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narcthrowawaydiscard/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:15 AM
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narcthrowawaydiscard/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 11:27 PM
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”In all things, act with the confidence of the mediocre white man.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:09 PM
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Oh SIS no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:07 PM
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What will crack first, the opal or the engagement? Place your bets now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:07 PM
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I’m 40 and child free. I told my nex I was never having kids and he went along with it bc he wanted to fuck me but he wanted kids the whole time. Well. Thank fucking god I never had his kids or anyone else’s. Before I start dating again I plan on getting my tubes tied and never telling the people I date about it. Au contraire, I will not fuck till <insert name here> proves he’s had a vasectomy. Then I’ll know he’s also child free and not just going along with lip service and pretty bullshit futu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:02 PM
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Smart. When I get around to doing this I’ll use an AI generated pic (google it)... basically a photo of a person who doesn’t exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:40 PM
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NO. NO. NO. NO. OH HONEY NO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:38 PM
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My nex discarded me about 6 weeks ago after a 4 year relationship. FDS has helped me focus on myself and leveling up instead of seeking out external validation and assurance (which at this point would have been like trusting the sharks attracted by a dying seal). When I’m ready to date again it will be to my high standards or bust. No more settling for scraps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:26 PM
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Brb going to the library for some Anne brontë
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:28 PM
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Currently reading her Ravenels books and I’m enjoying them haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:55 PM
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I write steamy PNR as a side gig and although it’s magical realism involving demigods etc, portraying relationships and sex in a healthy and consensual light is extremely important to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:04 PM
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I also came here from narcissisticabuse. It’s been really eye opening and while I’m not swearing off dating forever, I’m going to work on myself and on leveling up for a good long while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:23 PM
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When my nex discarded me he said some of the most abhorrently disgusting things to me and in the next breath said we could still be friends and that if i needed help with stuff he'd be there to help. Oh and when he moved out he put his hands on me. Guess who is fucking blocked forevermore. With "friends" like that who needs enemies??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 10:29 PM
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But guys he literally cried Seriously does he cry irl when people laugh at his big dumb jailtatted face?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:38 PM
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Ok as much as i want this to be true, aren’t there some sort of ethics in the profession against this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:26 PM
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This, except its not starting. It IS. He is clearly abusive. I hope she gets out safely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:06 AM
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I do a management at the bizness factory
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 11:02 PM
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notallramen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 03:34 PM
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Gotta stay positive! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 10:03 PM
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Found them already but hopefully someone reading this will check them out, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 10:03 PM
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My nex discarded me almost 6 weeks ago. It’s been fucking brutal. Not gonna lie. But... -I’ve lost 3 glow up kilos (about 3-4 to go until I’m at my dream weight) -I applied to a part time upskill course and have plans for more next year -I’m reading a lot more and have been educating myself on covert narcissism and narcissistic abuse -I’ve cut my daily drinking (read: self medicating away abuse) down to once every 3 weeks -I’m doing tons of cardio -I’m definitely not going to give up the side hu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:10 PM
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My nex gave me herpes. I was livid for days. Guess who ended up apologizing to him for reasons? Yup. Oh and he led me to believe it was leftover from an ex but I’m 99% sure now that he cheated and couldn’t give a fuck about my feelings or health. Well at least when he moved out I got to say “thanks for the herpes btw, it’s proven itself far more loyal than you ever were.” He had no response lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:48 PM
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Nö
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:46 PM
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Dealing with this right now and I think I’ll give this a shot. Thanks sis :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:31 PM
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Stronger by Divine Ascension
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:52 PM
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Of cOuRsE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:21 PM
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I bet she has to cut the weird parts off his tendies for him too, otherwise he throws the plate on the floor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:12 PM
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Seriously I love to cook and I’m very good at it. I’m not dating for a long time but when I do , do I even mention it or just talk it down? What about for friends/dinner parties? It just brings me a lot of joy to cook for people but I don’t want to be taken advantage of (again) for something that brings me joy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:45 PM
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And when you get to the point where it does turn into physical manifestation it is your body’s way of crying out for help. It will only get worse if you don’t escape the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:12 PM
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I honestly wouldn’t doubt it. Stress can cause many symptoms which can’t be explained by tests.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:11 PM
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Stomachaches/digestive trouble in my lower abdomen (especially if there was a chance for sex--defensive mechanism), troubled sleep, anxiety and panic attacks, migraines, random odd body aches and fatigue, impossible to lose weight (another defensive mechanism) despite counting calories etc. Drinking way too much in order to self medicate. Recurring skin issues especially on my face and scalp (due to stress). Easier to reach "burnout" symptoms. Since he discarded me almost all of these have disap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:34 AM
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I had a strong weird feeling about my nex of 4 years on the SECOND date. But he had already gotten his narc hooks in me. In the last year of our relationship I was having multiple physical symptoms due to suppressing my emotions and my intuition. The cognitive dissonance was literally fucking up my physical health. YOUR INTUITION WILL NEVER STEER YOU WRONG. BUT FUCKBOY WITH THE GORGEOUS ICECOLD EYES AND LOVEBOMBING BS SAYS THE SAME. You know which one to trust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:45 PM
