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| 1 | Should I seek out better friends? | nappy_poontang | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 10:29 PM |
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| 8 | A man must be less prone to being lonelyTrengod posted recently about being in unknown social situations and something he mentioned carries a very similar lesson to what you’re saying. He said that when he decided to stop talking, to embrace the uncomfortable silence, to watch the betas and women feel the NEED to break the silence, was when he realized that he himself didn’t need to do so, and social situations became more natural. Going into the realm of experiencing without. Realizing the lack of necessity of these things (without s… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/18 10:01 PM |
| 1 | To stop masturbating you need to understand the energy.What text is the q and a from? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/18 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill Data Diaries #1: Which US states have the fittest (and fattest) women?It’s obvious you don’t understand 2 things: simple statistics and the phrase “quit while you’re ahead.” | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/18 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Data Diaries #1: Which US states have the fittest (and fattest) women?Data is going to be largely skewed. Fit women don’t use these websites, only the fattys that think they want to give up their sugar. This is like walking into a homeless shelter and asking who has done heroine and then using that sample to make conclusions about the us population. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/18 12:25 PM |
| 21 | My God... It's Full Of... Kittens.TRP is rather unique in that it advises persons that study it to actually go out in the real world to see for themselves. We don’t just advise it, we encourage it. We demand it. A lot of other theories would go to dust if they sent their users to the front lines to test theories. We, on the other hand, have countless men come back and scream the words “Holy shit, you’re right, it works.” This is a pretty big notch against being an echo chamber. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/18 01:01 PM |
| 1 | [META] [RANT] Tired With This Place. What Real Manhood is about.The greatest thing a man can do with his power is to share it. Mentoring others is the highest of responsibilities for a real man. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 04:53 AM |
| 13 | Focus on the missionJesus, the Jocko podcast I listened to this morning was very related to your lesson. In order to be successful, or rather to complete a mission, you need two things: 1) A clearly defined objective and 2) an aggressive pursuit of that objective. The clearly defined objective is related to motivation and discipline. You can be the most disciplined motherfucker in existence, but if you don’t have motivation (a reason for your actions) you will spin wheels. This also allows you to identify with your… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Is there a "red pill" sub about other "lies" of society? Not just sexual strategy?I mean in all honesty the things you are requesting are pretty much common sense for anyone that has left their basement and pays attention to their surroundings and talks to people of value. But I guess: /r/PersonalFinance /r/soicism /r/getdisciplined/ | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Which self improvement tips give the best/fastest results?Feeling Good by Burns is much cheaper than a shrink and will tell you everything you need to k ow | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Which self improvement tips give the best/fastest results?The thing that had an immediate and profound impact on everything was telling the self doubting voice in my head to eat a fat dick. What’s known as cbt. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 12:31 AM |
| 2 | I’ve decided to full commit to self investment...just one questionThe word you’re looking for is discipline. I don’t know if you’re into stoicism but the last two days of the Daily Stoic were related to habits and actions. “We are what we repeatedly do. Therefore, excellence is not an act but a habit.” -Aristotle Regularly think of the person you want to become. Then survey your actions over the past week or days. Are they the actions that person would take? “Those obsessed with glory attach their well being to the regard of others, those who love pleasure tie… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 12:28 AM |
| 1 | How to not be a pussy?In one of Jockos first podcast he brought up a few questions like this. He said people email him all the time asking “how can I eat right?” “How can I workout regularly?” “How can I get up early?” He said, it’s easy. If you want to workout. Then workout. If you want to get up early. Then get up early. If you want to eat right, then just eat right. If you want to stop being a pussy, then stop being a pussy. You have 100% control over this. What matters more? The pain from squats or the gains? Pic… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 12:18 AM |
| 2 | How do I kill that voice in my head that says I can't be with a woman?Both. The book taught me how to use the thing that brought the change. That’s like asking what changed your life? Losing weight or the diet you used? Getting that job or graduating from college? Retiring early or the money you saved? One is the work, the other the results. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 02:18 PM |
