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| 2 | Women, do you usually sleep with guys you find attractive in the first few dates?No, I would not sleep with an attractive male faster. If anything it’ll make me want to take it slower because he likely has gotten quite a bit of female attention so I’d like to make sure he’s not tainted/traumatized by women and will not take it out on me. Usually the attractive males have had multiple bad experiences with women and in many cases it can jade them. No, I’ve never agreed to date a male I wasn’t attracted to or didn’t intend to sleep with. That’s kind of a waste of time and I can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 03:13 PM |
| 1 | If women were truly as horny as men, it wouldn’t only be for some small subset of men. They would fuck men who were on their level or below like men do, and most men wouldn’t struggle to get laidI’m actually glad you asked this since I’ve recently noticed that there is no actual guidance for men on emotionality during intercourse. I think at most they receive generalized advice like providing emotional safety but personally I feel like this is passive advice. It’s not enough, women need it heavier. We need males to be actively emotional and give us a full-bodied emotional experience of their own free will. We don’t want them to act like they’re doing us a favour by making love instead o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 03:20 PM |
| 5 | Men have their own AF/BB…kindaYeah exactly, I think both sexes end up not really being that interested in what they thought they desired. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?Makes sense because being a wife is not exactly the glamorous option for women either. Being the frizzy-haired, sweating, chore-overloaded, good ol’ reliable, nagging banshee who picks up socks and is ‘affectionately’ called the old ball and chain is pretty terrible. I always felt like the only reason women chase commitment is societal shame. Being a wife is boring and you can see that many are forgoing it altogether. Being the mysterious bombshell that makes multiple males worship the ground sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 07:29 PM |
| -1 | Men have their own AF/BB…kindaI’ll be brutally honest with you even though the pickmes will hate me. The elation of being chosen as the “settle down, wifey material” by a male lasts a shockingly short time. It’s great for about 1-2 months and then it becomes dull. As a woman, you have such high hopes, since you imagine you’ve won a prize, right? That’s how society painted it after all. “Get the guy to commit!” But in reality the relationship becomes monotonous, and you realize he’s just an ordinary person. His commitment is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 05:59 PM |
| 0 | Why do men seem to almost exclusively focus on physical things?Yeah they’re generally more sensitive to emotional hurt and shrink like violets when faced with discomfort. And yes they’re very trust-shy. They also are more likely to go crazy when emotionally hurt - some also actively hurt the opposite sex as a way to avenge themselves. It can escalate to physically violent attacks as well. Women generally take male emotional abuse better, and keep trying. I don’t know why they keep trying though, it’s not like the effort is worth the prize. According to thes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 04:39 PM |
| – | Women what is more important for you in a relationship - stability and comfort or passion and excitement ?Same here. I always said I was too much of a romantic for kids lol if that makes sense. I would want to devote all of my affection and time to a partner and only him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4w: Please skip this post if you don't like the options. You can either be an never-married successful employee or be a mother and wife? Choose one.Same here, pretty easy decision for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Is it frustrating being physically weak compared to men?No..actually it makes me feel very feminine lol. I don’t really see it in terms of inferiority/superiority, more like an attractive difference. Obviously it becomes repulsive in certain contexts though, like when a guy is abusing his strength and harming someone that doesn’t deserve it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Women hate sluts more than men doI can see that. I used to not understand why they were cold towards hypersexual women until I realized how much I, too, wanted a disciplined and sexually reserved man. I feel like both parties do best when they’re more responsible with their bodies and try to remember the impact their sexual desires have on society as a whole. At least I try to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 07:45 PM |
| 0 | Women hate sluts more than men doNo, not really. Women who are just in it for the sex might only value males for performance. A lot of us care less about skill and how many orgasms we have and more about the emotional connection, the skin-on-skin contact and the words we hear. Thankfully, it’s easier to orgasm if you feel safe and you’re sure of your partner’s feelings anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 01:51 AM |
| 3 | Women hate sluts more than men doI was wondering this myself. Women have no shortage of male attention, we don’t even have to go out of our way to get it. Many sexually reserved women are also drop dead gorgeous. Anyone that’s seen any type of orthodox wedding can attest to that. And I swear to god, reserved women do not envy promiscuous women or pornstars lmfao. Their characters aren’t those that we want to emulate, and being spat on and hit by males and having them do their business on their face is not at all enviable to us.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 12:24 AM |
| 3 | Women hate sluts more than men doThat’s not ethical or fair to the male, to start a relationship based on lies though. And it’s unlikely you’ll be on the same page on other things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Women hate sluts more than men doNo. Because those acts that those women do are not the sexual preference of reserved women. It’s not conducive to the dynamic we want in our relationship and a guy that’s into those things is not our dream guy. I guess you can’t fully understand the dislike of being degraded, since you’re not part of the sex that is sexually degraded. But maybe you can understand that some women want male partners who are gentlemen both in and out the bedroom. It’s just our preference, we find it manly and prote… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 11:27 PM |
| 4 | Women hate sluts more than men doOh yeah, I’ve heard stories. My ex had this one hookup (a Russian screamer) who wanted him to actually punch her in the head. Great way to catch a case. He thought it was weird and refused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 10:59 PM |
| 7 | Women hate sluts more than men doHonestly, so many women are feeling this now. It’s actually really heartbreaking. Porn culture, kink, and hookup culture have people deciding that wanting a loving sexual relationship is somehow being frigid. I’ve had that last line of your comment happen to me so many times, males telling me all the disgusting off-putting and degrading things their exes and FWB’s did hoping that I’ll want to one-up those females. It backfired for them because it was a turn-off and my communication with them end… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 10:52 PM |
| 9 | Women hate sluts more than men doThis, and also the level of degradation and humiliation hypersexual women enjoy/ are willing to put up with during intercourse makes it very hard for regular women who are desperately seeking a normal loving relationship. They usually turn to celibacy or just check out of dating altogether. Hypersexual women greatly influence the sexual behaviours of males, and I’ve heard countless cases of them introducing kink to males and actually forcing them to degrade them and engage in violent acts agains… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 10:26 PM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]Not to mention they are batshit cray-cray on a legal and religious scale 😭. Who even tells a group to cover head-to-toe in a binbag (as a brown woman, I have seen the crazy up close, and trust me you don’t want to see the crazy up close) and even shoots girl children for attending school? Or kidnaps girl children from a school and makes them all into child brides? Driving around in jeeps, waving weapons looking insane? Targeting young students? They have a mixture of craziness, ego-sensitivity, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 11:43 PM |
| 31 | Trauma-Bonding is the most effective means of keeping a women's emotional investment in youAlso, it’s the anxiety of not knowing where you stand with someone that keeps the victim (male or female) involved. Not love or attraction. They likely don’t know the real you, a consistent form of you, so no valid bond is forged. Even for a traumatized person, this strategy doesn’t create ‘love’, it creates discomfort, hatred, and resentment. It can even make them fall physically ill. Positivity isn’t built on foundations like this. Further, once the victim realizes what you’re doing and that y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do women like giving blowjobs?Of course it is degrading. Having a male’s appendage lodged in your throat is horrifyingly degrading. Women should not serve sexually, it’s out of order and it’s porn that popularized it. Males are the ones that value women for sex, they practically hunt women for it, they rape women for it - so why the fuck should women perform a sexual act on them? When males want sex more? Make it make sense. Males literally worship our bodies, they even off themselves in the hope of getting 72 virgins. Women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 09:46 PM |
| -1 | Porn consumption is one of the biggest threats to empathy, connection, and love between men and womenI don’t care what they’re disconnected from as long as they leave women be, but they won’t stop hassling them. It’s repulsive to be poached like this by people who just want to perform a physical act on you and feel nothing but a biological urge. (Yeah they can downvote all they want, doesn’t change the fact they (A) admit repeatedly it’s nothing but a biological urge and (B) are truly foul and their attention and sexuality is unwanted. They know it too, just have nothing to say). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 11:43 PM |
| -3 | Porn consumption is one of the biggest threats to empathy, connection, and love between men and womenThe only thing I disagree with OP on is the insinuation that males ever loved women or had empathy/compassion for them lmfao. I mean one of them reiterated - like so many have - that the drive to have intercourse is an urge on its own and has no connection to love. So there’s not even any feeling behind it at all when they hunt you for your hole. It’s creepily mechanical and fucking predatory. It’s the same as when they go after kids and animals - same ugly urge. Love was just invented to encour… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Why can't you detect toxicity/misogyny in attractive men?Um, how am I deflecting? People want a simple answer but you can’t answer questions like this believing things happen in a vacuum. I don’t regret my life experiences or my choices because that was just what my environment was like. What the fuck are girls growing up in bad places or with bad parents supposed to do, on top of trying to not fail school? Move out? Break up their family? No, we stay, we endure, we choose from the choices that are available to us, and we try to change our conditions … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Why can't you detect toxicity/misogyny in attractive men?Love it. You covered it all, and thank you for highlighting the negative exposure during formative years. It’s a blind spot for so many. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 02:32 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: Why can't you detect toxicity/misogyny in attractive men?Yeah, tell me where I said anything about ‘using kind men as emotional support’? And it was less about being attracted to toxic men and more about hanging with people I had stuff in common with. I hated them as much as I hated myself. I grew up in a rough neighborhood, I was used to dysfunction. I tried not to bother good men by getting involved with them even though I was strongly attracted to them - I didn’t know how to act around them, and my life had so many stressors I would’ve taken it out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 01:36 PM |
