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| 1 | If a date with a girl is not for another week, should I text to keep attraction?If u’re on snap, story and broadcast is the way. Snapchat is a great way to showcase and active, normal life. I son’t know why people here keep going about ‘texting’… really old skool | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | An overlooked dark side of learning about pickup?Why u blame ‘pickup’? The issue is you. Desperate for a relationship, a connection is the issue, not pickup. Ur post is like: ‘why we use knife, it kills people’ which makes no sense | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Girl approached me at the gym and asked if she could put away my stretching mat for me.Well next time, u can joke about laying the mat for her to return the favor, put on a smile so she knows what u’re about | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 07:26 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I mean, let her enjoy the chase. Don’t play hard to get though.. bc u’re already ahead😄 | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach is Not For EveryoneI’d say ‘cold approach isn’t appropriate for all purposes’. Most pickup companies sell the idea of getting love, gf, that hot chick. It’s possible but the expectation is false, that someone a pua has so much control over the girl/interaction. It’s good for some exposure. What doesn’t kill u make u stronger is true. Guys should be told it’s hard, but it’s a great way to learn being real, be ok hearing ‘no’ and then they get a bit of luck here and there. Then this skill/mentality can be adapted to… | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed?‘Attraction isn’t a choice’. It’s biological, it’s evolution psychology. Language and people verbalizing thing are much governed for fitting in. Why do you think so much advice is about ‘being honest’, ‘tell xyz’… | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 11:54 AM |
| 1 | How to get fit fast if you can't do any sport?What’s too much? What u try to solve is actually so simple. Get your max, wear st like smartwatch or sportband to know when to stop. It’s usually st with cardio that heart rate pumps high. But yeh, think about it. ‘Fit to what?’, if docs say ‘u’re not fit to exercise, then u might not be. If that’s not the case, then workout to be more fit, sitting and lying down or eating more never helps | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 02:33 PM |
| 1 | How to get fit fast if you can't do any sport?Dude, u and most people would very unlikely to hit athlete’s danger level. The word ‘fit’ usually follows by ‘to do what’. So fill in the blank. Generally speaking, there’s always consequence when u don’t accept the price. So if u wanna be fit and health bla bla, go ask a specialist. There’s no fruit on lazy soil | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 02:26 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with white knights?Sorry for some hard truth. Cautions bf reading Sharing laughs mean nothing man. The fact that you were disturbed by another guy or hesitate approaching if ‘shit happens’ suggest to me the girl can feel u’re a nice guy reaching up for her. Often, confident guys win and are desired by girls also bc chumps like the one scaring u can’t intimidate the true confident. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 03:07 PM |
| -2 | Got attached then got refused.Anyone knows about the psychology of the girl behind this? Pop knowledge that girls are not good at handling ‘confession’ from men at least early on in the relationship. Wonder what make them they wanna run away from men’s vulnerability | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop putting hot girls on a pedestal?2 parts: 1. Desensitizing: talking to them and learn that getting rejected is okay 2. Good aids: some good moments will teach u how to do it, and other than that, doing st else that teach you happiness doesn’t need hotness Then the experience of getting with these girls will be the next step for confidence Forget all the ‘treat them like’ advice, that’s usually if u already have the confidence and needs a reminder. Try to treat an apple as a banana and u can feel how ur brain scrams and u give a… | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...This is when one can say ‘a few bad apples’, not ‘sexes’ | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 05:39 PM |
| 0 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...It’s simply is a power showdown. As Oscar Wilde says: ‘everything is about sex except sex. Sex is about power’ I mean u can learn a lot from the others in between the dating and sex and see how the other is in getting their way. Both sexes look for that soft power getting what we want, too much coquetry kills the authenticity | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop being a virgin loser?In attraction, if there’s one golden rule it is: your Skill to not care about a particular rejection is a big element in attracting girls. Without that it’s often ‘needy’ or ‘try hard’. Learn to get that Skill and you’ll do fine | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | How to lower my standards to get more experienceI think ur thinking is counter productive. Count is nothing. It’s just easy to boast. But really, unless one is a rockstar, or rich party guy, basically high pecking order, when i hear high count, that just means low quality control. As a comparative joke, one can literally go to a brothel house in Berlin, buy urself a package, and ur count is gonna skyrocket. Does it make u a better man in bed or with women? No. But u can boast your count. At the end of the day, the real game is neither sluttin… | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 12:26 PM |
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