| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 11 | Divorce parties. | Rant | narkj | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 05:21 AM |
| 4 | An essay about loneliness, post-divorce. | Success Stories | narkj | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/26 05:25 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | I don't think I can be a single dad.You can feel this way now and then it’s over. Buck up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/26 07:44 AM |
| 1 | In retrospect, are you ever just COMPLETELY baffled at how you ignored the red flags?Yes. I thought things were mostly fine. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/26 11:52 PM |
| 5 | Any Middle Age Success Stories?You'll be fine. . . if that''s what you want | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/26 07:35 PM |
| 6 | It's very lonely being a single guyGet a dog, for real. ❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/26 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Do I tattle on my ex wife and her paramour? (After divorce is final)Take the high road. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/26 03:01 AM |
| 9 | STBX Being Suspicious. Am I Crazy?Get divorced | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/26 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Did your (ex)wife’s friends lead her towards divorce?She certainly didn’t help. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/26 10:39 AM |
| 3 | When did you know your marriage was over?We Went on a date and then she told Me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/26 07:06 AM |
| 3 | What are the signsMine had become very distant and was going out with friends much more. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/26 10:30 AM |
| -6 | Almost done. Why is she asking for my time?She might just be trying to be nice. Don’t overthink it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/26 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Dating in your 50’s kind of sucksI’ve met plenty of women and I’ve found many don’t care that I have kids, young and old. The problem has been me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/26 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Something I read from Schopenhauer’s “On Women” essay that has me questioning my entire life.amen | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/26 04:07 PM |
| 10 | ReconciliationShe’s not coming over to reconcile. If you’ve charged for for the better, good for you. Keep going. But forget her. She doesn’t care. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/26 10:14 PM |
| 1 | ReconciliationYikes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/26 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Something I read from Schopenhauer’s “On Women” essay that has me questioning my entire life.You know what else was popular 150 years ago? Mercury as medicine and phrenology. Be Here Now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Something I read from Schopenhauer’s “On Women” essay that has me questioning my entire life.My argument stands. The OP had an unpleasant experience with a woman. He believed he was intellectually superior to her and --voila!--found some old quote to gussy up his beliefs. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Something I read from Schopenhauer’s “On Women” essay that has me questioning my entire life.Using this hypothesis to validate 19th-century patriarchal philosophy is categorically wrong. Misogyny isn't just the belief in statistical variance-- it's using that variance to shit on a group: women. Schopenhauer’s writing treated women with contempt and suggested--here--that they're incapable of genuine objectivity or higher thought. People love finding research and quotes they think are going to validate them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Something I read from Schopenhauer’s “On Women” essay that has me questioning my entire life.aka Mad Men | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 04:58 PM |
| 0 | Something I read from Schopenhauer’s “On Women” essay that has me questioning my entire life.Thanks for making my brain hurt. I do see a therapist. You should too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 04:46 PM |
| -4 | Something I read from Schopenhauer’s “On Women” essay that has me questioning my entire life.And yet here I am, and he's still wrong. Good luck dating. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 01:48 PM |
| -3 | Something I read from Schopenhauer’s “On Women” essay that has me questioning my entire life.It violates 2 of the top 3 rules for this sub. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 01:31 PM |
| 4 | Something I read from Schopenhauer’s “On Women” essay that has me questioning my entire life.Yeah, it's a sub to hate women? | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 01:31 PM |
| -9 | Something I read from Schopenhauer’s “On Women” essay that has me questioning my entire life.My dude. It pains me to think that anything in this red-pilled, misogynist slop called out to you. I'll go one further: he's dead wrong. The ability to live in the present, to not concern oneself with past or future events, is the highest form of humanity. Maybe take a hard look at yourself. Maybe you're half as intellectual as you think you are. Read some Ram Dass and touch grass. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 01:27 PM |
| 8 | Can’t stop the tearsI mopped the floor with my face. Wound up in the hospital with a panic attack. The nurse asked me if I was suicidal, and I thought of my kids and said, "I can't be." It will get better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Be safe out here fellasJesus. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/26 01:02 AM |
| 2 | I don’t want to do this anymoreWhere do you live? | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/26 08:04 AM |
| 3 | Please help me. I'm hurting bad right now.You acted out, once. Now don’t do it again. Plain and simple. Your marriage is over. You know it. Unfortunately, it’s going to be a big shit sandwich before you accept it. My advice: be a method actor and play the part of a man who is competently indifferent to your wife leaving. Fake it until you make it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/26 01:05 AM |
| 6 | What would it take for you to rekindle your love with your ex-wife?I will always love her | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/26 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else holding onto anger at their ex years later?No. Let it go | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/26 06:40 AM |
