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nat-han92/r/seduction16/03/18 03:59 AM
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this a thousand times!
/r/seduction10/06/20 05:38 PM
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As a woman, I’ve got advice for you: LISTEN TO OP. He’s dead on.
/r/seduction19/05/20 06:14 AM
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count me in if you ever decide to make such a group. “seduction for women” as a subreddit? IM SO DOWN!
/r/seduction10/05/20 03:49 AM
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this sounds ridiculous. don’t do it. it’s super cringey
/r/seduction05/05/20 04:33 PM
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THIS!
/r/seduction03/05/20 04:19 PM
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Small update: he has been flirty and sweet this past week. he has sent me long voice messages talking about his day at work (he has been super stressed) he mentioned that he wants to see me and that he misses me, and asked me when im free this week. i replied with a bold (for me): “friday. book it ;)”. He said yes and he seemed very excited. Since we set the date since tuesday, I hope he does not cancel... but one never knows. Any tips on how to proceed? How to behave during these days and in th…
/r/seduction21/03/18 02:36 PM
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THANK YOU!!!! Nothing to add. you were very clear!
/r/seduction17/03/18 12:35 AM
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You want exactly what most girls want in a LTR. I hope that the majority of the guys in this sub are searching for the things you mentioned.
/r/seduction16/03/18 08:28 PM
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i dont want to seem too available!! ☹️
/r/seduction16/03/18 08:09 PM
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haha yeah. i believe it is good intended, but bad advice in my particular case. but i appreciate all the input 😊
/r/seduction16/03/18 05:14 PM
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those 2 cents are very valuable!!! thank you so much! i want to believe you 😊
/r/seduction16/03/18 05:13 PM
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i definitely will!!!!
/r/seduction16/03/18 05:12 PM
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hey! so he has replied saying that he might not be able to make it today because its his grandma’s bday. he says he will let me know. should i say something like “let me know by X today?” i think he is free tomorrow. i am too but i dont know if I tell him this he might think im too available?
/r/seduction16/03/18 04:01 PM
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im attracted to everything about him! (unfortunately for me)
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:59 PM
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alrighty. thank you so much for your input!!!! 👏🏻
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:59 PM
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i replied to the OT 😊😊
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:58 PM
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I found this place searching through google for questions regarding a guy. /seduction popped up pretty fast. I have come across guys that were players and only wanted me for sex. As soon as they got what they wanted, they ghosted me generally. So I became exhausted with these scenarios and started investigating. Thats how I came across the game. Believe me: seeing the terms kino, IOI’s, “closing”, alpha, beta, shit test.... that frightens ANY girl. I dont know if the guys that have played me hav…
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:58 PM
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I found this place searching through google for questions regarding a guy. /seduction popped up pretty fast. I have come across guys that were players and only wanted me for sex. As soon as they got what they wanted, they ghosted me generally. So I became exhausted with these scenarios and started investigating. Thats how I came across the game. Believe me: seeing the terms kino, IOI’s, “closing”, alpha, beta, shit test.... that frightens ANY girl. I dont know if the guys that have played me hav…
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:40 PM
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I found this place searching through google for questions regarding a guy. /seduction popped up pretty fast. I have come across guys that were players and only wanted me for sex. As soon as they got what they wanted, they ghosted me generally. So I became exhausted with these scenarios and started investigating. Thats how I came across the game. Believe me: seeing the terms kino, IOI’s, “closing”, alpha, beta, shit test.... that frightens ANY girl. I dont know if the guys that have played me hav…
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:38 PM
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I cannot see the original post. it has been deleted. I would have liked to participate 😞
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:15 PM
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very interesting! maybe he still sees that average guy when he looks in the mirror!!
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:13 PM
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you have NO idea how helpful your answer has been! i am so grateful for it. thanks for taking the time to respond taking into consideration all the scenarios. I actually think that the answer is a combination of those 3 options you posed (2,3 being the strongest ones). answering your question: we met via a friend. he did a whatsapp group for us to get organized weekly to go to the fair (to buy the produce for the week). He started texting me separately. The dates were cute, very fun. He couldnt …
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:12 PM
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this!
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:05 PM
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well, that is promising. id rather have a deer lost in the headlights than a fuckboi!
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:05 PM
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good point!! i guess you are right but if it comes across as fake, its phony!
