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| 1 | Anyone an Addict Here?5 Years of Sobriety right here brother. I used a 12 step program and it honestly saved my life. Please feel free to message me with any questions you may have. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 02:31 PM |
| 5 | Which are your best frame-building tips?two things to add onto this as he is on the right track: 1) Set effective healthy boundaries (this is something i am not willing to budge on, this is what I will not tolerate) and 2) put you first. Many people who can't say no are really worried about what people will say IF they say no. In reality? You have no control over how people react. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 06:54 PM |
| 2 | how do I get through to my simp, beta, BP cousin? he's putting both of us in jeopardy with his stupidity.can you imagine the Thanksgiving conversation? I can. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 02:52 PM |
| 7 | The cruel irony of being 2 times as good looking at 24 with half the sex drive of age 18Bro jah feels this. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/20 08:38 PM |
| 13 | Great weekend away with a girl, but I'm sick to my stomachout here preachin the GOSPEL. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/20 05:37 PM |
| 1 | How do I become obsessed with success and start doing what I need to do to move my life forward?You're interested in making changes! That's great! First, lay out all your goals and set your intentions by writing them down where you can see them EVERY DAY. This way you are reminded of them. Let's say "I want to get in shape" is my goal. Well what are the sub goals of getting in shape? If you know them, write them down, if you don't ask someone who does. No excuses. Then take one sub goal and do it for a week straight, no questions. EAT HEALTHY week 1) I'm going to cut out sugar and soda, th… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/20 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Caught up with a chad friend i hadn't seen for a couple of years and made me feel like a loser and got depressedIt's this mindset that will prevent you from getting what you want man. You still think that all these things that we teach: working out, eating right, maintaining healthy lifestyle, looking good, making positive moves for yourself is to GET pussy. It's not the endgame my man. The truth is that the sex and girls is a byproduct of a healthy life. It's okay to look at another man and be like "Damn that's what I want how do I get there" but stop beating yourself up. So how do you get there? I sugge… | /r/askTRP | 20/10/20 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with RacismI mean.... | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Does she just want me as an orbiter, or is she actually interested in me?Every call is a sales call if you know what you are selling. So i'm sure you've had enough of being a blue pilled cuck and how she's just dangling you for validation. Great. Fine. Whatever. I see a ton of opportunity here. You have part of the mindset correct: "Life should be about self improvement and pursuit of your goals, and getting girls is a benefit of that personal pursuit" The way I read it is a girl who, while having a boyfriend and being in a relationship, is at least interested you in… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Does she just want me as an orbiter, or is she actually interested in me?I've seen in this paragraph alone 3 soid gold chances to close on a sex opportunity that you ignored or thought way too hard about. The real question is what games are YOU playing Insanely enough you probably have a chance. Its Friday night. Hit her up and tell her you are going out tonight and that she should come with. Dont ask, tell. If you can't land it then? Move on but don't blame her. This was 100% your failure. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 03:05 PM |
| 1 | I can not get over my ex girlfriend and i'm sick of it.i am trying to build my life and i'm on my purpose Oh yeah? What purpose is that? Sounds to me like all your effort is to try to get THAT girl or some "Quality Girl". Getting relationships and pussy and girls isn't the end game - those things are a by-product of what we try to promote here. The only thing that overcomes heartache is accomplishment. Re-Examine your goals: Self improvement for the sake of making yourself a better person: challenge your workouts, challenge your diet, and challenge … | /r/askTRP | 09/09/20 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Asking plates for feedback when they break?Never ask a deer how they like to be hunted. You fucked her for a good month, she said "I don't want FWB I want a relationship" and you IDGAF'd right out of there. Then you didn't talk to her for 2 weeks and then she removed you. Now you are shocked? You self described her as a plate and you got what you wanted. Where's the issue? If you are living the Red Pill Plate Mentality whats the next step? On to the next one. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 01:40 PM |
| 6 | Told girl I didn’t want relationship. She said she can’t see me anymore. Texts me next day, and continues to text me. How to handle?yeah this is like TRP101. Words are wind. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/20 01:17 PM |
| 11 | Red pill is.....depressing?I normally just lurk this page but I gotta chime in on this one. First. Deep breath man. It sounds like you are in the throws of a good ol' fashion pity party for yourself. So buy yourself a pizza or take yourself out on a date and just process it. Then move past it. now for the slap in the face wakeup call. fuck outta here with that "Dudes with better SMV". That self pity shit isn't gonna fly in on my block. She moved on to the next because you couldn't provide what she wanted, period. Which ha… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/20 01:33 PM |
