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narcissistic889/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 10:18 AM
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you're hamstringing yourself my guy, if you have chemistry it will work. Ditch the ones you lack chemistry with
/r/seduction19/11/21 05:05 AM
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If you say primarily you're saying that the main use of texting should be to set up dates and that's what you use it for most of the time. I'm saying that texting shouldn't be primarily used to set up dates, but to text and keep a conversation going as well maybe even 80% of the time
/r/seduction15/11/21 08:37 PM
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i just copy pasted it from the thread, but yeah if thats not what you meant that's all good. Glad we could clear that up
/r/seduction02/11/21 09:33 PM
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yes that is kind of what that means, if you use the phone to only set dates you aren't using it to text and have conversation. I mean maybe thats not how you meant it
/r/seduction02/11/21 09:08 PM
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And in dating, study/adopt an approach in which the phone is used primarily for setting dates. (Being “texting buddies” is what her girlfriends are for. Not her love interest.) lol literally what you said
/r/seduction02/11/21 07:45 PM
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lol texting is like a prerequisite to dating now adays. You can have a good convo over texting with a woman and not have it turn into anything and thats okay, but most people will expect you to be able to have a friendly interesting conversation over text before a date.
/r/seduction02/11/21 07:16 PM
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I dunno dude, could be a bunch of reasons. She could have a man at home, maybe shes embarrassed she puked on your dick lol I think you need to get some more self esteem and see a therapist because this kind of thing just happens and in a few months you might hook up with someone and it will go great. Then you'll think your the man until the next bad sexual experience, so your whole self esteem is caught up in how well sex goes. That's a problem ;/
/r/seduction30/09/21 07:20 PM
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You sound like an asshole and a weirdo with that comment. Don't think you'll recover that one usually lol like you're interested in her why are you mentioning being with another girl
/r/seduction25/08/21 12:25 AM
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I mean shitty girls will.. If shes not she'll just explain it. Trying to please her by agreeing with her actions is a good way to be upset later if you do want a relationship with her. Your need for closeness is going to be met with unanswered texts and no communication
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:35 AM
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Man all the 18 year olds are eating this up. No they don't want a challenge women want to find a guy thats good hearted and has his stuff together that is also physically attractive. Through your early 20s and late 20s you go through a lot of bs with the oppsoite sex where people play games. Once you hit a certain point in dating experience people want healthy transparent relationships. This is not what women want, this is what women with low self esteem want
/r/seduction25/07/21 09:48 PM
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LOL just people figuring things out it seems like and not understanding social rules/ boundaries
/r/seduction22/07/21 07:16 PM
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I would say just play with them back but test where the boundaries are. If she's extroverted shes used to that and will be able to let you know playfully where to stop, but obviously don't push things if you aren't that comfortable with her
/r/seduction22/07/21 06:56 PM
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I don't go for those girls, usually they are the type that go for every guy and have poor boundaries. Look for a quality woman who doesn't just flirt with everyone lol
/r/seduction22/07/21 06:37 PM
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I see where you're coming from, I just don't think i'd want a woman like that in the first place. I'm more into relationships so i believe in having an equal power dynamic, if one persons power is off by a lot in the exchange or dating then that can continue and go to a bad place. But that is fine if u are dating and the woman has low self esteem so she thinks she needs that. Like i understand the concept i just dont agree with the ethics behind it, but it may work for a lot of guys trying to ha…
/r/seduction22/07/21 06:28 PM
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Well from what i read from the original post she said that the guy ignored her questions and didnt reveal much about himself, he\ would just stop texting. This is avoidant, avoidant doesn't mean you are over doing anything. If you are overdoing it you are clingy, avoidant is the opposite it means there is a lack of opening up. The middle of that is secure
/r/seduction22/07/21 06:20 PM
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If a guy likes a chick they are going to try, these traits have nothing to do with being emotionally mature it has to do with a guy who has an avoidant personality type and the chick picks guys who aren't open emotionally. It's dysfunctional
/r/seduction22/07/21 06:11 PM
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Damn that guy sounded kind of manipulative and not open by not answering you questions and just not revealing much about himself. I think normally that would cause distrust, I don't think many girls would dig that lol are you sure you choose the right kind of men
/r/seduction22/07/21 05:50 PM
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Yeah but i also see men and women meet and flirt casually all of the time at coffee shops and in department stores occasionally and no one is freaked out. People just like to talk and socialize
/r/seduction17/06/21 10:48 PM
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It's probably your delivery, I wouldn't be trying to say to someone Hey beautiful I would play off of the situation and say something like "Do you like tattoos?" If they say no you can say, " Oh i thought i saw you looking at them, my name is blah blah" but if you're having trouble closing its probably because they werent too interested or maybe felt uncomfortable
/r/seduction17/06/21 10:38 PM
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look at john legend and yoko ono, she wasn't hot. He met her because he was inspired by her art and climbed up a ladder that was part of her art installation and she was at the top. So different people find different things attractive, he was attracted to her art and then maybe her looks after that. I've had girls message me off of poetry i've written and the conversation and connection goes from there and we've never even met face to face.