| 1 | How do I kill that voice in my head that says I can't be with a woman?Read “Feeling Good” by Dr David Burns. It is a layman’s explanation to CBT. CBT is the best counter to negative thoughts. It changed my life. I do not say that lightly. Only one other thing had an equally profound impact on my thought process and that was 4 years in the Army. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Weight lossThere’s an faq. Tells you everything you need to know. Stop being lazy. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 03:14 AM |
| 1 | I get very defensive & lose frame when I get shit tested by my parents because they bring up old stuff I did 10 years ago like I did it yesterday, & I still do that, even though I learned from these mistakes the first time - how to stop this pattern?I don’t talk to my parents or my sister. They’re fucking toxic and have nothing but a negative influence on me. If I want a family I’ll start my own. The term is called Transitional Character. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Blue pill man loses wife to red pill 16 yo.The big question is will she have to register as a sex offender | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 11:38 PM |
| 5 | How do I not cum in 2 minutes?Kegals Breathe from your stomach when fucking, not your chest. Relaxes you Masturbate before you meet up Think of other shit during Buy thicker condoms Stop and eat her out Make her orgasm with your hands and mouth before you even touch her with your dick | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 10:05 PM |
| 4 | Save a budCouldn’t agree with this more. This sub, TRP, the mods, and the ECs have done more than any other thing or person to improve my life in so many aspects. But outside people are misguided and will call us misinformed things like misogynists when in reality we’re not here to hate anyone, we’re just trying to be happy and play the game of life as it’s meant to be played. Just the same as the media recently lumped us with the incels, people will jump to conclusions and be scared of things they don’t … | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 10:00 PM |
| 5 | Does screaming put others in your frame?This is not 4chan | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 04:29 PM |
| 9 | askTRP Megathread May 09If you go to the description of the book you linked, the last sentence is “This edition has been abridged into one volume at the author's wish and with his full co-operation.” | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/18 10:44 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread May 09I just started the Jocko podcast with Peterson where they talk about this and Ordinary Men. Put both on my wish list. Did you get the condensed abridged version or the separate books? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/18 10:16 PM |
| 11 | askTRP Megathread May 09Great fucking question. This should be asked every week. 7 habits | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/18 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Hobbies and activities that increase SMVDo what you want to do. Women love passion and mastery. You will develop these things if you choose what YOU want to do, not strangers on the internet. Just don’t play Warcraft or collect my little pony and you’ll be fine. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 07:33 PM |
| 6 | Helping beta friendI can tell you that every single time I tried to present the information here to a friend to help them become happier, it turned out negatively. Even after they saw the dramatic improvements in my life, they still rejected the truth and used that information to gain favor with the women “they have to buy purses for.” I will never do it again. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Book recommendation on team leading?I read this years ago, and though it was a great book, what in it helps with leadership? | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 08:52 PM |
| 5 | Is it true that getting rid of my belly fat will increase my SMV?Lol I didn’t even read his whole post and then saw this reply and had a good chuckle. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Book recommendation on team leading?Like /u/elcarlosmiguel said, Extreme Ownership. The tried and true “bible” for getting people to do what you want is How to Win Friends and Influence People. It has stood the test of time and if you use the principles correctly you will get results. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: if rp men were born women, do you think they would they hate men for their nature?See /u/triadis3 ‘s response to your copy/paste response. I agree with his analogy of student/teacher, you will get the best representation of RP knowledge from him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: if rp men were born women, do you think they would they hate men for their nature?Allusion: əˈlo͞oZHən Noun an expression designed to call something to mind without mentioning it explicitly; an indirect or passing reference. "an allusion to Shakespeare" synonyms: reference to, mention of, suggestion of, hint to, intimation of, comment on, remark on "the town's name is an allusion to its founding family" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Plate acted weird once I talked about hitting the gym and getting a 6 pack.Thank you | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 03:12 AM |