| 10 | Q4W: Why can't you detect toxicity/misogyny in attractive men?I don’t think these guys take into account how many women undergo varying degrees of CSA at home or sexualization by people we trusted like religious figures, teachers, and extended family. It changes you in really insidious and bizarre ways that are impossible to explain and sometimes totally unrelated to the abuse. In my experience, it makes you pretend to be rougher around the edges and forgo femininity so you don’t get abused at home. If you’re very feminine and sensitive like me, you start … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 11:54 AM |
| 5 | If you claim men are angry at women because women treat them badly, why is it hard to accept that the opposite is also true?Exactly, or brown. They don’t know what our awful families and our lives are like. Males really only see the women they desire, all other women are invisible to them. When they say this crap, they imagine Becky, or some blonde pornstar since let’s be honest that’s usually their exposure to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 11:30 PM |
| – | You Can’t Argue your Way to Success in DatingRight? Jesus Christ. I wish they knew it’s easier for women to respond to hurt people than angry people, especially when some of these angry people want to repeal the 19th (what the honest fuck). Like no, we’re not going to cuddle people that would take that type of action to heal their emotional wounds. We’re more likely to stand by and see you get more hurt, just so you won’t hurt us. I actually get completely disarmed when I see a guy cry, especially since they don’t do it often, and I go rig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 03:33 AM |
| – | You Can’t Argue your Way to Success in DatingThat pain doesn’t last forever, you get numb after awhile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 03:25 AM |
| – | You Can’t Argue your Way to Success in DatingMaybe they do understand it but the emotional pain is too much to bear so they can’t accept it fully? And that’s why they keep repeating the same thing? I’m honestly trying to see it through their eyes - maybe they’re just upset that they don’t live up to the handsomeness and male beauty that women seek. I feel like their response is so emotionally charged. If that’s the case, this too shall pass guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 08:35 PM |
| 1 | What would be the downsides if men believed that women are barely capable of romantic love?Funny how you’re getting downvoted when commenters on this subreddit have said things like this within just a few hours: “But sex is the main reason why a man interacts romantically with a women. For a man to hide that is to deny masculinity and reality. We can pretend we’re not..” “Romantic love is just a form of emotional labour men do to get women feeling all fuzzy.” Not that we already didn’t know that. We know it’s all a show to obtain intercourse, since they remind us every waking moment o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 01:22 PM |
| 3 | What would be the downsides if men believed that women are barely capable of romantic love?This is so concise and satisfying I had to save it. That’s exactly how it goes and we’ll never get a clear answer from the allegedly uncomplicated sex. One minute it’s “Sex is a bonding activity, it’s how males show love. This is what intimacy looks like to us. We feel like you don’t love us when you don’t put out 🥺’. The next minute it’s “Argh! 👹 sex is just a physical need like pissing. It’s a distraction we feel 24/7, we just need to nut. Males don’t use sex to bond, so don’t friggin’ get att… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What Lets You Trust a Man?Yes. We’re allowed to distrust half the population based exactly on that. Turn on the fucking news some time. Secondly, if you were the party being penetrated by undisciplined gits with no personality outside of ‘desiring sex hurrr’ you’d respond the same way. Males are terrified of prison for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 12:43 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: What Lets You Trust a Man?I’m the same way. I’ve never and will probably never trust them. Especially since they’ve been hammering into women’s heads how their sole driver in life is intercourse. That their only reason to interact romantically with women is intercourse, according to a comment on this thread. I cant help but find it pathetic and creepy on a visceral level. Why would I knowingly ever trust a group like this lmfao. In order to trust someone, you have to take them seriously and respect them and their outlook… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 12:31 PM |
| – | CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted.I’m really glad someone pointed this discrepancy out lol. Honestly nothing will be any different; they haven’t stepped in to save women as often as they think they have in the past. They are notoriously tribalistic and only really care about their own, not so much the collective. Further, cowardice is more common in them than bravery - I mean they pee themselves over the prospect of even talking to women, and bigger males or gangs of males scare them (funny how they believe women still don’t hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 01:49 PM |
| – | Question for “traditional” men: Do you recognize that traditional gender roles put women at a disadvantage? If so, does this bother you? Or conversely, do you like the power imbalance?I’m not even going to justify his male manure with an answer. Would rather discuss with other women who understand the situation and spend a minute giving further details instead. The poor woman I talked about grew up in a trad family - males love when girls are raised in a traditional way, don’t they? So much easier to trap a girl like that. Anyway, she told my ex (her son) that at the time she met his father, he was on his best behaviour and was normal. The ugliness reared its head after marri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 04:11 PM |
| – | Question for “traditional” men: Do you recognize that traditional gender roles put women at a disadvantage? If so, does this bother you? Or conversely, do you like the power imbalance?My Irish-Greek ex’s mother was pressured into quitting her VP job at a bank and becoming a SAHM to three kids. Good god, the amount of financial and verbal abuse that woman went through. Males love to claim that husbands “live to serve wives” and “women are spoiled in marriage” LMFAO go to hell. Please. This woman was given a small allowance of $100 and told to make it stretch to pay for groceries for a family of 5. She was screamed at for ever asking for more money. She couldn’t buy anything fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 03:14 PM |
| 0 | The opposite side of the War Bride dynamic is that men are natural rapists under certain circumstancesHaha don’t think we ever did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 01:51 PM |
| – | Average guys are med to feel "dirty" for having sexual desiresThey think reiterating that ‘males only want intercourse, males only want intercourse, males only want intercourse’ will help the situation lmfao. Them saying that only puts women off dating even more . The last thing women want to be told night and day is that males lack depth and that the only reason they show interest is for intercourse. Just makes you remember that they’re even desperate enough to assault a monitor lizard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO?They equate sexual activity to grocery shopping (lmfao) when they should be equating it to getting rammed in the rear repeatedly, bruising and all. They understand their fear of prison-rape but don’t understand why someone else would also fear unwanted penetration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 03:41 PM |
| 5 | Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO?I’ve seen a commenter here mention that a big proponent of sex for males is the degradation and submission of women. I don’t want to believe that this also means they get turned on by a woman’s lack of desire but all signs are pointing to that. They already claim that they find certain sex acts enjoyable because they’re disgusting and painful and women tolerate them anyway (oral sex, anal, facials). Even further, many tend to like it when they have to hunt for sex, or wear a woman down for it. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 03:29 PM |
| 7 | Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO?I’m consistently shocked that men would want that. That’s such a blow to one’s self-esteem to look down and seeing boredom or revulsion etched on your partner’s face. You’re not even getting ‘respect’ or ‘validation’ from women - you’re making them feel disgusted with you and your body. That would be so embarrassing, you would think? It makes me wonder if it’s just the feeling of a vagina that they’re looking for. Because if it was a loving, bonding experience they really wanted, the show of dis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 01:13 PM |
| 6 | Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO?I noticed this as well and I’m glad you pointed it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 12:43 PM |
| 3 | Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO?Exactly. My mother used to use a term in my native tongue for their obsession with sex, and it translated to ‘sex mania.’ She viewed it almost on the same level as a scary illness that caused problems for others. I 100% agree with the part where you said we have to divorce the sexual experience from the penis and use pegging as an example to successfully compare it to women’s experience because they don’t understand that unwanted sex brings no pleasure to us. Maybe for them it does but we’re not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 04:56 AM |
| 5 | Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO?I’m very confused as to why they keep consistently ignoring this crucial point. It’s like women’s physical pain is always a blind spot for them - whether it’s childbirth or pain during intercourse. Are they really that disengaged from suffering that isn’t experienced by human males? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 04:00 AM |
| 20 | Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO?It’s downright traumatic for the individual being penetrated. It makes you feel low, and honestly barely alive. Because the penetrator doesn’t give a shit if you’re even actively participating. Duty sex is a disturbing concept just based on the mechanics of it. Unwanted penetration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 01:27 AM |
| 3 | Why are women so interested in fictional romance, while seemingly being disinterested in real life romance?Fictional men also don’t pressure women for sex, they don’t expect maintenance sex and only want it when she wants it, and the sex is female-centric where he says and does all the right things (unlike porn). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 03:36 AM |
| 4 | Is a man who is lovey-dovey/affectionate seen as feminine or unattractive?That’s literally my type and I’m ultra-feminine. I actually don’t know where the idea that passionate, lovey-dovey or romantic men were ‘feminine’ came about because in my head, adoring women to the point of obsession is masculine. I love being overwhelmed with affection. When a guy is affectionate towards you, it means he values you and will protect you (because we protect things we are soft towards). It’s the best position to be in as a woman. I see sex as an act of love though, so men being a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 05:46 AM |
| – | Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy.I agree one hundred percent, as a woman of colour. It doesn’t even try to hide it or mask it like religion does. It’s pretty jarring how openly hostile a genre of music can be towards such a huge population. I believe women (along with many other concerned people and groups) did try to speak out against ‘gangsta rap’ and tried to urge support for values more conducive to a functional society, but at the time, those in higher places had the money to keep pushing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 04:23 AM |
| – | Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy.I agree with you and I’m a woman. In my opinion I find the genre distasteful, low-vibrational, and misogynistic. I don’t even date rap fans because I find the content a red flag and I feel like our values wouldn’t match. It’s just that upsetting to me. I’m as confused as you are as to why women are huge fans of it, let alone pay for concerts. It’s funny because you wouldn’t catch men listening to music that’s this hateful towards men. As some people have pointed out, it could be the fame and mon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 04:16 AM |
| 8 | The overwhelming majority of people bitching about or even paying attention to “age gap” relationships are undesirable women and virtue signaling menHe peaked during his titanic days 😭. He aged extremely poorly and is paunchy and bloated now. Eddie Furlong is another example. Marilyn Manson was also quite handsome in his early years. Fame and wealth are magnets though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 07:55 PM |
| 4 | Men who have had a lot of casual sex have worse pair-bonding abilitiesThey actually are really damaged and they spread that hurt like wildfire. They even have a dead look in their eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 01:48 AM |
| 3 | Men who have had a lot of casual sex have worse pair-bonding abilitiesI don’t know how but you covered pretty much everything with that comment lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 07:05 PM |
| 6 | Men who have had a lot of casual sex have worse pair-bonding abilitiesExactly. A man who is highly desirable but is elusive, guarded and selective is honestly the ticket. I think that’s even part of the allure of ‘nonchalance’ for some women but I think what they really mean is they want a guy with standards. The fact that just any woman can’t excite him and get him into bed creates a challenge. Getting a guy to be sexually attracted to you is easy, so if he’s disciplined and rises above that, there’s just something hot about it. He’s not vulnerable, he’s firm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 06:23 PM |
| 6 | Men who have had a lot of casual sex have worse pair-bonding abilitiesI get what you’re trying to say and I agree. These guys are also jaded, don’t trust easily, and have an even harder time bonding via sex than the average male. Why? Because more experience means more exposure to some real low-vibrational women, and people are more likely to be impacted by negative experiences. If you’re throwing the D about, giving it up to just any girl, you just don’t value sex on a deeper level, period. You’re free to not care who you’re investing your energy in and you’re fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag if a woman says that none of her exes or guy's she has slept with treated her nice?I’ll be honest, lots of women say this just to garner sympathy and pity in the hopes you’ll treat them like injured puppies. And most importantly, not hurt them. It just makes you appear helpless and innocent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do women like giving blowjobs?I agree and its surprising that it’s that hard to believe. You’re one of the few ppl left on this app with common sense lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Why do women like giving blowjobs?I’m the same way, it’s degrading and I don’t do it. Actually I just leave if I’m even asked to lol, I find it that disrespectful. And in my experience men actually don’t care, and they will eat you out without reciprocation as well. I hate receiving it, but they will push you to let them eat it. So just have to grit your teeth and bear it while they’re down there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Why do women like giving blowjobs?As a woman, I’m equally as confused as you. I’ve always considered it extremely degrading and gross and don’t do it. The most ridiculous thing is when they claim it’s ’empowering’ lmfao. Only women, particularly libfems, are delusional enough to believe that getting on your knees and gagging and being covered in someone’s bodily excrement is empowering. I’m not supposed to say this as a woman but I don’t really care: I secretly agree wholeheartedly with males that it makes a woman look like she … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 08:10 PM |
| 4 | How true is the Madonna Whore complex for guys?Well female mate-selection is cold and cut-throat in any species. I guess it angered less desirable human males enough for them to scribble some fantasies in the hopes it would change things. Religion happens when old, hairy, desert incels find stationary. And lots of women were gullible enough to go along with those religions so that’s their fault. To this day they’re more religious than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 05:54 PM |
| 5 | How true is the Madonna Whore complex for guys?None. I’ve had FWB’s that I had to stop seeing because I was dating someone seriously. I don’t do ‘casual sex’ because I have specific preferences. I think the problem with RedPillers is that you can’t imagine that having sex just might not be detrimental for us women. And that whether it’s casual sex or FWB’s, it’s often not about ‘losing interest’ when people stop banging people. Not the way you’re framing it, at least. Sometimes people just want to see other people, or move forward with their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 05:37 PM |
| 10 | How true is the Madonna Whore complex for guys?Yup this is what they claim all over the r/marriage and r/deadbedrooms subreddits lol! Sex is apparently the ‘ultimate show of love’ and they feel ‘unwanted’ and ‘unloved’ when they aren’t getting any. Countless times they have explicitly claimed that sex is their love language. It’s all very interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 05:25 PM |
| 14 | How true is the Madonna Whore complex for guys?I swear if they just mellowed down it would really help. You can’t approach sex like this and expect to get any when women don’t view sex like that. You’re just going to scare women away and put them off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 04:58 PM |
| 4 | How true is the Madonna Whore complex for guys?Lol every relationship I ever had, I banged the guy within hours of meeting him. They never made me feel inferior for being attracted to them or wanting dick from them, in their opinion it was normal. They were experienced with women though, and very realistic about life. Problems happen when you take sex too seriously. It’s not supposed to be this negative awful thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 04:52 PM |
| 1 | How true is the Madonna Whore complex for guys?Yeah this is fair. I think the combination of what constitutes attractive varies from woman to woman though. For me a hard jawline, large biceps, and a really deep voice do it for me. Other women will emphasize his smile or require a six pack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 04:38 PM |
| 15 | How true is the Madonna Whore complex for guys?I think this sub is heavily skewed towards sexually inexperienced males. I don’t know any irl that obsess over body count like this. The ones I’ve been with are chill with women and pretty much worship you during sex lol. I think here we’re exposed to males whose type just wouldn’t run in our social circles. Maybe they don’t really interact with the ladies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 04:28 PM |
| 13 | How true is the Madonna Whore complex for guys?Women enjoy sex with physically attractive males that aren’t smelly, awkward, unkempt, and don’t socialize with women often. If you’re not that then yeah, you’d have to pay an escort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 04:17 PM |
| 23 | How true is the Madonna Whore complex for guys?This lol. I’m noting how they actually view intercourse. To no one’s surprise, it’s not about connecting or bonding. It’s about whether or not you managed to fight your way into someone’s hole lmfao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Do most women really dislike being approached in general?I think so. I prefer being approached only if I’m obviously flirting with a guy and giving him signals (ex. making eyes at him, frequent glances, playing with my hair). Or I’ll ask him for directions in a flirty way. To be honest, unless a woman notices you and is trying to get your attention, I’d probably assume she’s not interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 11:34 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Although it should remain legal, it is immoral for a woman to remain pregnant if the man doesn’t want the child.As a woman, this is something I agree with 100%. It doesn’t make any practical sense and honestly it’s extremely selfish to knowingly deprive the child of a father figure. I always felt like it was obviously wrong to have a child when the father doesn’t want it. I also agree with you consent to sex doesn’t mean he consented to fatherhood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Modern dating strategy: Dating multiple people before being exclusive - Are males against this?This. It always came off as insecure to me as well and sort of gave me the ick. Like they really don’t have other options and solely rely on me to be with them. Male jealousy and possessiveness just sort of come off ‘beta’ for lack of a better term. You start to question how desirable they are really are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 02:27 PM |
| 5 | Women’s Attraction to Dangerous and Violent MenThank you <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Women’s Attraction to Dangerous and Violent MenYou nailed it, that’s exactly it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 09:11 PM |
| 10 | Women’s Attraction to Dangerous and Violent MenJust being honest. He didn’t specify his duties, but having dated drug dealers, it’s highly unlikely he was attacking innocent grandpas or little old ladies. Most of the time the violence is directed at specific individuals. I try to judge guys on a case by case basis and look at their motives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 09:06 PM |
| 13 | Women’s Attraction to Dangerous and Violent MenSpeaking as a woman, you being a delinquent that also had a soft spot for animals was an especially attractive combination. I think it probably conveyed that you were a ‘bad boy’ with a heart - basically the perfect man in many women’s eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 08:32 PM |
| 16 | Women’s Attraction to Dangerous and Violent MenNo, you got it right. The belief is that if he’s violent, he will likely unalive someone that’s going to hurt you. He might also be more active and sure of himself in bed, which creates more pleasure for us. It’s far from a safe selection-strategy though. Like you said, male aggression can come with asshole tendencies/misogyny/domestic abuse. But some women ruefully accept it will be a package deal; they’d rather have an aggressive guy than a non-aggressive guy. We’d rather a vigilante-type bad … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Where is the incentive for a woman to be submissive?As a woman, it's unnecessary unless you're using it for pleasure or as a social strategy. It’s arousing in the bedroom for many of us. Outside the bedroom, a submissive charade makes you appear less threatening to males and it encourages them to let their guard down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 07:17 PM |
