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Haha, a fresh account, and the same post in multiple subs? Pat, is that you? If it is you what happened?? You served multiple presidents and couldn’t get it done? You allowed our multinationals to sell us out to China, you allowed our healthcare system to get to its current dysfunctional state. Me and the wife can’t afford to have Red Blood American kids because the healthcare costs would fuck us. And I should blame Jose and Maria who work our fields and make my tacos on Tuesday? Yea, okay Pat.
/r/RedPillBooks16/10/20 12:25 AM
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Why didn’t the question go over well in r/women?
/r/seduction09/02/19 02:44 AM
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You have to do all the work. Stop being butt hurt about it though. After you have some experience, you’ll realize this actually to our advantage.
/r/seduction06/02/19 07:41 PM
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Qualify and screen. Have standards, like an employer would. Think about them, write them down. Refer to them every so often. I avoid women who don’t have a good relationship with dad. This is borne of experience. I also screen for any racist, homophobic and other intolerant beliefs. I don’t like bible thumpers either. Come up with your own list and stick to it.
/r/seduction09/11/18 01:10 AM
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Incorporate flowers, a horse drawn carriage, a live symphony orchestra, doves, and cook her a 7 course meal. This person you don’t even know will immediately fall in love with you.
/r/seduction10/10/18 08:06 AM
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The only reasonable way to exist is to assume attraction, and if you’re attracted to them, to be honest about it. Make this your foundation. Then build social skills, charm, wit, assertiveness, vulnerability et cetera. Practice them with everyone.
/r/seduction08/10/18 10:21 PM
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Sex Panther Cologne
/r/seduction05/10/18 11:08 PM
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If you’re not interested, you’re not interested. Don’t fake it. Try this. Talk to them about things you’re interested in. If it doesn’t resonate at all with her. Then she’s not for you.
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:45 AM
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Evidence? Of what?
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:04 AM
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Use a 📝
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:00 AM
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Define “social status.” Define “money.”
/r/seduction22/09/18 04:34 PM
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Therapy my friend.
/r/seduction22/09/18 04:32 PM
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You have to come to terms that you will be that creepy guy to some women. There’s no avoiding it. When a woman thinks “hey this is creepy” they assume that other women think the same way. Which is incorrect. Respect and know where the line is, but go enjoy yourself.
/r/seduction18/09/18 06:17 PM
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I was referring mostly to Europe. But thanks for correcting me. It’s sad to see the same desperation in young men exists there too.
/r/seduction12/09/18 12:42 PM
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Evolution/Natural Selection You could always pay for it if you’d like. I find countries in which prostitution is legal, extremely different than what goes on here in the US. Everyone is more relaxed about things, and sex is not a big deal, or the ultimate objective.
/r/seduction11/09/18 11:38 PM
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As far as finding a mate this will only take you so far. This will help win you allies and influence some people. It will not build attraction.
/r/seduction03/09/18 06:10 PM
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Your covering factual info that isn’t building attraction. Your fishing for commonalities it sounds like, which is good, but you have to go deeper. You’re not screening either. What’s your demographic? Besides someone that’s breathing and attractive, what do you want in a woman? What type of things is she into? Does she like exercise? Is she into Jesus? Is she conservative or liberal? Does she do drugs? Or is she completely against them? You’re playing it safe with conversation, which is boring.…
/r/seduction29/08/18 05:41 PM
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We can’t help you without more information. Where in the process are you fucking up? Asking women out cold will never work. What’s your opener? What topics of conversation are you touching? If a friend told me what you’re saying here, it would take me at least 30 minutes to figure out what the issue is.
/r/seduction29/08/18 03:44 AM
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You didn’t spend enough time with them in person for them to care.
/r/seduction28/08/18 12:46 AM
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Jesus Christ, you’re hopeless. Do you watch any movies? Watch the male protagonist slightly touch/adjust/fidget with the woman’s hair just before he goes in for the kiss. If you do this, and the lady doesn’t flinch, doesn’t break eye contact, you go for the kiss. If she breaks eye contact, or looks confused, roll off.
/r/seduction27/08/18 04:22 AM
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Follow this sequence, BUT stop if she stops you. Touch, hands, then arm, then hair, then lips. Sexual tension and 😘 are two different things. You’re overthinking this.
/r/seduction27/08/18 02:42 AM
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Straightforward. I’m lazy. And everyone has read the game. And I mean everyone.