| 3 | What's the first thing to say when approaching a new woman?My favorite: I don’t remember where I read it but it works for me. “Hey, I need a female opinion on something.” (Don’t ask, tell) “If a guy sees a cute girl (on the street, in the library, at the coffee shop, wherever you currently are) do you think it’s weird for him to walk up and talk to her?” If yes, extend hand and say “well I’ve done worse things, I’m nappy_poontang” If no, extend hand and say“I’m nappy_poontang” Important part: none of what you actually say matters. It’s your confidence a… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: if rp men were born women, do you think they would they hate men for their nature?Rp men don’t hate women. Stop making assumed statements without doing any prior research, it makes you look bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 03:00 AM |
| 3 | how to get over penis insecurityMake a girl orgasm multiple times with your fingers and mouth and she won’t give a fuck if you have a 1” dick. Worry about the shit you can control like learning how to perform better before you even put it in instead of worrying about shit you can’t control like your dick that isn’t even small. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were FatherlessYou obviously misunderstand. They want marriage, but not in the state where women have taken it. I sure as hell don’t want my kids, capital, and assets taken from me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 07:58 PM |
| 1 | She doesnt do any work in bedSometimes I think it’s just better if instead of reading comments from the top, I scroll to see if there are any ECs that have commented and just read that. Will save a lot of time. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Girl does something you don’t like or is not how she ‘should’ act, and TRP preaches “Next”. Surely you will end up alone, right?Wise words. We shouldn’t pick up a hobby to bang chicks. We pick up a hobby for our enjoyment. The side effect can be chicks, but that’s not the goal. I’ve learned the more you chase, the more needy you seem. Same as we don’t make decisions for other people. We make them for ourselves. The side effect can be respect, but that’s not the goal. The more you directly seek respect, need respect, the less you get. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Off to do my first cold approaches today. What is the best thing I can aim to learn?You know what’s going to be the main cause of dirty looks and looking like a weirdo? The thought that you’re going to be shit and lucky to get any numbers. Fake it till you make it bro. Act like an alpha. Embody the Chad characteristics. Confidence will soon follow. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/18 04:09 PM |
| 1 | NPR episode over the Radio today calling out theredpill.Men are going to get asked about this by their significant others/family members/friends and associates. In my experience the best response is total ignorance. I have had zero positive outcomes from trying to share what I’ve learned here to other guys. (Even though they have witnessed and commented on my drastic improvements in life recently) | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/18 07:27 PM |
| 1 | NPR episode over the Radio today calling out theredpill.Can you imagine “How can I make sure my women doesn’t get infected by these far left feminist groups?” Total shitstorm inbound. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/18 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Trying to devoid myself of beta tendencies but I'm confusedYou ask for advice, people give it, you give excuses. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 11:00 PM |
| 2 | I want to take a journey in my 20s to make up for a horrible foreveralone college experience. So that way I do not end up a miserable old soul. Any ideas?--------> Sidebar | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Frame is EVERYTHING“Even you will shit test yourself...” Wow. I never thought of it like that. The exact same things I say to myself before an approach or an interview or whatever are the things women say to test my SMV. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/18 07:13 PM |
| 3 | 47/M two-year transformation storyLook up the Theraband. I had tendinitis for years and tried everything under the sun. Found this thing and within a little over a month I’m elbow pain free. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/18 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Feminism has given the women freedom to make stupid choices.......and some men really don't like thatHaving cucks enforce them. FTFY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Feminism has given the women freedom to make stupid choices.......and some men really don't like thatThey absolutely are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 02:17 AM |
| 1 | TestosteroneI don’t think the 2 who commented on your statement caught the sarcasm | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/18 01:51 PM |
| 1 | TestosteroneI swear there’s a TRT guide posted on this sub every week. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/18 11:24 PM |
| 1 | How do I increase my duration during sex?I don’t last that long either. But I don’t fucking care and neither does my girl. Know why? My LTR is moaning, screaming, and trembling for 30+ minutes before my penis ever goes in. She cums multiple times. Most women don’t get a great physical pleasure from piv. It’s more psychological: nurturing, comforting. The biggest way to pleasure a women is to use your hands and mouth. Do yourself a favor and read this: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0060538260/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1523038003&sr=8-… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 06:10 PM |
