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DATING ADVICEnanamanana555/r/RedPillWomen30/08/17 08:11 PM
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Girl WHAT. He has a porn addiction. Dump him.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/20 09:28 AM
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It sounds like you already talked to him, right? And he basically said it’s no big deal, you just have to ask them first? If this is something that important to you, it’s a dealbreaker. Otherwise you have to give up your need to have you and your husband as sole authority. Because if you decide to permanently move in, you already know what it will be like...your boyfriend confirmed it...so you have to get over needing that, or you will resent him and them. If everything else is great between you…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/20 05:51 AM
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Exactly. Raise your standards. You have a high value career, your man should be similarly high value career. Sorry but “respectable” isn’t enough for you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 06:27 AM
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If he doesn’t seem interested, he’s not. Drop him. You shouldn’t have to “do” anything to keep his attention, except be yourself. If yourself needs some improvements now is the time. Focus on improving yourself and don’t waste your time trying to get another persons attention.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/20 01:38 AM
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-But I think it's incredibly important to be able to ask a million questions about a subject and have someone who is actually educated on the topic give you an accurate and thorough answer.- Lol this doesn't happen at majority of public schools or private religious based schools either so....no idea about non-denominational private school though.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/19 05:15 PM
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Looks aren’t the number 1 reason you get and keep a man. They open doors perhaps, and it definitely is important to look your best, but it’s not the most important thing to any quality man. I think you have some false underlying assumptions about the way men truly think, you are over simplifying it at minimum. This is contributing to your insecurity.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/19 12:01 PM
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Just read this comment that you wrote yourself when you are feeling insecure. You already have the answers.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/19 11:56 AM
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The same way you learn anything in life, by taking in information about it (books, YouTube, a class) and applying that information to a lot of practice :) at least you can practice whenever you want on yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/19 12:30 AM
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Everyone here gave great advice, I wanted to add two things: find a style icon that’s similar to your body type and start with buying a few similar pieces or outfits and work from there; I’m tall and there are lots of men who at least appreciate it and/or love it. I still feel awkward sometimes. Dressing to make me feel super confident helps me with that. I wear heels a lot and I am taller than my man by a little bit when I do. It doesn’t really bother me in the big picture, but if it does at al…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/19 12:23 AM
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This is a great response, the only thing I have to say is black is totally feminine! 90% of my clothes and lingerie are black. I dress pretty girly and I work in a makeup store. As long as you focus on fit and style, the color doesn’t matter for being feminine, as long as its flattering. Now I have had several boyfriends suggest I wear more color as a variety thing so i don’t recommend you move exclusively to black lol just that you can incorporate it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/19 12:17 AM
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Nah, you just didn’t vet him. If you just “let things go where they may” in respect to vetting, you end up in situations like this.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/19 12:01 AM
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“I just don't know how to find a middle ground and not be a doormat but still be feminine and caring and desirable” There is no middle ground to find, because these ae not on opposite ends of some spectrum, one end being feminine and the other end being standing up for yourself. Nope-Not letting someone treat you like a doormat has nothing to do with being feminine or caring. However, letting people treat you like shit actually makes you less desireable to good men. So remove those associations …
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/19 11:56 PM
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You already know the answer because you made this post. Stay true to yourself no matter what. That’s more important than just finding any old captain.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/19 06:25 PM
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More women on the sub need to learn how to actually vet and date at the same time without taking stuff like this personally, as well as understanding when something is disrespectful or not. In fact you can date in a way that inherently vets at the same time, without coming off as a prude. it’s more about truly understanding both male psychology and how he sees things, as well your own psychology. Read one of GL Lambert’s books. He’s not “perfect” red pill according to this sub but he gives a lot…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/19 06:22 PM
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This is great advice!
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/19 04:27 PM
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To add onto the first paragraph: You do not need a career to find a man. You DO need to have a “purpose.” -which could be literally anything, including taking care of your household... It’s not attractive to either gender to be floating through life with nothing you really care about or are working passionately on. You don’t need a career to find a man. You may need a career to feel personally fulfilled. Don’t get these confused. You don’t need to do certain things to get a man but you may still…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/19 04:26 PM
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Part of why is been hard is because you are only 18. You will be in so many more situations where you can find friends who disagree with you on certain things but are still respectful, as well as friends that agree with you on certain things. Especially starting university. Don’t be quick to dismiss someone if they disagree with you (depending on the issue of course) but rather see how they handle it. Maybe work on your own handlings of disagreements as well. You will find your tribe! Don’t worr…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/19 04:16 PM
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I think it's a mixture of refusing to meet in the middle, as are most things like this. It's really difficult for people to see the other person's side and account for it in their own actions. But I mean, that's a really simplified explanation, and it means different things for men and women. *edit: clarification.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 03:09 PM
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A lot of posture issues are due to tight muscles (that come from sitting with bad posture for so long/bad movement habits) which make changing after a number of years difficult. it's not just a "bad habit" at that point, it may be impossible to maintain good posture without doing stretching and massage work. Do you sit in a chair for work? How long each day? there are specific exercises and stretches for office chair shoulders. If that's not your issue, you can try to narrow down the body part t…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/18 08:21 PM
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Many men get emotional for "weird" reasons or reasons women don't understand. It just manifests differently than women's emotional times.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/18 02:24 AM
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Exactly!!! I actually agree with the comment because I think it's important to be independent, especially financially as implied. But I can still fully appreciate the value my SO or any relationship provides. It's not like those are the opposite of each other.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 06:29 PM
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Lol this whole list is Dwight Shrute. Can the mods remove trolling comments?