| 8 | Has intelligence become less valuable in todays dating society?Woman here and you’re right lol. Intellect makes a man unappealing and it’s by a lot. I don’t know why. If he’s handsome, goofy and laidback, I’m hooked. I think some of us are more willing to admit it than others though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 04:33 PM |
| 5 | From a cold, practical perspective isn't women's emancipation bad for society if it leads to low birth ratesExactly. It’s not women that are the problem, it’s the faulty unsustainable system we created. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Why do guys take it personally when women see them as a safe option, when guys end up marrying those options as well?No. Males explicitly claim they look for hot baddies for short-term partners and look for mid or ugly low-maintenance women for long-term partners to avoid the likelihood of her cheating. I made a massive collage of statements collected from social media of them articulating this over and over. I have also witnessed it first-hand. The phrases ‘will put up with my shit’ and ‘doesn’t expect much from me’ were the most common when discussing wifey material, along with ‘not focus on herself and her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 08:42 PM |
| 5 | Why do guys take it personally when women see them as a safe option, when guys end up marrying those options as well?I have no idea. We should be able to agree that both genders don’t want to be the safe choice. Many women cringe at being called ‘wifey material’ or a ‘good marriageable girl’ because it means you’re plain, breedable, maternal, matronly, and can easily be seen doing domestic chores. It’s an unglamorous description of a homely bangmaid that smells of underboob sweat. You’re the safe average-looking boring option, not the stunning baddie that has left countless men obsessed and heartbroken. It spa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 07:00 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Most young guys struggle in dating because of the society and time we live in, not because of themselvesExactly. It was very much a man’s world and women had to adapt to their systems (i.e. ‘thinking of England’ aka endure unwanted intercourse, getting beaten, getting cheated on, taking pharmaceuticals to cope). It’s only recently they’ve been able to choose who they are naturally sexually attracted to. Tbh I don’t think they should’ve ever been made to shag males they weren’t sexually attracted to because it probably feels to men that they’ve been lied to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 06:05 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Fairness is not code for getting what you want with no inconvenience.Yup, that’s what the buggers do when they can’t get their way. And they want to act like their actions aren’t based in emotion. Glad you caught this one in the act. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 07:14 PM |
| 2 | No one is telling women to have sex with anyone they don't want to have sex with.You would think men would step in and at least attempt to stop this minority of ‘Chads’ from ‘ruining’ all the women. But they just look on in admiration and envy, while simultaneously telling women they shouldn’t be attracted to these handsome studs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 04:03 PM |
| 5 | Men don't hate promiscuous womenCount on those who barely fking know women or have female friends to describe how girl world operates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 07:04 PM |
| 11 | Men don't hate promiscuous womenSame here. I’ve NEVER once been called that by a woman, only males. By drunkards on the street, during arguments, or for rejecting them. They use that term almost constantly. Wasn’t it males who invented the word 304 and are the most vocal about promiscuous women and the cock carousel? So they’re either being disingenuous or have watched too many Y2K films where for some reason the females were written to use that particular insult. We rarely call each other that in real life. We don’t care as m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesThis. And you literally get the option of having several providers, while still fucking the Chad of your choice. You don’t have to cook/clean/breed/break a nail for any of them. It’s an extremely good deal. Even less attractive girls can find at least one sugar daddy. Being a side chick/mistress will always be the winning position lol. Its always been known as the glamorous one. Wives are undesirable reliable mules kept for their labour (female version of nice guy), while mistresses are desired … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 05:50 PM |
| 3 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesThere 100% is a masochistic quality to them. They will deny it maybe because it’s embarrassing for them. The way they want to chase you indefinitely and prove themselves just always gave me the vibe they don’t want to imagine they’re worthy. If you reciprocate their feelings, or worse, screw them, they look down on you because they’re almost disgusted that you let someone like them get close to you. Most males suffer low self-esteem and low self-worth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesExactly lol. ‘Wifey’ is NOT a luxury status, it’s a curse and women have caught on. It is a title to run from. Men work wives to the fking bone. Millions of wives are complaining that they are drowning in domestic labour and that their lazy inattentive husbands don’t give a damn. A wife is a second mother, therapist, and unpaid whore enduring mediocre maintenance sex. Then on top of that, theyre expected to be in extreme discomfort for 9 months and give these guys an infant (that they will rarel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 03:50 AM |
| 11 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesExactly. They’ve successfully tricked women into thinking ‘wifey material’ or being a gf is some kind of luxury status when those women are saddled with domestic labour or getting their coochies torn clit to anus in childbirth. Also they are tied to one male and taken off the market. Meanwhile mistresses and sidepieces get gifts and/or dick without any labour and are free to get benefits from several males. As suspected, being a ‘scarlet woman’ is a better deal. Interestingly, even in early time… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 10:28 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Older child free men are rarely miserable.Another possibility is murder-suicide where the father unalives himself along with other family members - not sure if those stats were or weren’t pooled in with regular suicide stats. Might give a better picture of married men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Why are men telling women to look past potential partners looks?I was wondering this as well lol. Because phallocentric religions always instructed that women are the root of evil and wicked witches/whores. They say we are on the level of a ‘dog’ or a ‘leper’, that we should suck the pus out of men’s foot boils, and in pisslam it is even suggested we wear black while men are told to wear white. How did men miss this stuff, when most people are trained to be religious? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 05:17 PM |
| 3 | Sugar daddy relationships are closer to how marriages were historicallyOh please, don’t be so ignorant as if you can’t comprehend that it doesn’t hurt to be the penetrator. It hurts to get penetrated, that’s why when males rape toddlers, they end up in the hospital or worse. It’s exactly why I used that example. Don’t be obtuse. And YES, we women would prefer to do backbreaking labour than have a disgusting troll penetrate us and beat us if we refuse. Thanks for playing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 05:29 PM |
| 18 | Sugar daddy relationships are closer to how marriages were historicallyYup. My ex used to tell me about his grandfathers (on both sides) and they were a horror. The drinking and DV was insane. One grandfather was a mean-spirited SOB who would shout at the wife every day until she cried. The other grandfather was a dock worker and drunkard who would come home to chase his three daughters with a meat cleaver until they barricaded themselves and used to beat his wife. And that’s just one family. I have no story of any grandfather who was decent to the wife, but countl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 05:02 PM |
| 6 | Sugar daddy relationships are closer to how marriages were historicallyYou are one hell of an ignorant case if you think women back then enjoyed getting coerced into sex with their ‘husbands’ - you might as well call them their owners instead because that’s what they were. Most either hated or were indifferent towards the males they had to shack up with for survival. ‘Husbands’ back then weren’t someone the female chose willingly and oftentimes were absolute monsters. Hundreds of thousands of grandmothers and great-grandmothers have awful stories of what ‘dear ol’ … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 04:43 PM |
| 9 | Sugar daddy relationships are closer to how marriages were historicallyI swear some people here are mental. You know these males 100% would rather work than get forcibly penetrated nightly by someone they detest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 04:31 PM |
| 7 | Sugar daddy relationships are closer to how marriages were historicallyWhat kind of question is this? Yes, most women would rather work ‘dangerous’ jobs than get raped. Are you nuts? Female captives under ISIS were literally begging foreign soldiers to just shell the area so they could be put out of their misery. Anything is better than rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 04:29 PM |
| 0 | Bullying women to lower their standardsRight? As a WOC our cultures are terrible, even today. It was a horror for the women. Back then fathers would take young daughters and arrange them to marry the ugliest, paunchiest, disgusting freaks of nature. It was not for genetic fitness, but economic reasons. Our species is the only one that artificially selects mates for the female and look where we are now. It feels as though certain men want a return to those disturbing times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 01:51 PM |
| 5 | Bullying women to lower their standardsThey try to micromanage the living out of women lol it tells you a lot about controlling attitudes and entitlement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Bullying women to lower their standardsI swear to god they’re asking to get cheated on not once but multiple times 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 01:23 PM |
| 6 | Bullying women to lower their standardsYeah this. And I’m not sure why it’s still not getting through. I’ve seen thousands of women explain it to them on various platforms but it seems they keep viewing our experiences through a male lens. Just because they will settle for any homely ‘hole’ in marriage, doesn’t mean we will. We never wanted to, and it’s not in our nature. Even in other species the female is extremely selective. Like what’s not clicking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 01:22 PM |
| -1 | Is the birth decline really only women's fault?An ‘economic system’ that depends solely on exploiting people’s genitals (literally requiring they lie back for insemination, undergo physical disfigurement for 9 months, endure a mutilating birth process during which they will be ripped apart vagina to anus by some parasite, and suffer long-term trauma and a stretched-out ugly body) probably should be in the gutter, don’t you think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 01:10 PM |
