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| 1 | Most young women are used to getting pumped and dumped by fuckboys. Thats why you aren't getting laidIf you're pretending just to get laid, just hire a prostitute. | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 07:45 PM |
| 2 | I'm getting tired of this and that's why I'm asking for help...You need to start from the bottom. Make normal friends with normal people and gain confidence in yourself. | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 04:49 PM |
| 2 | "Be authentic" is terrible adviceEvery post here is from a guy talking about how he's been working on himself, how handsome he thinks he is, and basically trying to be his best self. If it doesn't work for him, then it's probably his personality or how he talks to the girl. Why would a girl want to be with someone so depressed? With someone with no life? This is what people talk about when they say you should work on yourself. Seek therapy. Be happy. Be the guy that girls would want to spend time with. | /r/seduction | 09/10/23 04:25 PM |
| 1 | "Be authentic" is terrible advicePersonas are fake. Fakeness is not good. You just need to achieve your best self beause this ain't it. Why would any girl find this attractive? | /r/seduction | 09/10/23 07:50 AM |
| 3 | Still struggling to submit after a month of workWhat's more important, following your husband or your daughters? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/23 02:18 AM |
| 3 | Most platonic friendships are where the man is the giver & woman the recipientYou know this based on what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Can’t tell if the girl who works front desk at my gym is interested or notShe's the receptionist. It's her job to not ignore you. | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 12:02 PM |
| 0 | Should you gay it up/metrosexual to hang out with girls and their boyfriends?You want to know if you dress a certain way and hanging out with your friends and their boyfriends will help you sleep with your friend? Also, this belongs in /r/ihavesex | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Question about a date I just had todayIf she could've spared 3 minutes, you might've had a chance, but I guess she couldn't. | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Question about a date I just had todayIf she's passing through, why would she develop interest during a layover? Think about what happened. You meet a girl passing through you ask her out for coffee, she says she has to get back to her hotel then said she was uncomfortable with you knowing where she was staying when you asked to walk her back, and THEN you ask her to come to your place for drinks, but she declined. She clearly didn't have an empty schedule. Next time, find out how much time someone has while they're visiting. | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 04:23 PM |
| 5 | Question about a date I just had todayNo, not weird. Just a simple hangout with a local. Not everyone has the same expectations as you and it would be smart to not expect anything right out of the gate with people that're guaranteed to leave the next day. | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 02:27 PM |
| 1 | What to say when a woman mentions her weight or wanting to lose weightI think it's only natural to reply to a comment about one's self, especially an innocuous reply like "I like how you look." But this fits in with all of the overthinking I see in this sub. | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Questions you always ask someone you’re starting to know, and what do their answers typically say about them?What was your sample size? | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 09:37 AM |
| 2 | Question about a date I just had todayHere you are, making all of this effort with banter, flirting, etc. that asked her if she wanted to go home with you, and here she is, a young, female solo traveler quickly passing through. Your goals were far from equal and it was bound to go nowhere. | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Women give nonverbal interest, then fail to respond to approachTry to see it from her perspective. She's looking around and some guy walks over and chats her up. The reason nothing happened is because she wasn't interested and any interest you thought she had was likely all in your head. | /r/seduction | 11/10/22 10:27 PM |
| 7 | Telling women they're hot on dating apps or irl?Try something else. Do you know how often girls are told they're hot? Probably more than they care to hear. | /r/seduction | 11/10/22 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Seems like dating apps might not be the best hookup strategyUnless they're all lesbians, wouldn't it be even? Both men and women hooking up with each other? | /r/seduction | 11/10/22 03:09 AM |
| 3 | Way to get laid as a TAIs there though? It's hard to tell what people are thinking. | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 06:06 AM |
| 12 | Way to get laid as a TAYeah, the baddies go crazy for calculus status. | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 05:14 AM |
| 2 | It’s not to do with looks, it’s how you feel about yourselfAttraction = attractive = personality as well as looks, but what's attractive depends on each person. | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 05:13 AM |
| 1 | My theory on attracting a woman at the gymThat's if she's looking for a guy at the gym, and what are the odds that she is? | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 10:07 PM |
| 2 | How to respond when she qualifies you?She... qualified you? I don't know what that means, but it appears she likes cats. I like cats so I would tell her I do and that would give us something to talk about. | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 09:15 PM |
| 25 | trying this sub at a recommendation, really need help 29mForget all of the advice you're getting here about reading dumb books and instead think about why you feel you're worthless and unlovable, and start there. You're clearly not happy with yourself and that's the first thing that should come first: your happiness. | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Is it ok to call a girl out on her bs?He can do the same, so I guess it's a stalemate. | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Is it ok to call a girl out on her bs?And if she's thinking the same thing? He's not texting so might as well end it. Just be normal and text when you want to. | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | 7 tips on how you can confidently approach group of girls!So you find a group of girls, assume there's a leader, dodge nonstop shit tests, and with their blessing, isolate the leader from the group after ignoring her? Very predator/prey. Why not befriend all of them? | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Shit test about my birthday, what do?You're too attached to texting. I think texting should be encouraged, but it should be treated as an in person casual conversation. Four days in you were hoping to get a "happy birthday" from a girl that was probably busy or distracted. Not everything a girl does or doesn't do is a shit test. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Single moms are terrible at raising kids. We need to stop this culture of idolizing single moms and demonizing fathers.Yes, we know. You hate women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Shit tests - what are they? When are they being asked? And how do you pass?Any normal person vets their dates by asking questions, not eating off their plates. If they do, they're probably playing games. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 03:02 PM |
