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narcississy/r/seduction23/08/11 02:09 AM
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narcississy/r/seduction18/08/11 07:18 AM
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Oh that makes sense then. Sorry you have that sort of trust issue. I think it's a fairly common problem. Maybe if you were less charming it wouldn't be such a problem? Vulnerability can be magical for intimacy. But it takes fearlessness. So, fake it till you make it I guess. Good luck.
/r/seduction11/10/11 07:49 AM
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They're almost a micro-expression. It's a very rapid lift of the eyebrows, almost so that she looks surprised for a split second. Men do it too. I have a friend who uses this to her advantage, she does a prolonged eyebrow flash to be sure that the guy notices.
/r/seduction04/10/11 02:38 AM
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Yeah, it's different from an attractive female's perspective. I have my pick of most of my friends. If I develop an attraction to one of them, all it takes is some serious alone time and a few alluring glances.
/r/seduction04/10/11 02:37 AM
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Yeah it was glib. But I just got the vibe that you have a real fear of women and that fear has sort of solidified into this stubborn overgeneralized hatred. Easiest solution=homosexuality.
/r/seduction03/10/11 09:37 PM
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And check out what I said in your other post. No beef.
/r/seduction03/10/11 09:24 PM
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I didn't downvote you. I just feel sorry for you. In psychology there's a phenomenon called "the hostility bias" and it can really royally fuck up your life (and your game). It's where you assume hostility from others even in neutral circumstances. It's social poison. You need to relax and enjoy people, especially women. And don't be so afraid of being hurt.
/r/seduction03/10/11 09:23 PM
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Just relax. Most women aren't like your horrible friends. And the only way to know if you can trust a girl is to spend time with her and build a bond. You'll get to know a girlfriend even better than you know your platonic friends. And sometimes you end up dating a bitch, but then you get over her and find someone else. Simple. And people in love tend to be pretty selfless and wonderful to each other.
/r/seduction03/10/11 05:28 PM
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You're right, I stopped reading about halfway through all the women hating. Why are you friends with women you don't respect?
/r/seduction03/10/11 08:16 AM
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I move through these as stages instead of as categories. It usually starts with "totally not interested" and then rapidly moves to "super into you" all of the sudden. Don't lose hope in the friendzone. I place men there as a special reserve and usually only ever get serious about the ones I pluck from there.
/r/seduction03/10/11 08:03 AM
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Your first mistake was considering her an HB10.
/r/seduction03/10/11 06:59 AM
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I remember in my evolutionary psychology class that researchers found that men assumed hair flipping to be a sign of attraction, but that in actuality it wasn't. The most reliable signs are eye-contact, smiles, mirroring and eyebrow flashes. Eyebrow flashes especially.
/r/seduction02/10/11 06:23 AM
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I would see them as techniques if they were canned lines like those. I hope they wouldn't try to seduce me. I tend to do the seducing. Also, if men have an HB scale because attraction is so visual for them, it's perfectly acceptable for women to have standards based on intellectual capabilities. If I'm stuck up, it's only because I won't date verbal morons.
/r/seduction02/10/11 03:05 AM
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My emotions are totally manipulated by texts. Texting gets me way more than phone conversations. I can go back and read it over and over again. It stresses the hell out of us females. You have no idea how many times I've gone for coffee with a girlfriend and all we do is discuss confusing text messages. I think the trick is to be emotionally ambiguous but provocative with them. And be unpredictable. My last boyfriend courted me almost exclusively through cryptic poetic text messages. Major mindf…
/r/seduction02/10/11 03:01 AM
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That's retarded. So I'm so powerless to these techniques that I wouldn't even notice how I'm reacting to them? Even though I'm a seddit junky? I just have really high standards when it comes to a man's communication style. I also refuse to respond to texts with emoticons. If someone wants to seem unique/interesting/funny they should avoid canned lines and cliches at all costs. But hell, they'd probably work on twits.
/r/seduction02/10/11 02:53 AM
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Don't use "maybe", it's too feminine. "Should" is good because it's more of a command.
/r/seduction01/10/11 04:36 AM
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If a man sent me any of these I would never text him back and I would show them to my friends and we'd all have a good laugh at the poor chump who came out of a can.
/r/seduction01/10/11 04:30 AM
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Is that a joke? How have writers done if for centuries without them? Can you imagine great love letters written with sideways winky faces?
/r/seduction24/08/11 04:29 PM
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It's more the fact that they're not insecure about it.