/r/seduction25/08/18 08:58 PM
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All you can do is vocalize what you want. There’s no “approach” here. The person less invested in the relationship always has the most power. At the moment this is her. She’s already getting what she wants from you. Stick to your deadline. When you get to the deadline be honest and explain why you can’t keep doing this.
/r/seduction25/08/18 12:37 PM
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I really like intellectual/nerdy women. I usually just ask them out. I get rejected a lot, but probability eventually works out in my favor. If you see someone you like go up to them and say “ Hi I couldn’t help but notice you. I wanted to introduce myself and see what you were like.” Online is probably your best bet though.
/r/seduction24/08/18 05:24 PM
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“Hi I noticed you, and thought you were cute, and wanted to introduce myself.”
/r/seduction24/08/18 11:58 AM
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You’re asking the question like they’re equivalent. They are not. And the answer is a big hearty yes.
/r/seduction23/08/18 04:52 PM
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I would love to see some examples of her behavior. Is she in front of your house when other ladies come over? Does she have access to your phone?
/r/seduction18/08/18 04:23 PM
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Yes. Otherwise the probability of falling in love with your first sex partner is high. The probability of this partner not being a good match for you is high. The probability that you’ll spend entirely too much time trying to make it work because they’re your first is also very high. Unless you’re you’re trying to have children most sex is casual.
/r/seduction17/08/18 09:46 AM
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I don’t get the internet’s obsession here. He’s a talk show host/celebrity, sexualizing a conversation in a safe environment with women that have already agreed to be there.
/r/seduction16/08/18 05:47 PM
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Therapy
/r/seduction13/08/18 10:21 PM
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What about the mother hen at the bar?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 02:15 AM
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I’ve been ghosted by women I’ve had sex with. It’s painful. But if I ran into her I simply would say nothing. I certainly wouldn’t make a scene. People need to accept that dating is sometimes painful.
/r/seduction06/08/18 03:23 PM
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He needs to fix his low self esteem. Otherwise the “mere- exposure” effect won’t happen.
/r/seduction30/07/18 03:49 AM
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So don’t drink. Tell the bartender “I’m the DD tonight.” Ask for water, give them 2 bucks. Walk around like there’s liquor in your hand.
/r/seduction30/07/18 03:39 AM
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Learn how to banter/flirt. Read Models by Mark Manson. You’re trying to be liked so much that you’re boring literally everyone you interact with. You’re not letting any of your actual personality shine through because you’re afraid they won’t like the real you. What you don’t understand is that if women or anyone doesn’t like you, and they leave or stop I interacting with you, they’re doing you a favor. Also if you can, I would move out of such a religious country.
/r/seduction22/07/18 01:45 PM
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Stop her and talk to her.
/r/seduction16/07/18 05:31 PM
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Why not keep talking to her instead of making plans?
/r/seduction14/07/18 08:38 AM
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It’s not a question of time. Let me correct myself. You shouldn’t be going on dates at all. If You want to get out of the house, go have a drink or a cheap meal. Go Dutch. My point is dates are for courtship. You’re not courting this person, she’s a friend you’re having sex with. That’s it. Your not asking her to get dressed up and taking her for a nice meal. And she shouldn’t be cooking for you or doing you small favors like doing your laundry. If she does things like that after you’ve told her…
/r/seduction13/07/18 09:00 PM
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I used to have this problem. Game as usual. Before you have sex for the first time. STOP. Tell them you’re not interested in an LTR. Yup, while their wet and your dick is hard. 99% of time they’ll say they aren’t either. Also don’t hang out with them more than once a week. Ideally once every two weeks. There’s also tons of stuff you can say or do, and shouldn’t be doing beforehand, but that would make my post too long. One thing you shouldn’t be doing is going on long dates and paying for stuff.