| 1 | I give upRead The Misandry Bubble in the sidebar | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/18 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Any evidence high N-count affects bonding?If that’s all you’re getting in your late 20s you should probably go read the sidebar on /r/TheRedPill and start lifting. You’ll get the hot 20 year olds again if you follow directions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/18 07:56 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] what is Toxic feminity to you?When I constantly hear how STEM jobs should have more women in them but I never hear about how women make up 4.7% of manual labor jobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 04:05 PM |
| 2 | need a coachAgreed with the other 2 comments. Your problem is you want other people to do the work for you | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Books to readTomassis Rationale Male The Misandry Bubble on the sideboard Way if the superior man - Deida No more Mr nice guy - Glover Edit oh yeah and models by manson | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Books to readThat’s very broad. Do you mean discipline? Buckling in conversation? Your frame? Goals? Hobbies? Mindset towards women? There’s a reason the most common response on this thread is “lift, read, approach.” Doing those things will change your mindset. (You need a topic to improve to read) | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Should I seek out better friends?I’ve tried to help some of them out when they ask questions and I always get the white knight response. “I can’t treat women like that” type answer. One of them read no more nice guy, told me holy shit dude this book is me, and then proceeded to say he’s not willing to change. This guy is pathetic w women, they drag him through the dirt and he’s willing. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Books to readWould help to say what parts of you need growing. Books that had a huge influence on me: No more Mr nice guy - Glover Feeling Good - Burns Win Friends... - Carnegie Power of Habit - Duhigg Rationale Male - Tomassi | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 10:34 PM |
| 16 | If you were in your early 30s and wanted to find an LTR, would you focus more on women in their early 30s or much younger?I don’t think an LTR is something you seek out. You seek out women you want to be around and if it happens, it happens. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Eliminate Your DistractionsWhat do you do when you’re eating? YouTube will suck me in there, and we all know it’s much harder to abstain from something once you start. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | How do I game?Make sure that is not just an excuse for being scared to approach. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 09:25 PM |
| 1 | How to manipulate other men?Read “How to Win Friends and Influence People.” I’ll give you one of the principles: In order to get someone to do something, arouse in them an eager desire. In other words, get them to think it’s their idea and that they actually want to do it and they’ll do it themselves. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 03:36 PM |
| 5 | How to best internalise RedPill concepts?Find the thing you have the most trouble with and master it. It’ll become easier during practice, allowing you to pickup the 2nd most flaw. You keep working on one thing at a time. Looking at all of it at once is overwhelming. They don’t give you all 120 hours of courses in your degree, you take semesters. They don’t give you management roles while you’re an intern. Think of this as an evolution. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 03:34 PM |
| 16 | How can I know if a girl respects me?If she chases you when you pull | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 03:32 PM |
| 2 | How to forcefully swallow the red pill?You should read “Feeling Good” by Dr David Burns. This paragraph alone screams that you need it. The first action chapter alone completely changed my life and was really a huge pillar to me not being such a little bitch around people. Basically your thoughts about yourself are going to be the catalyst to the change you seek. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 01:43 PM |
| 1 | How to forcefully swallow the red pill?Exactly. It’s the whole theory behind monk mode. Change your actions and thoughts will follow. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 01:38 PM |
| 1 | How to forcefully swallow the red pill?Little backstory: I had trouble digesting for some time due to what I thought was "treating women like shit." I had swallowed it for sure, everything I read on the sidebar or in posts was so relevant to my experiences. What allowed me to adopt this philosophy was when I read the Misandry Bubble. In it, it is proposed that we are not treating women like lesser people, we are treating them as nature intended. In fact, he specifically says he does not agree with unethical actions in this mindset. S… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 06:49 PM |
| 1 | RP Books About Positive Thinking?Feeling Good by Dr David Burns. THE layman’s cbt book. The first action chapter changed my life. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Had sex with my oneitisCan we get an autobot with this response? | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 12:43 AM |
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