| 3 | It happened to meDude, If she moved out and told you she’s interested in another guy, that’s your answer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/26 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Difference in Women vs Men After DivorceIt was. The second time was a real shell shock. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/26 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Difference in Women vs Men After DivorceI think that’s been debunked. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/26 01:01 PM |
| 3 | Difference in Women vs Men After DivorceThe answer, for better or worse, is that women or the “women sphere”believe women get the raw deal in a marriage, particularly if kids are involved. They take on more work and, often, still have to provide an income. Getting divorced with 50/50 custody forces men to take 50 percent responsibility and gives the women free time for themselves, mandated be the court. I’m a twice-divorced male. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/26 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Difference in Women vs Men After DivorceWomen have an answer for this, you know. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/26 11:00 PM |
| 0 | Torn between saving my marriage and walking away — I feel completely lostYou don’t have to listen to everyone telling you to walk away. That’s a difficult decision. Everyone brings their own baggage to these Threads and it’s very easy to tell a stranger to walk away. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/26 11:04 PM |
| -4 | Torn between saving my marriage and walking away — I feel completely lostThat’s not 100 percent true. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/26 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Forget about affair, I’m now worried about my kids safety.Don’t ever leave the kids with her alone, again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/26 02:41 PM |
| 1 | To Every Divorced Man Who’s Still StandingStart now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/02/26 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Anyone’s standards for looks go up post divorce?No. Why would they? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/26 04:27 AM |
| 7 | wife wants divorceYou will survive the 50/50. You have to. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/26 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Divorce parties.What the. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 12:09 PM |
| 4 | Trapped in MarriageDude. It’s ok. You can leave the marriage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/26 01:40 PM |
| 7 | What was the point of it all?Don’t let yourself feel bad for yourself too long. Buck up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/26 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Staying for the kids—yay or nayNo | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/26 12:57 PM |
| 1 | If the wife initiates the divorce, why should we tell the kids it was mutual?Maturity? | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/26 01:04 PM |
| 4 | She won, and I'm ready to goYou have to believe us when we tell you it gets better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/25 12:41 PM |
| 5 | Wife started calling me "weak" and talking about divorce after I had a rough couple of days this weekYou need to call poison control. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/25 05:23 AM |
| 1 | any men regret their vasectomy?Yes. We did IVF | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/11/25 02:21 AM |
| 1 | any men regret their vasectomy?I had a vasectomy. Had another kid. Still have vasectomy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/11/25 05:49 PM |
| 2 | My stbxw’s message, cruel?Accurate. I did it and it just made it all worse for me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/25 09:41 AM |
| 1 | My stbxw’s message, cruel?I don’t think she’s being cruel. She’s right. Don’t torture yourself. It’s over. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/25 09:39 AM |
| 8 | Divorce. Infidelity. I’m going crazyIt really doesn’t matter what she claims anymore. You can’t trust her in any relationship sense but do you trust her as a mother? That’s all that matters. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/25 06:27 AM |
| 4 | Getting back out there…I have tried, got into two semi serious relationships, and they were both a mistake and I wound up hurting those women. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/25 01:57 PM |
| 2 | First Sex Since Divorce (UPDATE)Weird. I couldn’t come. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/10/25 03:17 PM |
| 3 | My ex-wife went straight into dating appScam post | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/25 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Married men (especially those who’ve been divorced) — what led to your divorce, and what kind of life partner do you wish you had chosen instead?None. No partners. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/25 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Men who got walked out on, is it offensive when your STBX says they mourned your marriage during it?Yes. I didn’t know. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/25 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Struggling with Relationship Bandwidth After DivorceYes. I hit the wall. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Funny Story from Divorced Land - the woman you will meet.There’s nothing wrong with tattoos. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Ex family.You may have fired the therapist, but it's true. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/25 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Ex family.Are you going to go to that wedding? I wouldn't. It might fee good to have all these people on your side, but I would start a new path with that | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/25 03:57 PM |
| 9 | When She Says She Wants Out, Step Aside and Show Her the DoorIn hindsight, I wish I’d done this. Would have saved myself a little dignity. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/25 07:30 AM |
| 3 | How did you actually pull the trigger?I was on a date. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/25 07:15 AM |
| 16 | Im in shock, in survival mode. In limbo, wife mulling divorceStop the sex. Call a lawyer and a therapist. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/25 07:23 AM |
| 9 | I have conspiracy theory about TikTok and divorceI thought this about divorce memoirs. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/08/25 04:19 AM |