| 2 | How to make her work for it ...Out here doing the Lords work. Well composed. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/20 01:33 PM |
| 1 | What to do when she has hotter friends?this. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/20 04:54 PM |
| -1 | Girl next door asked me for helpwhat should you do? read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 03:07 PM |
| 2 | I Genuinely am disgusted by simps and it's fucking me up.[rant]Failure. If I can attest my success to any one single thing it's failure. I started by making myself a promise that for 1 year I would say yes to anything anyone asked me to do. I tried shit, failed. Tried some more shit, liked it. All the while I dedicated myself TO myself. Healthy lifestyles, good eating, working out. There's no secret sauce. This is a journey away from external validation to internal validation. Today I dont need a single person or thing to make me happy. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 06:07 PM |
| 1 | I Genuinely am disgusted by simps and it's fucking me up.[rant]Can't help agree. Is someone spending money on an onlyfans account getting in the way of your workout, your journey of self improvement and maximization of your own attributes? Then why the fuck do you care. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Why has my gf (20F) not had sex with me (20M) after a year of being together?Because it's one thing to read a post and another thing to read, implement, and incorporate red pill theories into your life. Take some time to learn and adapt them to your life. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Why has my gf (20F) not had sex with me (20M) after a year of being together?So she gets what she wants without any thought of what you want. Welcome to losing frame. You now orbit her, not the other way around. You got way too focused on her and lost track of what we teach here. I promise you that you are either a) buying her a bunch of stuff to win her affection b) she's fucking someone else or c) she has some unresolved or unaddressed sexual trauma in her life that she is unwilling to look at which is fucking things up. I dont care if its A, B, C or a combination of a… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 01:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with being destined to fail?Then eat it I really dont care what you do I only offer suggestions based in my experience. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 08:47 PM |
| 3 | How do you deal with being destined to fail?Beef has a few nutritious advantages over chicken, as it contains more iron and zinc. These substances are essential for our immune systems and brain development. However, chicken is much better for your cardiovascular health, because it has less cholesterol and saturated fat than beef. Studies have also shown that red meat can increase the risk of heart disease. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 05:02 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with being destined to fail?Red Meat is high in saturated fat and overall isn't very good for your body or your heart. Things like ground chuck which can be upwards to 20% saturated fat. You can get fats from other parts of your diet. There are healthier protein solutions such as ground turkey, chicken, or fish. If we are trying to lose weight subtraction of saturated fat, sugar and meals high in carbs are going to really make things easier. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 04:33 PM |
| 26 | How do you deal with being destined to fail?You need to get in touch with reality and not the emotionally soaked narrative you've been repeating in your head over and over again. The narrative that says "Im a fat fuck loser beta woe is me. Im below average. I'm not as good as everyone else." fuck off. Were you handed a certificate that officially labels you that or did you do that to yourself? Is anyone going around saying "oh there's less than average Bob walking around less than average" No. The reality is that you are in control of eve… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Girl texted me months after out of the blue, did I handle this correctly?this. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 01:49 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants to go to BLM protest, I am strongly against. Thinking of breaking up with her if she goes. Am I overreacting?I don't know why you suddenly feel challenged by this. You're walking right into her frame by letting her ruffle you. Her: "It's important to go" You: "I support the cause in my daily life. I dont need to go to a protest." Her: "You're racist if you don't go." Him: "I'm not but that's your opinion. Call me when you are done." Boom. That's it. It's simple as holding frame. She'll call you back and if she doesn't call you back then that's on her. She connected some pretty ridiculous dots here to c… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 07:00 PM |
| 6 | Patrice O'Neal: 'How to keep a woman' :) - NSFW YT audioI never miss a Patrice episode. I was talking about this with someone old O&A was gold before XM neutered them. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/20 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Did you compared me with McDonalds? I want the relationship backthat's the most McSavage thing i've ever seen well played sir. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/04/20 01:10 PM |
