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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | I'm happy for herHer: aquarium Him: Taurus | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 09:30 PM |
| 7 | I'm happy for herShe's good at finding good men, that's all I know lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 08:31 PM |
| 5 | Choose what makes you happyInteresting fact: My ex made me cut my wand's wire, and now I don't have extra money to buy a new one. At least I learned my lesson, never listen to men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 02:55 PM |
| 7 | Why 'playing hard to get' may actually work - aka why our tactics work!The logic is simple: let's imagine you raise a kid. You give them everything they want, the way they want and the moment they want. When they ask for something and you say no, everything you give them turns useless. They beg for the thing you didn't give them. But when you raise a kid and you don't give them everything they want, every little special thing you give them turns to be the coolest thing ever. And maybe, they will even clean your bathroom or wash the plates in your house, just so the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 12:57 AM |
| 9 | Nowadays I can't listen to "posessive bf asmr" without having terrible flash backsOh honey... it may just surprise you https://youtu.be/1ZGPpLV_aWw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 12:33 PM |
| 3 | Attention seekers.Exactlyyy Thanks for comprehending I fell for it cuz I was young lol. Means a lot! To this day I still feel guilty. But that's ok, mistakes happen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 03:57 PM |
| 7 | Attention seekers.Yeah girl, it was all fucked up. Don't even ask me why I accepted that type of shit lol He was a boy though. We both were teens, 14 year old. Still, calling himself a "cute boy" was creepy, I mean, god damn, he was a teenager. "Am I your best boy?" Sounds like a 4 year old talking to his mom. But my 14 yo self didn't realise it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 03:36 PM |
| 19 | There is more than one type of abusive man.Girl I feel youuuu My ex was a sweetheart, and sometimes I doubt myself and wonder if I did the right decision when leaving him. He would tell me I'm a goddess, I'm perfect, I'm all that he needs, etc. But as you said, it's unrealistic. And he just treated me like a queen for a while, just so later he would treat me like trash. So yeah, I did the right thing. He made me feel good, but after talking to him I felt like I had no energy or life. He just wanted me to forget who I was so I could worsh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 03:08 PM |
| 3 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:Yesss! You're a queen<3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 02:49 PM |
| 3 | How to tell you're being fetishized for your race?Omg yessss! That's a total red flag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 02:15 PM |
| 4 | How to tell you're being fetishized for your race?Oof, this hits home. I'm brazilian, and my skin tone is darker than my ex's skin tone (he's white). One time he said "You know, idk if I said this before but your darker skin is so attractive". Idk why, but that just seemed so wrong. Like, my guts were telling me there was something wrong, you know? Some people don't mind getting complimented by their skin tone, but I get super uncomfortable. Oh, and also, I don't remember exactly what we were talking about but the convo got to a point where we … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 02:13 PM |
| 22 | women aren’t attracted to moneyNah, I actually love money lol. Money can bring a ton of nice stuff. But as you said, it isn't the only thing that can make a woman stay. My ex bf was rich and would give me a lot of gifts, but he didn't treat me well nor respected me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 02:31 AM |
| 141 | A day in the life as a Red Pill wife"And then you wake up. It was all a nightmare. You are a divorced woman, and the nightmare was just a flashback from your last relationship. You are wearing a comfortable sweatshirt, and you have a bed just for yourself. It's all fine, your husband is in jail for harassing a woman at work, the kids are older and live in their own houses. You are happy" I needed to write a good ending lmaooo :") | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 04:10 PM |
| 9 | A confession about my ex, porn and masturbation.Just know you're not alone, sis. I'm proud of you for realising your problem, and hope you can get over it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 03:35 PM |
| 8 | “He can look at porn, ogle other women, go to strip clubs, say sexual things about other women in front of me..” -pickmeishaDamn, I feel this. One time my ex made me do a list of all the sex scenes in Sex Education so he could get off to it without having to watch the entire show, which made me sad af bc I love the show and wanted him to watch it and love it too. He didn't care. As I was a pickmeisha, I did the list. I'm still mad at myself, but I'm glad I learned my lesson. Oh, also, he didn't care about watching the shows I liked but would make me pay for Disney+ just so I could watch the things he liked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 01:25 PM |
| 3 | I know we need a little positivity. Can you post examples of how a man is behaving in an HV way during this global crisis?My dad had some masks with him, so he gave half of them to his gf. Also, he bought a ton of food just in case, and plans sharing it with his gf, ex-wife and kids if we need it. He does everything he can to protect her, me, my siblings and my mom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 01:10 PM |
| 14 | When you have a HVM, you won't have to beg for anythingIt sounds so fucking crazy how he does the minimum expected, and still he is better than most men! I mean, your bf sounds amazing ofc. But it amazes me how we are so used to trash, that when a man says "I don't wanna let you starve" we are shocked. It should be expected! Just wow. Btw congrats :) hope u 2 keep being happy together for a long time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 11:00 PM |