| 3 | Dating Mid 40sYes. I had one woman who had a meltdown because I was still living with my ex while divorcing. She and her husband had different homes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/25 01:51 PM |
| 14 | Dating Mid 40sI was shocked at how many women I’ve met who are separated or living apart from husband but have no plans to divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/25 01:37 PM |
| 4 | Girlfriend post divorceBreak it off, sooner than later | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/25 03:29 PM |
| 0 | Fighting BackYou are screwed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/25 01:04 AM |
| 5 | Life is cruelSame bed? Why? | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/25 02:03 PM |
| 5 | Should I Take Her back?No | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/25 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Help with AnxietyZoloft | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/25 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Quick questionLet her have it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/25 11:06 AM |
| 6 | Does Filing for Divorce “To Teach Them a Lesson” Ever Actually Work? Do People Really Come Back?The kind of person who would do that is not someone you’d want the married to. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/25 11:02 AM |
| 1 | IVF is where I think it started.The title of this post “it started”. What started? | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/25 06:00 PM |
| 0 | Called my kids to pass along the news.It’s not a win. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/25 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Happy Independence DayI’m sorry. Stay alive. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/25 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Daughter always wants to be at her moms houseI mean she was and remains closer to her mom and that's fine. I like the dynamic they have. She's 20 and we don't see each other a whole lot but it's mostly good. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/25 12:21 PM |
| 6 | Daughter always wants to be at her moms houseI went through this with my oldest daughter and just let her go. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/25 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Everyone tells me to move onStop emailing her | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/25 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Too much free timeNo more games. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/25 01:06 AM |
| 5 | STBXW wants me to put her firstYou put yourself and your child first. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/25 01:04 AM |
| 3 | Once married, never again.Just wrapped up my second divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/25 12:59 AM |
| 3 | Once married, never again.What was the situation ship? With your ex? | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/25 12:55 AM |
| 3 | Wife dragged it out for 4 months, treated me like dirt, and now might want counselling? Too late.I’m sorry. That’s a tough spot and her boomeranging back only makes it harder. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/25 12:53 AM |
| 5 | Does anyone else just feel like a total pussy when it's almost all done?Terrible advice. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/25 01:48 PM |
| 7 | I’m messing up big time. Need some adviceDon’t try to get back with her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/25 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Need some adviceDo it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/25 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Question for you men!Cut him off. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/25 02:45 AM |
| 1 | AcupunctureGet on anxiety meds. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/25 03:18 AM |
| 2 | Divorce is “catching”…I’m sure women would love to hear about this while dating. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/25 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Mid-20s Love Revisited: Can We Rebuild After Infidelity and Divorce?I feel your pain, but I would not do it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/25 11:39 AM |
| 5 | I need a pick me up, menI’m sorry. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/25 01:45 PM |
| 1 | I think I’m too picky/ hypocriticalHuh? | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 01:34 PM |
| 8 | Opinions? Considering Disclosing STBXW's affair on Social MediaDon’t. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/24 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Obsessed with lowering child supportUPS | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 08:47 PM |
| 1 | My ex loves telling me about her sex life.She tells you this stuff in the parenting app? | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 03:42 PM |
| 6 | Where should I sleep tonightMy an RV and join a planet fitness. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 02:09 PM |
| 6 | My ex loves telling me about her sex life.Block her | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/24 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Should I attend daughter's birthday party if ex brings her new boyfriend, or just have a separate one?Separate | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/24 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Getting out there…Too many filters. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/24 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Preparing in advance3/4 years? Why so long? | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/24 01:24 AM |
| 10 | I'm so tiredYou are divorcing and still sharing the bed and having sex? And she’s talking to other guys? | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/24 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Surviving the Process: What are or have you done to keep your mind off of divorce?Block her on your phone for a few hours each day. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/24 08:57 AM |
| 2 | A Pathetic story of my life....Trust me, I know its pathetic.You see it now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/24 08:53 AM |
| 5 | Any happy stories of reconciliation later in lifeEveryone is saying the same thing and they’re right. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/24 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Worst mistake of my lifeThis is probably the truth. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/24 08:38 PM |
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