| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Guys, what do you look for as an opening to approach a girl? | nazanin91 | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 09:39 PM |
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| 1 | Can flaking on a girl raise her interest?Flaking on a date and looking like you have other interests/a life are completely different. If you already set up a date and don't follow through that just makes you an asshole. Go on the date and have fun. Then let's say she asks you out again on a specific day. THEN you say you're busy that day doing __, but you can see her next weekend or whatever. Her having to wait to see you again will raise her interest. Her being disappointed after you flaked on a set date will make her lose her interes… | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Girls want you to take actionI have no idea with most women. I seem to be in the minority of women with certain things. As long as I'm interested, if they can spit out something like "hey do you want to go out sometime" I'll give them a pass on their quirks and see if they open up after their shyness wanes. | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Girls want you to take actionOh then go ahead and take her right then and there of course =/. | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Girls want you to take actionI would say stay away from her if she seems to be flirting (cheater). Either that or she's absolutely clueless. Or she's touching you because she has to, depending on what your work is like and what yall do. | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Guys, what do you look for as an opening to approach a girl?Exactly why I posted in here. There's a whole sub devoted to men approaching girls. My question to those men is, what do you look for when you do? I was curious what they would say =D Also, thank you for your input | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Wish I could love fullyBeing needy or clingy is different from being loving imo. It's not either you're masculine and a stone wall on one end and texting every two seconds and saying i love you every three seconds on the other end. Neediness and clinginess might be something you would want to look into and find options and methods to stop. I really love texting the guy I'm dating during the day/at night and being all loving etc but cannot text all day and spend all of my time with them. Most people need alone time, an… | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 12:18 AM |
| 5 | Girls want you to take actionI know I am. Most women, that I've seen anyway, won't give a second glance to a guy who is not 100% together and who isn't a confident model-type straight from their dreams. | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 11:10 PM |
| 5 | Wish I could love fullyCan you do both? I really like it when a guy is both 'manly' and 'loving'. Also what do you mean by loving hard? And what I mean by both is that I love it when my guy is all masculine and whatever but then turns on the lovey dovey stuff for example when we are alone, just get home, etc. On the other hand if my guy becomes all manly and not loving at all especially in public I just think he's a douche and it won't last. | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 09:31 PM |
| 1 | How to you escalate sexual tension?Believe me I know how you feel, just from a female pov. Its been almost two years and I don't think I would know if a guy was flirting with me if it hit me in the face. | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 09:23 PM |
| 3 | How should I play this out? She cancelled 1 hour before we were supposed to go to the beach.Make another date, set the exact date and time. You are busy any other time. If she cancels again, just be done with it. Don't be one of her orbiters to keep her ego going. If she follows through with the plans, awesome you are not an orbiter (probably not). Other than that just move on. | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 09:08 PM |
| 1 | How to you escalate sexual tension?She might have picked up on your vibe of not being completely attracted to her and that's why she doesn't want to see you again. All in all tho it sounded like a good date =) | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 09:05 PM |
| 5 | Girls want you to take actionI disagree, a little bit, but for specific reasons. I am just too damn shy to make a move. I'm working on it but I am also desperately waiting for a guy to make a move. I really don't care either way if a guy has the balls to approach or not, I really understand shyness, I just wish they did so I don't have to. But then again I kind of find shy guys attractive so that's probably where I'm coming from. | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 08:55 PM |
| 15 | Girls want you to take actionI hate small talk, but in this case I recommend it. Not something silly like the weather, but just chit chat about something you have in common ie where you are. Just for a few minutes. One guy I dated did this then he said something along the lines of "...well I need to get going. maybe i can get your number and we can continue this?" I did and he left and we ended up dating for a while. He later admitted that he actually just got there (we were at a pool) but wanted to bail before he did somet… | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 08:47 PM |
| 86 | Girls want you to take actionI want to add something. If we touch you, we want you to make a move. Every touch is completely 10000% intentional. We will NOT touch anyone we won't like. I mean on the arm, shoulder, hand, leg, whatever. | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Question about a stupid situationHey you never know, you might be right. She might leave her guy and be with you forever. See how she acts. Does she escalate things with you after a while but still have her bf? That's a cheater through and through. Does she break up with him and take things with you at a normal pace? Then maybe not. I understand that if a person is in a relationship they don't completely shut down their sight to other people. Sometimes people are drawn to others even if they are with someone and that is normal.… | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Ever wondered why women love veiny forearms?I'm not a big fan of very veiny forearms. However I do like larger more muscular forearms on a man. I think it's because it's not like mine. I'm a girl and have the standard female forearm, so if I see something larger and opposite of mine, it's a turn on. | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 03:27 PM |
| 2 | What to say when a girl says "you look depressed, are you ok?"Girl here...That doesn't seem like a true rejection. She wanted you to come back to her and talk more. She came up to you and started talking? She probably just picked the "what's wrong" question because that's the only thing she could think of as an excuse to talk to you. If I were you I would wait a few minutes to see where she went to (did she go back to her bf or date? = rejection) If not then I would go back and say something like "oh hey you're right you are around here haha lol whatever" … | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Question about a stupid situationShe's probably just flirting to flirt. However, if she does actually want to get with you...run. Think about it, she's in a relationship right now, OF TWO YEARS. Did you want to just fuck her or be with her? If you want to be with her, good luck, because if she cheats on/dumps her bf of two years with you, what do you think she'll do if she ends up with you and see's another guy down the road in a week or two years? You know what she'll do because you saw first hand what she did before. She'll g… | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 03:15 PM |
| 3 | How do I get better at texting girls?Girl here (28F), but I know that I don't usually fit the standard girl type on tinder or texting after getting a number (from what I've seen/friends have told me). I much prefer face to face then texting all damn day. I don't think I've ever stopped texting or wanting to see a guy by the way he texts, unless it's long periods (days) of no replies or just one word replies to make it seem like he is uninterested. I understand how awkward it can be and can usually sense if a guy is just shy or some… | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 03:08 PM |
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