/r/seduction12/07/18 08:22 PM
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What frame didn’t he hold? The one where he treated his family like human beings? I don’t get it. Anyone who offs himself has way bigger problems than holding frame.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 04:10 AM
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Bro you sound angry. Did she take everything?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 10:57 PM
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Everyone is unhappy. Show some stats on happiness in patriarchal societies, and you might convince me. https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2017/03/23/521083335/the-forces-driving-middle-aged-white-peoples-deaths-of-despair
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 10:08 PM
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I don’t think women are miserable. I think they’re happy to have a lot of sex partners. Divorce rates are falling and people are waiting longer and longer to get married. There’s also a lot of societies that are matriarchal. The Christians killed/or converted a lot of them. But there are some that are still around. All of your points are powerful, but point to an ideal society that looks a lot like Muslim societies. Think of burkas and head scarfs, these things do exactly what you’re writing abo…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 09:19 PM
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It looks like he’s not the only one that never learned proper English.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 01:00 AM
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Yup Arnold’s story is awesome. I also love what he didn’t do. He’s didn’t bitch about about feminism, Jews, immigrants, and black people. He handled his own shit without playing the victim. He was focused. He learned shit for its own sake, not to chase a piece of paper. And he never asked anyone permission for anything. Class act.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 12:59 AM
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That’s a long story. I suggest you stop using the loaded term “pua.” That being said I’ve gone through about 3 dating programs, and by far the most accurate and realistic depiction of the process has been written by Mark Manson in “Models.” He covers things that no other dating coaches will talk about.
/r/seduction13/06/18 03:45 PM
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You’re already overly invested in this interaction. You should kiss her by escalating up to it. Good luck!
/r/seduction13/06/18 11:31 AM
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Great advice in general but not helpful when it comes to approaches. Let’s move away from platitudes here. A guy can do tons of approaches, and it doesn’t matter if he’s comfortable or not. If he consistently is doing the wrong thing or runs out of things to say, he’s not going to get what he wants. Early on I did a lot of approaches and eventually got comfortable, even though I consistently got rejected. Later on as I got better I was sometimes super uncomfortable and still found myself having …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 03:28 AM
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So this woman is an idiot. Who watches that show and thinks it reflects reality at all?!? All women do this shit. This one ran out the clock tho.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 08:43 PM
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She sounds mostly normal. People cheat all the time for all sorts of reasons. I’ve never been exclusive to one woman. And though I’d never tell a woman this I don’t expect any of them them to be either. As far as being a slut, the label in this day and age, is mostly useless. Wrap it.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 07:56 PM
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Decent post. But not relatable. It depends on the women you’re going for and are interacting with. I’m guessing this applies to women who are undergraduates and have shit for brains. Not my demographic, as Mark Manson would say. Not all TRP’ers get laid by by being the the super social womanizer being described here. Whatever your demographic is, I will agree DGAF is very important.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 07:08 PM
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Than you have other priorities.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 11:40 AM
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Contrarian here: Lifting never did anything for me. Built a great body and still didn’t feel any different. I joined an old school, full contact boxing gym, and went for two years. Consistently got in the in the ring with men much bigger than me, and it changed everything.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 11:39 AM
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Yes “lessons.” Because all women are like 18 year olds. Congratulations on closing the easiest way possible.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 03:29 AM
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That’s not a shit test. That’s fake last minute resistance.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 01:23 AM
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What’s the “big daddy government” role here? Can you elaborate?
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 10:23 AM
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Decide what you want in a woman then come up with questions around those wants. It’s not enough for someone to be attractive for me. So for example I’m looking for sex partners who: Eat well Exercise regularly Don’t do drugs Have a good relationship with daddy Are not religious Are educated or are on their way to being so If she doesn’t meet these requirements my attention will turn elsewhere. Even if you’re looking for something casual you at least should screen for craziness or behavior that m…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 02:51 PM
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Remember to qualify her as well.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 02:00 PM
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Whether it exists or doesn’t. It’s not a problem. Ignore it and it’s just another -ism.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 01:32 AM
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Coming from a place of high status when interviewing is referred to as “Strategic Communications.” Any career coach worth a damn will you teach you this stuff. Nice job though, you seem to have learned this on your own.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 01:29 AM
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Striving to keep your appearances up and expecting a woman to do the same is Nice Guy BS. Don’t ever do something and expect them to reciprocate.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 01:26 AM
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Feminist? Sounds like a normal girl. I’ve never had a girl say, “I want to cook, clean, and pump out children for a man.” A real feminist would have said “Let’s go to your house for sex.”
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 03:18 AM
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I’m going to agree here. I’ve rejected women for all sorts of weaknesses, and a few times I’ve been rejected for having some of my own. I’ve also been in relationships where I demonstrated weakness and it didn’t matter, they stuck around. On a broader note I use vulnerability to quickly build strong professional relationships in my industry all the time. In business if you never show vulnerability or doubt, no one trusts you.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 05:29 PM
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