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| 1 | How to respond to people who choose bear over man.You know this makes zero sense right? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/05/24 01:09 AM |
| 1 | 70% of palestine victims are women and childrenI think it means it's highly unlikely those people were Hamas | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/04/24 09:39 PM |
| 2 | I feel like this redpill stuff is making me insecure.Instagram shows you more and more of what you click on. If you scroll past something quickly without engaging, you'll start to see less of it. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/24 07:57 PM |
| 1 | It's rare for a man to be with a woman who likes him for who he is as a human being instead of what he can provide."A man is always liked and valued for what he can provide " roflllll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 03:51 PM |
| 1 | So... how are men supposed to understand women, anyways?how is 'be friends with people who are women' not the obvious answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 06:22 AM |
| 8 | Men are having less sex, but women are somehow contracting more STDsno one is forcing you to have sex with anyone. no one is forcing that so-called "top 20% of men" to have sex either. also, interesting that you say the "girls" have a "bad past" and "bad choices." I guess the men having sex are just squeaky-clean victims right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Men have already lost the gender war and it's bound to get worseis your life really so easy that you feel any of these things constitutes "war"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 01:50 AM |
| 8 | I want go villain arc I just really i was delusional beta orbiter the whole time (need advice and motivation)Your post is kind of unreadable because you use really weird terminology. The first line of your title "i want to go villain arc" and then immediately going on about "orbiting" (does this mean being someone's friend even though she won't have sex with you? how entitled do you think you are to sex??) and I'm like...nah You sound like you're chronically online and maybe need to get some real-life social skills going. I'm sorry you're having a hard time but this is painfully obvious within seconds … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/01/24 03:55 PM |
| 1 | A man, Ryan Gosling has been nominated for the Academy Award for Best Supporting Actor. Feminists are not happy at all.I'm a feminist and I don't give a crap | /r/MensRights | 25/01/24 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Dating advice, therapy bait-and-switchWhat do you want out of dating that you're not getting? Also, are you dating and just not meeting anyone who ends up interested in continuing past the first date or not getting any first dates or not trying to date at all right now or what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 08:15 PM |
| 2 | does social proofing on attraction show how women have lower levels of free will or independent thought?free will is an illusion regardless of sex or gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls tend to arrange social groups in terms off attractiveness, whereas boys tend to do it in terms of interest?girl here, my social groups growing up were in no way 'arranged.' I just kind of spent the most time with people who didn't insanely max out my anxiety to the point of unsurvivability. It did mean being stuck with crappy friends for a long time, since I kind of just went along with what was easy and familiar, but the idea of intentionally creating a social network based on something other than familiarity and ease is kind of foreign to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 05:28 PM |
| 6 | Is it seen as ungrateful or a bad choice to decline sex?if someone hates you for rejecting them, you're smart to reject them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Is it seen as ungrateful or a bad choice to decline sex?this question is confusing. Why would it be bad to say no to sex if you don't feel like having sex? This isn't like wasting food while people are starving. You can say no dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 05:16 PM |
| 2 | "They're only being nice because they want sex" - yeah, and there is nothing wrong with thatsome people are nice regardless of the prospect of sex. sorry you're so alien to that way of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 09:37 PM |
| 3 | How old does a guy have to be to be considered a "High Value Man"?I honestly just assume that people who use these bizarre terms have some kind of brain damage and I wish them a speedy recovery and whatever help they need | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/24 12:41 AM |
| 1 | How old does a guy have to be to be considered a "High Value Man"?I don't understand this terminology or thinking. I don't think most people think on these terms in the first place. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/24 12:40 AM |
| – | "The Wall" Another look at the idea and what it really means for men.I know way too many immature man-children and mature, talented, interesting, hardworking women to take this post remotely seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman who left-swiped you on a dating app?ffs why would it matter at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 11:56 PM |
| 7 | A lot of men are justifiably annoyed by a culture that blames them for the male gaze yet pumps "wet ass pussy" into the airwavesI guess you haven't figured out that a woman looking sexy to you doesn't mean you get to harass or touch her and blame her for it. Good luck with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 08:54 PM |
| 3 | What Metrics “Should” Women be attracted to?"should" be attracted to? whatever tf we want. feelings are morally neutral. it's what you do with them that matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 12:42 AM |
| – | Why SHOULDN'T I treat marriage like a job?I think this can work for some people. Marriages can be purely transactional, or political, or financial, or pretty much whatever the consenting parties want it to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 11:43 PM |
| 3 | The question you never want to hear as a young man or at any agethose are pretty standard questions that most people ask most people. If they bother you or you don't want to disclose, you can come up with an answer that's not a lie, doesn't disclose whatever information it is that's causing you these problems, and isn't repulsive to the average person. If you can't do that, maybe the problem isn't the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 04:36 PM |
| 6 | How come there aren’t as many women into fat guys as there are men into fat women?that's materialism not objectification | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 07:18 PM |
| 3 | How come there aren’t as many women into fat guys as there are men into fat women?women aren't quite as into objectification in general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 07:02 PM |
| 4 | Most college aged women do not want 30+ year old menit's almost like, from puberty onwards, most of us want hot guys around our own age. Amazing, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 05:44 PM |
