even the language around the subject is wrong. A sufficiently sized penis (large) should be bare minimum. There are products on the market for men such as penis sheaths which the male can slip on and it acts as an extender/ more girth - similar to that of a padded bra for women. Their fragile egos can’t handle it cause it’s about THEIR PLEASURE not the females.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:31 PM
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Nope, it was a first date. I’m also a solo parent, my daughters biological dad has never been involved so I seriously don’t have time to babysit a Scrote & HIS kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:53 AM
5

Traditionally an engagement ring is three months salary. So this dude should be paying $28,750 based on his salary. So she was bang on with her first estimate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:58 PM
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As a single mum I stay away from single dads like the plague. I remember going on one date preFDS. The dad had two sons, bitched about having them every second weekend but said how much he loved them with a giant tattoo of them up his arm. Massive red flags, 🚩 I politely declined the next date but he wanted to stay ‘friends’ and do activities together with the kids 🤨🤨🤨 Um hell no, how about you take CARE of your own kids, I’m good dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:38 PM
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I saw this firsthand with my beautician. She died suddenly from asthma at 36. Was running a fancy salon full-time & taking care of their two boys. The husband had remarried in 2 years after her death which is so sad. She never would have remarried, she loved him so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:34 PM
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Zero jawlines, beards are so deceptive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:23 PM
12

Oh my eyes are burning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:12 PM
10

Same in Australia, the statistics are so alarming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:37 PM
7

Can confirm. Do not want. As a 30+ female 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:15 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:14 PM
3

This is so great! Saving for later. It’s so frustrating this isn’t taught to us in schools or as kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:11 PM
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Once you have a child you never sleep again and are constantly tired
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:28 AM
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My old therapist said I should only date men over 36 as they are eMoTiOnAlLy mAtUrE and rEaDy to settle down. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:35 PM
27

qUaLiTy mEn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:30 PM
5

My former Pickme self, loves these hard truths
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:28 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 In reality it’s the order of descent into Pick Me Madness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:33 PM
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When 64% of men say ‘contribute’ they are actually saying SEX
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:34 PM
2

Ohh I was seeing a guy like this. He ghosted me after our last date where I had a cold and told him I didn’t want to make him sick (cause he had interviews all week). He had previously brought up that physical touch and affection was his number 1 priority!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:37 AM
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Throwing this out there as a single parent - people don’t celebrate procreation if it isn’t done in a traditional sense. I had people whose weddings I attended be meh on my single mum baby shower. My best friend who had an overseas hens night which I had to pay for and organize as the maid of honor wouldn’t even fly back for my shower.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:21 AM
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I’ve been doing research into the ‘pink tax’ in my masters degree and it’s shocking how with already a huge pay gap woman are forced to pay more for ‘female’ skewed products. It makes me so mad, like the government should supplement all our salaries and we should get a discount on every purchase to make up for this insane gender bias brought about by ALL MEN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:13 AM
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FACTS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:08 AM
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I saw the doctor for an STD test on the boyfriends wishes after we’d slept together (such a controlling Narc) and that’s when it showed up. The doctor was super blaśe about it, said it’s common & not to worry so I didn’t & the bf couldn’t care less. This was a good 20 years ago now and I didn’t know it could lead to cervical cancer at the time. Always get my pap smears every year though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:07 AM
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I got HPV from my first sexual experience - my high school bf, who said he was a "virgin".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 09:58 PM
4

Congratulations Queen 🎉 Keep on dancing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 07:42 PM
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Even if you haven't met the father and the Scrote talks badly about the dad, that's a big red flag too. For example a NVM who said his father does zero around the house and verbally abuses his mother. RUN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:34 AM
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GOLD! Saving this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:31 AM
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Accounting for the 11.12% inflation since 2014, it's now £176,833 thank-you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:48 AM
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Scrotes would argue every box should be ‘not all men’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:16 AM
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Why do they care so much about their own thoughts or opinions. Dude shut up, nobody cares
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:30 PM
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Taking a moment to reflect on the fact that some men think ANYONE can babysit a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:29 PM
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Omg this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:22 PM
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All I can see is the dreamcatcher, train and edge of a samurai sword in the background and I’ve already swiped left
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 10:00 AM
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A visual reminder of the consequences when they don't wash their arsehole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:35 AM
17

100% the animal kingdom always knows whats up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:26 AM
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I didn't want to spoil it for fans who haven't seen it yet. I should have written *that* scene. It definitely makes more sense if you have seen the episode. Here's a link to the article it references for context
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:23 AM
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heeehee slumlord
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:17 AM
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Spoilers - Essentially Elisabeth Moss's character June has sex with her husband Luke after 8 years apart and SO MUCH abuse at the hands of other men and women. She's on top and forcibly holds down his hands until she cums. The Pickmes and Scrotes are calling rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:03 AM
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When I was teen I thought of myself as a prude, then in my 20s had a libfem slutisode. Men behaved and treated me poorly in both instances. I no-longer subscribe to these male constructs and have taken back control of my body, mind and spirit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:45 AM
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I’m with you queen! It’s crazy how much our self esteem grows when we think of ourselves and our bodies in high value ways. Plus there is so much less mental effort involved with not sleeping with any old Scrote. No more analysing, no more obsessing just peace, serenity and fun with our HV friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:30 AM
38

You become what you consume
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:51 AM
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Such a great article, backed by data and not deficit discourse in mainstream SCROTE owned media. The journal article it references about children raised by single (never married) mothers in multi-generational households do even better than the children of married parents is solid gold too. Thanks for sharing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:09 AM
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Panning for Gold in a Sewer 🤣🤣🤣 <—- omg this is SO TRUE Thank you for sharing your truly inspiring story 💓💓💓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:07 PM
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Love this 💓👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:53 AM
5

Solo parents (aka single mums) make Scrotes so mad can they prove that men aren’t required, full stop . As a proud solo parent my coupled friends are always in awe of the juggling, but honestly it’s great - I make all the decisions, my child has so much stability and zero drama you’d find in a coupled home with Scrotes doing zero anyway. Btw I like to use the term solo parent as it reduces the Scrote perpetuating stigma against single mums. Single implies the need for something whereas solo comp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:36 AM
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Men personify the two words lazy and entitled. Men are so lazy and entitled they can’t even take the time to understand the FDS principles and level up to meet us at the bare minimum. Is it truly that hard to eat well, exercise, wash, dress well, be educated, have a job and show respect to the opposite gender? If this was an exam - we’re giving them all the answers but they insist on copying some random Scrote who wants to game women for sex and free labor. Like dude, you are eventually gonna fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:37 AM
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Yes, alcohol always seeps through the skin the next day. You can smell it on them at work, Scrotes who are alcoholics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:18 AM
3

Me too, been here a month and for the first time in my life I feel whole without desiring a man to settle down with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:36 AM
3

OMG YES. This is the morning mood I need. Thank-you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:16 PM
5

Omg yess! An LVX once referred to my vagina as a TARDIS (for anyone who has seen they will get the reference) and he had the tiniest dick I'd ever seen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:45 AM
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