| 5 | Young women encourage toxic masculinityThis is just a long winded way to say that girls always go for bad boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 01:57 PM |
| -16 | Shit tests - what are they? When are they being asked? And how do you pass?That's called being dishonest. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 01:22 PM |
| 3 | Shit tests - what are they? When are they being asked? And how do you pass?A girl taking a piece of food off your plate, that's a shit test. Girl playfully making fun of your hobby, that's a shit test. People have been known to share food on dates, and aren't guys around here always telling other guys to playfully tease their date? How is that any different than a girl doing it? | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 01:13 PM |
| 8 | Shit tests - what are they? When are they being asked? And how do you pass?Shit tests sound like something pickup artists made up to make them feel like they have the upper hand. She told me she's mad? Shit test. She asked me to buy her a drink? Shit test. We're not going to have sex? We'll see about that. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Feeling like I've hit a wallShe's probably swamped with DMs from guys all telling her she's hot. I don't think girls are looking for love through instagram, especially not relationship material girls. It just seems like you're putting a lot of effort into meeting people with instagram when probably 99% of people on there aren't. Maybe try dating apps? | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Feeling like I've hit a wallIt seems like the girls that spend time at bars and clubs that like giving out their instagram have a certain type of personality. What kind of girl are you hoping to find? And seeing how easy it is to ignore an instagram dm, this is a no win situation for you, but at least she has one more follower. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Why should I improve myself to become more attractive to women if so many guys are able to attract women above their leagues?Because if you look good, you feel good. You don't do it for them, you do it for you and sooner or later, someone will eventually find you attractive. | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 11:02 PM |
| 5 | I’m only good one on one, so besides dating apps, how can I make this work for me?I'm not surprised, seeing as you call them foids. | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 09:28 AM |
| 60 | LPT: Most of society is completely against your seduction goals.99% of people don't care about you, let alone know who you are. | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 05:06 AM |
| 1 | If having hobbies makes you attractive to women, why isn’t attractive if a guy is into video games and Reddit as opposed to more traditional hobbies?Unless you meet someone that likes video games and reddit/the internet as much as you, I feel they're both seen as nerdy and lazy by a lot of people. I don't think girls will brag to her friends and family about your favorite subreddits. | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 11:32 AM |
| 7 | How to get girls at college without playing sports?I really can't make you unafraid, that's on you. If you're having trouble, visit the school counselors. | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 04:15 AM |
| 1 | The genius of cold approach (and why dating apps and social media will destroy humanity)A lot of people might think using apps are easier because almost everyone has the same intentions of finding something. But you do you if it works. | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 04:14 AM |
| 2 | How to get girls at college without playing sports?Talk to classmates? Hang out with your friends and their friends? Join a school club? | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 02:49 AM |
| 5 | How to get girls at college without playing sports?If it's difficult for you to talk to new people, you need to try to make friends first. How can you expect to meet girls if you can't talk to new people? And also, drop the whole "sports only" attitude. Not every girl only goes for jocks, if that's what you're thinking. | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 02:47 AM |
| 3 | The genius of cold approach (and why dating apps and social media will destroy humanity)Cold approaching isn't going to change the world like you think it is. But hey, you can think whatever you want to if it makes interacting with women easier for you. Fight the system. | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 02:40 AM |
| 2 | One of the most powerful mindsets in attraction is adopting the authentic belief that you’re more interesting than other guysHow are these supposed to manifest into attraction? Do you tell girls about all of your hardships and all the times you had to become the leader? As someone that doesn't think of himself at all, this all seems overly complicated when a lot of other things can attract much easier. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Is FT in between dates a bad idea?Do whatever you want. If you want to see her but can't meet with her, chat for a little bit. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Best ways to turn casual conversation over text into flirting?Or she'll find it annoying that someone she doesn't know is making fun of her and ignore him. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 11:36 PM |
| 2 | I hate my brother because of his successI don't need to read all of that to say the only thing you need is therapy. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Is casual sex a realistic goal for an AFC?I see you have a playbook stuck in your head, talking about kino, looks, gigachads, and out of your league fwb, so try ignoring it. See them as possible friends/people and not something you need to lie to just to sleep with them. Who knows how much pressure this adds before you even talk to them? And have you tried elsewhere? Certain places like gyms and clubs definitely attract certain types of people with different interests or goals in life. I feel you're here because you've read that this is… | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 09:43 PM |