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/17 04:44 PM
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Men I know say it's not easy for men to get laid, but it is easy for women to get laid. Not sure if that's true but that's what I hear from every man I've discussed that with. I always thought their perception was maybe off but I'm honestly not sure.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/17 06:58 AM
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I think the whole point of the post is how quality male partners lead and support their woman and family (correct me if I'm wrong on any of this OP) in situations that the woman is already doing what she needs to, so what she can expect from her partner. Speaking personally, this post was much needed perspective about how you should expect to be treated...if you are also pulling your weight as the woman partner, as OP mentioned basically in every other sentence in the post. It's actionable in th…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/17 04:24 PM
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Thanks. I'll definitely consider it.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/17 09:07 PM
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Gotcha. I would say "unstable" for sure. Stressful and confusing doesn't even begin to describe it...
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/17 09:05 PM
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The whole problem that the red pill addresses is that women are not attracted to virtuous, hardworking, faithful men by nature. Is that....true? I thought that betas OR alphas could be virtuous, hardworking, and faithful...but it's other factors such as assertiveness, success/money, and leadership qualities that attract women or not, which is the red pill discussion? Maybe I'm looking at this all wrong...
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/17 07:43 PM
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Thanks for your thoughts. It's weird, because clearly from my actions I do perceive the wrong characteristics as strength and leadership...but in my brain, I know logically your definition of a leader and agree with it... Now to reconcile the two...
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/17 07:37 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean by equating "unpredictable" with "unstable"...maybe you could clarify and I can answer. Thanks for the rest of your reply. The last part in particular-I want to be at a point where being unable to deal with emotion is a turnoff.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/17 07:35 PM
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Both my LTR were "confident" guys, who didn't have much to back it up actually....so this makes sense to me. Thanks to your dad haha
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/17 07:34 PM
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Thanks for replying. I mean both serious and non-serious relationships. For serious relationships, I've been in 2 LTR over the past 10 years, and engaged to both of them (I know, I know) and lived with them, and I don't think that I was treated right in either situation...one was physically controlling of me and the other mentally, but I see similar dynamics in each of them. This is not to talk shit, I do care a lot for them both, but I just wasn't being treated the way I wanted. They both are o…
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/17 07:31 PM
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Thank you so much for the specific list of things to do. Many have been advising to stop dating for a while and I think that's a good idea... Being broken and hurt and inflicting it outward is a force multiplier. this is so true. I don't want to hurt myself or others anymore, which is why I am beginning to work on this..
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/17 07:14 PM
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"party alpha" vs. "family alpha" really makes sense to me, especially in terms of a guy wanting to commit to me, and also in terms of when I've been in LRT and he isn't treating me with respect... I know for sure I am guarded, so that does not help. Something I need to work on and have been called out in the past for. If you have any specific advice, it would be appreciated....I definitely have a hard time being open. Thank you for replying. Edit: words are hard.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/17 07:10 PM
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No one is a dream come true always and forever. "A dream come true" feeling should be in you,and all else will fall into place. Love this. Thank you for your reply. Sometimes I overthink things so it was some much needed perspective. Edit: formatting. i'm new to posting haha
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/17 07:07 PM
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Thanks, I've done some reading. I get that ideally for LTR, it's a mix of traits. It's just finding that right mix of course, which is where my vetting skills would come in...
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/17 07:05 PM
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Thanks for your reply. The "abuse/controlling behavior comes from fear/insecurity" really resonates with me. There definitely is some internal issues that let me gravitate toward the same men. I wouldn't say "abusive" for all of them, but most guys I've dated seriously or casually that would commit, were on a scale ranging from slightly controlling/demanding and extremely so. I guess I'm just not sure how to unpack these issues. However, going into monk mode seems like a good idea right now.....
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/17 07:04 PM
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