| 13 | Be wary of quarantine cheatingdisregard females, acquire currency. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 01:09 PM |
| 9 | My crush peed in front of me. I don’t know what to think of it.huge dick energy. if you dont want to date her i will | /r/seduction | 14/04/20 02:11 PM |
| 2 | 19-year-old boy looking for advice. Feeling lost despite having a plan.The tried and true method of "fake it till you make it." Building confidence appears to be an outside in job: If i look good i'll feel confident. If I do this and do that girls will look at me and that's the secret. While it certainly helps it's not the answer. For me, starting off, I would say things as simple as this "If I subtract my fear from this situation, what would i do?" or "What do i THINK a confident person would do" and then just did it. Guess what? The first..10 or so attempts FAILE… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Had sex with a 18 year old girl from tinder on 1st date. Im 26. Girl says it doesnt feel comfortable to date someone my age.Boom. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Had sex with a 18 year old girl from tinder on 1st date. Im 26. Girl says it doesnt feel comfortable to date someone my age.He's posting in TRP. Getting pussy is just a byproduct of what TRP preaches. You should read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 01:48 PM |
| 0 | Had sex with a 18 year old girl from tinder on 1st date. Im 26. Girl says it doesnt feel comfortable to date someone my age.You constantly arguing the suggestions given means you are fishing for the answer you want. Shave your chest dye your hair and see what happens. Make sure when all your friends ask you why you did it you say "because I really wanted to fuck an 18 year old girl". Good luck bro. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 06:05 PM |
| 0 | Had sex with a 18 year old girl from tinder on 1st date. Im 26. Girl says it doesnt feel comfortable to date someone my age.No. I didn't say that. I'm saying that your problem is that you are even willing to consider changing who you are and what you look like to get the validation of a female. Therein lies the problem. It makes you look soft. It tells me that you have zero confidence in who you are and what you bring to the table. These is what I call "setting effective and healthy boundaries". You say "this is who I am. This is what I bring to the table. If you aren't down with what i got then you can move the fuck… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Had sex with a 18 year old girl from tinder on 1st date. Im 26. Girl says it doesnt feel comfortable to date someone my age.Think about it this way. The moment you even CONSIDERED changing who you are and how you look for a female youre blue pill mentality kicked in. You are acting like this is your one and only chance to have sex with an 18 year old. You're 26. Since i KNOW you didn't read the sideboard let me clue you in. This is called ONEITIS. You think this is your only chance to have sex ever again. It's not. She's just one of many females. Plenty of other girls just like her. It's called ABUNDANCE MENTALITY. B… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 04:28 PM |
| 16 | [Field Report] I walked a girl out of my place: my recent experiencedon't beat yourself up man. This is a solid B approach. You did great at first but then when it came down to the throw down you softened up. For someone just trying to learn man you got the hard part down. You made the approach. Next time dont be afraid to make that move. The fact that she was in your house was a pretty good indicator that she's at least slightly into you. Learn, grow, try again! | /r/seduction | 23/03/20 08:35 PM |
| 4 | Should I just hire a prostitute to lose my virginity?While I can see how this solves the immediate issue of not being a virgin anymore it doesn't solve the deeper "awkward around women" issue. You paying someone to sleep with you is putting a band-aid on a broken arm bud. You'll just be the guy awkward around women who slept with a prostitute to lose his virginity. I argue that it deepens the problem and doesn't really solve anything. The real question is where does this fear of the opposite sex come from? Typically it comes from fear of rejection… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 02:26 PM |
| 5 | First Ever Bar Pickup On First TryBiggest piece of advice in this whole thing: Just wanted to get some drinks and talk, no expectations. | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 04:32 PM |
| 3 | How do I take girls off the "pedestal"?The problem isn't the girls: it's your self image. You say so yourself that you don't "feel" like you are good enough. Good enough for what? To experience love and be in a relationship? Everyone on planet Earth deserves that. I've seen the dumbest, ugliest dudes get in relationships with absolute dimes because of high self worth and confidence. So how do we get from here to there? There is no piece of clothing or fake attitude you can put on that will change you inside. Me trying to buy a new pa… | /r/seduction | 08/01/20 05:02 PM |
| 8 | How do I take girls off the "pedestal"?underrated comment. | /r/seduction | 08/01/20 04:43 PM |
| 1 | LTR being corrupted by TED talkfacts. She didn't just accidently stumble onto a TED talk about toxic relationships and was forced to watch it. Perfect chance to practice holding frame. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Good man laundry listHygiene A1 what...like the sauce? I mean i'm in im just curious | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/12/19 06:37 PM |