/r/seduction24/08/11 02:41 AM
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Maybe just for me, but if a man has some sort of obvious physical flaw and he's attractive nonetheless, it makes him doubly attractive. I have no problem with shorter men either, so long as they're interesting. It's like they have to try harder. Or they're confident enough to not give a fuck about their different appearance? I don't know, explaining my own sexual attraction to them is difficult because it's not a logical thing, it's an illogical carnal thing.
/r/seduction24/08/11 02:40 AM
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That's fine, but if they're taking their shirt off to show off their "sweet pecks" then I won't touch them ever.
/r/seduction24/08/11 02:35 AM
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Beards are cool. Chin straps are heinous.
/r/seduction23/08/11 03:58 PM
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I hate bad spelling and glaringly poor grammar.
/r/seduction23/08/11 07:20 AM
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Emoticons.
/r/seduction23/08/11 06:16 AM
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I just find them tacky. It's just a matter of taste. If a guy is really great I might be able to overlook it, but usually it says something about a man if he's paid money to have a naked woman permanently drawn on his skin. Homophobia/racism is far worse though.
/r/seduction23/08/11 05:54 AM
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"Chin-strap" facial hair.
/r/seduction23/08/11 04:21 AM
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Men with tattoos of naked women.
/r/seduction23/08/11 04:20 AM
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This won't work on good women. If I saw a guy do that to another guy my "DOUCHEBAG flags" would be flapping like crazy.
/r/seduction23/08/11 04:17 AM
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Men who take their shirts off at house-parties.
/r/seduction23/08/11 04:08 AM
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Yeah, it's a major deal breaker for me if a man talks negatively about other people constantly, especially if these people are his "friends". I'm really into unhappy/neurotic men though, I think I'm fooled into thinking they're deep and smart.
/r/seduction23/08/11 04:07 AM
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That's really funny, I once knew a man who had a thing for girls with braces, but he had really crooked teeth.
/r/seduction23/08/11 03:57 AM
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Neither bother me. I wouldn't date a meth, crack or heroin addict though. That's just asking for heartache/drama/diseases.
/r/seduction23/08/11 03:55 AM
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Yeah I have an immediately visible imperfection, and I have absolutely no problem with men. I think it makes me seem slightly less intimidating. Also, I love balding men. Especially when they seem insecure about it. Visual vulnerability can be such a turn on.
/r/seduction23/08/11 03:52 AM
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I've had someone stop seeing me because I wouldn't "party" with them. Party meaning MDMA and cocaine.
/r/seduction23/08/11 03:49 AM
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What about a mole? Or a gap between her teeth?
/r/seduction23/08/11 03:00 AM
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I picked up a guy once by saying "I like your height. It's the perfect height." I then slid my hand along the top of my head to the tip of his nose. Then we started kissing. Took all of six seconds.
/r/seduction23/08/11 02:12 AM
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Of course not, but evolution isn't the only explanation for our behaviour.
/r/seduction19/08/11 03:27 PM
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Over 21? Really? After 23 I've had way more men interested than before 21. I feel like a whole world of men has opened up. After 23 older men feel less weird about trying to win you, and younger men feel more taboo/accomplished in trying to win you. I have a female friend who is in her late fifties and she is an absolute queen at seducing men. Evolutionarily it makes no sense, but culturally it does at the moment.
/r/seduction19/08/11 08:19 AM
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Oh no, no douchey boyfriends. Absolutely no crying on shoulders. I've slept with half of my male friends, because they're beautiful and wonderful and I genuinely love them. But "friends with benefits" doesn't suit me. I'm more of an intense fling or serious relationship kind of person.
/r/seduction19/08/11 07:57 AM
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Next year for grad school. Europe, how romantic.
/r/seduction19/08/11 07:33 AM
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The less you say, the better. Just take her out, do something that is obviously a date and then kiss her.
/r/seduction19/08/11 01:50 AM
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High quality milk. I just take my time dishing it out. No rush, it's better if you've had to wait a while for it anyway. High quality men have no problem waiting, they have plenty of cows to go milk while they're pining for something more. I think we agree here.
/r/seduction19/08/11 01:46 AM
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I give out plenty of milk.
/r/seduction19/08/11 01:44 AM
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Well maybe I'm not into high quality guys then. They have me fooled! Must be all the seddit they read.
/r/seduction19/08/11 01:42 AM
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Love is good. What's wrong with love? People love falling in love. I give them what they want, they give me what I want. Romance is a blast.