| – | What actually is a "High Value Male"I feel like categorizing people as "high value" is super lame. Same with rating human beings on a scale of 1-10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Explain the wolf of wall streetI've seen him idolized but I admittedly have little to no experience in the RP space (I'm a woman so...yeah). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Explain the wolf of wall streetI wondered the same thing. Also, people forget that real life people don't look like movie stars. The whole thing was pathetic from wall to wall, no pun intended. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 01:21 AM |
| 1 | No one is telling women to have sex with anyone they don't want to have sex with.you might have a bit of a point here. I was verbally jumped on by other black women once for suggesting that short guys can be hot. Just suggesting it, not saying they should date them (I like short guys sometimes, but that doesn't mean I think everyone else is supposed to or something). anyway, they seemed to think I was telling them to lower their standards (no pun intended) when I was actually trying to make a point about how women are super scared to take up space - we feel like we have to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Why are some people unwilling to admit that they are in competition when dating?if someone "favor"s someone else, they should be with someone else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Why are some people unwilling to admit that they are in competition when dating?I guess I've just been consistently winning without realizing it, then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 03:40 AM |
| 10 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmateYou have a right to give out fake numbers and false hope even when there's zero risk. Freedom of speech and all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 03:34 PM |
| 2 | You can choose from any of the male physiques presented here, which would you say are the most attractive, which would you prefer your long term partner to have and how would you rank them and why?none of the above, I choose my guy because I love him and don't care how skinny, fat or muscular he is as long as he's healthy and happy. He's hot to me no matter what. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Wouldn't it be better for everyone if women initiated and made the first move?ok :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Wouldn't it be better for everyone if women initiated and made the first move?well, you, presumably, seeing as you took the time to type it out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 06:03 PM |
| 1 | How much would you rate yourself out of 10, and why?cis het woman, varies from 2-9 depending on how bad or mild my BDD is that day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Wouldn't it be better for everyone if women initiated and made the first move?protip don't do the self-narration thing. It's not deep, it's cringe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Wouldn't it be better for everyone if women initiated and made the first move?um, who says women don't initiate? and what do you mean "why not change it?" do you think everyone attended some meeting and made a conscious decision that this would be the patriarchal convention from now on, and we just need to call a new meeting? feminists have been trying to change patriarchy. If you want to help, that's awesome. Maybe just shake off a bit more of your oblivion in the meantime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 04:45 PM |
| 6 | The average man is shamed when he has standards. How to make someone understand that this is not cool?You literally posted a question ASKING people to list what's "wrong" about something. Why are you surprised that they told you? You could have asked "What do you like about men who have standards?" "Which standards do you like in a man?" "Which standards are good to see in a man when dating?" etc. Then, you went to twoXchromosomes, a space where women get bad experiences with men off their chests, and you complain that men are cursed there for ending relationships. Why didn't you go to a tradwiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 04:22 AM |
| 3 | The average man is shamed when he has standards. How to make someone understand that this is not cool?"is there any way to make those close to you understand the importance of having non-superficial standards?" why would that be your or anyone's job? people value what they value, it's not your decision unless you're talking about yourself. You can't "make" people do much of anything. It's odd to me to reject someone based on their sexual past if they don't have diseases or patterns of abuse or something you're worried about, but that's just me (and I have a relatively small and uninteresting pas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 04:17 AM |
| 0 | Theres a 'wall' for men as well, the wall of incompetence, where you fall behind in comparison to your peers and men your agethank you for the ongoing laughs, you're amazing :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 07:39 PM |
| -1 | Theres a 'wall' for men as well, the wall of incompetence, where you fall behind in comparison to your peers and men your agestill struggling huh? that sucks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 06:30 PM |
| -2 | Theres a 'wall' for men as well, the wall of incompetence, where you fall behind in comparison to your peers and men your ageI'm sorry you're having trouble with reading comprehension. I would suggest reading a little more slowly, and maybe more than once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 06:08 PM |
| 5 | Theres a 'wall' for men as well, the wall of incompetence, where you fall behind in comparison to your peers and men your agePick one. this is probably causing a lot of problems for you - you don't seem able to handle nuance. It's possible that there are aspects of a wall for some but not all women. It's possible that the same is true for some men. Absolutes like these are unlikely to get you close to an accurate description of reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Theres a 'wall' for men as well, the wall of incompetence, where you fall behind in comparison to your peers and men your ageum, women hit accomplishment walls, not just looks walls. I would know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 04:36 PM |
| 0 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?By being soft and sensitive you are objectively making it less likely to find love and affection from the very same people who tell you to be more soft and sensitive um...source for this broad, absolute generalization? objectively? that's a pretty bold claim lol also, define "soft" and "sensitive" honestly, if you care about being less sensitive, then cry when you want to cry and stop giving a crap what anyone thinks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:34 AM |