| 20 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?They really don’t. When I was 10, a lecherous old male decided to rest his balls on my shoulder and rub them on my arm while my mother sat next to me. But sure, we’re ‘lucky’ to get their attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Doctors warn US is barreling towards same fertility crisis as Japan - where one in 10 men in their 30s are VIRGINS and third of women will be childlessThey love to act as though ‘the opportunity to exist’ is some kind of blessing 😂. I noticed it’s a distinctly male sentiment. Not one of us asked to exist, and would have been perfectly content not being born into this cursed existence to make the wealthy richer, become sick and decrepit from stress and die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Doctors warn US is barreling towards same fertility crisis as Japan - where one in 10 men in their 30s are VIRGINS and third of women will be childlessToo bad you males can’t obediently lie back and get inseminated, vomit every morning as you look down at your swelling disgusting body every day for 9 months, have your organs squished by the parasite you’re growing, lose grey and hippocampal matter until your cognitive capacity is lost, lose teeth and hair, and then get diabetes. Oh and you’d love your new permanently sagging tits and body, riiight? And having the screaming crotch goblin bite your nipples raw and throw up on you. I had NO idea … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Doctors warn US is barreling towards same fertility crisis as Japan - where one in 10 men in their 30s are VIRGINS and third of women will be childlessYup I hate them. Get over it and stop crying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 06:18 PM |
| – | Doctors warn US is barreling towards same fertility crisis as Japan - where one in 10 men in their 30s are VIRGINS and third of women will be childlessGood GOD I wish males could impregnate each other but knowing the way crotch goblins mutilate the human body, they’d probably unalive themselves at even higher rates than they do now. They couldn’t handle being host to a parasitic entity that sucks their life source for 9 months, though they call us selfish for not wanting it as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 03:35 AM |
| 15 | Doctors warn US is barreling towards same fertility crisis as Japan - where one in 10 men in their 30s are VIRGINS and third of women will be childlessThis. Look how the ignorant men here are pontificating when the real reason for low birth rates is that gestating their disgusting seed will destroy our bodies and lives. What part of that is hard to comprehend? Women don’t WANT to undergo pregnancy if we have a choice. We lose grey and hippocampal matter during pregnancy - it will literally lower our cognitive capacity. And we don’t want to be spread out on a hospital bed while we get ripped anus to vagina and lose ability to hold in our own ur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Q4M, have you ever rejected a girl because she was too nice?This is what happens to them lol. Dudes have this fantasy that dudes like this get a happy ending and end up with ‘feminine, submissive youngins’. Really they just die with a horrific case of erectile dysfunction and hair loss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 05:15 AM |
| 2 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.Yeah over our dead bodies will we ever abstain from sex and reserve it for some uppity betabux, hunty. Schlong is love. Schlong is life. You can’t ask us to give up big juicy schlongs. What else are men really put on this earth for except to please us sexually? You have no idea what it’s like to get a good shagging when you’re off your period. Shit is sublime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 04:56 AM |
| – | Women lie about their partner preferences. They self-report preference for intelligent and ambitious men, but they chose the most attractive ones ignoring other traits.I still don’t know why they lie and I’m a woman. I will always be lenient towards an attractive well-built male and will overlook all kinds of fuckery. Nothing like having a handsome 10 on your roster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 04:51 AM |
| 5 | Here are my dating hot takes. What are yours?I agree 100% with everything. Creepily accurate lol you sure you ain’t a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Women of PPD, how big of a red flag is a man having no relationship experience?If he’s otherwise we’ll-adjusted it should be fine. But it can be a red flag. Man might not know what his likes and dislikes are, or his boundaries. Not every woman wants to be the one to pop a guy’s proverbial relationship cherry because guys get extremely clingy when you’re their first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 05:53 PM |
| 2 | We all know how men feel about women's body counts. How do women feel about a man's?Moderate to high count is preferred. I’d want him to be well-rounded and have lived a life full of experiences with other women so he knows his boundaries and what he likes. You have to experience pain, it’s part of life. Shame that certain males can’t give us the same allowance but I digress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 12:00 AM |
| 0 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?Just remember a hypothetical homely virgin will get bored of YOUR dick too once she’s had it for a few months 😂 then what. It’s just in our nature to be promiscuous. Pair bonding just isn’t a thing. RedPillers need to understand that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?Most men who have that kind of money are beta males with chodes like yours. Why do you think we keep telling you we’re better off making our own money and having the freedom to choose a hot man instead? Nothing is worse than being dependent on an angry little purity-obsessed beta. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 06:20 PM |
| 4 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?You’re welcome hunty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?I said what I said. Just being an honest woman, hoe. You might be fine with lying to these males and telling them ‘ohh no the spark’s just not there, that’s all, you have to woo me and romance me and I’ll totally drop my panties’. I’m not gonna tell them they’re doing something wrong when their gf is just bored of them. How long do you think males are gonna buy that lie? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?Yes. Why would attractive males - or as the redpill puts it, the top 20% - EVER want to be saddled with the same poon forever when even us women cheat when we get bored 😂. It’s okay to take advantage of your desirability and have a harem instead of endure some peabrained tradwife’s starfish sex. I’m not ever gonna knock hot men for not wanting to settle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 05:11 PM |
| 8 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?They’d love to provide, anyone would. Meanwhile the female role entails subordination, obedience, losing your dignity and identity, reproducing if he asks, dressing only how he prefers, lying on your back like a blowup doll whenever he wants, and domestically slaving away for him. To be honest, if I was forced to be in a position like this I’d BEG him to cheat just so I didn’t have to fuck the tradcel too. They don’t realize how repugnant having no freedom is to women. They just won’t accept it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 03:17 PM |
| 11 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?Right? And at the rate they don’t trust women, I can guarantee you they’d NEVER want to be dependent on a female for their entire survival. We have a greater reason not to trust men, but they believe we should jump at the opportunity to depend on them with an idiotic smile on our faces lmfao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?Agreed and I just want to add to your point about the sex thing. As a woman I can guarantee you that it means she’s losing interest. We’re usually into the male in the beginning but after awhile we get bored and want to try new dick or see if there’s a hotter male out there. So we’ll stop having sex and go fantasize in the the next bedroom by ourselves if we’re loyal, or we’ll actually go cheat. I’m pretty sure even men get bored of the same meal everyday. But while men can still desire sex with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 03:00 PM |
| 18 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?This lol. All the highly attractive ‘Chads’ I know aren’t into settling down and are more adventurous. They’re goofballs, they’re just vibing out here. It’s always the - no offence - but less desirable males that seek traditionalism. They want the reliable, subservient, homely breeding machine and even shame men who don’t have to settle for one and can kick it with all the freaks they desire. I feel like they want attractive men to settle too, so they don’t feel as alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 02:47 PM |
| 13 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?Exactly. There’s a huge difference in roles. ‘Paying for stuff’ is not as heavy as ‘be prepared for total subordination after marriage, get with the first male you meet to preserve your purity, and condemn yourself to sleep with said male whenever he wants’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 02:34 PM |
| 4 | Would you date a man if you found out he’s paid for sex in the past?Yeah because it’s tragic. You need to PAY a female to tolerate sex from you? Lmfao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/23 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Would most RP men prefer an average looking virgin woman or a knockout woman with a past?lmfao most can’t score the hottie to begin with and in real life, they’ll pick her if she’ll have them. Their ideal scenario is marry the simpleton of a virgin that doesn’t shave her hoohaa and pits while they cheat with or wank to the hottie. It’s a genius plan that’s worked forever - keep a homely safe option at home while you lust after risky females that have options and will obliterate your heart. If you can upgrade, leave the uggo and upgrade. Same way women settle for betas but lust after… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Would most RP men prefer an average looking virgin woman or a knockout woman with a past?This has been my experience with hot men as well. They have immense baggage. They all mentioned feelings of emptiness and being mistreated (all got cheated on). They mentioned that women often ONLY want them for sex because other women are already competing for these guys and their high body counts are intimidating. They also said they feel jaded about relationships because so women cheat on their BFs with them. Also, finding an emotional connection outside of sex is hard because women are so bl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysNot to mention dudes state on multiple platforms it’s better to marry a mid female than a beauty queen because beautiful women are allegedly narcissistic and vain. There’s even an old saying ‘never make a beautiful woman your wife’ because the man will spend a lifetime fighting against other men over her. It’s common for men to marry homely women because they’re safer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysNot at all lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysI don’t blame you one bit babes, and yeah that’s what it means. Basically says you’re the safe option to settle for, not the panty-dropper. There’s a stomach-turning aspect to being called ‘wifey material’ too (homely, unassuming, dutiful, docile, simple, quiet, ordinary, predictable). I religiously avoid the label lol. It’d feel patronizing when women that are salivated over are boner-inducing hard-to-please sirens and femme fatales, not frumperellas that remind you of the old ‘ball and chain’.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 04:47 AM |
| 0 | It's bad for men's mental health to tell them that women like sex as much as themI agree actually. We’re sexually voracious - BUT we’re only like that with a small percentage of males. I think like 20%. It’s impossible to get enthusiastic over sex with average dudes, dudes that overthink, or angry bitter dudes like Andrea Titty. If your method will help dudes chill out, I’m all for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 03:55 AM |