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:04 PM
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Thanks for your advice; you are right! I’m all about his wants because I’m desperately struggling to understand him. I really am. I want a relationship with him because he has SO MUCH potential. But potential doesn’t do much if he is not showing all his worth right now. You are right in that as well. As for setting up the date, I already replied with what I said, and he went to sleep already. I will get his reply tomorrow. I hope he tells me something along the lines of “i’ll pick you up at X ho…
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:55 AM
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I’ll be brave then 🙂
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:48 AM
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hahahahah 🙄🙄🙄🙄
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:45 AM
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☹️ Im glad you finally realized your worth and that you can now look back having learnt from that experience. Listen, I will tell him that I think he is extremely good looking, but what I like the most about him is his sense of humor and his intelligence. I think his inner traits are just as important as his outer ones. Im so head over heels for this guy. Its insane. hahaha lord HALP ME
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:42 AM
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building real connection by telling him that I think he is a 10/10. omg he will kick me to the curb and find a model ! haha 😂🤣😩😭
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:37 AM
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and you got complimented frequently? you must have known that you turned heads whenever you entered a room!!
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:35 AM
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that she needs outwards reassurance. because she is insecure. mindblown
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:32 AM
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you too and thanks for all the advice 😊
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:30 AM
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yes. of course i do.... so lemme get this straight: you are suggesting that he doesnt realize that he is super attractive to the opposite gender? he posts shirtless stories to his insta petting his dog or doing random shit. i bet he knows!
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:29 AM
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haha but i dont want him to get all cocky either. i bet that girls in insta and other socials drown him in compliments daily.
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:25 AM
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in my country as well. we are in a political pickle.
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:24 AM
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id rather not publicly share where im texting from. dm
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:23 AM
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haha omg I cringe at the thought of telling him “i think you are a 9”. id rather tell him that i think he is very attractive. or better yet: that I am very attracted to him
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:22 AM
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haha im not in the USA at all. but what does that even mean!? :/
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:20 AM
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yeah, I do. I believe in love and men even if I’ve gotten hurt, that’s for sure.
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:19 AM
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if he has a mirror, he must realize! he knows i think he is good looking
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:17 AM
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would you say i am a an 8? or a 7? RATE ME NOW BOIII. haha
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:15 AM
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hahaha well yeah. i want a relationship with him, not a FWB arrangement. if he cant handle my “i dreamt about you” then he wont handle my “i like you”. and then i’ll be out in godspeed haha
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:13 AM
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🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:11 AM
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hajahahahha WHAT HAVE I DONE
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:10 AM
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Yup, you are right. But regardless of being a beta or an alpha, we simply want communication and emotional intelligence. Empathy and fun, lighthearted times. That is all I want at least. The game does not interest me.
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:09 AM
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That has been my modus operandi lately. Today I told him that I dreamt about him, for instance. It was a cute, funny dream. He knows im into him.
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:07 AM
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haha omg. how can I prove to you that im a girl?
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:06 AM
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ABSOLUTELY. We notice when a guy is pretending to be full of himself to come across as an interesting catch (or an alpha). In my humble opinion, this entire story of being an alpha is so fcked up. Like, if you have to TRY to be an alpha then you definitely are NOT one. And there is nothing wrong with being a beta or an omega. USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE. Also, showing off is a no-no, especially at the beginning. Class dismissed indeed. lol
/r/seduction16/03/18 05:56 AM
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haha omg 🤦🏻‍♀️ okay guys? and I mean ANY guy reading this. please do not approach women like this. you come across as too aggressive and too cocky. not even cocky... pretending to be. that is offputting. just be your natural self PLEASE we women beg of you. 👏🏻
/r/seduction16/03/18 05:49 AM
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i’ve been played and hurt a lot. that builds character (and gets a girl interested in cracking the game, so as not to be played ever again).
/r/seduction16/03/18 05:41 AM
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that first paragraph is so true. haha stop flirting with me! I HAVE ONEITIS. nah im kidding. but I bet I live thousands of miles away from you tho.
/r/seduction16/03/18 05:40 AM
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word (unfortunately for my heart) haha 🙃🙃🙃
/r/seduction16/03/18 05:37 AM
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i bet i can move towards trust and towards him “maning-up” without treating him in an overtly mean way !
