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I was you. I chased a red pill man for years. He didn’t want labels, all that, but he would have sex with me and accept my emotional labor. He basically complained to me about his life and the world. I am autistic, so it took me a bit longer to contextualize the reality of the situation. Basically I have high self esteem, I think I am worthy of love. I could not wrap my head around him not valuing me. But he didn’t and he treated me as such. He was nice on the surface and always when it was conv…
/r/ExRedPill06/11/25 04:49 PM
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As a woman, same. I have been through multiple tragedies in my life, including being drugged and raped, lots of date rape, constant sexual harassment, almost dying from illness over years of being sick, losing all my belongs and my job in a natural disaster, my mother abandoning me as an infant with an alcoholic abusive narcissistic father, etc, and being fucked with by a red pill guy was BY FAR worse than anything I experienced. They aren’t even comparable. Nothing touches what he put me throug…
/r/ExRedPill02/11/25 02:50 AM
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So, I followed the link, answered some questions, but it never asked me for an email. It just said we’ll email if you qualify. Why not just ask everybody the questions and just use the results from the ones who qualify? The rest are control. Do you have a control group? Thats generally a necessary thing in research.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/25 12:07 AM
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I’m a woman and I have been there. Unbeknownst to be at the time, he didn’t think I was good enough for him. He wanted a 10 he was proud to bring around his friends. Apparently that wasn’t me, but I had no idea. If your bf still identifies as incel, that means he hasn’t found the caliber of woman he wants thats willing to date him. Please run away from this man. Being an incel is an addiction and I’d bet he has multiple other addictions, primarily porn.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/25 03:11 PM
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Tell her you’ll be there for her when she leaves him. It’ll probably be 5 years from now and she’ll have a toddler and an infant and her life will be fucked. There’s not really anything else you can do.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/25 03:19 AM
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The only thing that MIGHT get your father to change is if he loses everything and hits rock bottom. But that’s not going to happen. Why are you trying to “save” your father? It’s an extremely codependent move. Save yourself and your spouse and kids. Volunteer with people who want your help. Your dad is an old man who can do very little damage to the world at this point. Your efforts are far better spent on others.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/25 09:45 PM
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Your dad doesn’t have cancer, heart disease or dementia. He’s making a choice to hate people like you. Get out while you can.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/25 08:51 AM
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Is your direct boss a man? His boss? The owner? Yeah, it’s pretty much every business. There are more CEOs named John than female CEOs.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/25 03:58 AM
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First things first, happy cake day! Your reply isn’t speaking to my comment. Reddit is a lot different than our system, institutions, social structures, etc. My first thought, when you tell me women are mean, is this one: "Sometimes people use “respect” to mean “treating someone like a person” and sometimes they use “respect” to mean “treating someone like an authority” and sometimes people who are used to being treated like an authority say “if you won’t respect me I won’t respect you” and they…
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 09:01 PM
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You’ve yet to meet a woman that wasn’t mediocre. I read it. Why are you being rude to people on the internet spending time trying to help you? I read between the lines. If every woman is mediocre, what scale are you judging them on? It must be against yourself, against what you think you are entitled to.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 12:45 AM
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I think we’ve put our finger on the problem. There’s a book written in the 1920’s by Martin Buber called I and Thou. In it he states that whatever we think of others, we also are/become. How can you possibly have any kind of honest, vulnerable relationship when you think you are better than everyone? Are you familiar with Carl Jung? He popularized shadow work- confronting that within ourselves that we are ashamed of or not proud of and bringing it to light.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 12:36 AM
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There are tons of mediocre women out there. Is the real problem that you don’t want a mediocre woman?