| 2 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?maybe it would be helpful to relax a bit and not to be so wrapped up in "masculinity" and "femininity" and have it play a less massive role in your self-concept, if possible. Not everything in life has to be gendered. Sometimes humans cry. It doesn't have to be a massive statement on anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Even “body positive” women have conventional standards when it comes to a man’s looksI have a thing for short guys. Maybe the women in the body positive community that you describe enjoy the role reversal - not having to adhere to narrow beauty standards while dating someone who does. Their partners often seem to enjoy this same reversal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce.ok, are you trying to argue that human men don't show off for mates? I do understand that bright colours, makeup and dancing is more common for men to display in some cultures than others. Are you speaking from a Western pov? I agree that it's odd that there is so much emphasis on female beauty vs male beauty, but I'm willing to bet that male beauty matters/influences mating in even the most puritanical, stuffy, stodgy cultures | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 08:03 PM |
| 0 | Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce.moms can be narcissists too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce.sexual dimorphism varies from species to species though. Humans are not nearly as dimorphic as elephant seals, for example. Lumping all mammals into one category doesn't make a lot of sense here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce."humanity is merely defined by just being the most attractive to the opposite sex in the immediate, not any actual merit" merit according to whom? when has evolution ever had anything whatsoever to do with "merit"? you forgot the survival aspect - reproduction isn't the only requirement. You have to survive long enough in your specific environment to reproduce. If you do that, you are evolutionarily successful, it doesn't matter how "stupid" or "ugly" some salty Reddit guy thinks you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Are most women not sexually attracted to their partners?You're asking us to generalize on literally half of the human population. All I can say for myself is that I've never dated a guy I didn't find sexy and didn't genuinely like as a human being (which means I also found him interesting, funny, exciting, caring, smart, etc.), and that different looks are attractive to different people (within some fairly predictable trends, sure - but there are plenty of exceptions to conventionality, and there's plenty of room for attraction to other things, like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 09:27 PM |
| 8 | How can someone be redpilled and happy ? I seriously doubt these grifters are happy if they believe the garbage they are saying.I imagine that there's a bit of a high with adopting an ideology like theirs, but it likely wears off once the thrill of going around being a spectacular douchebag loses its novelty. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/23 08:57 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Many acts that would get a man labled as "Toxic" are tolerated when women do it.*rolls eyes* guys, imagine if the genders were reversed. then everyone would be arguing about what would happen if the genders were reversed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 07:25 AM |
| 10 | The underlying reason for every single issue being discussed here and the dating arena at large is very simple - men are just way hornier than women. Supply and demand drives every metric in a transactional world.acknowledging this very basic biological fact that predates any social structures would be require them to concede that they have not earned their immense social privilege and lifetime of special treatment through any virtue of their own. I didn't have the patience to read the whole post but should have glanced at the end. So, his argument is that because men are generally hornier than women, women are privileged (wtf?). He also tries to argue that women are not generally in any danger from men.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 08:58 PM |
| 8 | How do you guys feel about the concept of preselection?...social cues matter to social creatures. sorry, I'm not following what the point is supposed to be here | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 05:31 PM |
| 5 | How do you guys feel about the concept of preselection?can't say I personally give a damn either way, but it's probably natural for people to respond to social cues that someone is well-liked or has some kind of impressive social standing. I don't think it's a gender thing, it's more of a social thing, and everyone likely does this in some way. as to service staff treating you better when you're with a lady, it's probably because a date is seen as more important or special than going out with friends. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 04:40 PM |
| 12 | The underlying reason for every single issue being discussed here and the dating arena at large is very simple - men are just way hornier than women. Supply and demand drives every metric in a transactional world.I don't understand the significance of this debate. Like, say men are indeed generally "hornier" than women. Respectfully, so what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 04:20 PM |
| 13 | How do you guys feel about the concept of preselection?I'm not attracted to men who are taken. It's a massive turn-off to me. Life is too short to waste time competing with other women - if he's not sure he wants me, someone else can have him. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 04:13 PM |
| 10 | Men who have left Red Pill, what was the first falsehood you recognized that led to you starting to doubt the rest of their claims?'making sure' he grabs her hand suddenly to rub his dick in public to "push past her 'last minute resistance' (LMR)" so she doesn't have time to think about what he's just done. oh my god!! that's why that creepy dude did that to me on a first date years ago! he kept rushing me around and when he did it (grabbed my hand to "hold" it to get me to run with him for a moment, then brushed it across his crotch really quickly) he immediately distracted me with something else and my brain was like..."d… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/23 11:01 PM |
| 53 | My boyfriend shared a funny video that i didn't find funnyit's not funny. I admittedly smiled slightly at the "*cough* I can't do this no more" line because it was well-delivered, but it's a lame set of jokes. i'm sure there's shallow truth to it for many people, but yeah i'd wonder why my guy went out of his way to show it to me. I'm pretty straightforward when I'm uncomfortable and would just ask whether there's something I should be worried about or something I should know. I'd tell the truth and say it made me feel shitty. your feelings matter and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 06:49 AM |
| 20 | Is it just me, or is OLD getting even worse?it's also people getting comfortable with last-minute horseshit because texting makes it easier to be a flaky coward. I miss the days when people could make plans ahead, and not cancel unless something serious came up. respect peoples' time ffs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 04:29 AM |
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