| 4 | Which of these two men are more attractive to women?Girl yes lol the man is fine AF 🔥 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Which of these two men are more attractive to women?Can’t even lie, Victor is my type. Masculine, serious, aggressive, obviously a risk-taker. Zelenskyy is a funny beta bitchboy and I just never liked him. I heard he’s short too. I couldn’t tell you why people find him attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Which degrees make men and women more and less attractive?They get the most pussy in Toronto and are paid extremely well. I got a BBA because you need one just for any work here bc it’s so competitive, and I can tell you my female peers fucked with these dudes, not university dudes. Truck drivers, contractors, electricians, auto mechanics - we love them. They can be some real players but they’re worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Which degrees make men and women more and less attractive?They seemed to be judgemental towards women in general and don’t know how to chill out. No offence but they tended to be nerdy creeps that get attached easily and I always got the vibe they dislike women deep down because we’re not the fantasy they created in their heads. It’s just really hard to vibe with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4W - Were you actually really attracted to the man you made wait for sex?Never made any of my exes or my current man wait for sex. They were tall, aggressive and fine as hell so you bet I fucked them asap. If a guy is really your type like you claim he is, you’re gonna crave sex with him. I don’t blame dudes for being a concerned if a girl they’re dating isn’t giving them bedroom eyes or trying to get down to business. Making a guy wait is something you do if you’re using him, not sexually attracted to him, your libido is low and sex isn’t a priority, or you’re celib… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Which degrees make men and women more and less attractive?Trade certificates make the panties drop while university degrees (in science, business, STEM etc.) dry women up. Apparently a lot of us feel this way. I was never into dudes with university degrees. I prefer mechanics and construction workers - they tend to be crude, masculine and hot. They also fuck the shit out you. For women, a diploma that’ll land you a job at a dental office is enough, or in aesthetics/beauty. Masculine dudes get turned on by femininity and find university degrees just as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Isn't it counter-intuitive for men who want sex to shame women for having sex?That’s exactly what they do. This is literally the pattern. You really think they’ll turn around and date an awkward femcel? People date people with shared experiences. Social people date social people. High n-count males prefer high n-count females. I know that must suck to hear as a low n-count beta, but Chads live a different life and have different expectations than you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 10:11 PM |
| 4 | Do women care about the type of job you have?Not sure about other women but I don’t date dudes in STEM, doctors, accountants, businessmen or lawyers and I particularly hate scientists and researchers. I prefer tradesmen and other blue-collar workers. It doesn’t matter if they’re low-income in some cases, I’ll still pick them. Those other jobs give me nerdy creepy vibes which I’m just not attracted to. Trade jobs just come off more masculine and virile. I noticed the men that work them are more aggressive, social and laidback. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Isn't it counter-intuitive for men who want sex to shame women for having sex?No they don’t lmfaoo why do betas think Chads share their concerns? These are extremely sexually active dudes - the top 20% - that are breaking their backs servicing all the women that reject you. Do you really think after having so much wild sex they care about n-count? These big-dicked heathens do not care. Why do you think ladies trample each other trying to bang them and lock them down instead of n-count puritans? Men that are drowning in female attention and puss are more chill and don’t co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, could we get honest answers about your dating life as you have grown older? (i.e The Wall)It’s the darnedest thing, isn’t it? I know I was thrilled when I realized what was happening lol! I think many young women grow into our looks and become full-figured later on. It’s very normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Women of PPD, could we get honest answers about your dating life as you have grown older? (i.e The Wall)They’re literally denying women’s lived experiences in the comments lmfao. The phantom ‘Wall’ they cling to is their only hope of revenge against women who rejected them in their 20’s 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 09:41 PM |
| 8 | Isn't it counter-intuitive for men who want sex to shame women for having sex?This. Extremely sexually desirable males (i.e. Chads) don’t give a fuck about n-counts. Any woman that engages with them will tell you this. In fact in my experience they prefer experienced women because shy starfish don’t cut it. It’s always undesirable rejects that care about n-counts and for good reason. They not only have to compete way harder for female attention but when seeking someone that’ll settle for them, they obsess over markers that they think can anticipate whether the subject wil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Q4M—Why don’t you just opt out?As a woman, I have to second what you’re saying. The weepy tugging at our skirts is repugnant and needy. In our eyes, men aren’t supposed to ‘need’ us in any fashion. And the more men force women to stay, the less masculine they look. It’s more attractive when they are completely indifferent to us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 12:04 PM |
| -1 | Women of PPD, could we get honest answers about your dating life as you have grown older? (i.e The Wall)I do and get told that often. I know, how unfair! The women in my family were genetically blessed and look better later in life. My countrywomen are a youthful active group. The fact we’re of colour, eat healthy, and are taught dance from a young age might play a role. It’s embarrassing that bitter betas cope by disagreeing with women’s literal life experiences but your nerdy little revenge fantasy is just that - a fantasy lmfao. Suck it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 11:52 AM |
| 0 | Women of PPD, could we get honest answers about your dating life as you have grown older? (i.e The Wall)30 F here. I had my glow-up AFTER 24. I looked awful in my teens because I was starved and suffered maltreatment by family (my culture is one of the most oppressive in the world). I still got plenty of male attention but until 24 my life was a nightmare. After 24? I look younger now than I did in my teens. I had wrinkles at 16, now I have none. I always get hit on and random people will stop me and tell me I’m beautiful. I’m very invested in beauty and maintaining my skin/body though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Are there some men you will have sex with but not have a relationship with them?Oh yeah, and it had nothing to do with cheating vibes. Believe it or not women are actually not that concerned about that lol. Sometimes sexual compatibility can exist but you just don’t vibe on any other level. Maybe they smoke and you don’t. Maybe they’re very spiritual but you’re not. In my case they wanted to tie me down or wanted marriage/kids and I wasn’t about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 04:30 PM |
| 5 | Would you date a man whom has an OF account and regularly tips on it?I thought this as well lol. Some of those OF dudes are damn fine too chefs kiss | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 03:44 AM |
| 3 | Men are more honest and faithful than women.Phew. As a woman I love this but just warning you, people will defend us and claim we’re faithful lol. The human species is heavily invested in maintaining women’s clean image for the ‘greater good of society’ and the idea we’d lie on paper to protect our angelic front is an abomination. Also just to add to your point about the Victorian era, it’s also said that the reason abrahamic religion is so sexually restrictive towards women is that we’ll be animalistic whores if given the freedom to act … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 03:28 AM |
| 5 | Female erotic plasticityChile I don’t want to see them get their hearts broken from disappointment. I try to warn them too because both sexes are gaslighting them talking about how women are loyal, sensitive, pair-bonding angels. Like don’t lie, we some hoes. Older men like yourself know what I’m talking about. Just because she’s dry when you touch her doesn’t mean she never gets wet for nobody. Not to add insult to injury lol but come on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 04:01 AM |
| -1 | Q4M: Men who search for virgin girlfriends/wives, exactly how do you go about it?It REALLY doesn’t lol. I’m not proud of it but I cheated on the guy I lost my virginity to. I had a high libido and he had erectile dysfunction. He was a Chad too, 6’4” and handsome smh. I went and found a bigger and better lay. I waited longer than most and faked being a demure ‘good girl’ like I was told, but my desire for a good dick-down was strong since my teens. ‘Virgin’ really is a pointless title lol cause I wasn’t pure by any means even when I was one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 03:35 AM |
| 1 | What are the types of women "alpha chads" end up with?Usually bombshells with sex appeal. Superstars are known to wife up actresses/pornstars/playboy bunnies/singers. They rarely settle for frumpy virgin femcels and why would they? They want someone who understands their lifestyle. They seem to prefer women that run in their social circles or other celebrities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 03:06 AM |
| 14 | Female erotic plasticityLet me tell you a little secret you won’t find most women admit to lol. Our sex drives are heavily tempered by shame and we get bored of sex with the same male. Yes baby. We get bored screwing the same male over and over in LTRs but we’re pressured to keep our n-counts low or only give it up in committed relationships or marriage - thus producing what looks like a low sex drive. We’d rather cheat tbh and we do if we know we won’t get caught. Women are not monogamous, we’re sexually voracious aro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 01:08 AM |
| 13 | Female erotic plasticityThis. We also get aroused by reading erotica, looking at sexual paintings, and hearing sexual sounds/noises. I always felt like our sexuality is more intense and expansive than men’s. We’ve always been shamed for how dirty and kinky we naturally are though, and it’s been decided that we need to be pure and virginal with no sexual agency. Most responses here even insinuate any sexuality we do have is just us performing for males or a strategy to endure their violence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Men are easily fooled when it comes to understanding why women are around certain men. This is the source of bitterness😭 you KNOW Kodak looks like a damn bug but women are dying to be with him even though he had an STD, and the other looks like a grinning goofball and makes horrible life decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever met a man that you instantly were sexually attracted toward ?Hell yes. My type is tall, handsome and dripping sexual energy and if I’m single and see one I like, my mind goes right to fantasizing about them. Usually the guys I want can tell. I’ll probably make eyes at them until they approach me and ask me out. Once we’re texting/dating I’d like it if they send me dick pics and talk dirty to me. The men I’m attracted to and date are all tall and built with chiselled faces and have a dirty mind. Money or common interests don’t attract me. But if he’s nasty… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Men are easily fooled when it comes to understanding why women are around certain men. This is the source of bitternessExactly. Look at Kodak Black or Nick Cannon. They really aren’t exceptional males but they have money and fame and a certain type of female would whore herself out to get a piece of the pie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Is having mental illness or being neurodivergent the most unattractive trait a man have?As soon as I hear a dude has any mental condition like what you mentioned I bounce. Also goes for panic disorder, antisocial personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder. I get turned off very easily and I just don’t see it working. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 03:58 PM |