| 14 | Living RP successfully but still a loser in my headMy problem isn’t that I don’t believe in trp but use it anyways. This is like going to the gym hoping to get ripped through Osmosis. You will always be a BP until you buy into the RP design. You are fucking complicating a simple thing. There isn't some magic bullet or word or phrase that is suddenly going to make sense. You start doing the things that RP suggests you do. Focus on yourself, treat your body right, engage in activities you enjoy, and stop caring what other people think. It may seem… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/19 02:56 PM |
| 2 | What advise do you have for someone who understands RP, but is still discouraged with life?Please understand that RP is a way of life but it is not a cure-all. Depression, Anxiety and Hopelessness are legit medical issues and maybe you just need to see a professional. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/19 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Days apart: woman stares at me at the gym, see her at local park the next week and stares at me at the park. I approach her and she tells me she has a bf. Why do women do this?Hello I would like to subscribe to your newsletter. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Dropped by a FWB and It has confused me....Here's a question I don't think we've addressed in this conversation yet: How did she enhance YOUR life outside of sex? Remember you are the prize here. You are the one that has the money, the future, the goals etc. You are the catch, and if she want's to throw that away for another dude don't beat yourself up. People make mistakes. I'm not much of a gambling person but I'd wager that she'll be back in a few months. More importantly, why are you worried so much about it? TRP teaches things like … | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 01:40 PM |
| 3 | Honest question for long time red pillersfear of becoming a blue pill is just as bad as being blue pill. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 01:15 PM |
| 6 | LTR has a lot of orbiters, I fear that I’ll get cuckedthis. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 07:00 PM |
| 6 | [48F]"I always felt so safe with 6 ft, 400 lb felons."do they charge by the letter? Where are all the vowels? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/10/19 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Plate calling other name during sexNot good enough | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 05:02 PM |
| 10 | How to break up with your LTR?Please come back dad. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 05:02 PM |
| 35 | How to break up with your LTR?dad? | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 03:42 PM |
| 3 | Plate calling other name during sexI can't THIS hard enough. You can disregard all other posts. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 01:08 PM |
| 1 | [31F] Tatted up ex-con smoker with kids is "proud of who I am and what I bring to the table. I am looking for someone that has everything and won't settle for less. I am addicted to ink, music, cars, street bikes, and bad boys".This is great. This screams bailout. 6 months sober, absolutely living in a halfway house, still doesn't see her kids after going to jail, found God and still thinks because of that she's got her life together (spoiler alert: she doesn't.). My life is in shambles but since im a female all i need to do is show up. YOU on the other hand..no you need to absolutely have your life together or i'm having nothing to do with you. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/10/19 01:04 PM |
| 72 | You're backsliding.Be on guard for the unguarded moment. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/19 06:56 PM |
| 33 | Twitch thot found her beta bux, felt uncomfortable by his presence so he leaves, then asks "where are you?" when next month's rent comes due. Beta bux gets his sadcringe revengeWas it just me or did every single sentence induce a unique, fresh cringe for everyone. I had no idea the variety of cringe flavors JFC. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/09/19 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend wants to meet male friends when we travel together, what should I do if I don't want it?First mistake was paying for the trip by yourself. Second mistake is not maintaining frame and trying to confront her on obvious shit tests. third mistake is thinking you aren't currently trying to control her. You are. With that being said since you are already in the situation you have to detach emotionally. If she wants to go talk to other dudes go right the fuck ahead. A RP who has frame doesn't matter what his lady does. You could engage the men and show that you aren't going to be intimida… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 07:20 PM |
| 6 | How do you escalate with a shy girl after you isolate her?honestly this. stop fucking around and hook up with her. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Last night first date was a flopTheres a big difference between expecting it and earning it. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 10:30 PM |
| 14 | Last night first date was a flopTo me game is not a means to an end. To say that I execute game to have sex keeps me in the same endless blue pill cycle. I need to master the art of talking to girls so they will sleep with me. You are still deriving self worth and happiness from female validation. What is flawless game? Means different things to different people but for me personally if I am going into a situation without expectations there is no pressure to win anything. I demonstrate my value to her and show her the charming… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 05:31 PM |