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Not always accurate. Before he discarded me my answers about my nex were yes and yes. Didn’t make him a good person. And tbh I’d still trust him to watch a puppy if nothing else. So yeah. Vet people in many varied ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:41 PM
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Same! I'm in the process of losing those last 11-15 lbs now that my nex discarded me (a goal I have had for a long time, to be right in the middle of a healthy bmi range instead of hovering on the border of healthy/overweight). So I can say a lot of things about him, but he was muscular and in shape and the way this positively affected his performance in bed makes settling for anything less in future a dealbreaker. Now If only I could upload a personality and psyche which wasn't a disgusting cov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:26 PM
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Everyone has innate intuition. It is not gendered. It is a natural sense that the human animal has. The hard part is learning to recognize, listen, and trust it even when "logic" seems to argue against it. And that part is learned and is honed by practice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:16 PM
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I am childfree and live in a country that has NHS so I can get a bisalp for free. I plan on doing this in the next year after getting gaslighted and lied to by my nex about him not wanting kids. But this has made me think that it might be a good idea to make future potentials show me their papers anyway. That I'll have gotten my tubes tied already maybe doesn't even need to come up in that case. I guess this would fall under the header "let them think it was their idea". Thanks for the food for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:25 PM
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I want to hear more of your hot take on menopause, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:44 PM
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It can be a sign that they are a narcissist or have strong narcissistic traits. Ruining holidays is a classic for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:08 PM
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I want to believe "sustinkable" was deliberate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 02:34 PM
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Omg re:anglerfish. Bc I just figured out that is the animal that best represents my nex's soul. I thought that it was a shark, but he's far too cowardly for that. He hides his ugly soul in the shadows for as long as possible whilst dangling a pretty lure to reel in and fool the unsuspecting women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:52 PM
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I'm pretty sure "i don't mind if" is a red flag. My ex said he didn't mind giving up having kids for me (i am staunchly childfree). Needless to say, that was a huge lie. So... yeahhhhh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:51 PM
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THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:26 PM
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This is how i feel now that my nex is out of my life! Like a massive weight off of my soul. The energy in my apt is so much calmer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:37 AM
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I'm 40 and look 32 at most. Why? Spf 50, eating well and exercising, and forever childfree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:34 AM
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Honestly this seems more like the type of tattoo pimps force their prostitutes to get as a mark of ownership and degradation. I would not be surprised if this is the case here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:48 PM
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Also, the way you draw hearts is really cute and unusual!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:35 PM
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See, I would love to be married and have a couple pets and a peaceful, happy home. My nex knew this and future faked and gaslighted me from here to hell and back. So I think it's a wise move to do this just to be able to say I did it and eliminate even the hint of hope for an oopsie baby on the other party's part. As for periods... they suck but I'd rather have them than be pregnant or a man tbh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 07:57 AM
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Thanks for your reply. This is basically what I thought was the case. I really enjoy erotica and romance specifically because it seems harmless in that respect, even if the subgenre might be dubious in some respects. Obviously I am an intelligent woman and I can tell fact from fiction. I get a kick out of reading bad romance sometimes just to roll my eyes at it. But I started reading bodice rippers in my early teens and I do think that it gave me unhealthy ideas about relationships. So in that w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 07:51 AM
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Thanks for your well-thought-out reply. Oh, I've been a proponent of vibrators for many years. I'm aware of the problematic nature of porn but as an ex-stripper I guess I haven't considered it in that light as fully. I have very little interest in it myself but I enjoy erotica and romance (often with a large grain of salt). As for kids the same nex told me he was undecided on kids (spoiler: he wasn't) though I was very clear on childfree from the very beginning. He is a covert narcissist and cle…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 07:44 AM
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I'm an amazing cook. And I love to cook--I think a love language of mine is homecooked food. But I recently decided that it is a very great privilege for someone to be allowed to eat my cooking, and I'm going to start keeping that more firmly in mind and treat it as such.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 11:54 PM
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He sounds like a narcissist who discarded her and is now attempting hoovering and triangulating the family/flying monkeys to help him. And the way he dumped her is eerily like what happened with me--many narcs seem to operate in similar ways. All I can say is thank god there was no kids or marriage to get in the way of my getting away from my nex. I hope this woman runs and never looks back. But he's love bombing her and will probably draw her back into the cycle of narcissistic abuse. He will d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 11:08 PM
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I haaaaate when people say males and females. We are not dogs. Stop using these terms. I honestly think it's dehumanizing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 07:07 PM
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My nex (covert narcissist), who i was with for 4 years, brutally blindsided and discarded me 2 days after fucking me. Three days after that he'd already made new dating profiles. You can check my post history for the full story. This only happened 3 weeks ago. Needless to say, I'm all about taking a good long while to level up my life and heal the emotional absesses that let me fall for his lvm love bombing and boundary ignoring and gaslighting and underhanded narcissistic abuse. And I am all fu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 10:30 PM
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My (40) nex (33) is a serial monogamist. It took him brutally discarding me after 4 years to see that he is a covert narcissist and after 3 days he'd already set up several dating profiles. He's serial bc he is a narc and cannot bear to be without narcissistic supply and an eventual scapegoat in a relationship rife with narcissistic abuse... I didn't even realize it was abusive until it was over. This was 3 weeks ago and I am reevaluating my life from top to bottom, hence why I am here. So I'm n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 12:41 AM
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