nastyabusivedaddy Archive

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12	What to do, if he tells me I am a terrible wife(story below)? Fact is, being a homemaker and mother is a full time job, with constant overtime and little breaks. Don't care what anyone says, it is a job. Especially with more than one child and, in some cases, a man child. So, with that in mind, your husband needs to decide what your employment should be. Does he want you working outside of the house, or at the house? I work 45-50 hours a week, my wife stays home. I'm not rich, but I make decent money and I know how to use it properly. No daycare expenses b…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/01/23 04:04 PM
1	Lot of questions to ask Your struggles and feelings are valid in this society that places such high value on a standardized idea of beauty. The irony is that, once you have "standardized" beauty, is it even beauty anymore? I've been with my wife for nearly half my life, she has never worn make up. In fact, it was something I complimented her on when first dating. Didn't feel like she was "taking off a mask" when she had no makeup, was always her natural beauty. It is a dealbreaker for me, personally, but I do not repre…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/01/22 06:31 PM
5	Tell a man you’re waiting for marriage or no? Being upfront with one's intentions immediately always produces the best results, in the long run. Being upfront in the short term sucks; its awkward and often leads to disappointment. Long term though? It results in you finding exactly what you were looking for, because you stood on your laurels and refused to settle. Say you want to wait on the first date, or even prior to setting the first date up. Yeah, you'll get a lot of people that cancel dates. But that's the point. Why waste your time o…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/01/22 03:53 PM
4	Lot of questions to ask 1) Whether it is infertility, a condition, a secret, etc. Honest is the best policy in any relationship, let alone an intimate romantic relationship with someone you intend to spend your life with. Try not to knock yourself for being infertile, it will not be a dealbreaker for all men. Plenty of men out there also do not want children. Should the desire for children arise, many wonderful children out there to be adopted, that could use your love, guidance, and affection. Regardless, be honest an…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/01/22 03:48 PM
2	Insert title 🤷🏼‍♀️ Happy to know it was useful. Rooting for you both. Just remember, one step at a time. All the best.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/01/22 02:44 AM
3	How to navigate abusive interactions? Cut them out of your life. Seriously. This will either make them change, or they will double down on their toxicity in an effort to continue the cycle. Either way, you win. They can't be toxic if they're not in your life anymore. Wait until you have kids, and by proxy, give your parents grandchildren. I call it having "power of grandchildren". Your parents want to visit the grandkids? They better cut their shit out then, shouldn't they? Would be a shame if you didn't let them visit the kids anym…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/22 05:07 PM
1	Figuring out being a stay at home wife? Society will always have something to say, and about everything you do. Right now, society guilts you into feeling bad for not working or going to school. But guess what? If you went to school and got a job, society would then shame you for not being a wife and homemaker. Ignore society and make your own decisions. Life is fragile and doesn't last forever. I can't speak for anyone else. But personally, I'm not very "career" minded, but family oriented. I make just enough money to pay the bills a…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/22 04:53 PM
3	Insert title 🤷🏼‍♀️ I'll address your concerns with "controlling the tongue" and those feelings of "always being on your toes" later. For now, I want to point out that marriage is very much not "a woman's thing". Marriage is what makes a relationship truly serious. I don't care if a couple has dated for 10+ years, marriage adds an entire depth of commitment, intimacy, and seriousness to a relationship. Marriage is much more serious than a relationship. The problem is how marriage is treated in our society; like old…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/22 04:44 PM