| 40 | Last night first date was a flopI expected was to makeout, and maybe sex. this is why it was a flop man. You went into it with a motive and probably smelled a bit desperate for action. Next time don't go in with the goal of sex, let it be a byproduct of executing flawless game. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Made over a mill by age 34, now more depressed than everDo it bro. Working 3rd shift is a whole different ballgame | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Made over a mill by age 34, now more depressed than everThe problem is the overnight gig. I went through the same thing. I took a midnight-8am gig working by myself and it nearly ruined my life. Most people walk into it like "I just need to change my sleep pattern" but that's not the case. It's much, much more difficult than anyone expects. It requires fundamental changes in who you are as a person and in the end I had to quit the job. Want some advice? Quit the job and spend 2 weeks doing something you've always wanted to. Im not saying take your mo… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 02:01 PM |
| 4 | [28F] "Ex-stripper bisexual proud mommy of 3 not in my care due to personal reasons, hope to find my king. Been cheated on twice so not into fake liars or cheats, be real with me I be real with you"that is a bet you are going to win. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/09/19 01:02 PM |
| 5 | [28F] "Ex-stripper bisexual proud mommy of 3 not in my care due to personal reasons, hope to find my king. Been cheated on twice so not into fake liars or cheats, be real with me I be real with you"she's probably a complete crackhead with more stems on her dresser than a shooting gallery. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/09/19 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Should I call? I got a match on bumble a couple of days ago. Talking through the app went really very, very sexual. Got her number and made plans for this Friday. The problem was she never agreed to an official time. Should I call today to set up a permanent time and place for the date?in all honesty you should have the mindset like this: I am going to do this (Event, thing) and I will be here at (time), meet me then. If you want to meet me great, if not whatever i'm still going to have a good time with or without you. I hope that helps dictate your texting frame of mind. | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 07:52 PM |
| 20 | Should I just accept that sometimes logic does not apply?keep in mind it could be a validation thing. Maybe she's in an unhappy relationship and the thought of cheating excites her without actually cheating. The mental part of it. There are always a thousand reasons why things happen. There will always be another chance. We call that abundance mentality! | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 05:50 PM |
| 23 | Got cheated on by LTR, to next or to plate?Legendary post. Listen to this mans. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 01:20 PM |
| 65 | Should I call? I got a match on bumble a couple of days ago. Talking through the app went really very, very sexual. Got her number and made plans for this Friday. The problem was she never agreed to an official time. Should I call today to set up a permanent time and place for the date?Uh. Okay? Let this be a lesson to OP: never ask a deer how it wants to be hunted. | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 08:52 PM |
| 35 | Should I call? I got a match on bumble a couple of days ago. Talking through the app went really very, very sexual. Got her number and made plans for this Friday. The problem was she never agreed to an official time. Should I call today to set up a permanent time and place for the date?So you're saying if you got a text that said "See you at 9 tonight!" You'd shut the date down? What's wrong with that? | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 08:44 PM |
| 222 | Should I call? I got a match on bumble a couple of days ago. Talking through the app went really very, very sexual. Got her number and made plans for this Friday. The problem was she never agreed to an official time. Should I call today to set up a permanent time and place for the date?Calm down dude I can already see you are too excited about this and you are going to spoil this. do not ASK her what time to confirm. You text her this: "See you at 9pm tonight" That's called holding frame. You are in the drivers seat. Dictate, don't collaborate. | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 08:23 PM |
| 8 | I wonder which lucky prince will secure this princess.protagonist claims to not believe in Astrology yet tells us her sign *bing* | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/08/19 02:34 PM |
| 2 | “you are talking to many girls” “not worth my time” she saysi mean honestly that's the fucking move there. "Bold of you to assume you're attractive enough to say that to me" Either she gets upset and leaves or gets soaked by it. Either way the problem is solved. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 07:47 PM |