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 12:28 AM
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It’s men who are oppressing you. Not women.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/25 02:22 PM
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I didn’t ask for an apology and I didn’t want an apology. Years after our relationship ended these men joined a 12 step program and followed the steps. They apologized for themselves, not for me. There is no good enough or not good enough. It had absolutely nothing to do with me. Did they offer to pay back the money I loaned them? No. No restitution was offered. Not a real apology. No accountability. Go back to your red pill sub.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/25 06:29 PM
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It wasn’t an assumption. I have a brain, I used it. They didn’t take accountability in their apology. Believe women. I’m so tired of being treated like I’m less than the men you worship.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/25 05:03 PM
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This is the EX red pill sub. If you love disbelieving women so much, you’re in the wrong sub.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/25 04:45 PM
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They were red pilled men who apologized. The only reason they apologized was the 12 step program. They weren’t “just alcoholics”. These were men who ran game on me, never committed, were with multiple other women, love bombed, etc. And shared with me how unfair life was for them as a white man. 4 Chan users. Joe Rogan listeners. Jordan Peterson fans. Red. Pill. I know what the phrase means.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/25 11:38 PM
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Alcohol. Both of them.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/25 11:22 PM
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Yes
/r/ExRedPill17/09/25 10:37 PM
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These guys that I dated were both red pill, that’s how it connects. Disingenuous basically means they were lying. They were not sorry. They apologized because of set of rules they were following, a 12 step plan, told them to, not because they were sorry.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/25 10:34 PM
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Have you heard the expression “women have better sex under communism”? The point is that is our culture, most women are forced to pair bond to survive. Men systematically keep women out of high paying and livable wage jobs. I’m not making that up, women not only get paid less dollar per dollar for the same job, men gatekeeper higher paying jobs. There are more CEOs named John than women CEOs. That’s not because men are so much more competent than women. Women will settle for men who don’t meet t…
/r/ExRedPill17/09/25 07:10 PM
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Woman here. I’ve gotten two disingenuous apologies from men working 12 step programs. Apologizing is required.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/25 07:13 AM
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Exercise
/r/ExRedPill12/09/25 11:16 PM
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Encourage her to meet men in person. The apps seem like they say time, but they don’t. She will find a man much quicker in person.
/r/ExRedPill10/09/25 03:29 AM
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I’m autistic and gifted and you sound very intelligent to me. My advice is find an autistic girl. I’m dating a “slow”, yet intelligent autistic guy. We are out here.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/25 01:29 AM
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Agreed. I wanted to note that I, as a woman, am lazy. So I chose not to have kids. I happen to date women and a super hot woman 20 years younger than me wanted to have kids with me. Did I want to fuck this woman every day? Yes. Did I lie to her and have children with her so I could gain access to her body while ignoring our kids? No, I did not. Hopefully she finds someone wonderful and they live the dream.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/24 06:15 PM
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The question was about single mothers. It is much harder to be a single mother than a childless woman. Having a baby saddles a woman and she is much less likely to leave a partner that is contributing financially to the care of a baby. Generally, those fathers’ behavior has to be pretty bad before the mother of his children will leave. So, yes. Dirtbags.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/24 06:02 PM
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Be more specific with your question? Is your premise that women win in divorce? Because they don’t. That’s a lie. Women only get money from men when they marry a rich man. Most men, 95%, aren’t rich. The issue is that men want to be king baby and have a wife/prisoner bangmaid. When a baby comes and the wife has to care for it 24/7, thus “ignoring” the husband, the husband throws a permanent fit and checks out of the marriage until the wife taps out.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/24 04:13 PM
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Good on ya. I wanted to chime in that women like myself are also healing from making the mistake of being with a red pill bro. I feel ashamed. I let him hurt me since 2015. He was a somewhat early adopter of red pill ideology (lucky me). I have a theory that abuse is one of the things that can wake people up to the fact that this is happening on a large scale. The modern iteration in the west started a long time ago with Christianity. Our world has been dealing with this a long time. I highly en…
/r/ExRedPill09/12/24 09:14 PM
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When you get a gf, remember that she has feelings and insecurities and you two are meant to support each other. Be kind to her. Be giving. You might need some education on the subject. Do some research.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/24 04:22 PM
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I recommend psychedelics. Ketamine. Ayahuasca. Mushrooms.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/24 04:17 PM
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This is the absolute best advice I’ve seen in regards to rp men. Ladies, he’s lost to addiction. A shell.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/24 04:06 PM
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I’m a girl, I’m autistic, and I just wanted to say that I’m so happy for you that you left RP and I hope you find tons of awesome friends. Thanks for making the choice to be a good guy. We need you.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/24 05:12 AM
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I’m sorry that happened to you. I hope you continue to have a wonderful life with your friends 💜
/r/ExRedPill14/11/24 05:09 AM
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