naosoucalvoprometo Archive

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2	I’m confident talking to women. I just need a “conversation, escalation and maintenance framework” to follow. I would say just be open about your interest, then over time you'll learn to display it in more subtle manners. Think of it like dancing tango, the man is the one who conducts, not the other way around. You're interested and there's nothing wrong with that, at least not in your head. If you're overthinking ways of it going wrong, shut those thoughts down. Its just fear, just pressure, power through it. Im not saying you wont feel them, but accept them as part of the game. Better yet, treat them …	/r/seduction	28/07/26 06:59 PM
8	Your Go To Ways To Get A Woman To Come Over After Meeting A girl I was with said she was thirsty I told her I had water at my place. If both of you are in the mood, theres no reason to overhink it	/r/seduction	23/07/26 05:35 PM
1	Is giving business card during a speed dating weird? No, I think it's appropriate	/r/seduction	21/07/26 09:19 AM
7	Good openers for Latina cleaner at work? Start by saying hi and being polite. Latinos take good manners very seriously, we can hate someone and still feel its important to treat them with respect, which can be confusing for other people. Then build up from there.	/r/seduction	14/07/26 02:23 PM
12	If i am talking to tall girls and if taller guys approach the same group and set, should i leave? Because clearly, women prefer taller guys and i think, i become a block between them. I feel girls might be upset with me because of that. They just don't show it on their face. why are you looking for excuses to leave?	/r/seduction	30/06/26 12:09 PM
1	I’m having a problem Looks are invitations, from that saying Hi, Im X, you? Is totally fine and something light which doesnt stress you out. From that keep the conversation going	/r/seduction	25/06/26 02:09 PM
5	How can women get laid without having a social circle or dating apps presence? First, solve your lack of a social circle. Go out, meet some people and see where that takes you. Dont be eager to get a guy every night you're out, as you've said, it can be dangerous. I got a divorce right after moving to a new city where I knew basically nobody, and everyone I knew was a friend to my ex. It can seem overwhelming, but theres a lot of people open for new friendships, plus people respect anyone who goes out by themselves.	/r/seduction	30/05/26 05:34 PM
1	The casual sex marketplace they will, the top option is not always available. If you go to a club and a lot of couples are hooking up, clearly they are not stressing themselves with picking the top option, they are ok with any guy who is fun enough	/r/seduction	29/04/26 08:42 PM
35	The casual sex marketplace >In fact, most women actually raise their standards for casual sex I dont feel that to be true. They do however, want to have fun. They wont fuck just for the fuck of it. You dont need to be perfect to get casual sex, just show her that you can give her a good time	/r/seduction	29/04/26 03:27 PM
1	Need help to get a girlfriend Trial and error my friend. You've probably read that you have to be yourself. And nobody can do that to you. Being unafraid of being yourself gives you points, and some girls will fall for you. Just focus on talking to them, seeing where that goes and understand that rejections will help you tune your game. Its a game, have fun, indepently if you win or lose	/r/seduction	21/04/26 02:50 PM
1	Need help to get a girlfriend thats ok. Woman actively pursue men much less than the opposite, and even if they do, they do it in a much less obvious way. But having friends who are girls will open the door for meeting other girls. If you respect the friendship and dont cross barriers, they will keep that door open	/r/seduction	21/04/26 02:40 PM
1	Need help to get a girlfriend get friends, bonus points if they are girls	/r/seduction	20/04/26 11:46 AM
2	Cold approaches are one of the healthiest things men can do. now that Im thinking about it, thats a great attitude	/r/seduction	20/04/26 11:45 AM
8	The loser mindset of "I don't know what to do / say" The problem with excessive rehearsal is that dealing with these moments depends a lot on what is being said and who she is. Its really a case per case approach.	/r/seduction	18/04/26 02:22 PM
4	Eye contact but poor replies on text? she has a BF, forget it	/r/seduction	17/04/26 10:23 AM
1	20,000 cold approaches - AMA How did your flirting game changed over time?	/r/seduction	13/04/26 08:55 PM
1	20,000 cold approaches - AMA Obv this depends on how and where you've met them but what are your tells you trust in order to take it to the next step or just move on?	/r/seduction	13/04/26 06:33 PM
2	Do I kill my feelings of getting attached quickly or turn stone cold? getting attached quickly is not healthy, but it doesnt mean you should do the opposite; take your time before attaching yourself, understanding that the emotions you're feeling can be very enjoyable but are still just that, feelings. By moving too fast you can ignore possible red flags and put unnecessary burden on the other person. Just enjoy your time with them, see how it evolves and if it's worth taking bigger steps.	/r/seduction	28/03/26 08:18 PM
17	How to develop chill, low-key confidence and charisma, when repetition doesn't work? One thought which has helped me not getting overwhelmed by dealing with women is not mixing who they are with how they make me feel. What do I mean by that? Women get us aroused, excited, in love, horny, whatever, but thats on us, thats OUR attraction towards them. That doesnt mean they are necessarily great people or better than anyone. As they say, dont put them on a pedestal. By understanding the difference, I feel I can talk to them as equals and even show how they make me feel without treat…	/r/seduction	22/03/26 06:21 PM
8	Seek out more rejection! Dude, dating apps suck. Huge competition, wrong environment, impossible to read the other person cues. Dont beat yourself up, its much easier in social spaces	/r/seduction	18/03/26 07:40 PM
4	Seek out more rejection! Im recently divorced and I couldnt agree more. Every rejection I get I feel my game changes. I've never been as sociable as I am now, meanwhile I feel completely ok to just be by myself and I wont lower my standards just to get a girl who doesnt get me truly excited. Abundance doesnt mean hooking with dozens of girls, for me it means being glad of having what you have, and that cant be forced	/r/seduction	18/03/26 07:31 PM
1	Do I hookup with this girl Ive known and been close with for the past three years even though she has a bf, or no? No, shes doing that to get an ego boost. I bet if you start answering her messages she might start ignoring you. Plus you dont want to date a girl like her, thats such a trashy attitude shes having	/r/seduction	10/03/26 06:02 PM
9	The “Bad Boy” Wins… But Why? Exactly. The nice guy is also toxic, to be fair he doesnt realize it (and most toxic attitudes come from ignorance, not because everyone is narcisistic or sociopathic). But someone who does everything for the other, tries to say all the right things, etc... is being manipulative.	/r/seduction	20/02/26 08:18 PM
50	The “Bad Boy” Wins… But Why? Honestly, I dont want to be a more toxic man. I've had toxic relationships, I've been fooled, manipulated, and when I was told I had been toxic to someone, I felt very ashamed. I refuse to act like that with other people. If being toxic is what going to attract a certain woman, I dont want her	/r/seduction	20/02/26 01:30 PM
3	Pulled last night but keep thinking about the rejections Maybe she was ok with it. Some girls just want the same thing	/r/seduction	01/02/26 01:25 PM