| 6 | Broke up with LTR, she wants to be a plateHonestly man why are you asking this question. For some sort of validation from this subreddit? What do you think as a man with high SMV would do? She's requested to be downgraded to a FWB. So downgrade her to a FWB and plate her. Get some more plates spinning and when she is with you give her all the validation and feeling safe that she needs. This isn't rocket science. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Should I (19m) break up with LTR (18f) because shes moving to college?This. The moment you step onto a college campus you're gonna see more plates than a dishwasher on a friday night. You are gonna waste your time with a LDR because you think you got feelings for her? In 5 years the two of you will be such different people that you wont recognize eachother. So how do you break up with her? "So I cannot do a long distance relationship and I am not going to stand in the way of your growth while you are away in college. I don't want to lose you as a person and I see … | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 02:18 PM |
| 2 | 21m too pussy to approach womenthis. Let me share some personal experience. I was once like you, shy and thought of myself as not good enough to approach women and do what we call "cold openings". I had various reasons why I shouldn't do it: "Im not good enough." "They are too attractive" "They don't want to be bothered" or i would simply get anxious, get scared, and just let the oppurtinity pass me by. THEN I would hate myself for not being "manly" enough to go talk to the girl. This self-defeating pattern would happen over … | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 06:34 PM |
| 15 | Is it odd that she doesn't touch me in public and barely has any photos of us on social media?Meditation is not about clearing your mind. Your mind is going to do what your mind is going to do. Think, react, plan, etc. Let me try and explain it to you the way i understand meditation. I am in no way an expert at this so take it for what you want. So I have many parts of my body that all work together to create life and awareness. My heart pumps blood, my stomach digests food, my lungs take in air. My brain, being part of this system, is meant to think. I cannot simply stop breathing oxyge… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/19 04:20 PM |
| 40 | When and why did our gender become so pathetic?riding the coat tails of my man above me. The ideal (which was always more ideal than reality) of mom at home and dad at work would persist into the 1950s. This is still a romantic standard many would like to return to, ignoring the fact that such a set-up kept dad away from his children for the bulk of the day, depriving them of his mentoring and creating a culture where his parenting role was deemed subordinate to mom’s. But at least in that situation dad was around. The divorce rate began t… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 08:23 PM |
| 5 | Constant Shit TestsHeavy lies the crown my dude. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 06:56 PM |
| 3 | I can't fucking do it.Kinda like going to AA to stop drinking and realizing that it has nothing to do with drinking and everything tovdo with your thinking | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 10:49 PM |
| 12 | Feminists/women getting owned by one of their own.You don't ask a deer how they want to be hunted. | /r/MGTOW | 23/07/19 08:09 PM |
| 17 | I can't fucking do it.it doesn't begin with self improvement. It IS self improvement my guy. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 01:57 PM |
| 13 | Girl I just started to ltr just came out as bi and has female orbiter best friend who is ALSO bi, need advicefacts. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 05:25 AM |
| 3 | How the fuck do people pick up girls in clubs/barsI could be wrong here but the frame issue you are having is that you are going to the club or whatever with the sole mental intent of getting laid. When I started going to EDM shows or clubs (kinda the same thing) I went there to GET GIRLS and that was it. It never works out because: 1) you're probably way too focused on getting girls and trust me even in a club it's noticeable. You see guys all the time just trying to dance with any girl that will come close to them and having outside knowledge… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 06:34 PM |
| 24 | had my first taste of pussy tonite. with a tinder hookup.That should be the TRP tag line. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/19 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend lost her virginity at 14 - is my relationship doomed?"A smart person learns from his mistakes, but a truly wise person learns from the mistakes of others." First, sidebar. Second, soft next, demote, plate. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 01:26 PM |
| 33 | How do I act around a girl after having sex and not seem beta?sexy sex time? Oh boy.. It's less about what to say and more about why you feel uncomfortable with this person after intimacy. Deprogram your brain that 1) sex is a big deal and 2) that just because you had sex means that you are somehow now joined at the hip to her. If you wanna see her again, better talk to her soon. Start with "Hey, how are you?" and go from there. This is less about thinking and more about doing. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 04:33 PM |
| 3 | When topic of a past relationships rise up, all girls mention to me three different guys - the long relationship guy, the nutjob-but-crazy-sex -guy, and mysterious guy they go to when they are not in the relationship. I want to talk about the last one.game recognizes game and you are looking REAL familiar right now. Great write-up. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 01:19 PM |
| 12 | The truthabout 43 people on my facebook page just "oof'd" | /r/MGTOW | 22/04/19 08:34 PM |
| 1 | What to do with a girl from another country who has fallen in love me?things started to get a lot spicier. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 08:33 PM |