| 0 | Is casual sex a realistic goal for an AFC?Tactic? Yes, improve yourself and get rid of this mindset. How do you approach this without being toxic? Maybe you're not great at conversation, or you misread things, or maybe you're just going for the wrong girls. This is definitely no way to navigate dating, so you're better of changing while you still can. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Is casual sex a realistic goal for an AFC?This is toxic. You don't deserve anything if you continue this mindset. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 08:40 PM |
| 2 | People act like employees don’t notice attractive customers. “They’re just being nice!” It’s a dumb thought right?Sounds like wishful thinking. If they do, they probably keep it to themselves because they're there to help people that need help. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 05:44 AM |
| 1 | 36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner.I wouldn't be surprised that everyone hostile because this post goes against every strategy they ever had about where to talk to girls. | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | How can deep rooted beliefs that inspires others be used to build attraction?"We need to recycle more to save the planet. Please sleep with me." Beliefs shape us who we are intellectually and morally. They aren't flashy colors to attract a mate. Do you know what is attractive? Simply believing in things you genuinely believe in with conviction. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 06:55 AM |
| 1 | How do I spit game to a random girl?I'm curious how long you imagine this takes. A single conversation or is this taking place over days? It might not be as easy as 1, 2, 3. It could take weeks if she's even interested, so I wouldn't have high expectations of anything sudden if I were you. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 07:52 AM |
| 1 | did I fucked up or still there hopes?You're young, so now you know what not to do. You should try easing into it. Coffee, then next time hang out. Don't go straight to dinner immediately. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Asking a girl’s friends about her, to get her attention.With limited time together and zero contact, what makes you think she has a crush on you based solely on how she stares at you? And what about what you would ask would indicate that you like her? As far as they know, you're the random guy that wants to know where she is for whatever reason. What if they have no idea? Then what? | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Girl holding eye contact for over 3 seconds is better or worse than a girl who looks at you and then looks down??And then there's option 3: it's just staring and means nothing | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 08:36 PM |
| 4 | Do you think flirting forces attraction in a girl?You need initial attraction to be able to build on it. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 08:12 PM |
| 5 | Does mutual grief bring girls to bed?Imagine how girls would react if you told them the truth. "I'm only talking about your dead grandfather because I want to have sex with you. I couldn't care less about how it makes you feel." You are an emotionally abusive asshole. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 08:00 PM |
| 3 | How do I prevent myself from becoming the texting buddy of my dateYou don't want to feed into her interest? You only had one date so you aren't spending time together everyday, so this is all of the communication you have in between dates. Either talk to her or tell her texting is only for planning and nothing else. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 07:54 PM |
| 2 | I love him so much but...You should always avoid anyone with serious red flags. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 12:20 AM |
| 1 | I feel so hopeless.. Any recommendations?Do you know what's unattractive? Desperation. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 10:54 AM |
| 1 | How can I learn to talk to women?Forget about seducing and focus on just talking with them because there's no point in jumping in immediately when you don't know the basics of communication. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 10:14 AM |
| 2 | Survival is never prettyNo, not really. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Confidence isn’t necessarily attractive. It’s confidence combined with masculine/dominant energy.Forget about every detail about your face and your voice, it would be easier to just be confident and comfortable with yourself. If you're thinking about every detail, you aren't confident in yourself. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 04:23 AM |
| 3 | The Gay PlayGuys, can't get the girl? Pretend to be gay! | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 08:32 PM |
| 7 | Why do some women tend to post IG stories of them at a fancy place or restaurant but don’t show the guy they’re with? Just something I was curious about.Incel vibes here. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Pretty girl looking for r/roastme attention, not just denied but shredded and set fire to afterwards..Roast are usually funny. This is some deep seated loathing for women. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/03/22 07:35 AM |
| 2 | What male privilege looks like in UkraineMen become strong warriors and leaders, while women stay home and protect the family. That's the reason why Ukraine is being invaded in the first place, and why innocent men are being killed. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/22 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Inner Game aka High Status Male BeliefsDo you use your thesaurus to also decide what to talk about? | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Gender Studies CareerAs if we already don't have people with shitty ideology. I say we should keep gender studies so that those that want to can use it to feel superior whenever talking about how pointless it is. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/04/21 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Build a sexual vibe by showing the exampleIf you pay attention to the online dating community, a lot of girls hate how men bring it upon themselves to turn the conversation sexual. | /r/seduction | 20/12/20 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Update on the cashier who's number I got... interesting day.Congratulations on finding yourself a cheater. I can't imagine it would've been that difficult for anyone else to do what you did. | /r/seduction | 16/11/20 02:38 AM |
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