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| 1 | Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us?I use the apps back in the 2010s and that's how I knew I was truly unattractive by the way matches never became a thing. When I deleted them I never tried to ask a person out again because any attraction I could have towards another person is likely a burden they don't want which makes their day worse which makes me a bad person which means I would deserve to be harmed if I tried | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us?At this point I am a poor and it would be wrong to try. | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 10:40 AM |
| 2 | Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us?Ok done Now am 38 and never really dated. It's too late now. | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Any men in their 30’s who have or had success with dating women and getting laid while still living at home?There's never been a time when I wanted to be one. I hate having to pick up on clue. There has never been a time when I had an interaction and thought "this person wants non platonic interest express in them". If I observe the interaction wrong then I deserve shame for the rest of my life. Almost 40. Never dated. Also a poor so I would deserve to be harmed if I tried. | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Any men in their 30’s who have or had success with dating women and getting laid while still living at home?I hate myself for being born male. I judge myself restrictive standards than others so as a poor, I would deserve to be physically harmed if I tried to express interest towards others | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Any men in their 30’s who have or had success with dating women and getting laid while still living at home?Almost 40, never dated. Sometimes it never happens | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 11:36 PM |
| 0 | Any men in their 30’s who have or had success with dating women and getting laid while still living at home?Maybe platonically | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?Sex is completely natural and normal, there's nothing wrong or unethical about being attracted to or wanting to have sex with a woman If you are good enough. Like I'm a poor so it would be wrong to have attractions to anyone until I become acceptable as a person. First couple decades of like I was evangelical. When I got out, I listened to a lot of FDS and TwoX. Attractions to others give me shame, especially since I'm not economically acceptable enough to be worthy of love. | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?I'm out and social all the time. There have never been a moment in my life when I felt someone I'm chatting with has non-platonic attractions. Have not tried to ask a person out since 2017. Apps were the only okay, and since I couldn't get a match after years, that's a sign of not having that much worth and therefore it's wrong to try in the first place. | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?I feel shame every time I feel attractions to others | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Why are you in a situation where cold approach is your primary way to meet potential partners?I have not approached or asked out a person since 2017. I am now almost 40 and dating never ended up happening. I'm very social but there has never been a time where I sensed someone had a non-platonic attraction. Things don't necessarily fall into place | /r/seduction | 08/05/26 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Women with ugly duckling syndrome are superiorFeels gross reading this. | /r/seduction | 28/05/25 01:05 AM |
| -2 | its 35 yo a good age to start, or its already too late?As a middle aged poor, it's too late. | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 10:15 PM |
| 1 | What to do when a girl says she has a boyfriendYeah, don't do that. | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 09:48 PM |
| 8 | Picking up girls is creepy, but the only thing creepier is Not learning pickupMy repression doesn't cause sexual harassment, I just beat the shit out of myself for being a failure. | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 02:17 AM |
| 1 | For the men that need a boost of confidenceMy message to myself at the end of the day involves the phrase, "you're trash" more than this does. | /r/seduction | 06/05/19 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Crippling fear of rejectionIt also means less women's time has been wasted with my presence. | /r/seduction | 22/12/18 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Crippling fear of rejectionI'm more that one item on the menu is that so unappealing you wonder why it's even there. | /r/seduction | 22/12/18 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Crippling fear of rejectionThere are some "no's" that are soul crushing. | /r/seduction | 21/12/18 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Crippling fear of rejectionAnd you remember every shot you miss as well. | /r/seduction | 21/12/18 02:33 AM |