| 16 | Red Pill Men who don’t drink alcohol. How do you meet new friends ? Do you still go out? Do women act different towards you ?Excellent roast sir. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 12:24 PM |
| 21 | Red Pill Men who don’t drink alcohol. How do you meet new friends ? Do you still go out? Do women act different towards you ?I have 2.5 years sober and still go out to bars and situations where alcohol is served. Nobody ever asks about it I never make a big deal of it. Even if someone does ask I just flat out tell them I dont drink. It gives you a leg up on everyone there because you arent sloppy drunk trying to pitch game to everyone there. Plus women think sobriety is sexy. Trust me. If bars arent your scene there are plenty of other events going on. You can meet women almost anywhere provided your energy is correct… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 11:49 AM |
| 1 | how do you guys find the time/energy to go out and socialize after a long day of work. After dealing with people all day that's the last thing I want to do.then why are you asking us how if you don't want to do it? | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 05:08 PM |
| 5 | how do you guys find the time/energy to go out and socialize after a long day of work. After dealing with people all day that's the last thing I want to do.In business you are either growing or shrinking. There is no staying steady. We challenge ourselves on a daily basis to grow either mentally, physically or spiritually. If nothing changes then nothing changes. How do I socialize after a long day? You get up and you do it. Simple as that my friend. It's obvious you asked this question because you want to change. Or you can just sit in your comfort zone and be the same person you always are. Up to you. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 05:07 PM |
| 10 | How the fuck do you guys do itIf you do what you have always done, you will get what you have always got. You are the only person on this planet responsible for your needs, wants, and happiness. Not to be harsh dude but it's time to grow up. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Where do you guys find your balance and how to do you manage it?Agreed. Dont give up the gym but maybe just every other day. My roommate is a big gym guy and he says the most important days are the days you take off. Hope it helps. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 10:45 PM |
| 3 | Where do you guys find your balance and how to do you manage it?do a need vs. want assessment. Do you NEED to go to the gym 5 days a week or do you WANT to go to the gym 5 nights a week? Do you NEED to go to the market every day after gym or do you WANT to go every day after gym? an honest assessment of your daily life analyzing need vs. want helps me to eliminate things in my life that are good for me but can also be counter-productive to overall balance in life. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 10:00 PM |
| 2 | 24 y/o and never had a girlfriend. Never even gave a tiny kiss. Fed up with it. I wanna become the greatest pick up guy of history.read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/81v8fd/any_have_a_pdf_of_the_book_no_more_mr_nice_guy/ | /r/seduction | 17/12/18 09:20 PM |
| 29 | 24 y/o and never had a girlfriend. Never even gave a tiny kiss. Fed up with it. I wanna become the greatest pick up guy of history.woo. talk that shit dude. Could not agree more. | /r/seduction | 17/12/18 09:20 PM |
| 4 | Tinder dates at my homeFear Pong. It's like a classic game of beer pong meets truth or dare. place a note underneath each of the cups with a dare of some sort (level of dare is up to you). They can either drink the beer or perform the dare. 85% of the time it works every time. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 09:18 PM |
| 26 | Gf plans to meet her ex next week. Best course of procedure due to holidays?out of everything I read I would advise this course of action. It's middle of the road open with the communication and honest. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 04:11 PM |
| 1 | How to make a move on a girl during a simple coffee/drink date?my 2 cents. I usually start with coffee dates as a jumping off point to something else. For me coffee dates can be short "get to know you" events. Instead of committing to dinner and drinks and an evening you can meet someone, get a vibe off them and see if you are connecting and then make a move from there. If you are not feeling a good connection you can just end it there - "nice to meet you thanks for having coffee with me" and there is no awkwardness. Now lets say the coffee date is going we… | /r/seduction | 21/11/18 06:55 PM |
| 5 | FWB jealousyand if she doesn't come back...well..guess she really wasn't being honest with being FWB so keep it moving anyway. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 04:37 PM |
| 1 | How to meet high quality/like minded men?hard truths. that cut real deep. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 06:55 PM |
| 11 | This HB 9 Nurse who sent me nudes...hard facts. this is all you need to do. stop thinking. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 05:13 PM |
| 4 | Asked a girl out and feel freaking awesome like never before.Exactly. The moment you start changing your routine you are heading in a bad direction. In the grand scheme of things, however, this is a small thing that can be ironed out. Great Job dude. | /r/seduction | 04/10/18 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Girl after sex is sending weird signalsand if you do prepare to get crazy on you. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 03:33 PM |
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