| 14 | It has been one month since I broke up with my LVM ex bf!!! Couldn't be happier.Thank you so much <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 08:47 PM |
| 163 | It has been one month since I broke up with my LVM ex bf!!! Couldn't be happier.Like damn, I feel like a queen now. I'm just glowing and glowing. When I was his gf, I felt like absolute shit. Now, I don't have to deal with: Racism and xenophobia from him His depression, anxiety and narcissism Pressure to send nudes His ugly body Pretending that I like him Sleepless nights talking to him bc "he felt too sad and seeing me leave would be terrible" Ladies, dump him. JUST FUCKING DUMP HIM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 08:46 PM |
| 3 | I don't want just sex, I want to be loved.Nah, I don't think so. Pickmeishas, even though they want love, will give men sex. So men get both sex and love. Women are the ones who lose twice bc they don't get anything they want, while men get what they want and even what they don't want🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 08:54 PM |
| 13 | Men are funny when it comes to dick pics, nglWomen: exist Men: HEY BEAUTIFUL I LIKE YOUR BOOBS dick pic It's so fucking easy and pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 12:35 AM |
| 6 | Men are funny when it comes to dick pics, nglI'm so sorry sis, it must be very hard and tiring :( But don't let those disgusting pics make you feel bad, ok? The guys who send that are just desperate and creepy. Keep posting the stories if you like to post them!! Also, block the creeps | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Your well being is more important than their ego, period. Entitlement is a sure sign of low value. Don't let anyone degrade you for guarding your valuable time and attention!If doing what is best for me is abuse, call me an abuser lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 10:13 PM |
| 22 | Before vs. After FDSOmg yes!!! Haha. And one thing I've noticed, is that men hate pick me's. Bc they're so easy it's boring! LVM only use pickmeishas, but they don't love them. After Fds, I know my worth. Never gonna chase a man ever again So glad I realized that :') | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 10:00 PM |
| 15 | I don't want just sex, I want to be loved.Not a big fan of manga, but I totally have been there sis :/ same for everyone I guess. We watch/read about relationships our entire lives and when we see real relationships, it's so different. Anyways, congrats for noticing how fucked up drama is! <3 hope you can learn the right stuff now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 09:52 PM |
| 2 | How he responds to praise is just as important as how he responds to "no."OMG YES my ex would always say he is trash so I would comfort him. He was just trying to make me feel bad for him so I would settle for less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 12:08 AM |
| 24 | Woman catches husband having sex with stuffed animals on multiple important life occasions and wonders if she is the one who’s in the wrong for being upset about it.r/relationship_advice be like: Woman: My husband constantly rapes me, watches porn 24/7, is morbidly obese, played video games at home in the day of my mom's funeral, sexually harassed my daughter, calls me a bitch and never makes me cum. Am I the asshole? People on the comments: you're being a little too harsh! You're kink shaming him. It's 2020, girl! Let him be happy :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 11:56 PM |
| 6 | Woman catches husband having sex with stuffed animals on multiple important life occasions and wonders if she is the one who’s in the wrong for being upset about it.Ugh, I can't even laugh at this. This is so awful I wanna throw up🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 11:52 PM |
| 7 | The RedPill loves pretending like they’re some kind of groundbreaking independent thinkers like men haven’t been pushing this exact same “sEcReT kNowlEdge oN tHe TrUe NaTurE of WomEn” propaganda for centuries now.🙄 There is nothing new under the sun☀️What is red pill? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 04:51 PM |
| 2 | I feel like this is supposed to scare us? Hmm nope if I have a kick ass group of girlfriends and no man when I die that's a-okay with me! 👌I always like to point this out: everytime a man mocks a woman for staying single and not with him, he's roasting himself, bc she preffered to be alone than to be with him lmao. Stay single if you want, ladies! You're not a walking fleshlight | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Women are not your enemy.You're welcome <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Women are not your enemy."My ex was crazy" is just a code for "She didn't treat me like her son, wanted to be independent and wanted me to put more effort on our relationship" Congrats for realising this, sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 08:47 PM |
| 6 | Do We Even Need Men? Assoc. Dean of University of London provides thought provoking speculation on why males continue to exist despite their genetic and social fragility and general uselessness.Oh my god, this is fantastic info!!! I never learned that stuff in school. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 08:00 PM |
| 12 | The Misogyny from nerds. I though this was a interesting video to share.Omg same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 05:42 PM |
| 48 | Thank goodness for this satire sub exposing the misandREEEE of FDS!!Fun fact: in Portuguese, FDS means "Fuck you" and MDS means "Oh my god". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 12:48 PM |
| 8 | Women are not your enemy.You're welcome :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 02:30 AM |
