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2	2-2-5-5 vs 7-7 For the first 2 years after divorce, we did 2-2-3. It was nice seeing my child so often and allowed me to do things for myself every week. However, scheduling future plans was sort of a nightmare The past 4 years have been 7-7. It is much easier to make plans. I will say I miss my child like hell after day 3. On the flip side, I.am pretty worn out by day 7 of having my child but that's life. Most importantly, I think 7-7 is easier for my child. He knows where he is every week and isn't constantl…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/01/26 02:14 PM
6	Pleasant update 5 years later So many of these posts are guys in shock or torn apart about divorce. It's a huge life change that will rock someone to his core! We think about everything lost: years, finances, material possessions. Some never recover. But what rarely gets shared is there is hope. Everything can be recovered but time. And if you slowly rebuild and realize all the new opportunities in front of you, you can not only survive but make a great new life for yourself. A lot of that starts by letting go of what's not …	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/23 10:42 PM
5	Pleasant update 5 years later Good for you! There's a lot of feelings of spite for exes in these threads. ..and I get it and have been there but you can't really find happiness until you let go. It doesn't mean you need to forget the hurt but it can't dictate your whole life. The road to happiness is overcoming misfortune, being present in the moment, finding new opportunities, and making the best of our current situation.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/23 10:12 PM
5	I Don’t Know What to do. This. 100 percent! She's not coming back. Get representation. You'll overcome any of the expenses. She'll end up paying child support (and probably alimony.). Believe me, you say you just want the kids but when they are going on vacations with mom and you're living in an apartment and the kids don't want to be there, you will wish you had the child support to give them a close experience at your house as they have at mom's place. It's not for you; it's for the well being of your children and you…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/04/22 02:30 AM
2	Dads with 50/50 what day of the week do you swap? I'm on 2-2-3 schedule and it works great because I never go that long without seeing my son. I think it also helped him with the transition to two households. With that said, it's tedious for scheduling future plans and my ex and I are pretty sure we are going to go to every other week starting in summer. We discussed which day will be the switch but I'm leaning towards Monday.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/03/22 01:59 PM

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