/r/seduction19/08/11 01:41 AM
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Well if you're in love with her you should probably grab her up before someone else does. Especially if that someone else is a jealous boyfriend who notices how close she is with you. If she rejects you, just stay her friend and you can always try again in a few years when she's knows you even better and you have more going on for yourself. No rejection is ever final.
/r/seduction18/08/11 04:34 PM
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And shouldn't you be calling me something more offensive/descriptive than just a monosyllabic word for my favourite organ?
/r/seduction18/08/11 04:21 PM
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You should probably start looking to date other women while she's busy with Toolbag. Don't be a tool. Don't let her completely own you if she's seeing other men. Or just go for it. Just ask her out.
/r/seduction18/08/11 04:18 PM
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Sure. But no more of a cunt than the men trying to sleep with as many women as they possibly can for sport. I love men, I really love the hell out of them. It's easier to love them when they love you back.
/r/seduction18/08/11 04:16 PM
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Yep, she's given you oneitis. Maybe I'm the girl you're thinking of? Sounds like me. She's not going to randomly fuck you, but she might fall deeply and passionately in love with you. She might marry you.
/r/seduction18/08/11 03:31 PM
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Is it though? Women just need some time to get to know you before they commit. Think about it from an evolutionary perspective, women have to invest so much more in offspring, they want to make sure they choose right. Also, we want to make sure we're not dating a man who frequents seddit or who carries "The Game" around like a bible.
/r/seduction18/08/11 03:29 PM
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Absolutely! This is quite often what friendzone is for. It's not a bad place to be if you want to give a woman oneitis right back. How many times on reddit do you hear people complain about how they're in love with their best friends?
/r/seduction18/08/11 03:02 PM
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No never on a first date. This is post friendzone, but before he starts to figure you out. He should never find your flaws before you offer them up. If you offer them up right, he'll see them as endearing.
/r/seduction18/08/11 02:57 PM
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I'm in my twenties.
/r/seduction18/08/11 02:55 PM
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I tend to be totally obsessive with the men I'm after. If I'm after a man, I like to tell him that if he catches my fancy, I can be a little intense. I'll apologize and say something like "I can be a bit much, I know. I would just like to warn you that I may have some delusions of grandeur going on in here for you." Or something less flattering: I can also be a bit of a flaming feminist at times. I find it's best to get that out in the open as quickly as possible so that he doesn't notice it on …
/r/seduction18/08/11 08:22 AM
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It's a quick and dirty way to grab a man's attention if nothing else is working.
/r/seduction18/08/11 08:14 AM
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There's a relatively simple trick to prolong it, and even give a man a series of mini-orgasms (if he's capable of having them without ejaculating). It's all about rhythm, I find doing a certain repetitive movement in sets of fifteen and then something else in a quicker rhythm in another set of fifteen and then returning to something painfully slow tends to work nicely. If you can make a guy cum in thirty seconds, but you refuse to let him for close to an hour, not only are you giving him good he…
/r/seduction18/08/11 08:08 AM
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Yeah, I tend to say outrageous things to the man alone. Not in a group setting. In a way that makes him believe I trust him alone.
/r/seduction18/08/11 08:02 AM
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You need to overcompensate for the lack of physical contact by building either emotional intimacy or intellectual intensity pretty quickly. Strong eye-contact, fearless debate, humour or confessional conversations tend to work for me. If I'm extremely attracted, I'll be even less likely to touch him, because I feel so uncomfortable about losing control over him. I'll be anxious for him to touch me, and I'll try and draw him into it, but I will never touch him. Sometimes I'll go so far as avoidin…
/r/seduction18/08/11 08:00 AM
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Act like he has you flustered sometimes. Let yourself blush. Feel the rush of being anxious around him, express it. Let him know he can make you feel things.
/r/seduction18/08/11 07:55 AM
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Make eye-contact, but also give him the opportunity to watch you. Move gracefully. Learn to use your cutlery right. Find things to do with your hands. Pretend to ignore him while you do these little graceful and interesting things with your hands. Touch your own body distractedly. Stroke your own legs, play with your hair, touch your lips, but don't look at him while you do this. Let him watch.
/r/seduction18/08/11 07:53 AM
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The already broken ones can be the most fun. They're like born-agains!
/r/seduction18/08/11 07:49 AM
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I am drunk! And I'm having a blast.
/r/seduction18/08/11 07:48 AM
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Admit your flaws outright, be proud of them. Think of them as quirks, advertise them. If you're needy, tell him you're needy before he has a chance to notice. If you're bossy, let him know. Apologize for these traits, but don't try to hide them. Make them seem interesting.