| 7 | This Youtube video I found kind of fucked with my head and made me see something in myself that was holding me back a lot. I'd never heard any one else talk about it so I thought I'd share (TL;DR stop chasing self-esteem/confidence in life, instead just try to be as self-compassionate as possible).That moment when | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Stuck in my head !Maybe the ones you wanted to approach, didn't actually want to be approached and it actually worked out in a way. | /r/seduction | 20/11/18 06:52 PM |
| 3 | How to stop being bitter/angry/resentful?....And if you fail, you have another thing to hate about yourself. | /r/seduction | 20/11/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | I will never forgive my parentsLearn to place more of the focus of your hatred on yourself. | /r/seduction | 20/11/18 06:47 PM |
| 2 | 13 ways to make a girl want youAnd think about how they didn't you want to be around them and how you wasted their time. Women have to deal with subpar males all the time, so did the interaction add another unwanted encounter. | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 09:50 PM |
| 3 | Sex Will Only Ever Be A Temporary HighFulfillment is not guaranteed to be attainable. | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Be honest: How Many of You Are Objectively Attractive?6'6" but pretty unattractive. Disappointing hairline. Okay beard. Skinny fat. Tinder confirms I'm garbage. 3.5/10 | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Learning to meet and attract women can save your life!Jenny's just not interested and the guy and deal with it or drop dead. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 01:43 PM |
| 2 | X-year-old still a virginLike Vince McMahon says, "Life sucks and then you die." | /r/seduction | 14/10/18 10:46 PM |
| 1 | X-year-old still a virginThat's not an actual thing people do. | /r/seduction | 14/10/18 10:43 PM |
| 4 | X-year-old still a virginI'm still ashamed it took me 27 years. I side with women in thinking I'm not worth the time. | /r/seduction | 14/10/18 10:30 PM |
| 1 | X-year-old still a virginYears | /r/seduction | 14/10/18 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Leaving this here - Fucking amazingYou're competing with every single character. You have to compare. | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 04:17 PM |
| 1 | What are some awesome first dates?Nature conservatories | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 03:41 PM |
| 0 | Leaving this here - Fucking amazingCORE CONFIDENCE COMES FROM THE KNOWLEDGE THAT THERE IS ONLY ONE YOU That doesn't mean you are good enough. | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 05:57 AM |
| 3 | A simple tinder guide (with some advanced tips) [reuploaded]Tinder critiques from the past have presented evidence that my smile is shitty. | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 03:51 AM |
| 1 | I'm being rejected daily...Some of us deserve to have the shit kicked out of them. | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 11:37 PM |
| 3 | I'm being rejected daily...Every rejection is a reminder that I am garbage. | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 06:08 PM |
| 1 | I'm 33 and I've never dated anyone: is this a problem that actually anyone ever solved?My facial hair has varied throughout the years. I've been going to the gym regularly. I would be at the gym right now but I broke my phone screen and can't check in now because of my incompetence. I'm so mad at myself about it, that I that I think I don't deserve to eat until the part comes in the mail. I should be punched when I make fuckups like these. | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 10:42 PM |
| 1 | I'm 33 and I've never dated anyone: is this a problem that actually anyone ever solved?I only had pictures of me wearing a tie, petting a cat, and solo pictures with city skylines in the background. OKCupid, Bumble, Hinge, and Tinder taught me I should not think of myself in the realms of a good quality person. | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 10:28 PM |
| 1 | I'm 33 and I've never dated anyone: is this a problem that actually anyone ever solved?I was on Bumble for three years in a metropolitan area of 5 million and never got a match. | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 03:12 PM |
| 1 | I'm 33 and I've never dated anyone: is this a problem that actually anyone ever solved?That sounds like a waste of the woman's time. | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 03:09 PM |
| 12 | Supposedly an attractive guy, how to start acting like it?I had no success in online dating and ended up hating my self way more than before I signed up. After years of trying, I just deleted all my accounts. | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 03:07 PM |
| 1 | I suck at reading womenI think I'm pretty good at reading women, and they're all saying, "Oh God, please don't talk to me!" | /r/seduction | 15/02/18 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Alright that's it. /r/seduction I need your help. It's my final semester of college and I'm sick and tired of being a virgin too afraid to talk to women.I was very social in college and still failed miserably. | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 11:02 PM |
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