/r/seduction14/06/21 09:14 PM
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Maybe you give off the vibe that you would be clingy or interested in a long term relationship and that's why these girls are telling you that they see you as a husband. You are in your early 20's I'd just focus on getting a career and a house and building your friend circle, you can focus on women whenever, I mean do it all at the same time if you can but women will find an established young guy more attractive.
/r/seduction11/06/21 06:39 AM
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You can approach girls, but don't approach every girl. Go to a coffee shop and or by the beach and try to strike up a conversation. If you see them looking at the different types of coffee, give them a recommendation on the type of coffee and try to start a conversation make sure to introduce yourself with your name. Do this at the beach, an art museum, basically anywhere. Just make sure to read the room and don't come off creepy, just try to go for a connection and friendship, but don't be afra…
/r/seduction01/06/21 08:46 PM
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These traits evolved when our life expectancy was 16-25 and intertribal warfare was rampant. You were more likely to die do to war and fighting than you were to old age. So with that you had to be able to be selfish and take what you could get before you died. Most of the sex that men had during those unstable times was non consensual. These traits don’t fit the times and I don’t think they are good to foster unless you want to piss people off and make enemies. We live much longer now and are mo…
/r/seduction09/05/21 09:15 PM
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Yeah man i live my life for the approval of others as well. When my boss at work is eyeing a donut in the morning during our company breakfast and no one gets it for him I know that they weren't good employees, that's why i swoop down and immediately pick him his favorite donut. He's so enthused, because right after that i know he likes a mean bj.. and if im going to jerk someone off i know to spit first so.. then i unleash his trouser snake and start gargling on his massive dong... because that…
/r/seduction29/03/21 05:53 PM
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no one man she was just testing you... how could you fail her tests, you obviously didn't get any pussy
/r/seduction29/03/21 05:43 PM
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lol none of this is her trying to feel safe with you. Why would she need to disrespect you on a date by pointing out that the waiters cute so she can feel safe, if she's into you she should be focused on the date! Its not about you dealing with all of her shit and baggage it's about finding someone who is into you.
/r/seduction29/03/21 05:40 PM
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fitness, hygiene or style are not unalterable. It just requires a decent amount of effort
/r/seduction14/01/21 09:50 PM
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dont waste your time, these are a bunch of young 20 something year old guys who are going to learn their lesson eventually. The type of women they are after aren't secure stable women and theyll find themselves in toxic on and off again relationships
/r/seduction05/10/20 07:49 PM
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you are really mistaken here.. no one is trying to test anyone unless that person is extremely insecure. A girl who you want a relationship with will not constantly test you to see if you pass her tests, those are games and people play them because they want you to fail so they can have their negative assumptions validated. You need to get the idea of game theory out of your head asap. A good woman will never test you and will accept you for who you are because she's attracted to your humor and …
/r/seduction05/10/20 07:46 PM
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I mean being yourself i think more applies to letting your humor flow out and your thoughts and do what you like to do. Women do find working out to be attractive and not being overweights, sure be disciplined if that's something you want to incorporate. But the activities you do are not who you are unless you define yourself by them, it's what you say and want to say when you're around the girl on a date i think is what is meant by be who you are. Say that stupid dad joke, say what you want to …
/r/seduction05/09/20 08:09 PM
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nah slow an sensual is the way to go kiss her and worship her body with ur mouth.. make sure to go down as well and kiss down their too before sex for a good 10-15 minutes. Gauranteed she'll finish during sex. Young women don't know what they like and are afraid of intimacy, so that means they don't want slow and intimate sex because it reminds them of being in love with their ex or heart break. So with new hook ups those types of women like to be pounded, But honestly if she likes you and you l…
/r/seduction22/08/20 04:53 AM
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Just for all the young bucks out there, do not mention sex on the first date. Let her come up and mention sex if anything just put yourself out there during the date and let her experience your personality. Try to put your arm around her and maybe in the car when you drop her off when the time feels right or whenever it feels right go for the kiss and maybe the push passed that for sex. If you talk about sex or just sex during the date shes going to think that's all you want but also she sounds …