| 3 | q4women in loving long-term relationships: would you keep being in relationship with your SO if he indefinitely stopped being able to work or bring money?Yeah and I have stuck around when he was in between jobs. Why? Because he’s tall, extremely attractive, has a big dick, and is physically strong. Sexual attraction and looks are what I look for, sorry just being honest. I’d rather stay and starve with a broke hot Chad than live in luxury with a rich geeky beta I’m not attracted to. (4 years together) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from?Just reading what they say on this sub is enough to jade women tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from?I don’t think they realize it’s actually creepy and off-putting. There’s also nothing remotely sexually attractive about a guy wanting an inexperienced naive childlike individual to screw and impregnate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from?They act like we enjoy dealing with bitter, jaded, repeatedly rejected/cheated males. We don’t, we just don’t demand males never experience life. It’s totally fine, just come healed or at least learn something from your experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 02:05 PM |
| 3 | Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from?lol they want a fucking incel like them. Or should I say volcel because she has to voluntarily deny herself sex. They want a loser-ass, under-socialized, naive virgin idiot they can put babies in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 02:02 PM |
| 1 | You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it?Is he ugly, snobby and balding like most rich dudes? I care more about a man’s physical appearance than his money. The only reason I’d do that is if he’s unbelievably handsome lol just speaking honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What are some traits you're "supposed" to find attractive but don't?The trades or construction. Jobs that require heavy lifting are a huge turn-on for any woman and also keep the man fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What are some traits you're "supposed" to find attractive but don't?Money, cars, being a ‘provider’, negging (you’re not cute, you’re a cunt), jealousy/possessiveness, dudes with corporate jobs like those fat balding CEOs or STEM jobs like creepy medical researcher or scientist (it’s beta, no offence just saying what women secretly think). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 12:30 PM |
| 1 | What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub?No unfortunately they are getting it EXTREMELY early. Some say it’s due to extreme porn usage or drug use. Terrible either way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 12:13 PM |
| 1 | What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub?Not to mention lots of ‘traditionalists’ are unknowingly sharing their partners without knowing it anyway. Definitely makes rigid master-follower heterosexual marriages tolerable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 08:44 PM |
| – | What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub?This is my method lol no regrets. All my LTR’s came about from wild sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 08:39 PM |
| -1 | What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub?Yup. Too many have erectile dysfunction by 30 now. A broken-pp is no good to a sexually voracious lady. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Would you be more accepting of a man who is upfront and tells you he wants to date/have sex with other women besides you?Hell yeah. I always said it’d be fine but my exes strongly refused and only wanted me, even though they were what you’d call Chads. My current relationship is monogamous but if I was with someone else and he wanted that, I’d be open to working something out. I’d hope that we could find a hetero-couple to play with though lol. Just to keep diseases to a minimum and have some stability. Also this way, females won’t feel like they’re getting used or get jealous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 08:43 PM |
| 5 | What do you most appreciate about the opposite sex?The way they eat coochie for hours. You’d think they don’t need to breathe. And how easy it is to see through their tough facade and identify their weaknesses, total turn-on. That’s it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 10:48 AM |
| 4 | When it is said that women want less sex than men, what exactly does it mean?I hope they listen hard to this 😭 I didn’t even know you could be both ravenously hungry AND desperate for D at the exact same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 02:59 PM |
| 4 | When it is said that women want less sex than men, what exactly does it mean?Womens libidos fluctuate a lot - we get hornier during certain times in our menstrual cycle. At other times it’s non-existent. We can even go months without wanting it due to depression. And I hate to bring this other point up but it might also be that women get bored easily and want to try new schlong. It paints us in a bad light but it’s not like dudes don’t already have your suspicions as to why our drives can completely tank. https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2019/02/women-get-bored-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Men are not looking for a virgin as some women here claim, but rather they are looking for characteristics we often associate with virginsThis at least makes more sense and is more of a reasonable demand. I had a feeling it was probably more along the lines of what you’re saying. I don’t hear dudes say nice things about virgins, they find them creepy and weird. Especially Chads lol. Do not come near them if you’re a shy childlike loser. These guys want a bombshell that can throw it down. You better know how to do backflips on the D or they’ll leave and date someone who can lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 02:38 PM |
| 1 | What are your top 3 dating requirements and do you believe you meet them yourself?Needed to pick 4 Good leadership Non-religious Loves animals Not interested in having kids (I meet them and so does my LTR) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 02:17 PM |
| 8 | “Women make their own money now”They are something else entirely. CF women here will tell them they’re happy and even give detailed reports and they will actually have the arrogance to tell us to our face that ‘no, actually you’re not happy’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 04:18 PM |
| 6 | “Women make their own money now”I second this. I worked in corporate and it was so off-putting how men here will approach you thinking they can buy just any woman with money. They flash their pads and cars and think you’ll think the world of them. And they always seemed to have either repugnant personalities or were beta males (one rich guy even cried and threw things at me when I refused to commit after one date). I’m so happy to be independent and not have to endure men like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 04:12 PM |
| 9 | “Women make their own money now”You should hear what they secretly say about their ulterior motives too. I have heard them admit it’s nothing but a metric for validation. A woman destroying her body and becoming undesirable to other men is a sign of a woman’s devotion you. Some have even said that it brings them pleasure to see the damage they’ve caused. I almost vomited. I’m glad I’m childfree and so is my man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 03:57 PM |
| 12 | “Women make their own money now”This right here. I see more men pressuring women into motherhood than I see women. They are the baby-crazy ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Why do women participate in the hook-up culture if they aren't getting the outcomes they want?Oh yeah. For most women, if it wasn’t for purity culture they would be throwin’ that pumpum guilt-free 😂 and not feel the need to harass and nag men into commitment. If they want a relationship it’d at least be less out of shame and pressure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 01:37 AM |
| 0 | You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for herGreat 👍🏽 I hope you remind them. Women deep down know all this of course, but can be bratty and whiny about it when they don’t get their way. Always helps to remind them that those sexy handsome men are human, have a life of their own, and aren’t obligated to pick them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 10:13 PM |
| 4 | Why do women participate in the hook-up culture if they aren't getting the outcomes they want?The problem is your friend doesn’t understand the rules of engagement in hook-up culture. She admits to using men for sex and enjoying their bodies but doesn’t like it when it’s done to her. If purity culture ceased to exist maybe she wouldn’t be crying but it’ll be awhile before we see the day. Until then women are going to have to brave a bit of animosity if they want to participate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 07:51 PM |
| 3 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.Males still invented the horseshit that is religion and males still fill up the pews of churches and worship on the mats of mosques. All major religious leaders are males. Extremists are mostly male. And I’m well aware traditional women are retarded enough to be devoutly religious and follow men’s lies but that doesn’t change the fact it came out of men’s anuses. You’re the ones that shat it out and conjured up the myths and stories. Take accountability for that. And yeah, astrology isn’t a reli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 05:35 PM |
| 2 | You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for herI just find it so funny how women are fine with competing for top-tier crème de la crème mates but beta males run from competition and can’t handle that there are hot men out there. They hate the players and the whole game too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 04:17 PM |
| 2 | You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for herAre you okay? That’s not what we were talking about and you’re raging so hard for nothing but whatever, I’ll bite. It IS normal for women to have high n counts. Why? We literally have them. We’ve always had them. We have cheated men so fucking hard throughout history they had to make adultery laws to impede us. Even married women cheat. It’s in heterosexual women’s nature to desire a big juicy schlong and hack through the jungle of men until we get to the best of the best of men because we’re ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 03:48 PM |
| 4 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.Yet men invented religion - the craziest psychobabble of all. All the lunatic prophets, self-proclaimed demigods and messiahs are male. Men have no trouble believing in talking snakes and bushes. Or driving planes into buildings over their god. Astrology is just a traditional practice. Vedic astrologers (i.e. the pros) in foreign countries are both male and female and usually older. They’re trained in what they do. The West and specifically white women may have made a mockery of astrology but in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 01:33 PM |