| 4 | Enough stories about LVM! Tell us a good experience you had with HVM :)I won't judge you! You're here to learn, no one is perfect :) Aww that's so cute and respectful! Congrats, you really deserve this HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Girl, you shouldn't eat!Sis, I'm very proud of you for such a brave act! But I'm also very very worried. Men can do anything bad, from calling you a "bitch" to physical aggression. Be careful <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Enough stories about LVM! Tell us a good experience you had with HVM :)Aww np :) legit same! I saw all those posts abt LVM and I got pretty disappointed and wanted to know if there are actual HVM. And well, there are! I'm so happy with the comments | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 11:09 PM |
| 13 | Gamer GuysSis, I have to tell you: never get even close to a guy addicted to video games, fr. My ex was a gamer, and he was anti-social and awkward af. He didn't do anything besides gaming every day. He looked like a HVL at first, bc he didn't act like I was worst for not liking games. But when I bought a tablet instead of a pc, he got super mad at me bc "we couldn't play games together with a tablet", bc the games he played were only available on pcs. I fucking cried. And then he said it's okay and every… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 09:48 PM |
| 3 | Enough stories about LVM! Tell us a good experience you had with HVM :)Don't worry about the length of the comment, it's super cute and wholesome 😚💕💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Remember, most of the world is pro-FDSI'm from Brazil! I totally agree :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:19 PM |
| 10 | What stupid things did y'all do for a man?One time, I offered to pay an uber for my crush haha :") so glad he didn't accept. This sub opened my eyes: never pay stuff for a man and never get a man who can't even pay stuff for himself. It's self care: we need someone good for us, even tho it's hard since we have all been taught to settle for less. I'm proud of you for realising he was a LVM and that it's not shallow to want your man to have money :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:12 PM |
| 6 | What stupid things did y'all do for a man?Awww I'm so sorry :( legit same. But we are progressing, just by realising that what we did was bad for us! Keep it up, sis <3 you're a queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:07 PM |
| 7 | What stupid things did y'all do for a man?That's something I've noticed since I subbed FDS: women do all the work, like they are the only ones in the relationship and men don't have to do any effort, bc "women will chase them anyway". That's fucked up in so many levels! I'm glad y'all opened my eyes. Btw, I'm sorry you did all of this! But I'm proud of you for realising that what you did wasn't smart :) hope you find a HVM/HVW! Or stay single and happy, if you want haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:05 PM |
| 5 | What stupid things did y'all do for a man?I agree, thankfully it's in the past! I'm proud of you for realising that's fucked up lmaoo :") Yeah girl, I fucking cut my vibe for him! I miss it so much... it was expensive and I'm still a teen sooo it will be hard to find a new one. I'll never do that again, I hope! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:02 PM |
| 8 | What stupid things did y'all do for a man?Never did this as far as I can remember, but I know a girl in school who does this. Poor girl, she is really insecure. Hope she realises what she's doing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:00 PM |
| 11 | What stupid things did y'all do for a man?Omg saaaame! It was hell haha :") so much pain, just so a man could "like me". Never again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 01:59 PM |
| 8 | What stupid things did y'all do for a man?Dang girl, that's a long list! Haha. But I think everyone made tons of stupid shit for their bf/ex/husband, and that's ok. Everyone makes mistakes! But the best thing to do is learn from then and try to avoid them in the future :) you're a queen, and even if you weren't, no man is worth of your suffering. Keep going, you're doing great! <333 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 01:57 PM |
| 3 | Is it me or are most men on OLD so f*cking boring?What is "old"? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 08:50 PM |
| 2 | How Did YOU discover FDS, and what convinced you to follow its principles?Same! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 08:08 PM |
| 2 | How I feel when I open this sub.That's a really good question! I do have HVM role models around me :) thanks, helped a lot. I agree, they are out there! Not easy to find, but not non-existent haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Conscience is the enemy of FDSThanks for your post! I was very concerned, like "am I being ethical?". But damn, men are unethical everytime lmao. So I shouldn't be afraid to be happy and get what I want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 12:56 AM |
| 4 | Talking on the phone with a man for hoursThis. I feel like I share something more with girls. I feel like they're my sisters, my lovers, my friends, my everything. When I see a girl cry because of a boy, I feel a connection beyond words. I'm here to protect them, bc I know they have felt the same pain as me. They're connected with me by experience and feelings. It's something fantastic, and I would never feel this level of love for a man. Like, sure, I'm bisexual, but damn, I saw my friend cry in class (every girl hugged her) bc she re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 12:27 AM |
| 4 | We talk a lot about “value” here. Do you actually value yourself?I have the exact same thoughts on this subreddit! It makes me feel like home, fr. I feel like I'm not alone, that there are women out there who care about their own happiness and won't settle for less than what they deserve. It inspires me to do the same, even tho it's extremely hard :') I can't express in words how much this sub has changed and helped me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 12:51 PM |
| 12 | I'm so fucking happy I found this subDamn, that's so true!!! Some years ago, I had the mentality that I should date ugly and non self confident guys, buy they would be desperate too and wouldn't leave me. It was terrible, and I'm glad I realised it wasn't healthy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 12:22 AM |
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