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:44 AM
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because if a women likes you she likes you. If you put on an act its going to be very hard to uphold an act that lasts for a whole relationship. Your relationship will crumble once she realizes you're a whole different person. So the best thing you can do is work on yourself and just put yourself out there to see who is interested. Going out and pretending to be someone else other than your quirky self is just going to land you girls who will not be interested for very long. Unless you are tryin…
/r/seduction14/01/20 10:58 PM
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If it’s every person it might be too sensitive, give people a chance
/r/seduction17/11/19 02:57 PM
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Honestly it just sounds like you made friends and before the girls didn’t feel comfortable hitting on you because they didn’t see you interacting with anyone else. If ur reading the room like a lot of people can do and do do you can see how people interact with each other and that’s how a lot of people choose who they’re comfortable talking to. So good job on making friends and keep being you
/r/seduction14/04/19 08:24 AM
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can you give a reason as to why this is bullshit advice? besides just saying its bullshit
/r/seduction21/03/19 06:18 AM
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Touche
/r/seduction21/03/19 12:33 AM
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statistic.. because women don't find plurals attractive, i say statistic not statistics stay true to yourselves fat shy introverts
/r/seduction20/03/19 07:06 AM
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you mean come up with an excuse for her to come over so it can lead to sex LOL yeah dude that would work.
/r/seduction21/02/19 06:21 AM
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This is a mixed question. People meet each other in a multitude of ways, some people meet at bars where they feel instant attraction and they go home with each other and get into a relationship that way. Some people become friends first and have an attraction that they don't address until later. Really it depends on the type of person she is and the type of person you are. Most people tend to marry people that they meet through friends, school, or work. I think most people express interest early…
/r/seduction06/01/19 12:00 AM
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Im going to give you some solid advice lovefoo. You don't need to do anything special to get laid off of tinder, all you have to do is dress well go to the place meet them and have a conversation and vibe. Then ask if they want to go do something else after this or if they want to go. If they say yes then your good. You should get a vibe from the girl, when you are driving to the destination and you park just hang out for a second listen to some toons and talk and if you feel the moment just go …
/r/seduction16/08/18 01:21 AM
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It’s called fear, subconsciously your not sure if you want to jump into a relationship with that person or anyone.
/r/seduction14/08/18 05:23 PM
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Lol your next target
/r/seduction23/06/18 04:29 PM
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That's so dumb any girl knows that most guys who go out of their way to talk to them especially on the street are interested in them. If they try and be friends with you it's because they aren't attracted regardless of how you go about it trying to be "alpha" people try to be kind and will let you down gently without embarrassing you by dropping hints. If you come on strong it gives you a faster no and that's it.
/r/seduction26/01/18 01:47 AM
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If you have bipolar disorder I found that one of my main issues that caused my anxiety was my depression. Ur lack of body image comes from that, you need to just talk to girls and show them your personality. Ontop of that one of the biggest things that make a difference with bipolar depression would be things like Uridine, light therapy, and exercise. So get everything in order and get some experience dating and get the negative thoughts out of ur head and just start talking. You can say anythin…
/r/seduction30/12/17 04:55 AM
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it’s very easy to go to a bar to find someone who wants a one night thing and they aren’t quality women. In the end sex is an agreement between two people if you make an agreement you have to negotiate and that takes emotion. Even if you are going for a one night thing ur not going to get a good deal by cutting out ur emotions and strong arming someone into sex with you, they’re going to want something to if they’re even remotely desirable and usually that’s an emotional connection, compassion, …
/r/seduction26/12/17 03:46 AM
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this guy is stressing out over how he's not getting women when he obviously has many other problems in his life. Sometimes you need to take care of other things to take care of urself.