/r/seduction18/08/11 07:47 AM
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Tell people he knows that you're interested in him, but then act like you're not. Or act like you're interested in him, but tell the people he knows that you think he's interested in you.
/r/seduction18/08/11 07:45 AM
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Hang around, but don't approach him directly. Accidentally show up places that you know he'll be, looking gorgeous. Pay little attention to him, unless he approaches you, then be delighted to see him, but cut the conversation short and disappear.
/r/seduction18/08/11 07:43 AM
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Make not just your target want you, but aim for his best friends too.
/r/seduction18/08/11 07:41 AM
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Don't be a slut. If you are, be discreet about it.
/r/seduction18/08/11 07:41 AM
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Occasionally show some leg. Don't show too much cleavage.
/r/seduction18/08/11 07:40 AM
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Be interested and interesting.
/r/seduction18/08/11 07:40 AM
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Never say anything mean about anyone. Be generous and kind all the time, to everyone you come in contact with. And laugh and smile as much as you can.
/r/seduction18/08/11 07:39 AM
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And don't be stupid. Never play stupid unless you're trying to win over a man who thinks that he is stupid. Don't seduce stupid men. They're boring.
/r/seduction18/08/11 07:34 AM
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And learn to give rocking head. Like earth-shattering 45 minute head. Use it sparingly, but know how to do it right.
/r/seduction18/08/11 07:32 AM
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Also, with the dress thing. If you have a "signature" style piece. Like you wear massive earrings, or high boots, or red lipstick, or big hats. Men find it easier to identify you to their friends, suddenly you're not just "nondescript hot redhead" you're the "hot girl who wears those boots all the time." His friends will know who he's talking about and agree and now you seem even hotter.
/r/seduction18/08/11 07:32 AM
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Oh yeah and not being afraid of blatant honesty and saying things that would embarrass anyone else. Men mistake this for intimacy and confidence all the freaking time.
/r/seduction18/08/11 07:29 AM
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Also, dressing in costume. Not dressing like a typical "hot girl", but dressing like a fucking nutcase. Like a secretary, or a goddess, or a gypsy, or a school girl, or a jock, but in a very subtle way. And never wearing the same get-up twice.
/r/seduction18/08/11 07:28 AM
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Also, kino seems to work the opposite for women with this goal. If I want a man to want me in a really bad way, I will delay physical contact for as long as possible. I wait until I know that "accidentally" touching his hand will make him blush. I don't give out free hugs, I don't give flirtatious arm touches, I don't even give high fives unless they're explicitly requested. All physical contact comes either from the man breaking through my terrible ice-wall with sheer determination or from my s…
/r/seduction18/08/11 07:26 AM
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I find men good looking if they're taller than me, don't dress like a moron, have a warm smile and a calm voice.
/r/seduction17/08/11 08:25 AM
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Men love crazy if crazy is attached to a hot body.
/r/seduction17/08/11 08:21 AM
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It's not all physical appearance, I've been attractive since I was a young teenager, but I didn't have any game until about five years ago when I actually started mindfucking men. Attraction is as much about personality for men as it is for women, men just don't tend to notice how attracted they are to a woman's personality. But have you noticed how many redditors are in love with their best female friends?
/r/seduction17/08/11 08:20 AM
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If I'm interested in a man I usually let him know by smiling my face off and staring at him when he's talking. I also tend to try to impress him with how smart, witty and kind I am. And I don't try and find an excuse to end the conversation with him. And if he leaves the room I'll either follow him or stay put and sulk in hopes that he comes back to me.
/r/seduction17/08/11 07:05 AM
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Yeah it can be your whole game. If a man makes me laugh he can be a huge dork and ugly as sin and I'll still sleep with him. Humor proves you have a brain and that you're creative. It also just makes me want to be around you. I will fuck a funny guy if that's what it takes to keep him around.
/r/seduction27/07/11 02:53 AM
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I'm always most attracted to men who keep some distance, but maintain good eye-contact. If a guy can get me wanting him to touch me, it's far better when he actually does. If you notice a woman touching herself quite a bit, rubbing her legs, stroking her hair, touching her collar-bone, chances are she's in that mindset. Wait ten minutes and then find an excuse to touch her and she'll likely get all warm from your touch. It'll be like a relief. Leave her wanting more not less. Same goes for sex, …
/r/seduction27/07/11 02:22 AM
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