| 0 | You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for herI love how you worded this and it’s exactly how it goes for women. We don’t just go around banging uggos, we want the most sexually attractive men. And what people don’t get is that those sexually attractive men aren’t easy to please. They’re not like ‘nice guys’ that fall at your feet for a little female attention. You really have to bring your A game and look, as you said, like the most stunning female there. That’s part of the fun though, and most women love competition! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 11:03 AM |
| 3 | You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for herYeah lol Chads are appealing over a frigid dude. And what you’re reading as ‘pumping and dumping’ is really just a highly sexually desirable guy that hasn’t found anyone worth giving his heart to. They take longer to find ‘the One’ because they have so many to wade through and compare. They’re not bad people, though they’re often seen that way. Women live the same life, but just get more shit from RedPillers for it. And fun fact, the agony of not getting chosen for commitment hits Chads too. Wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 10:39 AM |
| 10 | You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for herGonna be harsh here but men that want virgins tend to be geeky unattractive beta males or traditionalist incels. They’re not exactly hot on the market. I don’t know how anyone could blame women for dating Chads instead. Obviously you would pick the alpha guy that’s more chill and lax and not afraid of competition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 06:00 AM |
| 7 | You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for herNot to mention dating in general is going to involve kissing touching and fucking. It’s unreasonable to expect people that are attracted to each other to act like platonic sex-shy friends when dating. It sounds more like a friendship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 05:48 AM |
| 5 | Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him?Female here and in my experience they’re creeped out by virgins. But then again I only dated Chad types that banged a lot of women and didn’t think about virginity. I noticed experienced, social males don’t care about it but inexperienced, awkward males do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 06:29 AM |
| 1 | CMV, Sex is an essential part of a long term relationship, without it relationships lose their love and end badly.Then maybe men shouldn’t marry or create any permanent ties with women. Isn’t it better to just be in relationships so you can leave when you’re not satisfied? I never understood why men just didn’t do that. The institution of marriage seems terrible for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 01:57 AM |
| 110 | I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theoryHe’s lucky because most women would just have left without a word, myself included. That was just disrespectful behaviour. I’m surprised she stayed. If anyone knew their daughter was going through this, I think we all know what they’d do. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/22 02:49 PM |
| 5 | My experience with a Red Pill Man and how to spot one in real life.Wow I’m not white but you make me sick. You’ll be surprised when you realize women of ALL races are realizing what a shit deal ‘marriage and children’ is for us. I wish on you nothing but the worst experiences with women. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/08/22 02:11 PM |
| 9 | My experience with a Red Pill Man and how to spot one in real life.This is so true. Many of us are told early that men are just born horrible, rapey, controlling beings you’ll never be able to compromise with. So if all of them are allegedly horrible, why is it so surprising when we easily put up with whatever comes our way and hope for the best? I think men are sold the opposite lie; they’re told women are all good little pure virtuous beings that’ll always be loyal, happy and servile. That we’re just precious submissive and breedable angels that want to marry… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/08/22 02:07 PM |
| 2 | My experience with a Red Pill Man and how to spot one in real life.RedPillers love to claim ‘all animals have a desire to reproduce’. Like, no, fucktard, we have a desire to BONE. You think a bedbug knows that screwing is going to produce offspring? You think humans think of reproduction when they bang? No they think of getting some and leaving afterwards. But RedPillers know if they admit that, they’ll realize we’re just hopelessly horny wild animals that are going to do as we please. We’re gonna abort when we like and we’re rarely going to want to settle down… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/08/22 12:13 PM |
| 12 | My experience with a Red Pill Man and how to spot one in real life.The first male I dated came off as a RedPiller as well. I was an inexperienced 20 yr-old and he was 33. I later found out he was a full-blown pedo and followed 14-16 year olds around. I feel so guilty that I didn’t know. I’m just happy I broke things off soon. I felt bad at the time for him because he’d been cheated on twice and complained about being friendzoned so much. He was #9 (proudly emotionally stunted) and #10 (made it abundantly clear he wasn’t interested in my goals). He was really we… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/08/22 12:03 PM |
| 6 | Why do you think MGTOW/Red pill men hate single moms so much?I live in the hood too and I get where you’re coming from but I don’t think the RedPill method of telling women who to marry or have sex or reproduce with is the best idea. Because think about it, even if you could force them into traditional relationships, unhappiness leads to infidelity and an unhappy home anyway. I just don’t feel that RedPillers have the solution. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/22 05:17 PM |
| 1 | What is Your Opinion About Fresh & Fit?As a brown female I find yt males antisocial. They like to imagine themselves masculine when they are just unusual and paranoid. I’ve dated a few and they were always struggling to be ‘human’ if that makes sense. They have sociopathic tendencies. It makes sense that the manosphere is yt-dominated and so many are incels. The way they define masculinity is backwards and morally bankrupt. They worry excessively about women and are always trying to control others because they’re worried about how ot… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/22 02:03 AM |
| 28 | Why do you think MGTOW/Red pill men hate single moms so much?Probably because there is no male authority over single mothers. They strongly believe in hierarchy (god, man, woman, child). | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/22 11:46 PM |
| 4 | The Man She Casually Sleeps With Versus The Man She Wants Kids With?As a female, she’s lying. Those ‘casual partners’ sexually aroused her more than her current husband but they probably didn’t want commitment or to breed. Why would they when they can enjoy any woman they want? She sounds like the average baby-crazy female who thought she could tie a hot guy down. Females get knocked up by a safe male to secure their future. The husband can’t leave now, he’s stuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 03:22 PM |
| 7 | [question for red pill] what strategy would you advise for a woman seeking a relationship to be able to meet your standards and not be either ghosted or placed as “recreational use only”? How could she prove she meets your standards if she really did?Or they want women’s literal DADS picking out males for them as if women were perpetual children. And women would ‘learn to love them’ and everything will be perfectly fine, ha. Then again RedPillers demand women appear ‘childlike and innocent’. Hang on I’m gonna go throw up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 02:35 AM |
| 4 | Q4W: Unmarried women, why do you think the men you want aren't asking to marry you?YES. My god 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 01:46 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Unmarried women, why do you think the men you want aren't asking to marry you?They’ve all asked me and I’ve said no. Men are more interested in tying you down than women nowadays. I’m not interested in matrimony. We can date or have a LTR. The man I’m with (yes I WANTED him, since you emphasize that so much) is on the same page as me. We both just want to be together, and neither of us like the concept of marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 01:31 AM |
| 10 | Abortion is HypergamyIf they could only put themselves in our shoes they too would want the thing out. When men say they want a life of freedom with a pretty woman whose body and mind aren’t destroyed by pregnancy people hear them loud and clear, but when we say we want the same it falls on deaf ears. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Abortion is HypergamyWe don’t think that. Having a penis in your poon just feels amazing and accidents happen during vigorous intercourse. Many women don’t want to deal with babies and pregnancy (we get fat and ugly, our husband/man will lose interest in our flabby repulsive body, and we’re saddled with a parasitic infant - we get nothing). I’m not denying gold-digging whores exist that’ll bang fugly guys like Leonardo and Elon. But while their money may get them poon and babies, even more broke men get poon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 05:17 PM |
| 5 | No guy wants to be "husband material" over "hookup material"This is a more common story in my experience. I keep hearing it. And it happens to even ‘Chads’. I was dating this guy (6’4’’, buff, extremely handsome) and he told me he got turned down for relationships until he met me. I thought to myself ’WHAT!? How?’ He said they strung him along for sex and refused to commit, even going so far as to bang other dudes while letting him think they were exclusively talking. Me, I’m picky and I don’t really date around. I thought he’d do just fine. But his bitt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 02:13 PM |
| 1 | No guy wants to be "husband material" over "hookup material"Ngl, many women feel the same about being called a ‘good girl’ or ‘wifey material’. Males think it’s a compliment but if you noticed, many women buck against it. You feel like they’re calling you stupid, simple, modest, innocent, pure and homely. A dutiful little c—t that will quietly sweep the floor, stay home and obey. You don’t feel like the beautiful or sexy hard-to-get women males are healing from lol. You don’t feel like a heartbreaking femme fatale. It just rubs you the wrong way. So I ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 01:59 PM |
| 3 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillThey also suffer ED - and it’s happening to them earlier on in age. It’s terrible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 02:23 AM |
| 3 | A big part of why sex is less important to women is that sex is one of the few ways that a man can get affirmation of his attractivenessSex IS important to women. You know how skin-crawlingly horny menses makes us? It probably looks like it’s less important to us because we only want hot, smooth, handsome guys to bone us. Whereas men will bang anything. Women have better control and want la crème de la crème. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Childfree women - do you split the bill on a date?Childfree woman here, very feminine, and always been spoiled by men. I don’t ask them to pay, they just do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 10:25 PM |
| 6 | Don't describe yourself as kind or empathetic to men.They also try and force these qualities of ‘nice’ and ‘sweet’ on you. I used to talk to a LVM and something stuck out. He not only assumed that I was a ‘sweet’ girl but also incessantly used that word to describe me. It’s almost like they try and plaster the title of ‘nice, sweet girl’ on you before they even figure out your personality. LVM enjoy infantilizing you and narrowing your personality down to one or two submissive/passive descriptors so you know your duty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 10:07 PM |
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