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| 17 | Just discovered my BF of a year is red pill and can’t reconcile between his problematic views and how well he actually treats me… how bad are these views?I'm going to hold your hand when I say this he treats you good because you fit his mold of femininity. His kindness is likely not virtuous. You're probably not outspoken about your feminist views and attractive so he see you as an easy partner to keep. Think about this if you weren't hot would he still love you? Is your personality enough to keep him around? And because he treats you well doesn't mean he treats others with the same kindness. You can certainly try to change his mind, but that's a… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/05/26 06:55 AM |
| 3 | Do you think the number of sexual partners matters?Being single is only one aspect of your life. You're young and have so much to give. I know being single is a different experience between men and women but please talk to your friends and engage with you community. If you plan on going to college join clubs, go to local college events (they have free food) and try to make friends. You have a good future ahead of you and the redpillers will take that away! Trust the male role models in your life, heck trust at least keep watching F.D. signifer h… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/26 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Do you think the number of sexual partners matters?No because it's not a good judgement of someone's character. I've had friends who's slept with 1-2 people and they stole from me! While my more sexual active friends were the sweetest nicest people I've ever know. Point being body count is a red pill farce meant to keep men unhappy so that these red pill grifters can get your money. Remember to consider why these red pills are telling you these lies and who it actually benefits. I am glad your listening to Uncle F.D signifer I like his content a… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/26 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Do you think physical appearance matters?Physical appearance matters but not as much as personality and compatibility. Plus what's conventionally attractive is always a trend. Like what an individual finds physically attractive will vary drastically between person to person. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/01/26 03:12 AM |
| 2 | What to do when women have hurt me the mostOkay so using your example If you're in a hybrid car and need specialized tools to fix it then you need to write out the hybrid car specific issues. So that you can find a hybrid car mechanic. It's not gonna be easy but you have to be extremely specific on what you want to gain from therapy. And present your file to them so they have a better understanding. I used an website called headway to find my therapist because I needed an therapist specifically for my ADHD. If you look for generic therap… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/25 05:03 AM |
| 4 | What to do when women have hurt me the mostIt's not that it wasn't connecting. It's that it ended up being the same stuff I internalized. None of them really wanted to get granular with it. Okay but have you honestly tried anything they gave you? I can sympathize with being skeptical but if you're not open to try any of it then it won't work. When you mean granular do you mean like deep dive into your past and analyze every traumatic moment? Or vent during therapy sessions? Or feel the need of having your therapist be a friend? Have you … | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/25 04:36 AM |
| 3 | What to do when women have hurt me the mostWhat kind of stuff did your previous therapists tell you that wasn't connecting? Have you tried an male therapist? As other commenters have said, you're not at fault for the women who've hurt you and It stings because the mother you needed wasn't there for you so now that pain is showing up in the women who hurt you. It's the same for me but with men. A lot of men have hurt me but that's also because I tolerated too much shitty behavior because of my abusive father. Once I realized that. I delib… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/25 04:18 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop getting upset that every girl I’ve been interested in is in a relationshipAre you feeling upset or are you feeling heartache? Because I can understand the heartache but I don't understand why you would be upset. Like the tone sounds like your saying dang she got away when she wasn't even yours to own. Genuinely have you ever had a girl who was only your friend? And only saw her platonically? I think having a woman's POV in your life would help in this confused feeling. Maybe I'm cynical for saying this but in my eyes when you say you've gone through this eight times i… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/25 08:18 PM |
| 3 | I had one women pay for my drink in the corner store and another pay for my MTA fee and I still have a distain for women?Then you need to develop coping strategies to de-escalate your emotions. One way is controlling your media intake by limiting your exposure to red pill media. Anytime you see it on tiktok or Instagram or Twitter you can press the not interested button. Yes it's tedious but it's a small step to making your social media pages non-hostile. Another way is somatic exercises like taking big breaths and holding them for 4 seconds, guided meditation or listing to calming music. Or just go to the gym and… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/08/25 05:10 AM |
| 7 | Seeing man hating reels on Tiktok and Instagram and my partner and female friends engage with them is fucking with my head.Social media influencers by default are trying to get a reaction out of you. Yes even the more educational ones. It's their job so understand 9/10 it's all rage bait. The more you start to press "not interested" or " Don't suggest this to me" the better your social media experience will be. I am not surprised your gf is sliding down that path because the algorithm encourages it. Just like red pill content. There's some truth in some of these extreme misandrists. It's meant to be cathartic and va… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/25 11:55 PM |
| 5 | Why did you want a relationship when red-pill?Thankfully I snapped out of it before doing too much damage. And now, with a clean head, I see my wife for the lovely, complex, unique human being that she is. How did you snap out of it? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/25 05:45 PM |
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