/r/seduction16/03/18 05:35 AM
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hahaha omg im not a troll. but I have been, in another thread, in which I wrote as a man trying to pick up a girl (representing a scenario from my real life, actually. trying ro understand the male psyche). THAT thread was fun and elightening (for me). This thread is the truth, tho.
/r/seduction16/03/18 05:34 AM
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wow, wow. that seems like some major mind-tricks. i want to get him to react but i dont want to hurt him! :/ i feel like you are giving me advice to break his heart!
/r/seduction16/03/18 05:27 AM
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alright so... major, MAJOR realization you guys. Im seeing (stalking lol) his fb page and im going waaaay back on his photos. He was DEFINITELY not a 9/10 a few years ago. Like, he has inproved his physique and style SO MUCH in the last few years... since he was around 23. Maybe he IS insecure. Maybe he IS a noob. faints from the realization haha. Does this change anything? 🙁
/r/seduction16/03/18 05:25 AM
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I definitely have oneitis, unfortunately. How in the HELL doesnt he have confidence if he is that hot? I’ll try to not come across as needy, I havent. I think I have managed this quite well. He has no idea im overthinking about this... I really needed to vent and this thread is perfect for that. PD. haha you are being suuuuch an alpha making him look like a beta for taking ir slow. good stuff, sir.
/r/seduction16/03/18 05:21 AM
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hmmm that is an interesting theory. How do I deal with a guy like this? Should I just respect his turtlesque pace?
/r/seduction16/03/18 05:17 AM
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but thank you for reminding me to put my gender back to female 😊
/r/seduction16/03/18 05:09 AM
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and what does that even mean, “from the way you write?” wtf? are you a misoginist or just impressed that I know slang from The Game?
/r/seduction16/03/18 05:08 AM
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what would i say if i told you that i wrote as a man/passed as a man, in /seduction, to get insight into the PUA tactics? and what would you say if i swore im a 26 year old girl, and that everything ive said in this thread is true?
/r/seduction16/03/18 05:07 AM
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Do you think he might be insecure and that is why he has acted with so much precaution? Or what do you mean?
/r/seduction16/03/18 05:05 AM
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Im invested because I am really infatuated. That is why I care so much too. Not knowing what to expect keeps me on my feet, and trying to understand what a guy wants is GIRL CRACK. I guess this goes to show that there are certain things that guys do that hook us. I hope my experience with this man teaches you something about attraction and keeping a girl interested! I give him that! As for me, I’ll try to chill and to dedicate the same amount of mindspace to this guy and the other guys that are …
/r/seduction16/03/18 04:54 AM
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haha yeah i guess you could say that he would be the worsssst at the game, if he was playing it. he hasnt tried to get into my pants but he is not moving things further relationship-wise either. WTF haha im so frustrated but SO curious. i want to know what is up
/r/seduction16/03/18 04:45 AM
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So you’re saying that he is not using the game or PUA since he is not trying to shag me? lol I’m confused. He has just kissed me (intensely), but he has not made any attempts to get me to his apartment or anything yet.
/r/seduction16/03/18 04:37 AM
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Thank you! I guess this is what guys mean when they talk about oneitis :( If he says he cant see me tomorrow night, I’ll let him now that I have a date on saturday then. I wasnt planning on telling him but you are right. Scarcity is important.
/r/seduction16/03/18 04:30 AM
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Thank you! I guess this is what guys mean when they talk about oneitis :( If he says he cant see me tomorrow night, I’ll let him now that I have a date on saturday then. I wasnt planning on telling him but you are right. Scarcity is important.
/r/seduction16/03/18 04:30 AM
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But how are you so sure that he is playing me? And how can I turn things around? Is there any chance that I can get him to commit? :(
/r/seduction16/03/18 04:16 AM
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You’re right. I should have forseen this. I was trying to play it cool but I came across as TOO aloof. Is there any way to turn this around?
/r/seduction10/03/18 11:50 PM
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Sound advice!!! This is the way to proceed, definitely. It is also difficult for me, knowing that she is a high value woman that must have tons of guys interested in her and showing that intention. I dont want to ruin the rapport we have been building.
/r/seduction10/03/18 06:11 PM
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Wise advice. She is definitely a high value woman, and an incredible catch. She is a solid 9/10 and she knows it. I am realizing I have to ask her out, but Im afraid I have already lost her interest. What could I do and what would be a good date idea at this point?
/r/seduction10/03/18 05:35 PM
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