/r/seduction24/05/17 10:20 PM
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Maybe you need to find another goal outside of women, maybe that's not something worth focusing on right now. Happiness and meaning in life aren't found through chasing after women. Life is hard and not everyone is a winner, some people are born and die instantly. Some people are born deformed, other die of starvation or predation. So look outside of that for meaning because it can be a fruitless endeavor and just lead you to more anxiety. If you do have sex with these girls, what if you fall in…
/r/seduction24/05/17 07:18 AM
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This is a young guys mindset, as you get older you'll see that a guy like that that does a bunch of drugs and treats a girl like shit is getting girls who like to be treated like shit and do a ton of drugs too, if their relationship lasts any longer than a few months. If he's with these girls for one night or just a few weeks its because it's easy to pretend like ur a success for a little while. It's not hard to go to a bar dressed up in ur one good pair of clothes and snag a girl, half the time…
/r/seduction24/05/17 07:06 AM
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i suggest largely never saying this
/r/seduction13/03/15 01:53 AM
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you might want to focus less on breaking her reality and having more fun.
/r/seduction15/07/13 07:43 PM
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you can't fake the expressions that make you alpha, its more of a constant demeanor.
/r/seduction14/03/13 11:05 PM
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It doesn't matter how many girls you hit on, it may be that since you are pushing you care about the outcome.
/r/seduction25/02/13 06:15 PM
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Your not putting off the right vibes, guys never hit on my girls and they ask me if that's my girlfriend. It's you're responsibility to be alpha and intimidate others with your presence. Be the king of your space bro
/r/seduction18/02/13 01:04 AM
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This whole thread makes me want to vomit in my mouth, how do you start a conversation.. Ill give you a hint. Its not with canned lines.
/r/seduction18/02/13 12:53 AM
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Dude these sentences couldn't be further from the truth, there are plenty of ugly motherfuckers in power/ are successful. I know ugly dudes who get laid more than i do. I know pretty dudes who don't get laid ever. These qualities you talk about have to do with how your peer group accepts you. The brain is plastic, people can learn to be charismatic/likable.
/r/seduction14/02/13 01:54 AM
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You should probably reply with that were moving to fast bull shit with. What do you mean were moving, there aren't any rules to dating. We can go as fast as we want, you enjoy sex right. If you agree to her not wanting to do it your pandering to her wants, you have to include yours as well. Seriously
/r/seduction12/02/13 10:45 PM
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Its called don't drink and smoke and fuck chicks
/r/seduction03/02/13 05:52 AM
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Just keep practicing game as you get more girls you'll get more reference points and you'll climb the status ladder. I did, definitely don't get intimidated by a lot of dudes.
/r/seduction03/02/13 04:37 AM
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This video is about not getting flustered by rejection, he keeps his composure. He wasn't outcome dependant, Fuck stop hating and get some pussy dudes.
/r/seduction28/01/13 11:50 PM
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Your getting to attached to your routines bud, ditch all of your routines and go the organic route. You should be in the moment and say what comes to mind, seriously.
/r/seduction20/01/13 09:14 PM
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Next time keep your head up
/r/seduction20/01/13 04:34 AM
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Your not the same status as the dudes hitting on her using your lines. You have to wrench yourself out of your current status and put yourself into a new one by getting references that you gather after picking up a lot of women. Once you get that seven that and things really worked out you'll know what works with her it will get stored in your subconscious. Eventually you do this enough you gather enough references and you'll realize you can get those types of girls. Afterwhich you probably won'…
/r/seduction20/01/13 04:05 AM
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To the guys who say state doesn't exist, you havent pushed the boundaries of pick up and it shows. Anyhow it usually happens for me when i break through some sort of barrier or dominate higher status individuals. Like for instance at the club the other night there were these two girls dancing, they were pretty hot, but they were creating this huge social bubble around them and drawing a lot of attention. I walked over there and started dancing with the girls but they weren't into it and left. It…
/r/seduction17/01/13 12:33 AM
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Everyone likes a good narcissist, you have to believe what you say and say it charmingingly. Look at Arnold in pumping iron, he's a text book narcissist who braggs and showboats, but everyone loves him. It all depends where its coming from. People will accept almost anything you say if you have enough value, so don't worry about it and try to keep narcissistic frame of celebrate me with me.
/r/seduction16/01/13 11:23 PM
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